第一篇：虎媽戰歌英語讀后感（共）

虎媽戰歌英語讀后感

Earlier this year, a book on parenting memoir of the tiger mother battle hymn sensation in the United States, sparking a heated debate about education thought idea, this also caused wide attention of the Chinese people.今年年初，一本關于育兒的自傳《虎媽戰歌》轟動美國，引發一場關于教育思想理念的熱議，這也引起了中國民眾的廣泛關注。

The author Amy chua, a chinese-american, Harvard University, bachelor of arts and doctor of law, the Yale university professor.Approximate the sheep in Europe and the relaxation education

situation, Ms.Chua in Chinese parents' high expectations and strict parenting to two children本書作者蔡美兒，美籍華人，美國哈佛大學文學學士，法學博士，現任美國耶魯大學 終身 教授。在歐美近似放羊的松弛教育態勢之下，蔡美兒用華人家長的高度期待和嚴格教養方式培育兩個孩子。

Finally two children are outstanding, learning and music are all very good, is the envy of achievements, locally known as music child prodigy.The tiger mother warsong “revealing the author experienced a course of raising two children and parenting experience.最終兩個孩子均出類拔萃，學習和音樂都非常優秀，取得引人羨慕的成績，在當地被譽為音樂神童。《虎媽戰歌》坦露了作者撫養兩個孩子的心路歷程和育兒的體驗。

Read the book, page by page feel Amy chua education child's real and true feelings, amazing chua's devotion and dedication, experience the extraordinary Cai Meier and absolute, step by step into the joys and sorrows of the author, Amy chua and her two children image lifelike show in sight.讀這本書，一頁頁感受蔡美兒教育孩子的真實和真情，驚嘆蔡美兒的投入和執著，體驗蔡美爾的超凡和絕然，一步步走進作者的喜怒哀樂，蔡美兒和她兩個孩子的形象栩栩如生展現在眼前。Cai Meier writes:

Become an ”expert, actually there is no fun at all.Any skills to master, must pay the hard work.And from the nature of children, never love.Therefore, the beginning don't give them

opportunities to choose don't work hard, it becomes crucial.“

蔡美爾在書中寫道：

“成為行家里手的過程，其實毫無樂趣可言。要掌握任何高超的技藝，必須付出艱苦的努力。而從孩子們的本性來講，絕不會愛好努力。因此，一開始就不給他們選擇不努力的機會，便顯得至關重要。””Don't give children choose not to opportunity“, became the

basic idea and starting point of the Cai Meier parenting.Nothing is born like hard.The children more love with open arms to embrace.American education special emphasis on respect for the child, often give children the right to choose.As a result,many children will choose to give up very easily.And as a parent, the most unfavorable to protect the behavior of the child's self-esteem, is to see their children gave up the attempt in the face of hardship, but their inaction.“不給孩子選擇不努力的機會”，這成為蔡美爾育兒的基本思想和出發點。沒有什么人天生就喜歡努力。孩子們更是喜歡張開雙臂去擁抱輕松。美式教育特別強調對孩子的尊重，常常把選擇的權利交給孩子。結果許多孩子會很輕易選擇放棄。而作為父母，最不利于保護孩子自尊的行為，就是眼看著自己的孩子在困難面前放棄努力，而自己無所作為。

Don't give children choose don't work hard, is to help children choose to chance.Let the child choose a meaningful things, then concentration and strength to rush toward, perseverance.Actually, the process itself, the children can benefit from life.Develop children treatment enterprise ”concentration and

strength to rush toward, perseverance" attitude and will quality, this is the direction of chua's parenting.Don't give children choose don't work hard, this is really a parenting is the best choice.Strict management and supervision, it is Amy chua's parenting patterns, Chinese traditional education mode is Amy chua said.不給孩子選擇不努力的機會，就是要幫助孩子選擇努力的機會。讓孩子選擇一項有意義的事情，然后專心致志，全力以撲，堅持不懈。其實這個過程本身，就能讓孩子受益終身。培養孩子對待事業“專心致志，全力以撲，堅持不懈“的態度和意志品質，這正是蔡美兒育兒的大方向。不給孩子選擇不努力的態度，這其實就是育兒最好的選擇。嚴格管理和悉心督導，就是蔡美兒的育兒模式，也是蔡美兒所說的中國式傳統教育模式。

第二篇：《虎媽戰歌》讀后感

“虎媽戰歌”之感想

“虎媽”蔡美兒基本上可以說是眾多中國家長的代表，也正是因為對這種教育有切身的體會，我才會選擇了這個“虎媽戰歌”這個視頻來寫觀后感。

蔡美兒寫的這本書《虎媽戰歌》講述了一位華裔媽媽，和兩個女兒、兩條狗的故事。她身為華裔第二代美國移民，以華人家長對子女的高度期待與嚴格的教養方式來教育2個女兒。在《虎媽戰歌》里，蔡美兒坦露了自己撫養兩個孩子的心路歷程，與孩子“斗智斗勇”的過程。兩個女兒在媽媽的嚴格管教和傾心培育下，承襲了華人的優秀傳統，在學業、音樂等方面都有卓越的表現，在當地被譽為音樂神童。在兩個女兒成長的過程中，蔡美兒以這種如何培養子女成為“數學精英和音樂天才”的思路為主線，總結了她教育自己兩個女兒的一些基本做法，大致如下：不得在外過夜；不得邀請玩伴來家；不得參加學校的演出；不得抱怨沒有被家長允許參加學校的活動；不得看電視或者玩計算機游戲；不得自作主張選擇課外活動；單科成績不得低于A；除了體育和戲劇課之外，每門學科必須成為全班第一名； 只被允許學習演奏鋼琴和小提琴。在這種強制教育模式的長期培養下，蔡美兒很為自己的兩個女兒驕傲：小女兒是極具天賦的小提琴家，大女兒已經成功地在卡耐基音樂廳表演鋼琴。但在我看來，蔡美兒無非就是想為自己的女兒尋求一個長遠穩妥的成功之路，希望自己女兒以后的道路一帆風順成就突出。但她卻忽略了什么才是她的女兒真正想要的。

在楊瀾的采訪中，蔡美兒有句話讓我印象深刻，她說，在孩子五、六歲的時候，他們太小了還不能做出自己的選擇。所以她會在孩子小的時候定下“十誡”，給自己的孩子各種各樣的要求。值得注意的是，蔡美兒此種教育方式是來源于她的父母。她的父母在她小時候是這樣教育她的，所以她也選擇以此種方式教育下一代。

當然蔡美兒的教育必然有優勢的地方，比如說她的孩子會比一般美國的孩子更加努力，基礎更加扎實，也更注重學習的重要性等等。但是這種教育方法卻忽略了孩子真正喜歡什么，在孩子成長的過程中，過早的用狹義的概念框定了孩子的人生。我們不能把“孩子太小不懂選擇”作為借口，以此剝奪了孩子自我選擇的權利。每個孩子都需要一個過程去尋找自己，去發現自己的渴望與動機，并把這些內化為人格的力量。這個過程是漫長而必須的，而“虎媽”恰于此處抄了近道。“虎媽”的大女兒在媒體攻擊虎媽時，寫了一封公開信來支持“虎媽”。信中大意是，她很感謝“虎媽”對她的培養方式，也認為“虎媽”的方式是基本正確的。可是這是建立在她通過“虎媽”的此種教育方式取得了一定意義上的成功的基礎上。如果她通過“虎媽”的教育，并沒有取得多好的成績，試想她還會如此感激“虎媽”嗎？而拋棄通過鋼琴所取得的種種成就，最開始時她是真心喜歡鋼琴嗎？我認為這是一種“幸存者偏見”，“虎媽”的這本書也多少帶有這種意味。

以我自己的經歷來說，我從小喜歡跳舞，但小時候父母卻以跳舞耗費太多時間而不讓我繼續學習。現在這成為我最大的遺憾，也讓我失去了生活中一大樂趣。但同時，他們卻讓我花費了大量的精力在鋼琴之上，每天固定的練琴時間和每周一次的鋼琴課。但讓我感到慶幸的是我的父母并沒有強制性的要求我進行考級，雖然我現在有點后悔當初為什么他們不在鋼琴上更對我嚴厲些。通過這些經歷，我認為孩子在小時候也會有自己特定的愛好和興趣，讓他們自由的依照愛好和興趣來發展是十分重要的，但也不能否認在有些選擇上按照父母的要求來做可能會更好一些，重要的是掌握好兩者之間的度。在孩子的成長過程中，最關鍵的是要讓孩子明白成功并不是人生最終的目標，不要用狹義的或者說父母的理想生搬硬套在孩子身上，每個孩子都是獨特的，要尊重并且理解這種獨特性。

不管是“虎媽”也好，“貓媽”也罷，父母總是關心孩子的。尤其是中國父母，總是希望把最好的都給孩子，但是孩子的成長過程中，要給孩子一個正確的觀念和健康的環境。就像我爸媽和我說的，他們生下我并不是要我取得多大的成就，或者代替他們取得成功實現他們的理想，而只是希望我能生活的平安快樂，這樣就夠了。

第三篇：讀《虎媽戰歌》有感

《虎媽戰歌》讀后感

徐舟峰

有一次在看央視2頻道的“對話”欄目，聽到了一位來自美國的華裔蔡美兒的育兒觀念并深深被吸引，她的許多觀點引起了我的共鳴。“虎媽”，是美國耶魯大學的華裔教授蔡美兒，她出版的《虎媽戰歌》曾在美國引起轟動。利用暑假時間，我也捧起這本書仔細地拜讀一番，頗有感受。

《虎媽戰歌》是一本回憶錄，華裔教授蔡美兒回憶自己如何以中國式教育方法管教自己的兩個女兒，她罵女兒垃圾、要求每科成績那A、不準看電視、琴練不好就不準吃飯、把女兒關在小房子里逼迫其練鋼琴等等。

《虎媽戰歌》在全球引起一場關于中式教育的大討論，書中她所倡導的“華人家庭教育”，以嚴苛辛辣的教育方式讓孩子成才。依據我有限的觀察和學習，在個體成長的過程中應該是有些“強制”的成分可能才比較合適，不然，縱容和隨心會讓人一事無成。不過，中國的兒童可能被“強制”過多，而美國的兒童“自由”則可能占據主導。“虎媽”現象如果在中國估計不會引起如此大的反應，相反只有在美國這樣的背景反差下才會引起如此爭論。她的這一系列教育方法有人指責她不尊重兒童，對待孩子方式殘忍，充滿歧視，有人將其稱為“法西斯母親”，甚至“慘無人道”。但也有人十分贊同，并以此為借鑒用于教育自己的孩子。然而對此，我個人認為對于虎媽此類教育方法或許可以理解但并不宜推崇甚至不是所有人都可以照搬的。

我對虎媽的付出要表示敬意，正如某些中肯的評論所說，很多父母不這么做，并不全是因為想給孩子更多的自由，恐怕同時也想給自己更多的自由。不管是西方的父母，還是中國的父母，捫心自問一下，自己是否能夠做到像虎媽那樣為子女120%的全力付出。虎媽對于孩子全身心的投入十分值得佩服，她給孩子樹立的榜樣的作用是十分鮮明的，她給孩子創造了最好的學習環境，選擇了最棒的老師，這一切都是讓人望塵莫及的。但是始終認為“棍棒教育”很難培養出創新型人才。虎媽之所以能成功培養兩個女兒，這和他們夫婦的深厚學識和豐富的人脈資源是分不開的，否則怎么能找到善于激發孩子的最棒的老師呢？加上虎媽十幾年如一日地執著地逼迫孩子，沒有休息，這種非常執著地教育過程逼迫出了孩子的成功，我覺得這本身與虎媽的兩個孩子先天的智商和自身的素質有很大的關系，許多事實證明，靠家長逼出成績的孩子能有幾個最終走向成功的呢？

至于虎媽所提倡的教育理念，我倒覺得單從理念來說，不存在哪種更優越的說法。對有些孩子，這種方法有效，對另一些孩子，可能就沒用或者會害了他們。虎媽的方法有些極端，培養出來的孩子也肯定不平庸，要么就非常優秀，也會碰到精神壓力過大。至于虎媽的“棍棒教育”，個人認為可以和當今社會許多家長對孩子一味地寬松、無原則的放縱相結合，采取寬中帶嚴，嚴中有寬，掌握原則，有獎有懲的教育方法。在我看來，教育的藝術應該是在于寬嚴有度，這種“度”是以最大限度地促進一個人的潛能發揮和真正自由意志的展開為標尺的。孩子的教育是一個復雜的過程，沒有普遍適用而簡單易行的方法。把教育孩子的過程簡單化、規范化是很多人潛在而流行的觀念，于是才有了各種神童、天才培養秘笈的火爆與泛濫。最后，教育孩子的同時也是父母成長的過程。尊重孩子，與孩子一起成長才是父母值得尊奉的教育信條。家庭教育的最高境界可能就是讓孩子在追求卓越的過程中享受應有的快樂。家庭教育，也應有“中庸之道”，在孩子的需求與父母的意愿之間達到和諧。相對于為了讓孩子成為天才而失去自由，為了得到更好地自身發展而忽略社會參與意識，我覺得作為家長，我們在關注孩子學業之余，更加不能忽視其情商的培養，要知道：作為社會人，情商比智商更為重要！

第四篇：關于虎媽英語作文

Dear parents,Recently, a controversy arose over Amy Chua, the tiger mother.I’m writing to you to explain my ideas about your educational method, which is quite similar to the Tiger Mother’s.I know what you have done for me is all in favor of me.In fact, it worked out quite well.People always compliment me and regard me as a witty and intelligent girl as a top student.You take pride in it and so do I.However, I can’t cheer up, for you are much too strict with me.You don’t allow me to watch TV except the daily news broadcasting.But you don’t know various programs can broaden my horizons.And I know how to control the time.What’s worse, you forbid me to take part in after-school activities, thinking it’s a waste of time.But do you know it’s of great benefit to make me an all-around student? Another thing that makes me unsatisfied is that you force me to practice playing the violin, despite knowing I’m crazy about painting.Under the pressure of you, I have to study harder and harder, with my freedom and happiness becoming less and less, of which you aren’t aware absolutely.Instead of forcing your ideas and choose on me, you are

supposed to discuss with me in detail and then determine.Instead of generalizing, you should respect for the law of my growth.In contrast to being under a severe strain, I’m sure to do better with reasonable freedom.At last, I’d like to show you my thanks for your love all the time.But do remember I’ve already grown up and had my own mind.Please teach me with a more permissive attitude.Only in this way will I do the best in turn.Yours sincerely,daughter

第五篇：虎媽英文讀后感

Reaction to Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother Recently, I have finished a book called Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother.The book reveals the author experienced a course of raising two children and parenting experience.The author compares herself to a tiger mother.Lost in thought, I want share my ideas with you.The author Amy Chua, a Chinese-American, Harvard University, bachelor of arts and doctor of law, the Yale university professor.Approximate the sheep in Europe and the relaxation education situation, Ms.Chua in Chinese parents' high expectations and strict parenting to two children.At the start of reading, I didn’t quite understand why Amy is so cruel with her daughters.The rules she made are so strict and even unreasonable.Her daughters are not allowed to: ? attend a sleepover

? have a play date

? be in a school play ? complain about not being in a school play

? watch TV or play computer games

? choose their own extracurricular activities

? get any grade less than an A

? not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and drama

? play any instrument other than the piano or violin

? not play the piano or violin.With deeper reading, I found I misunderstood her.Amy’s strict is her love to her daughters.After the book published, it caused a heated debate about education thought idea.Most western and eastern mothers hold completely different idea about it.Amy Chua’s requirement to her daughters seems too rigorous in American people’s eyes, but from the perspective of Chinese parents, it’s just ok.I think one of the reasons why western Mothers are different from the eastern, is that the different culture and environment.In my opinion, the west countries are more advanced than the east in many ways.So the huge disparity may make the eastern mothers feel anxious.As a result, they would be stricter with their children to make them excellent.Traditional Chinese mothers always hold high hopes for their children.The kids are required to learn many things like piano or math, even at a

very

early

age.American education special emphasis on respect for the child, often give children the right to choose.As a result, many children will choose to give up very easily.We should not completely criticize Amy.Though her second daughter hated this cruel mother, her two daughters won’t have today’s achievement without her strict education.Finally two children are outstanding, their learning and music are both excellent, is the envy of achievements, locally known as music child prodigy.There’s no doubt in Amy’s dedication and devotion in educating her children.Every time her daughter was practicing piano, she was always there to company, though Amy had a lot of work to do.She devoted herself in parenting.So she really loves her two daughters but in a different way.Amy writes: “Become an expert, actually there is no fun at all.Any skills to master

must pay the hard work.And from the nature of children, never love.Therefore, the beginning don't give them opportunities to choose don't work hard, it becomes crucial.” Don't give kids opportunities to choose don't work hard, this is her core parenting thought.It equals to help them to work hard, so they can achieve more and become more excellent.Her strict demands teach her daughters how to concentrate on doing something and also develop them persistent and will quality.Actually, every mother has their own way of parenting.There is no the best method, but the most suitable.Just as an old saying goes, no leaves are exactly the same.Tiger mother tell us the way that she do is effective , but this may have effective are not suitable for everyone, every child's personality has different, parents should according to the actual situation of their children in accordance with their aptitude.Different kid has different situation.But we can learn some useful experience from Amy Chua.Most young children like playing, it’s not their nature to work hard or be concentrated.So parents should give some force to help their children in learning.And parents should also learn to keep persistent, as parenting is really a hard and long way.Parents are the guide and light of their children.To learn how to parent well, first be strict with themselves.Truth to tell, my mother is not a tiger mother.She is not strict, and didn’t require me to achieve something.As a consequence, I grew up in a relaxing and comfortable environment.I don’t have any stress or force.She never forces me to do or not to do something.One day I joked my mother why she was not very strict or that I would become better.However, I didn’t take my study easy, but work hard.Because I realized study is students’ primary mission.I take my own example to improve that study is not all parents’ duty, but ours.You can not totally criticize parents when their child didn’t behave well in their study.In a word, I think Amy Chua is a good mother, though she is very strict.But she just did a mother could do to help children become more excellent.She really knows how to educate children.Her daughters will very appreciate it when they grow.So these words are my own opinions, some of them may be not right, but exactly what I want to say.One thousand readers, there are one thousand Hamlet.