第一篇：a generation gap 父母代溝 英語作文

I have a generation gap with my parents.I suppose that coming into being the generation gap is that parents and children have different values and beliefs.In my spare time, I don’t chat with my parents regularly.Especially having difficulty in doing something, I don’t ask help to them.On the contrary, hardly had I been unhappy about something in our school when I realized that turn to friends for help.Parents and friends offer me many different feels in my life.So it’s natural to feel like there is an uncomfortable “gap” between my parents and myself and there is a need to bridge it.Though the problems don’t lie in a difference of opinions and values, in the way we relate to and communicate with each other.What we should pay attention to is communication.I can try to chat with parents more and listen to them patiently because they always talk something necessary and something useful to me.What’s more, when we get angry or too excited during a conversation, we should keep us calm down.Quarreling among ourselves easily destroy our credibility.When I am in silence, maybe I can understand parents’ thoughts which are good for me.In addition, apologize when I think I do or say something differently, like losing my cool or saying something hurtful during an argument.More importantly, I should accept their thoughts and humor as I can.Finally come the end of suggestion.Showing self-acceptance and tolerance for imperfection is very encouraging to me and tends to make me easier to approach with questions, regrets and challenges.The generation gap can be bridged.Through my effort, I am sure I can make it!

第二篇：英語作文-代溝

Generation gap We live a better life with the rapid development of economy,however the generation gap between the old and the young is still impassable(不可逾越;不能通行的，無法通過).This phenomenon exists for a number of reasons as below.Firstly,most of the old people lived a poor life before,so they believe that young people should save every cent like they do.However there is not a shortage of food and clothing any longer,young people enjoy their beautiful life very much without caring the money thing.Secondly,there are only a few well-educated old people,while most of the young people are college graduates.Obviously there will be a lot of conflict between them.Finally,old people hold the opinion that young people should look for a secure job like most people do,while some young people have their own dreams and believe it will come true in the future..Having a talk is the best and most direct way to solve this problem.This conversation must be built on a basis of equality on both sides, old people do not use the feudal paternalistic attitude(封建家長態度), and young people should show them enough respect.

第三篇：英語作文《代溝》

代溝的成因 Generation Gap

The Causes of the Generation Gap(代溝的成因)

漢浯提示：請寫一篇150字左右的文章，說明代溝的形成原因。

[寫作導航]第一段是引入，可從父母與孩子相互不理解導致互相埋怨開始，然后用問題：“什么是代溝的成因?”結束第一段；第二段探討原因，其中之一是年輕人的生活方式與以往不同，這體現在教育、擇業、婚姻上；第三段可探討代溝的另一個原因，即父母對孩子的期望值過高，有時是把自己的意志強加給孩子，從而造成代溝；第三段指出另一個原因是社會的飛速發展導致知識和技能的加速更新，使得代溝形成；最后一段總結結束全篇。

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Parents say that children do not show them proper respect and obedience, while children complain that their parents do not understand them.This

phenomenon is often referred as the generation gap.What are the causes of the generation gap?

One important cause of the generation gap is that young people have to

choose their way of life.In more traditional societies, when children grow up, they are expected to live in the same area as their parents, to marry people that their parents know and agree to, and to continue the family occupation.In modern society, young people often travel a great distance for their education, move out of the family at an early age, marry or live with people whom their parents have never met, and choose occupations different from those of their parents.In the easily changing society, parents often expect their children to do better than they did: to find better jobs, to make more money;and to do all the things that they were unable to do.Often, however, the strong desire that parents have for their children are another cause of the disagreement between them.Often, they discover that they have very little in comMon with each other.Finally, the speed at which changes take place in modern society is another cause of the gap between the generations.In a traditional culture, elderly

people are valued for their wisdom, but in modern society, the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date overnight.The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a future of our life for some time to come.Its causes are rooted in the changes of our society, and in the rapid speed at which society changes.小議“代溝”

The discussion about the “generation gap”

Each generation has their different living habits, each generation has a

different way of thinking, so the “generation gap” created on quietly.It is the same as a mountain, to completely separate people of different age, so that they can not understand each other.每一代人都有他們不同的生活習慣，每一代人都有不同的思維方式，于是“代溝”就悄然形成了。它如同一座大山一樣，把不同時代的人截然分開，使他們不能彼此理解。

In young eyes, the older generation people always prefer the old look and old concepts to restrain their children.The young man then, very receptive to new things, always thinking that the older generation old, and believe that there are between two generations insurmountable.Reluctant to accept the teachings of the older generation.在年輕人眼里，老一輩人總喜歡用舊眼光、舊觀念來約束他們的下一代。而年輕人呢，很容易接受新鮮事物，總是覺得老一輩人的思想陳舊，總認為兩代人之間有不可逾越的鴻溝。從而不愿接受老一輩人的教導。

In the eyes of parents, young people like Starchaser, like to make friends

friends, like heresy, like the Internet to dance, these are serious matters.Also, a good model good kind of black hair dye color, but can not tolerate.Is simply alien!

在家長的眼里，年輕一代喜歡追星，喜歡交朋好友，喜歡異端，喜歡上網跳舞，這些都不是正經事。還有，好模好樣的黑頭發染成顏色，更是不可忍。簡直就是異類！

So there are more terrible event occurring: more and more young people and family disagreements, pique running away from home, and even some take the road of no return.Many children and parents as a lack of communication with parents to meet, seen as enemies, how chilling it ah!Generation gap this terrible thing, so that parents pay sad efforts to make children quietly reticent, it makes becomes negative, the family lost their joy.于是有更可怕的事件發生著：越來越多的年輕人和家里意見不和，賭氣離家出走，甚至有的走上了不歸路。很多孩子由于和家長缺少溝通交流，與家長見面，視若大敵，這多么令人心寒啊！代溝這個可怕的東西，使家長心力交悴，使孩子默默寡言，它使人變得消極，使家庭失去了歡樂。

Generation gap so seriously affecting our lives, that in order to remove this gap, how important ah.However, in order to remove it, we must work together.As a parent, should be more communication with their children, let the children talk about their true inner thoughts, to find ways to alleviate the pressures on them, a child's close friends;children should also pledge allegiance to their parents, parents, after all, come, we should learn good things from them, while they

should be more sympathetic to the hardships housekeeping for their share those concerns, rather than demanding and obtain unlimited.代溝這么嚴重地影響著我們的生活，可見，要除去這代溝是多么重要啊。可是，要想除去它，我們必須共同努力。作為家長，應多與孩子交流，讓孩子說說自己真實的內心想法，想辦法減輕他們身上的各種壓力，成為孩子的知心朋友；孩子們也應該與父母交心，父母畢竟是過來人，我們應該從他們身上學習好的一面，同時應該多體諒他們持家的艱辛，為他們分憂，而不是無限制的苛求與索取。

I would like, regardless of how the development and changes of the times,leveling the generation gap are conducive to social progress and development.Face the ever-changing times, every one of us should be a little more

understanding, curbing excessive demands;a little more tolerance, curbing fuss.So, the formation of the generation gap between us will certainly be leveled.我想，不論時代如何發展變化，鏟平代溝都有利于社會的進步與發展。面對這個日新月異的時代，我們每一個人都應該多一分諒解，少一分苛求；多一分寬容，少一分計較。那么，我們之間形成的代溝就一定會鏟平。

第四篇：與父母代溝作文（通用）

與父母代溝作文（通用5篇）

在平平淡淡的學習、工作、生活中，大家都有寫作文的經歷，對作文很是熟悉吧，作文可分為小學作文、中學作文、大學作文（論文）。那么一般作文是怎么寫的呢？以下是小編為大家收集的與父母代溝作文（通用5篇），歡迎大家分享。

天真的我總認為父母和兒女之間是沒有一點與父母代溝的，可是，我錯了。我還真不明白那些大人一天在想些什么，一點也不“單純“，而且總不能相信別人，甚至他們的兒女，我搞不懂他們是怎么想的，也搞不懂他們的一些做法的目的到底是什么。明明就是想到房間里看我們有沒有打電腦，可是總回找一大堆借口到房間來，或是假裝扔垃圾，或是幫我們到水，或是給我們拿水果來吃，他們還以為我們不知道他們的做法，每進房間出去以后都會偷笑。

一次，我在電腦里寫作文，寫了差不多3個多小時，媽媽一會給我送蘋果來，一會給我到水來，一會又……每次送完東西就老往電腦那邊嘌，我真不明白電腦有什么吸引他們的地方。寫完作文我才發現，我桌子上有N多東西，我數了數，一共有10個蘋果，5杯水，扔了12次垃圾，到我房間里共來了30次。唉！他們不覺得累我都覺得累了，還打擾到我寫作文呢！現在我終于明白大人與小孩的與父母代溝了！小孩永遠比大人單純許多，而大人，卻總是神神秘秘的，而且思想比較老舊，最主要的是——他們從來不回光明正大的做他們想做的一些事情，總會給自己找一大堆借口，而且有點自做聰明。唉！“好笑”的大人！

其實有時候，人是很無辜的，特別是和父母有著嚴重與父母代溝的時候。90后思想不同于70、80后的思想，因此，就會產生很多與父母代溝問題，有的會很嚴重、有的卻很輕微，程度大不相同。

現在大多數家庭都至少會擁有一臺電腦，有的家庭卻會是一人一臺，因此，電腦這一電器已經不再成為90后的奢侈品，但隨著電腦的加入，也給家庭帶來了矛盾。

網絡世界是豐富多彩的，它變化萬千，讓我們神往之極，更讓我們大開眼界，讓我們迷戀，更讓我們難以把握，甚至會令我們失去自我，迷失方向，深陷而不能自拔。作為90后的我就是其中一位：因學習的需要，老師經常叫我們回家后搜尋一些資料回來，我就向爸媽要了一臺電腦。但老天爺跟我作對，那個月恰好沒布置關于查資料的功課。所以，電腦就成了我上網看電影，看電視劇的工具。但我并沒因此忘記了學習。

網上聊QQ，時代之風，大家平時見面不敢說不能說的話聊得天，在網絡中都可以去做。QQ農場、QQ牧場、QQ花園、QQ飛車、QQ餐廳、搶車位……等等源于生活的是，在網絡中都有，很多奢想的事都能成為現實，但限于虛擬世界。這些游戲風摩105全班，甚至全校，老師、學生、校警、清潔工人…大家都在玩這些。凡是沒玩過的就很“土”了，所以，課余時間，我常玩，而且不亦樂乎呢！但這些游戲在我爸媽眼里全是“垃圾”，不許我玩，只許我用電腦來查資料、聽音樂，寫作文、練字……不久，我愛上了QQ，因為爸媽不讓，我只有背著玩玩。紙包不住火，還是被發現了，我媽臭罵了我一頓，當我跟他論理時，她理直氣壯的說：“玩玩玩，整天就知道玩，早知道我就不買了，看哪天拔網線拔了。”

對此，我只有無奈可言了，誰叫他們是我父母呢？哎！我和父母間的關系越搞越糟糕了，這讓原本理智的我都開始變傻了……什么時候才能解決這問題呢？大家都想知道吧！

最近和爸爸鬧的總是不怎么愉快，爸爸自己悶悶地說：“我知道，你大了，我們有與父母代溝了，你大了，只和媽好。”我可以明顯的聽出你語氣里有一份講不好使失望，是嫉妒還是對自己的不滿，總之，你難過，我痛心。

記得，我和你發生什么口角的時候，你總是發火或者說破什么關于與父母代溝的話，但是你可曾想過我啊，我難道真的認為和你有與父母代溝作嗎？

每天和你晚上吃完飯了后，你總會拉著我的手，就像大手拉小手一樣。你會以一位家長或是一位知己或很尊重的態度來和我聊天，其實每次我都裝出十分不樂意的樣子，但是我的心中認為這是一段十分享受的時光，因為這個時候終于有一個人靜靜的聽我訴說，不論是東南西北或扯得更遠的話題。

爸爸，你從來為什么只看見你對我的愛，卻看不見我對你的愛呢，你為什么總是希望自己一個人付出，總是不求回報。你知不知道當你和我聊時，你說過，你覺得現在生活沒什么意思，要不是我，的會離家遠遠的，你知道我嘴上只是對你嗔怪，其實心里有多傷心嗎，你不管怎么樣，你始終是我的爸爸朋友。

爸爸，你怎么會知道，我為有你這樣一位爸爸而自豪，當同學總是在抱怨爸爸不體諒他們但是我總是在心里偷偷笑哩，因為我有一位理解我的爸爸，一位不論什么事都可以告訴他，他會替我想辦法，他會在一個同齡人的角度上替我想辦法。我很感謝他。

但是，你在還沒有更深入的了解我，你就全盤否認了我們還可以好好交流，你就說我長大了，你就說我們有與父母代溝，其實，如果真的有與父母代溝，只有我不能了解你，一定不會是我不愿和你交流，所以，我們之間永遠沒有與父母代溝，爸爸，我是很愛你的，所有，我知道我們之間永遠沒有與父母代溝。

“你們不要說了，煩不煩人啊！”我扭過頭不情愿地盯著爸爸媽媽，聽著他們的喋喋不休的嘮叨，你一言我一語的譏諷，我忍不住頂撞了一句……你說大人為什么這么喜歡訓我們呢？如果有一點不如大人意的地方，臉就陰下來了，就像剛入春時下毛毛雨的天空，略帶一絲寒意，給人一種很壓抑的感覺。這就是“大難臨頭”的征兆呀！接下來就是大聲、激昂的訓斥，我不屑的沉默著。然后是一陣陣“咆哮的吼聲”，我無奈地摔門而去……

又是一個晴朗的午后，我正在電腦上津津樂道地聽著許嵩的歌，嘴里也低聲哼哼著。這時，媽媽走了過來，一下就把音響給關了，然后就開始了她的“長篇大論”了：“你聽到是什么歌？哼哼唧唧的，一句也聽不懂，有什么好聽的，比我們那個年代的歌難聽多了……”我就跟她爭了起來：“你這就是與父母代溝，你根本不懂！還是網上說的好，三年一與父母代溝，你的思想早就老了！”“唉，現在的孩子不好管啊！你這就是在叛逆期，什么都不聽我的，你要聽就聽一些經典的歌曲，別聽這些又唱又說的……”我也當仁不讓：“你也不看看，有點少人在聽許嵩、周杰倫的歌，也就是你們還在聽那些所謂的老歌……”唉，現在的大人啊，真是的，一點也不理解我們，我們有自己的一片天空！明明就是與父母代溝在作祟，而大人們卻認為是我們叛逆。唉！真是沒法和他們溝通了！無意間，我看到了一篇關于叛逆與與父母代溝的文章。我仔仔細細的閱讀著，突然心中一緊，發現了自己觀點上的錯誤，找出來自己實際上的不足。我坦誠地對媽媽說：“有些件事我做的的卻不對，請媽媽在給我一次機會吧！”媽媽理解地看了看我，說：“這件事我也有些方法上的不恰當，我應該支持你的愛好”我們互相承認了錯誤，就這樣，我們家的叛逆與與父母代溝的問題就被我解決了！

我多么希望：所有在父母與孩子之間有與父母代溝或叛逆問題的'家庭，都能找找自己的不足，站到對方的角度上想一想，這樣才有益于家庭的和諧幸福！為什么不能和父母交朋友呢？為什么不能與父母交心呢？父母們可都是為我們好呀！

靜靜的站在大海邊，感受著那寬廣、蔚藍，是多么的愜意，多么的令人心曠神怡。但可曾想過平靜的海面下，有著洶涌的洋流，還有那深不可測的海溝，一旦墜入，便萬劫不復。其實平靜的中，也同樣有著洶涌的角逐，也同樣有著酷似海溝的溝壑，我 們稱之為“代溝”。

他們穩重內斂，不喜歡我的囂張我的任性，要求我們做到“凡 事預則立不預則廢”做到未雨綢繆。

他們對我們期望很高，給了我們一雙沉重的翅膀，讓我們像一 只孤獨的大雁，疲憊的飛翔。

他們不以為意，即使我們手捧一大疊獎狀，他們也少有表揚，認為這是沒必要的。

他們很固執，不厭其煩的讓我們去做他們認為對我們有益的事，卻忘記了我們的興趣。

他們矗立在我們生活中，對我們無微不至，甚至連吃葡萄時都 幫我們剝皮。

他們很擔心，關注著我們的一舉一動。總喜歡說一大堆的話來 教訓我們，他們告訴我們不懂的事就不要說它沒道理，告訴我們無論受多大的委屈都要 退一步海闊天空。

我們很囂張、很頑皮、很任性，討厭他們的原則與保守。

我們很努力的學習，卻總不能達到他們想要的。最終有可能讓 我們放棄那一份本該的激情與活力。

我們不需要物質上的獎勵，但任何人都需要精神上的動力。

我們好動、好玩、好嬉戲。他們卻總要帶我們去聽音樂，看展 覽，認為這樣可以讓我們留下美好的回憶。

我們想說，能不能讓我們自己來試一試。要知道“寶劍鋒從磨 礪出，梅花香自苦寒來”。

我們還想說：沒有他們的束縛，我們依然可以不改變初衷，沒 有他們的導航，我們依然可以不埋葬向往……

此時我想到了史鐵生，想到他發怒時他母親既無奈又心痛的回 避著，想到他與地壇對話后，那種歇斯底里的痛與悔。的確，父母給了我們彌足珍貴的生命，讓我們來到這個社會感 受喜怒哀樂。小時候，無微不至的關心著我們，寵愛著我們，盡畢身最大的努力幫我們 握著雙槳，不辭勞苦的為我們擺渡。可是隨著時間的推移，在“漸”的漩流中，我們之 間出現了酷似海溝的代溝。在彼此不理解，不了解的境況下，難道真的不能遞給我們一 支漿，讓我們自己掌握方向？難道代溝真的“不可橋之乎？”

第五篇：關于代溝的英語作文

A complex problem –generation gap Nowadays,“generation gap”has gradually become a common phenomenon all over the world.Experiencing different time, as a result, causes the difference between parents and children in tastes, the method they deal with problems and values.?This case may more easily happen in teenagers.The reason lies in they are young, they have strong passion for freedom, and they like showing themselves off.Then it is no wonder that arguments often arise between their parents and them, which always make the parents worried.They can hardly figure out what their children are thinking about.Because they wear strange clothes, listen noisy music and even walk around town with tattoos [t?'tu:]紋身 and pierces [pi?s] vt.刺穿all over their bodies.Nevertheless, in teenager’ eyes, their parents are out of date and conservative.They may talk with their friends more often than their parents.In a word, ‘generation gap’ is an interminable [in't?:min?bl] adj.冗長的；無止盡的 problem.Seriously, how to bridge the generation gap? In my opinion, first, show respect.The mutual ['mju:t?u?l] 相互的respect can play an important role in avoiding conflicts.Second, listen more than

talk.It’s no doubt that it is a very efficient way to keep the conversation longer.At last, keep humors, this can make the talk friendly.Despite the fact that parents may be worried about the generation gap between their children and themselves.But as we all know, with time going by, children gradually grow old and ripe.And then they will come to understand their parents.