第一篇：北大學姐演講

在懷疑的時代依然需要信仰（7月1日，北大中文系畢業典禮上，一位學姐的致辭）

來源： 殷世浩的日志

敬愛的老師和親愛的同學們，上午好！

謝謝你們叫我回家。讓我有幸再次聆聽老師的教誨，分享我親愛的學弟學妹們的特殊喜悅。

一進家門，光陰倒轉，剛才那些美好的視頻，同學的發言，老師的講話，都讓我覺得所有年輕的故事都不曾走遠。可是，站在你們面前，親愛的同學們，我才發現，自己真的老了。1988年，我本科畢業的時候，你們中的絕大多數人還沒有出生。那個時候你們的朗朗部長還是眾女生仰慕的帥師兄，你們的渭毅老師正與我的同屋女孩愛得地老天荒。而現在他們的孩子都該考大學了。

就像剛才那首歌唱的，“記憶中最美的春天，難以再回首的昨天”。如果把生活比作一段將理想“變現”的歷程，我們只是一疊面額有限的現鈔，而你們是即將上市的股票。從一張白紙起步的書寫，前程無遠弗屆，一切皆有可能。面對你們，我甚至缺少一分抒發“過來人”心得的勇氣。

但我先生力勸我來，我的朋友也勸我來，他們都是84級的中文系學長。今天，他們有的仍然是一介文人，清貧淡泊；有的已經主政一方，功成名就；有的發了財做了“富二代”的爹，也有的離了婚、生活并不如意，但在網上交流時，聽說有今天這樣一個機會，他們都無一例外地讓我一定要來，代表他們，代表那一代人，向自己的弟弟妹妹說點什么。

是的，跟你們一樣，我們曾在中文系就讀，甚至讀過同一門課程，青澀的背影都曾被燕園的陽光，定格在五院青藤纏滿的綠墻上。但那是上個世紀的事了，我們之間橫亙著20多年的時光。那個時候我們稱為理想的，今天或許你們笑稱其為空想；那時的我們流行書生論政，今天的你們要面對誡勉談話；那時的我們熟悉的熱詞是民主自由，今天的你們記住的是“拼爹”、“躲貓貓”、“打醬油”；那個時候的我們喜歡在三角地游蕩，而今天的你們習慣隱形于偉大的互聯網。我們那時的中國依然貧窮卻豪情萬丈，而今天這個世界第二大經濟體，還在苦苦尋找迷失的幸福，無數和你們一樣的青年喜歡用“囧”形容自己的處境。

20多年時光，中國到底走了多遠？存放我們青春記憶的“三角地”早已蕩然無存，見證你們少年心緒的“一塔湖圖”正在創造新的歷史。你們這一代人，有著遠比我們當年更優越的條件，更廣博的見識，更成熟的內心，站在更高的起點。

我們想說的是，站在這樣高的起點，由北大中文系出發，你們不缺前輩大師的庇蔭，更不少歷史文化的熏染。詩經楚辭的世界，老莊孔孟的思想，李白杜甫的詞章，構成了你們生命中最為激蕩的青春時光。我不需要提醒你們，未來將如何以具體瑣碎，消磨這份浪漫與絢爛；也不需要提醒你們，人生將以怎樣的平庸世故，消解你們的萬丈雄心；更不需要提醒你們，走入社會，要如何變得務實與現實，因為你們終將以一生浸淫其中。我唯一的害怕，是你們已經不相信了——不相信規則能戰勝潛規則，不相信學場有別于官場，不相信學術不等于權術，不相信風骨遠勝于媚骨。你們或許不相信了，因為追求級別的越來越多，追求真理的越來越少；講待遇的越來越多，講理想的越來越少；大官越來越多，大師越來越少。因此，在你們走向社會之際，我想說的只是，請看護好你曾經的激情和理想。在這個懷疑的時代，我們依然需要信仰。

也許有同學會笑話，大師姐寫報社論寫多了吧，這么高的調子。可如果我告訴各位，這是我的那些中文系同學，那些不管今天處于怎樣的職位，遭遇過怎樣的人生的同學共同的想法，你們是否會稍微有些重視？是否會多想一下為什么二十多年過去他們依然如此？

我知道，與我們這一代相比，你們這一代人的社會化遠在你們踏上社會之前就已經開始了，...

第二篇：北大學姐·建議

首要建議一：充分利用假期學習計算機常用技術，21世紀信息時代，計算機一竅不通是絕對不行的。學學怎么合并音頻、剪輯視頻，學著做一個flash、學著用photoshop把相片進行特技處理（不要用美圖秀秀，那只能降低你的智商！），學點ppt里面比較復雜的操作和動畫效果。（學習資料和軟件下載請看后面的補充）

建議二：充分利用假期時間補足自己在大學一年生活中覺得自己不足的地方，包括你的演講，才藝，交際能力，常規技術與常識等等。比如，你在競選學生會等學生組織的時候是不是看到別人都是才藝滿滿、一展歌喉，是不是曾經羨慕他們的多才多藝啊，其實呢，多才多藝都是慢慢培養出來的，利用假期時間，學唱幾首歌、模仿一個單口相聲、練習三分鐘即興演講等等，培養自己勇敢、活潑、自信的美好品質。

建議三：充分享受假期的生活條件和網絡資源，看幾場有意義的電影。

推薦閱讀： 部好看的校園喜劇片（可練習英文）+美國校園青春勵志電影

建議四：不能中斷英語聽力的練習，如果時間不夠或者假期沒打算復習英語，單詞可以不背，卷紙可以不做，但是聽力必須每天都練，哪怕每天1分鐘也好，你今天練10個小時，明天沒練，那也相當于十天白練，英語聽力和練鋼琴一樣，一日不練十日白練一點也不夸張，學著讓自己適應聽力的環境，讓耳朵經常在這個氛圍里工作，日久天長定能看到效果。

建議五：加強運動。運動項目會了多少體現你的能力和涵養，籃球、足球、乒乓球、羽毛球、排球、網球、游泳，總得會1-2樣并且能把它當做樂趣，假期如果沒有什么特殊情況，要天天去體育館鍛煉才行。

建議六：將沒有達到二績點的科目進行復習和整理，為開學后的重考做好準備。建議七：讀1-2本有意義的課外書或者10-50篇文字優美的抒情散文，這會陶冶你的情操，提高你的個人品味和修養。

建議八：嘗試一件沒有嘗試過的事情，超越你自己，可以是做一頓飯、打一次工、做一次家教、學跳一段舞、背誦一篇英文演講稿、和老外做一次英文交流、給你的英語老師用英文寫一封新年賀信、和爸爸談一次工作方面的體會，各種形式均可，目的就是挑戰自己的勇氣，體現超越自己的快樂。

建議九：嘗試向雜志社投稿一篇文章或者學做一篇小說，如果這個要求以你現在的能力來說太難，那就嘗試寫一篇日志存放在空間里，可以總結一下大一第一學期的感觸、可以發表對一件事情的獨到看法，也可以用飽含真情的文字感謝幾個生命中最重要的人。鍛煉文筆、記錄成長。

第三篇：北大演講

克林頓在北京大學的英文演講稿

PRESIDENT CLINTON:

Thank you.Thank you, President Chen, Chairmen Ren, Vice President Chi, Vice Minister Wei.We are delighted to be here today with a very large American delegation, including the First Lady and our daughter, who is a student at Stanford, one of the schools with which Beijing University has a relationship.We have six members of the United States Congress;the Secretary of State;Secretary of Commerce;the Secretary of Agriculture;the Chairman of our Council of Economic Advisors;Senator Sasser, our Ambassador;the National Security Advisor and my Chief of Staff, among others.I say that to illustrate the importance that the United States places on our relationship with China.I would like to begin by congratulating all of you, the students, the faculty, the administrators, on celebrating the centennial year of your university.Gongxi, Beida.(Applause.)As I'm sure all of you know, this campus was once home to Yenching University which was founded by American missionaries.Many of its wonderful buildings were designed by an American architect.Thousands of Americans students and professors have come here to study and teach.We feel a special kinship with you.I am, however, grateful that this day is different in one important respect from another important occasion 79 years ago.In June of 1919, the first president of Yenching University, John Leighton Stuart, was set to deliver the very first commencement address on these very grounds.At the appointed hour, he appeared, but no students appeared.They were all out leading the May 4th Movement for China's political and cultural renewal.When I read this, I hoped that when I walked into the auditorium today, someone would be sitting here.And I thank you for being here, very much.(Applause.)Over the last 100 years, this university has grown to more than 20,000 students.Your graduates are spread throughout China and around the world.You have built the largest university library in all of Asia.Last year, 20 percent of your graduates went abroad to study, including half of your math and science majors.And in this anniversary year, more than a million people in China, Asia, and beyond have logged on to your web site.At the dawn of a new century, this university is leading China into the future.I come here today to talk to you, the next generation of China's leaders, about the critical importance to your future of building a strong partnership between China and the United States.The American people deeply admire China for its thousands of years of contributions to culture and religion, to philosophy and the arts, to science and technology.We remember well our strong partnership in World War II.Now we see China at a moment in history when your glorious past is matched by your present sweeping transformation and the even greater promise of your future.Just three decades ago, China was virtually shut off from the world.Now, China is a member of more than 1,000 international organizations--enterprises that affect everything from air travel to agricultural development.You have opened your nation to trade and investment on a large scale.Today, 40,000 young Chinese study in the United States, with hundreds of thousands more learning in Asia, Africa, Europe, and Latin America.Your social and economic transformation has been even more remarkable, moving from a closed command economic system to a driving, increasingly market-based and driven economy, generating two decades of unprecedented growth, giving people greater freedom to travel within and outside China, to vote in village elections, to own a home, choose a job, attend a better school.As a result you have lifted literally hundreds of millions of people from poverty.Per capita income has more than doubled in the last decade.Most Chinese people are leading lives they could not have imagined just 20 years ago.Of course, these changes have also brought disruptions in settled patterns of life and work, and have imposed enormous strains on your environment.Once every urban Chinese was guaranteed employment in a state enterprise.Now you must compete in a job market.Once a Chinese worker had only to meet the demands of a central planner in Beijing.Now the global economy means all must match the quality and creativity of the rest of the world.For those who lack the right training and skills and support, this new world can be daunting.In the short-term, good, hardworking people--some, at least will find themselves unemployed.And, as all of you can see, there have been enormous environmental and economic and health care costs to the development pattern and the energy use pattern of the last 20 years--from air pollution to deforestation to acid rain and water shortage.In the face of these challenges new systems of training and social security will have to be devised, and new environmental policies and technologies will have to be introduced with the goal of growing your economy while improving the environment.Everything I know about the intelligence, the ingenuity, the enterprise of the Chinese people and everything I have heard these last few days in my discussions with President Jiang, Prime Minister Zhu and others give me confidence that you will succeed.As you build a new China, America wants to build a new relationship with you.We want China to be successful, secure and open, working with us for a more peaceful and prosperous world.I know there are those in China and the United States who question whether closer relations between our countries is a good thing.But everything all of us know about the way the world is changing and the challenges your generation will face tell us that our two nations will be far better off working together than apart.The late Deng Xiaoping counseled us to seek truth from facts.At the dawn of the new century, the facts are clear.The distance between our two nations, indeed, between any nations, is shrinking.Where once an American clipper ship took months to cross from China to the United States.Today, technology has made us all virtual neighbors.From laptops to lasers, from microchips to megabytes, an information revolution is lighting the landscape of human knowledge, bringing us all closer together.Ideas, information, and money cross the planet at the stroke of a computer key, bringing with them extraordinary opportunities to create wealth, to prevent and conquer disease, to foster greater understanding among peoples of different histories and different cultures.But we also know that this greater openness and faster change mean that problems which start beyond one nations borders can quickly move inside them--the spread of weapons of mass destruction, the threats of organized crime and drug trafficking, of environmental degradation, and severe economic dislocation.No nation can isolate itself from these problems, and no nation can solve them alone.We, especially the younger generations of China and the United States, must make common cause of our common challenges, so that we can, together, shape a new century of brilliant possibilities.In the 21st century--your century--China and the United States will face the challenge of security in Asia.On the Korean Peninsula, where once we were adversaries, today we are working together for a permanent peace and a future free of nuclear weapons.On the Indian subcontinent, just as most of the rest of the world is moving away from nuclear danger, India and Pakistan risk sparking a new arms race.We are now pursuing a common strategy to move India and Pakistan away from further testing and toward a dialogue to resolve their differences.In the 21st century, your generation must face the challenge of stopping the spread of deadlier nuclear,chemical, and biological weapons.In the wrong hands or the wrong places, these weapons can threaten the peace of nations large and small.Increasingly, China and the United States agree on the importance of stopping proliferation.That is why we are beginning to act in concert to control the worlds most dangerous weapons.In the 21st century, your generation will have to reverse the international tide of crime and drugs.Around the world, organized crime robs people of billions of dollars every year and undermines trust in government.America knows all about the devastation and despair that drugs can bring to schools and neighborhoods.With borders on more than a dozen countries, China has become a crossroad for smugglers of all kinds.Last year, President Jiang and I asked senior Chinese and American law enforcement officials to step up our cooperation against these predators, to stop money from being laundered, to stop aliens from being cruelly smuggled, to stop currencies from being undermined by counterfeiting.Just this month, our drug enforcement agency opened an office in Beijing, and soon Chinese counternarcotics experts will be working out of Washington.In the 21st century, your generation must make it your mission to ensure that today's progress does not come at tomorrow's expense.China's remarkable growth in the last two decades has come with a toxic cost, pollutants that foul the water you drink and the air you breathe--the cost is not only environmental, it is also serious in terms of the health consequences of your people and in terms of the drag on economic growth.Environmental problems are also increasingly global as well as national.For example, in the near future, if present energy use patterns persist, China will overtake the United States as the world's largest emitter of greenhouse gases, the gases which are the principal cause of global warming.If the nations of the world do not reduce the gases which are causing global warming, sometime in the next century there is a serious risk of dramatic changes in climate which will change the way we live and the way we work, which could literally bury some island nations under mountains of water and undermine the economic and social fabric of nations.We must work together.We Americans know from our own experience that it is possible to grow an economy while improving the environment.We must do that together for ourselves and for the world.Building on the work that our Vice President, Al Gore, has done previously with the Chinese government, President Jiang and I are working together on ways to bring American clean energy technology to help improve air quality and grow the Chinese economy at the same time.But I will say this again--this is not on my remarks--your generation must do more about this.This is a huge challenge for you, for the American people and for the future of the world.And it must be addressed at the university level, because political leaders will never be willing to adopt environmental measures if they believe it will lead to large-scale unemployment or more poverty.The evidence is clear that does not have to happen.You will actually have more rapid economic growth and better paying jobs, leading to higher levels of education and technology if we do this in the proper way.But you and the university, communities in China, the United States and throughout the world will have to lead the way.(Applause.)In the 21st century your generation must also lead the challenge of an international financial system that has no respect for national borders.When stock markets fall in Hong Kong or Jakarta, the effects are no longer local;they are global.The vibrant growth of your own economy is tied closely, therefore, to the restoration of stability and growth in the Asia Pacific region.China has steadfastly shouldered its responsibilities to the region and the world in this latest financial crisis--helping to prevent another cycle of dangerous devaluations.We must continue to work together to counter this threat to the global financial system and to the growth and prosperity which should be embracing all of this region.In the 21st century, your generation will have a remarkable opportunity to bring together the talents of our scientists, doctors, engineers into a shared quest for progress.Already the breakthroughs we have achieved in our areas of joint cooperation--in challenges from dealing with spina bifida to dealing with extreme weather conditions and earthquakes--have proved what we can do together to change the lives of millions of people in China and the United States and around the world.Expanding our cooperation in science and technology can be one of our greatest gifts to the future.In each of these vital areas that I have mentioned, we can clearly accomplish so much more by walking together rather than standing apart.That is why we should work to see that the productive relationship we now enjoy blossoms into a fuller partnership in the new century.If that is to happen, it is very important that we understand each other better, that we understand both our common interest and our shared aspirations and our honest differences.I believe the kind of open, direct exchange that President Jiang and I had on Saturday at our press conference--which I know many of you watched on television--can both clarify and narrow our differences, and, more important, by allowing people to understand and debate and discuss these things can give a greater sense of confidence to our people that we can make a better future.From the windows of the White House, where I live in Washington, D.C., the monument to our first President, George Washington, dominates the skyline.It is a very tall obelisk.But very near this large monument there is a small stone which contains these words: The United States neither established titles of nobility and royalty, nor created a hereditary system.State affairs are put to the vote of public opinion.This created a new political situation, unprecedented from ancient times to the present.How wonderful it is.Those words were not written by an American.They were written by XuJiyu, governor of Fujian Province, inscribed as a gift from the government of China to our nation in 1853.I am very grateful for that gift from China.It goes to the heart of who we are as a people--the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, the freedom to debate, to dissent, to associate, to worship without interference from the state.These are the ideals that were at the core of our founding over 220 years ago.These are the ideas that led us across our continent and onto the world stage.These are the ideals that Americans cherish today.As I said in my press conference with President Jiang, we have an ongoing quest ourselves to live up to those ideals.The people who framed our Constitution understood that we would never achieve perfection.They said that the mission of America would always be “to form a more perfect union”--in other words, that we would never be perfect, but we had to keep trying to do better.The darkest moments in our history have come when we abandoned the effort to do better, when we denied freedom to our people because of their race or their religion, because there were new immigrants or because they held unpopular opinions.The best moments in our history have come when we protected the freedom of people who held unpopular opinion, or extended rights enjoyed by the many to the few who had previously been denied them, making, therefore, the promises of our Declaration of Independence and Constitution more than faded words on old parchment.Today we do not seek to impose our vision on others, but we are convinced that certain rights are universal--not American rights or European rights or rights for developed nations, but the birthrights of people everywhere, now enshrined in the United Nations Declaration on Human Rights--the right to be treated with dignity;the right to express one's opinions, to choose one's own leaders, to associate freely with others, and to worship, or not, freely, however one chooses.In the last letter of his life, the author of our Declaration of Independence and our third President, Thomas Jefferson, said then that “all eyes are opening to the rights of man.” I believe that in this time, at long last, 172 years after Jefferson wrote those words, all eyes are opening to the rights of men and women everywhere.Over the past two decades, a rising tide of freedom has lifted the lives of millions around the world, sweeping away failed dictatorial systems in the Former Soviet Union, throughout Central Europe;ending a vicious cycle of military coups and civil wars in Latin America;giving more people in Africa the chance to make the most of their hard-won independence.And from the Philippines to South Korea, from Thailand to Mongolia, freedom has reached Asia's shores, powering a surge of growth and productivity.Economic security also can be an essential element of freedom.It is recognized in the United Nations Covenant on Economic, Social, and Cultural Rights.In China, you have made extraordinary strides in nurturing that liberty, and spreading freedom from want, to be a source of strength to your people.Incomes are up, poverty is down;people do have more choices of jobs, and the ability to travel--the ability to make a better life.But true freedom includes more than economic freedom.In America, we believe it is a concept which is indivisible.Over the past four days, I have seen freedom in many manifestations in China.I have seen the fresh shoots of democracy growing in the villages of your heartland.I have visited a village that chose its own leaders in free elections.I have also seen the cell phones, the video players, the fax machines carrying ideas, information and images from all over the world.I've heard people speak their minds and I have joined people in prayer in the faith of my own choosing.In all these ways I felt a steady breeze of freedom.The question is, where do we go from here? How do we work together to be on the right side of history together? More than 50 years ago, Hu Shi, one of your great political thinkers and a teacher at this university, said these words: “Now some people say to me you must sacrifice your individual freedom so that the nation may be free.But I reply, the struggle for individual freedom is the struggle for the nation's freedom.The struggle for your own character is the struggle for the nation's character.”

We Americans believe Hu Shi was right.We believe and our experience demonstrates that freedom strengthens stability and helps nations to change.One of our founding fathers, Benjamin Franklin, once said, “Our critics are our friends, for they show us our faults.” Now, if that is true, there are many days in the United States when the President has more friends than anyone else in America.(Laughter.)But it is so.In the world we live in, this global information age, constant improvement and change is necessary to economic opportunity and to national strength.Therefore, the freest possible flow of information, ideas, and opinions, and a greater respect for divergent political and religious convictions will actually breed strength and stability going forward.It is, therefore, profoundly in your interest, and the world's, that young Chinese minds be free to reach the fullness of their potential.That is the message of our time and the mandate of the new century and the new millennium.I hope China will more fully embrace this mandate.For all the grandeur of your history, I believe your greatest days are still ahead.Against great odds in the 20th century China has not only survived, it is moving forward dramatically.Other ancient cultures failed because they failed to change.China has constantly proven the capacity to change and grow.Now, you must re-imagine China again for a new century, and your generation must be at the heart of China's regeneration.The new century is upon us.All our sights are turned toward the future.Now your country has known more millennia than the United States has known centuries.Today, however, China is as young as any nation on Earth.This new century can be the dawn of a new China, proud of your ancient greatness, proud of what you are doing, prouder still of the tomorrows to come.It can be a time when the world again looks to China for the vigor of its culture, the freshness of its thinking, the elevation of human dignity that is apparent in its works.It can be a time when the oldest of nations helps to make a new world.The United States wants to work with you to make that time a reality.Thank you very much.(Applause.)

第四篇：北大學姐學習心得之錯題本

北大學姐學習心得之錯題本

大家好！昨天的貼里提到了【錯題本】，就有家長問這塊，本來是想跟大家再次“暢談”的，可我心血來潮，在百度上進行了這樣的搜索“北京 狀元錯題本”，具體請大家看下圖：

我想這張圖就已經把我想講的一大塊說明白了，所以我就不廢話了。

而我想講的下一塊本是“如何建立錯題本”之類的方面，不經意我點擊了幾個鏈接，于是……

感謝學而思教師團隊，咱們很早以前就有這方面的資料了。

文有了，圖也有了，世界圓滿了。

等等！

好像貌似可能缺點什么吧？

……標題是“北大學姐學習心得分享之錯題本”來著……

咳咳，大道理就不講了，我來補充一下個人觀點：

1.錯題本絕對不能代勞，不能是父母幫助抄錄題目，不推薦電子版打印稿，要孩子自己手抄！

抄錄題目是一個非常重要的審題過程，在抄的時候，孩子能一個字一個字地再把題干過一遍，想一想，當時怎么就做錯了呢！

退一萬步講，抄題，很辛苦是吧，那以后就少做錯一點！這也是內在動力有木有！學習本來就是個人事情，如果這塊要代勞那塊要輔助，跟從媽媽嘴里接咀嚼過的食物有什么區別？

另外，逐漸造成的依賴該怎么解決？如果父母不在身邊，沒人幫忙抄題，那就不做錯題本了？！

電子版打印稿問題，統一“宋體，五號”字會比手寫字給人的印象更深刻？ 我估計“加粗、下劃線、波浪線、文字底紋”等齊上陣也不會有黑、藍、紅三色簽字筆帶來的視覺沖擊大。

而且，自己親手一字一字寫出來的，都是血淚的經驗教訓，珍貴的不能再珍貴了！

2.錯題本得是自己總結的！

很多人熱衷于收集狀元筆記本、錯題本，之后呢？把那些高端大氣的本都背下來嗎？再后呢？

打個比方，不是你自己的小孩，你會對他有特殊感情嗎？一般人都不會。那拿著別人總結的錯題本，除了敬佩和瞻仰，你還能得到什么……

當然，我鼓勵觀摩經典錯題本，學學成績好的同學是怎樣有效記錄錯題本的，但是，只有自己錯的題，自己從頭到尾重新想一遍，再寫一遍之后才能讓你明白：這道題為什么就錯了！

3.不要想著周末找個整塊的時間一起總結！

這句話的最后結果就是：周末到了，啊呀，這么多題？！要抄到什么時候啊，算了，挑幾道寫上去得了……

作業、卷子再發下來就先自己琢磨，訂正錯題，自己總結哪里錯了，記下來！不會的題，等老師講的時候認真聽！聽完后跟之前的題一樣，全都記下來！

（不認真聽，下次還錯，不僅得再記，還得聽老師父母嘮叨“這題你怎么又錯了*&#￥*@%**”）

下了課，抄一道題，才要多久！但這就夠了，整理錯題本原本就是個瑣碎的活兒，剩下的就是堅持！

化大任務為小任務，各個擊破！如果寫5道題需要20分鐘，寫50道題肯定不會是200分鐘

（要喝水、要休息、要活動一下……自己給自己找理由，那借口海了去了）

4.推薦用不同顏色的筆標注錯題

我們的大腦對顏色等有對比的事物記憶效果更好，題干一個顏色，陳述錯誤一個顏色，真正錯誤一個顏色——剛好黑、藍、紅，整理好了，除了便于復習與記憶，錯題本還能賞心悅目呢

（告訴你們個小秘密，我高中時就老捧著自己的錯題本，不是要看題，而是欣賞我那整潔美麗的錯題本……）

5.個人秘籍：兩本合一

準備錯題本，孩子說話啦“有5門課，每門肯定都要一個筆記本，現在還要一個錯題本，那我每天豈不都得背著10個本出門？！”

我個人其實把錯題集當做筆記本的補充和拓展，正常，我們做的題都是為了實踐學習到的知識點，而知識點就是記在筆記本上的內容，兩者放在一起，互相補充，方便加深孩子對學習內容的理解啊。

當然，不能混雜記在一起，筆記還是筆記，錯題錄還是錯題錄，我的筆記本，正面從右向左打開，記得是課堂筆記、知識點等；背面，同樣從右往左打開，就是錯題錄啦。

兩本合一，不僅減輕書包負擔（再一次說明，世界是由懶人推動的……），還能有針對地復習知識點（正面記得點，背面就有題），一箭雙雕！

6.做作業前、考試前翻翻錯題本，回顧下當時做題、訂正題時的感受

作業、考試前翻錯題本是為了什么，和筆記一個道理，大家都知道。而回顧當時感受，絕對是個直接沖擊！

很多時候你會覺得“我當時腦子怎么就抽筋了，連這樣的題都錯！”

另一些時候你會有這樣的想法“這道題比較難，這下我會做了，下面的考試，呵呵呵~”

總結錯題，形成錯題本，最終目的只有一個：掌握知識點！

還是那句話，成功沒有捷徑！每一朵花開背后都有辛勤汗水的澆灌。勤奮！堅持！細節！踏實走好每一步，你絕對不會后悔當初走得慢卻穩！

關于我不經意點到的連接，請大家不要大意，猛戳這里：

【錯題本—狀元學生的特質，與您共同分享】

【看孫校空運回來的絕密高考狀元錯題本】。

樂加樂英語宋明君

第五篇：一位北大學姐寫給學妹的話

一位北大學姐寫給學妹的話

一、如果能夠不談戀愛，最好不要談，不要相信別人說的什么“不戀愛的大學生活是不完整的”之類的鬼話，更不要因為寂寞而去喜歡一個人，去找一個人來陪，其最后的結果100%是由一個人的寂寞變成兩個人的寂寞。如果你是大一剛進校的女生，真的很向往青蔥小說里的大學戀情，那么我勸你最好忍一忍，等大二的時候再做出要不要談戀愛，值不值得談戀愛的決定，先給自己大學4年做一個很詳細的規劃和定位才是最現實，最有幫助的。

二、如果已經擁有甜蜜戀情的MM，在甜蜜的同時還要多為自己想想，不要他在的時候陪他，他不在的時候想他，不要將全部的時間都用在他身上。校園戀情的確很純美，但是正因為這樣，更要好好的把握自己。感情經驗很稀薄的我們，比起走入社會或已經走入圍城的大姐姐們更需要認清自己，把握好自己，更需要懂得感情不是人生的全部，它只是我們人生的一個重要組成部分。所以千萬不要讓它占據了你為自己能力增值的時間。一定要理智，理智，再理智。

三、一定不要相信那些所謂的都市頹廢一族或某某小資寫的那些什么“我把你的名字寫在煙上，吸進肺里，放在離心最近的地方”，也不要相信“深夜買醉的女人與黑夜糾纏”之類的鬼話，從小到大都沒聞過煙味或抽過煙的女生，可以嘗試一次，但一定不要抽，更不要上癮，女生抽煙除了自己覺得很頹廢很小資，別人完全沒感覺，特別是男生會很反感，哪怕是女士煙也不要。至于喝酒，一定不要一個人買醉，特別不要為了某某某就心痛到爛醉，喝酒應該是在和朋友家人一起很開心的時候，而不是傷心的時候，何況女人喝醉酒的樣子，十個有八個是很難看的，更不要裝醉裝瘋，借酒大哭大笑發泄。也許你現在覺得的確短時間內可以抒發你內心的感受，但等你再過十年回憶起，你一定會覺得自己很傻。不過個人覺得女生還是要隱藏性的有一定酒量比較好，不一定要表現出來，但對你以后的工作和生活絕對有好處。

四、千萬不要做出以傷害自己健康為代價的事。女生一個人在外面讀書，家里人都很不放心我們，我們也很懂事，是爸爸媽媽的貼心小棉襖，我們知道生病了不要給家人說，受委屈了一個人承擔，我們一直對家里人“報喜不報憂”。那么，我們為什么要為了那個眼前所謂的深愛或最愛就要去吃避孕藥，甚至做人流、墮胎呢？愛情不是靠你犧牲了健康就可以換來幸福的，如果你所謂的“真愛”是真的愛你，真的疼惜你，就不會不關注你的健康。不要因為愛他就給他，無論任何事，做之前都應該想想后果如何，自己是否能夠承擔，如果不能承擔或是以傷害自己為代價，那么最好三思而行。也許熱戀中的你會提心吊膽的算安全期，這樣有必

要嗎？也許你會因為自己使用了所謂的新一代無副作用的避孕藥而倍感放心，是藥就有三分毒，避孕藥里面的雌性不規則激素會破壞我們身體自身的生理周期，讓荷爾蒙產生紊亂，從而因起月經不調，體重增加等等一系列的反應。同時更不要相信報紙上說的什么“安全無痛式人流”，那對于年輕的我們來說，簡直就是太不愛惜自己的表現。曾聽朋友開玩笑說做人流特別減肥。對，的確是很減肥，我所知道的周圍做過人流的女生都瘦了好多，但同時也感覺老了好多，皮膚變得很差，暗淡無光。并且我們更應該知道，人流之類的就是俗稱的“小產”，做過之后是很需要好好調養身體的，要有充足的休息時間和很好的營養上的搭配補充，和做月子沒什么兩樣。那么，做為學生的我們，在校讀書期間有這樣的條件和精力嗎？我知道的很多女生都是作完之后堅持上課，也許現在你還年輕覺得沒什么，但真正到了中年或身體免役能力開始下降的時候再來惋惜就晚了。所以，一定要考慮清楚，如果你的他真的值得你付出，那么一定要做好措施。

五、一定不要攀比。愛美之心人皆有之，女大更是十八變，需要精致的化妝品和美麗的衣服來裝扮自己。一直很喜歡一句話：沒有丑女人，只有懶女人。何況我們目前最好的裝飾就是我們的青春，只要你將你的青春風采和自信微笑都展示在臉上，你就一定會成為萬眾注目的焦點。一定不要為了讓同學羨慕，為了滿足自己那點小小的虛榮心，就讓自己的青春成為一個商品，任由自己揮霍出賣。陪聊、吧麗、公主、商務伴游。看了太多的關于這方面的有關女大學生的新聞，也聽聞自己認識的某某同學去怎樣怎樣，而且這些女生往往家庭條件不是最困難的，只是喜歡玩，喜歡攀比，更虛榮一點。真正生活困難的女生其實都很樸實。我有2個很要好的同學，來自很偏僻的農村，一個月的生活費就200元，穿的也實在是普通，但學習成績卻是很優秀，課余時間參加了學校的勤工檢學部，去給別人發一下傳單，做一做家教同樣很快樂。

六、讀書期間一定珍惜時間，因為你以后出去工作了就不會再有這樣大把的時間用在讀書上了。不喜歡的課你可以放一放，只要不掛課就行，但知識面一定要廣，一定要在自己專業以外選修2到3門其他專業的課。學校里經常有開專家教授的講座，不是本專業的一樣可以去聽，一定要把握好機會。最好能在讀書期間結識一兩個名師，因為人們常說：“讀萬卷書不如行萬里路，行萬里路不如閱人無數，閱人無數不如名師點悟”就是這個道理。讀書的方式很多，可以在網上下載，可以在圖書館。個人認為圖書館是大學里最值得去的地方，每個月給自己擬訂一個讀書的計劃，要讀什么書，讀多少本，并且一定要做讀書筆記，而且一定要是親手寫的，邊看邊記，邊看邊寫，把自己有感覺的都記下來，有空的時候翻一翻，對自己很有幫助。

七、讀書的時候一定要有3到4個關系很好的死黨。雖然大家都來自不同的地方，也知道在一起的時間就那么短短的4年，我們也深深的懂得人一生中的朋友是具有階段性的，但是作為女生，如果在大學里能夠有幾個可以交心的好朋友，那將會是你一生的財富。就我自己來說，我覺得我上大學最大的收獲就是認識了3個一輩子都不會忘的好朋友，我們4個來自不同的地方，四川、重慶、廣東、河北，但經過兩年的相處，彼此都有一種很親的感覺。而且每天的朝夕相處，你可以從每個人的身上學到很多東西。每個人都有自己的閃光點，你都可以在別人身上學到東西。并且在你受委屈的時候有人陪你。男人常說女人的天性就是嫉妒，女人之間是沒有真正友誼的。其實，如果你是女生，如果你在大學期間有那么幾個密友，你就會從心里反對這種說法。

八、一定要生活得精彩一點。你不喜歡課堂，那可以去參加學校的活動，去學生會，去社團；你不喜歡校園生活，那可以多參加一些社會實踐，多打工，多鍛煉一下自己。千萬不要認為別人說你文靜是在夸你，說白了就是說你這人很悶，很無趣，也許你男朋友會很喜歡你的恬靜，但社會不會認同你，你只有充分的將自己最美最有活力的一面展現出來，才是最好的。也不要太過于的張揚，你可以因為年輕而活潑，但你沒有資本囂張，過于張揚與跋扈，只會顯得太膚淺。20歲的女生不要有40歲女人的老沉，就算你想裝，你也沒資本可裝，因為你那蒼白的閱歷讓你的眼睛里面沒內容；同樣20歲的女生也不要還沉浸在12歲的時候一樣，你已經過了幼稚時期，不要故意裝可愛，一定要懂得對自己說過的話付責任。

九、一定要培養兩種自己真正感興趣的愛好。也許你中學時是只懂得埋頭學習的乖乖女，或者你喜歡跳舞，媽媽卻偏要你彈鋼琴。現在好了，有的時間自己支配，一定要好好的利用，一個星期抽2、3個晚上，好好的學一下自己想學的東西，興趣是最好的老師，我相信只要你喜歡，一定可以學得很快，畫畫、拉丁、舍賓、健美操、芭雷、游泳、網球甚至跆拳道、空手道、搏擊操、武術都可以，只要你喜歡就好，最好有機會的話一定都要接觸一下。

十、一定要聽家里人的話。這個世界上，永遠都對你好，不會背叛你的，就是和你有血緣關系的父母和你的孩子。父母永遠是站在你的立場為你考慮事情，并且他們有豐富的人生經驗，知道什么是該做的，什么是不該做的。不要嫌他們老土，不要嫌他們什么都不懂。他們才是最愛你的人，才是最關心你的人。不要在受傷害了，心痛了，沒地方可去了才想起回家，才習慣性的想到他們。永遠要記住，在你難受的同時，他們的心有可能正在滴血。特別因為你是女生，他們更不放心你。他們最怕的就是自己的女兒在外面受到傷害，最怕的就是女兒不

開心，不快樂。他們也許不在乎你有多大多大的成就，他們只在乎你的健康，只在乎從小被驕寵的你，有沒有好好照顧自己，有沒有因為起晚了而忘記吃早飯，有沒有因為減肥而不好好補充營養，有沒有......總之，在擁有青春美麗、神采飛揚的同時一定要在心里不斷的提醒自己：學會放棄，拒絕誘惑。

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