第一篇：情敵觀后感

【關雪燕《情敵》】讀后感，批判龔維葉為主，情敵觀后感。

【不做情敵，不做朋友，如果我伸出手，你愿不愿意來到我身邊。】----題記

“對不起......我下手重了點，可我絕對沒有要趕你走的意思。我只是--有點生氣，白天的事。”

“我說過，你不用走，我不會趕你走，就住在這里，我--我不會再隨便跟你發脾氣。”

文首，簡介

驕傲的天之驕子，從他出生的那一天起，就注定著不平凡的際遇。龐大的家族，嬌貴的獨子，得天獨厚的寵愛，金湯玉匙，錦衣華服，他從小就過著令多少人羨慕的生活。為了一個男人，他不惜放下身段，就因為他，龔維葉，有了一點將離開自己身邊的可能。

剛開始聽廣播劇就是這么一段，方琰的聲音別扭又倔強，其中透著隱隱的哀求。無法抗拒地，我找到了《情敵》的小說版。

《情敵》的主線，是一個女人，寧小凡。她由開始的俏皮直率，演變成無措哀傷，直到最后竟成為了心機深沉，再無快樂可言的悲哀婦女。而她，也是最終破壞兩個男主角修成正果的主導因素。

看文的過程就是一種對自己的深刻折磨。方琰的一切，都讓我不由自主地沉淪。文里，他已經偏離了貴公子的形象，因為龔維葉，他不要自尊，一而再再而三地告白懇求甚至對寧小凡下跪，只求她能放過龔維葉。他也是個有媽疼有爹愛的凡夫俗子，請問他是欠了誰？憑什么龔維葉可以隨隨便便就輕言放棄？憑什么龔維葉可以輕易收拾包裹讓方琰找遍全世界都找不到？在方琰說了那么多句我愛你，在方琰說了那么多句對不起，在方琰流淚之后...廣播劇里方琰絕望空靈的聲音一遍遍回蕩，“維葉，我不貪心了，我不求生生世世，就這一輩子，把你這一輩子給我行不行，我只要你這一輩子，到老，到死，我們都牽著手，好不好。我會給你最好的生活，絕不再罵你，不跟你打架，會做更多好吃的給你，維葉，我什么都不要你做，只用陪著我就好，只用一直陪在我身邊就好。即使離得遠一點，但我知道你一直都在，在我觸手可及的地方，只要轉個頭，只要開個門，我就能看到你。維葉，我只求這樣的生活，可以嗎？維葉......”“維葉，外面好冷，真的，我覺得好冷，我的膝蓋很疼。維葉，我們回家吧，回家就會暖和了，我給你焐身子，我給你捶背，維葉，跟我回家吧，維葉......”

而龔維葉呢？“不想再愛一個男人，不想不能站在陽光底下，不想連牽你的手都得偷偷摸摸，不想被人在背后指指點點......”“不想當別人問我你是誰時，只能尷尬地說你是情敵；不想明明有愛的人，卻還得裝作單身一人，被人說三道四；不想看你媽的臉色，不想再被她打，被她罵；不想連一張照片，只是站在一起的照片都不敢拿給別人看；不想連大聲喊出來，我愛你的勇氣都沒有......”“我不想再愛你了。”

此時此刻，我已經不想去想龔維葉說出這些話的時候，是否違心是否難受。我只知道，他不顧一切地傷害方琰，狠狠地，一次一次，全都是不留余地的，我想就算對待一個仇人也不過如此了，可是對象是愛他至深的方琰，就為了一個不愛他一心在別人身上的女人，一個蠢女人。他甚至放棄了曾經對方琰的承諾，十年、二十年、三十年、五十年、永生、永世...這樣的承諾。我不知道龔維葉為什么會忍心這么對待癡情如方琰這樣的男人，我只知我恨透了龔維葉，恨透了這薄幸的平凡的男人。龔維葉何德何能讓方琰如此傾心？他何德何能讓方琰，這樣一個從沒有嘗過人間心酸的玻璃王子一次又一次地陷入更深的絕望？

“我喜歡你，喜歡上你的平凡，放在人群中，也不會有人想看第二眼；喜歡上你的倔強，有時候跟我道個歉又能怎么樣，可你卻永遠學不會；喜歡上你的堅持，認定的事情就要一無返顧的去做，不在乎會不會受到傷害；喜歡上你的溫柔，只想要照顧別人的溫柔，卻不愿留點給自己。”“喜歡你身上怎么洗也洗不掉的淡淡的藥味。”

“我喜歡你，喜歡和你一起看電演的奇遇，被那么多煩人的女生團團圍住，是我一生從未有過的經歷；我喜歡你，喜歡和你在夜間一起看過的焰火晚會，喜歡你靠在我的肩頭，聽一夜冬海的歌聲；我喜歡你，喜歡你大口吃蛋糕的樣子，喜歡你毫無顧忌的吃掉我盤子里的青椒。”

“我喜歡你，喜歡和你一起打籃/a>的日子，喜歡那個每天見面的你，即使只是菜色簡單的小飯店，我也每天期待著和你相約的那個時間；我喜歡你，喜歡到在你不辭而別的新年里，整天魂不守舍，滿腦子都是你的影子，我喜歡你......”“我喜歡你，喜歡和你同居的那段日子，喜歡每天守著秒針的走動，只等下了班能立刻沖回家見到你；喜歡明明期待得要死，卻仍故作瀟灑地坐在沙發上，看著電視機上的雪花，聽著你轉動門鎖的聲音；喜歡聽你每天必備的‘我回來了’，好像那里就是屬于我們兩個人的家；喜歡和你一起去買菜；喜歡和你一起在廚房擺弄；喜歡吃你總也做不好、難以下咽的食物；喜歡你用沾滿泡沫的手將碗遞給我沖洗；喜歡你強迫的拉起我的胳膊，要我陪你一起去散步；喜歡和你一起坐在客廳的地板上，聽你嘰嘰喳喳地說著工作上的事；喜歡不知不覺地躺在你身邊，沉入夢里；喜歡這種生活化的感覺，喜歡我的生活里有你的影子，那么自然地溶進來，好像不曾分開過，讀后感《情敵觀后感》。我們在一起有多久，多久了呢？久到我已經不能再習慣沒有你的生活。那種寂寞，任何人也替代不了、填不滿的寂寞，只有你，只有你......喜歡坐在你身邊，剝好果殼遞到你伸手就能觸到的地方，喜歡看著耍賴窩在沙發里，眼睛一眨不眨盯著電視的你，自然地拾起，扔到嘴里。就只是這樣看著你，看著這樣的你，我就擁有裝下整個心臟的滿足，我就不會再覺得孤單......”“我喜歡你，喜歡和你一起在麥場守麥；喜歡聽你說小時候的故事；喜歡將你摟在我懷里，枕在我肩上，我想將你抱得更緊更緊，緊到你能看清我的心，看清你的心。我喜歡你，倔強的你、和我吵架的你、笨蛋一樣傻笑的你、溫柔的你、與我大打出手的你、眼里只有別人的你、忍讓著我的你。喜歡在一點點加深，撐過極限就是愛。即使一次次把我往外推，即使所有人都說不可以，不適合，可我還是愛上了你。已經變成了這樣的結果，跑到你身上的心無法收回。我該怎么辦？怎么要自己忘記你呢？我們都沒有錯，只是不小心愛上了，不小心讓自己陷進去了。想要退出的時候已經太晚太晚。如果我伸出手，你愿不愿意來到我身邊。”

方琰的一句一句我喜歡你，足以讓全世界為他淪陷，這么一大段的表白，只換來了可笑的離棄，換來了他摯愛的人的兩場讓他天崩地裂的婚禮。狼心狗肺的龔維葉，憑什么你能輕而易舉地放棄約定！放棄誓言！

“維葉……維葉……你看看我好不好……我是方琰……方琰……為什么到了這種時候……你的心里……還是沒有我……你的眼睛里……還是沒辦法裝下我……維葉……維葉……我求你看看我……維葉……維葉……我不怪你了……不再生你的氣了……維葉……我什么都不要了……你要去哪里……我都陪著你……好不好……你別再拋下我……這一次……別再拋下我……維葉……我愛你……”

甚至在受盡傷害后，方琰還要卑微地說出這種小小的哀求。他說，不要拋下我，是被拋下了多少次才能有這么懦弱的乞求？龔維葉，你有心嘛？你有感情這種人類該有的東西在嘛？

“整整一年，方大哥誰也認不清。他只記得我哥，只記得和我哥在一起的日子。他死死守著和我哥一起住過的房子，哪里也不去。他把自己折磨得人不人、鬼不鬼，方伯母、方伯父去看他，你知道他說什么嗎？嬸，他連自己的親生父母都認不清，他抓著方伯母的手說‘寧叔、寧嬸，求您，求您阻止他們，寧叔，求您，告訴我維葉在哪，寧嬸，求求您’；如果是年輕的女人，他就當成是子凡姐和我，不停說著把維葉還給他，告訴他維葉在哪！嬸，你知道我聽到這些話時。我有多恨自己嗎？嬸，是我們，是我們大家一起把方大哥變成那樣的。方大哥對我們所做的事的確很過份，可是，嬸，難道，我們就有權利去傷害他，而不允許他心里產生一點點恨嗎？嬸，將心比心，方大哥的家人，該有多恨我們啊！”

方琰瘋了，可是沒人放過他，龔維葉，寧小凡，還有寧家一大家子的幫兇！就連恭維雪都動容了，可是真正應該回心轉意的人卻還是鐵石心腸著。為了無關緊要的人，為了自己冥頑不靈的堅持。龔維葉啊，我只想說，你不配！

如果我伸出手，你愿不愿意來到我的身邊？鮮血淋漓的雙手還能承載什么重量？龔維葉的重量，你再也承受不起了，方琰。一時的牽手不代表能有你的生生世世，像這樣一個忘恩負義沒心沒肺的東西，怎堪讓你費盡心力苦苦相追？

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《情敵》---關雪燕

一個是英俊傲慢的富家大少，一個是平凡體貼的鄰家大哥，如果你是被他們同時愛上的清麗女主，你會選擇誰？

當你猶疑時，溫柔和浪漫同時降臨；

當你心中的天平開始偏向一方，有些感覺卻緩緩流失；

當你真正決定了選擇誰時，才發現，愛情……早已離去……

第二篇：電影《全民情敵》臺詞

Hitch

Basic principles: 基本原則

No woman wakes up saying: “God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today.” 沒有女人醒來，說：希望今天不會有帥哥追我

Now, she might say, “This is a really bad time for me.” 她可能會說：現在時機可能不對 Or something like, “I just need some space.” 或是這句，我需要一點空間 Or my personal favorite: 或我最喜歡的

“I'm really into my career right now.” 我正在全心發展事業 You believe that? Neither does she.你相信嗎，她也不信

You know why? Because she's lying to you, that's why.知道原因嗎？她在騙你 You understand me? Lying.聽懂了嗎，騙你的

It's not a bad time for her.She doesn't need any space.時機并沒有不對，她也不需要空間 She may be into her career...她也許專業事業 but what she's really saying is，“Get away from me now.” 但她其實是說|：給我滾開 Or possibly, “Try harder, stupid.” 或者再努力點，笨蛋 Well, which one is it? 到底是什么意思呢

60% of all human communication is nonverbal.人們勾通有六成不是靠說話 Body language.身體語言

30% is your tone.三成靠你說話的音調

So that means that 90% of what you're saying...那表示你傳答的意思有九成 ain't coming out of your mouth.不用嘴巴來說的 Toby!托比 Shit!糟了

Of course she'll lie to you.當然會騙你 She's a nice person，she doesn't wanna hurt your feelings.她是個好人，她不想傷害你 What else is she gonna say?

She doesn't even know you.她還能說什么，她跟你又不熟 Yet.還不熟

Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us...幸運地和我們一樣even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it.就算美女也不知道自己要做什么

And that's where I come in.這就是我的工作 My job is to open her eyes.我要讓她看清楚 Oh, my God!我的老天

Is this what you're looking for? 你在找它嗎

Basic principles: No matter what, no matter when, no matter who...基本原則：不論何事，不論何時，不論何人，any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet.任何男人都有機會迷倒任何女人 Just needs the right broom.只要方法正確

You cannot use what you do not have.你不能應用你沒有的東西 So if you're shy, be shy.If you're outgoing, be outgoing.保持自我，害羞的不要裝外向，外向的不要裝害羞，Nobody knows.-I'm good.Let me get a Bomb Pop and a Screwball for the lady.But what I can tell you，is that it happens in the blink of an eye.One moment, you're enjoying your life.And the next, you're wondering how you ever lived without them.Three dates is all I need.Three dates, and I'll get you here, to the high-stakes medal round...where eight out of women believe that the first kiss...will tell them everything they need to know about the relationship.After that, you're on your own.But always remember...life is not the amount of breaths you take.It's the moments that take your breath away.Did I call it or did I call it?

I mean, what did I say, six months? And when was her first date? So five-and-a-half?

God, I hate it when I'm right.What is it about guys that makes them want to screw anything that walks...even when they're going out with

someone as awesome as Allegra Cole? She's only the most fabulous thing walking around New York.Thanks, Young.Are you kidding? Of course I'm gonna run it.Why should she waste her heart on some Swedish aristo-brat? Even if he is gorgeous.If he's stupid enough to cheat...the world should know

he's dumb enough to get caught.Exactly.I'm in the elevator.See you in a minute.Good morning, how are you? Bitter, party of one.You should try it sometime.Barbados by myself?

I wouldn't last five minutes.It was just what the doctor ordered.I slept in, I did my yoga, I read a couple of books...flirted with my scuba instructor.-And apparently never left the office.I don't have time for a boyfriend.This couldn't wait.I don't want you here.You are becoming

a sick, workaholic lunatic...and this is exactly...the kind of nervous, overwrought behavior that leads to...Pictures of Sebby with a busty brunette.A very big raise.Jesus.You could find dirt in a snowstorm.Comes with the job.You know, kiddo, there is more to life than watching other people live it.Can I help he was cheating on my beach? I think it's great

that you're so good at your job.I'm just a little worried as to why.Let me worry about that.Okay.I want that column on my desk by lunch.So you'll pay for my hotel? For you to sip mai tais? I don't think so.Get out.What?

-That's good, right?

-No.No, it was in and it freaked out.You know what your problem is, Hitch? You're all about the short game.You pick your shots

based on what you see first...not what's necessarily best for you...in the long run.All of us are not married to the woman of our dreams and about to have a baby.You know, I'm very happy for you.Just not meant for everybody.So please just leave me to my hot, sweaty...totally varied, wildly experimental short game.-I was talking about pool, but whatever.Is this really barroom talk?

-You need to listen to me.I'm serious.Because when you get to a place with a woman like that...it's so beyond anything physical that...when I think back to

when I used to run around with you...and chase all these really gorgeous but shallow women...I don't know, it's kind of ridiculous and vaguely pathetic.Yeah, I see what you mean.That's pathetic.So, how'd you meet him? I was in La Perla

just buying some weekend thongs.No.Actually, he said he was buying something for his mom.His mom?

Casey, who buys high-priced lingerie for their mother?

Well, maybe he was looking for a robe.Casey, he was hitting on you while

he was buying lingerie for another woman.Why not?

-Because that's how you wind up...Like me? Is that what you were gonna say? No.I was gonna say, “Like you.” Why?

-I'm gonna Google him.So when is Grace due again?-What'd you say?

Do you want me to go get them and bring them over here? No, don't do that.Are you saying you don't wanna talk to them because you can't go home with them?

I'm just trying to keep my head above water.Urban myth.Absolutely.I was hoping he also helped women.Casey, you're not sick.You're single.You just have to relax and enjoy the ride.I haven't been ridden in months.On that happy note, I'm gonna go see if anybody interesting came in tonight.Right.Bye.I'll go get those girls, bring them over here...and we'll have a conversation like human beings.Then you're gonna home，and I'll take them back to my apartment.Well, that sounds like fun for me.But you might want to get in line, pal.I knew you didn't work here.I'm Alex.So does she know you're interested? Here, take mine.-Albert, you're crushing my arm.Sorry about that.Here you go, Allegra.Allegra? As in Allegra Cole?

Yeah, I realize that I'm not her usual type.Well, her last boyfriend owned Sweden or something.And that guy was a bum.He didn't seem like

a very nice person to me.You swing for the fence.Look, you don't think I tried talking myself out of this? I mean, you don't think I know

how ridiculous this is? I know, okay? I just thought that maybe with your help...Excuse me, sir.That's quite enough!Sit down...-No!You know what? I quit!Oh, my God.Just breathe.How'd it go?

I yelled at her.I screamed at my boss!I quit my job!-You said...-I gotta go back.-No, I didn't tell you to quit.Relax.Okay, listen, we're fine.Albert, no!

Just relax!Okay?

-Just let it marinate for a second.Trust me.Answer it.-Could I speak to you a second? Close your mouth, man.Let me rephrase that.People never talk to me like that.Stand up.I guess it's kind of scary for them.But that's why I really appreciate what you did in there.But I was wondering...do you think that you and I could get together sometime this week? You know, to go over things.Financial things.I'd like to see the areas

where I can afford to take some risks.I'll check my schedule.Great.Let me give you my number.Do you have a pen? I don't think I have one.Great.And call me Allegra.-You're done.What's your name? You have fantastic eyes.Thanks.Try to listen.This is no reflection on you.I'm just not interested.But thank you for the compliment of coming over.You're welcome.So do you like Cuban food?

Chip, seriously, that was not code for, “I wish you'd try harder.”

Are you always so shut-down and afraid that the right man might make you...Feel like a natural woman? Sorry I'm late, honey.I couldn't get a cab.How was the meeting? Well, there was a beginning, a middle, and an end.Nice to meet you, Chip.You, too.On the one hand，it is very difficult for a man...to even speak to someone who looks like you.But on the other hand，should that be your problem? So life's kind of hard all around.Not if you pay attention.You're sending all the right signals: no earrings, heels under two inches, your hair is pulled back...wearing reading glasses with no book, drinking a Grey Goose martini...which means you had a hell of a week and a beer just wouldn't do it.If that wasn't clear enough...there's always the “fuck off”

that you have stamped on your forehead.Who'd believe there's a man out there that can sit by a woman he doesn't know...and genuinely be interested in who she is, what she does, without his own agenda? I wouldn't even know what that would look like.So what would a guy like that say? He'd say, “My name is Alex Hitchens and I'm a consultant.”

But she wouldn't be interested in that...because she'd be counting the seconds until he left.Thinking he was like every other guy.Which, life experience has taught her, is a virtual certainty.But then he'd ask her name and what she did for a living...and she might blow him off.Or she might say...I'm Sara Melas.I run the gossip column at the Standard.And then he'd ask

all these penetrating questions about her...because he was sincerely, if atypically, interested.No.he could possibly make her realize that he was for real.Well, he could be funny and charming and refreshingly original.Wouldn't help.-Don't you hate it when that happens? No, I'm fine, thank you.So, tell me about her.Have you ever met someone...and you knew right away

she was gonna be important to you? Not just because of her looks, but that X factor.How'd you meet her? Actually, I was in a shop buying pajamas for my mom.And by that, of course, you mean...you were buying lingerie for another woman.Yes.You can't help

where you meet somebody.And the lingerie is for a woman I'm no longer seeing.But anyway, the girl I met, the one I was talking about...she's so sweet, funny, Southern.She gives me her number.Now she won't return my phone calls.I don't know what it is about her.I just can't get her out of my mind.You know, food has lost its taste.Colors, they seem dull.Things that used to matter...I don't know, they just no longer do.I think things aren't gonna snap back unless I...Unless I bang her.Excuse me?

You know, bang her.Clear my head.Get in, get off, get out.I think you may have misunderstood what I do exactly.No, I was told you help guys get in there.Right.But, see, here's the thing.My clients actually like women.Hit it and quit it is not my thing.Let me make one thing clear to you, rabbi.I need professional help.Well, that is for damn certain.And I'm glad you can admit it

because generally that's the hardest part.You see what I'm doing? This is what I'm about.Power suit, power tie, power steering.People can wince, cry, beg，but eventually they do what I want.So that's, like, a metaphor.Well, I'm more of a literal kind of guy.So when I do this...this is more like me saying

that I will literally break your shit off...if you ever touch me again.Okay, pumpkin? Got it.No.Pablo, I can't just mention your restaurant.Somebody has to eat there.No, somebody famous.You know that.No.Okay.Bye.I need your signature.I hate it when a guy calls a girl who did not give him her number.So this is me not calling.Over.Hello? Good morning.-“Good” would have been at :.You're a lot taller than I remember.You ever ride one of these? Not on the Hudson.So, what do you wanna do?

Race me around the Statue of Liberty? If there's time.-But you might need these.Bam.Straight shot to where?

-That's for me to know and you to find out.What you do with these babies is...Yeah, what I do with this baby is kick your ass.-What happened? You change your mind? I didn't break it.It just died.Scoot back.-Hitch, I'm already here.But you don't know where we're going.Why don't you tell me? Then we'll both know.Man, male egos.I don't know how you guys

make it through the day with them.What? It is not my ego.I just don't want to ruin the surprise.I'm sorry.Are you all right?

There.I always keep a few of those around.Thank you.I have lower back trouble.I just shove the ice packs right down there.No.That's a fresh one.So, Ellis Island.I have to admit, I have lived in New York my whole life and I've never been here.I figured that.Most people haven't.So I got my man Larry here to set us up a private tour.Are you serious? That count? Really? What?

-What was that thing?

No.You know, I was just thinking...you can't really know where you're going until you know where you've been.Amen, brother.That's kind of deep for a first date, don't you think?

What is that? Oh, my God!

That's my great-great-grandfather.That's his signature.Jesus, it's right here!How did you know?

Hitch did the search.I just found the page.I'm sorry.I saw that going differently in my mind.So my family never saw him again.Well, except for on the Wanted posters.Look, I'm really sorry.When I saw it on the computer, it said, “the Butcher of C醞iz.” I thought it was a profession, not a headline.It's just one of those horrible family legacies we've all tried to forget.But thank you.No, it was...No.Let me get you a cab.Thanks.Bye-bye.Taxi!Poor guy.Sounds like he went to a lot of trouble.It was fun.In a disastrous kind of way.I mean, this isn't exactly a hickey.At least you got a good story out of it, right? Right?

-You should try mine, it's great.Yes.Hello, Miss Cole? One moment, please.Just moving some things around.Sky Studios.Tonight I'm actually going

to this fashion thing at Sky Studios.Designer friend.I just thought it might be something

your designer friend would be interested in.Yeah, definitely.Well, great.Then I will put you back on with my...Miss Cole, this way.Great.One more.No.-I know, I'm not.I'm saying that you are an iceberg...in that over %% of your mass is below the surface.I know I'm heavy.I am.I'm talking about who you are.It's a metaphor.Accounting, business...all of that is just a small part of a much deeper, richer Albert.One more.It's gonna be loud in there...so this is our opportunity to break the touch barrier...in a non-sleazy way.So get to where it's loudest.Ask her if she'd like a drink.Lean in, place your hand on the small of her back...and say it in her ear like a secret.Watch your hand placement.Too high says, “I just wanna be friends.” Too low says, “I just wanna grab some ass.” Friends.Ass.Me.Special issues: Allegra Cole is a celebrity...which means that when people talk to her, they'll ignore you completely.She's classy, so she'll introduce you.When she does, shake hands hard

and speak up.Let them know you're there.Show her you can handle being her escort.How you doing? Nice to see you.These guys are friends with Maggie.No, but I am...It's disgusting.I'm writing an article about it.Did you see the new installation at MOMA? Disgusting.Women can always tell

when you're not being real with them.Worst thing you can do is try to fake it, because you are a great guy.And you do have something

to offer Allegra that no other man does.What was your name? Eggnog? Egon.What do you think of the design of the Jets' new football stadium on the West Side? Let me guess.Disgusting? Think it over.We'll be back.Thank you.I can't stand those guys.Really? I kind of liked them.But when all is said and done...tonight is not about Allegra.No, you're not.You have very soft hands.Thank you.So tonight, you focus on one thing and one thing only.Maggie.-Where does your inspiration come from? Is he gay?

-I don't think so.I like him.About the deejay.Generally, I have a firm no-dancing policy.But if she asks, you cannot say no.I'm not worried about dancing.But if there are people there...I'm sorry, I hate to be a stickler, but I need to be thorough.Show me what you mean

by you're not worried about it.Trust me.You know what I'm gonna do.That's what it's all about, right there.See how it gets bigger?

Now I'm gonna start the fire.But the feet are going.I start the fire, I make the pizza.Hips are always going.Can't get enough hip.From there, the Q-Tip.Q-Tip.Throw it away.That's not working, hit them with this.Don't ever...do that again.Do you hear me?

-Just expressing myself.I'm really sorry.She was there?

-I left you a bunch of messages.My phone fell in the Hudson.Yeah, well, it gets worse.I don't believe this.-I thought he was a bodyguard.-I'm the only one who will need protection.Tell me how this happened.-What? There were some photographers.Does this even look like dancing to you? That's just a little bit of me being me.No, that's you being a lot of something you don't need to ever be again.No.One dance, one look, one kiss.That's all we get, Albert.Just one shot to make the difference...between happily ever after and: “Oh, he's just some guy

I went to some thing with once.” All right? She has? It's a very big deal!What do you mean?

-Just show me how you would kiss me.I wouldn't kiss you.I'm not me, I'm Allegra.But you're really not, so...Okay, Albert, end of the night, you're dropping me off at home.You see what I'm doing? For how long?

-As long as it takes...for her to come the other %%.Okay, %%What the hell was that? So you invited Albert? Yeah.He's too much of a player

to have a bad date on his record.Is this a source or a date? A source.Well, it sounded like a date.Well, it was supposed to.So it looks like a date and it sounds like a date...Yeah.Right.Just checking.Hi.I wasn't sure you got my message.I wasn't sure you called the right guy.You must be a glutton for punishment.Either that or I really wanna pay you back.I think this is yours.Thank you.I'm gonna frame this for my wall of shame.Really? There's a whole wall? So what are we getting into? Ever been to a food rave before?

Happens once a month, all around the city.Different chefs, different venues.You any good in the kitchen? I can stand the heat, if that's what you mean.Good.Because that's my boss and his wife right over there.Interesting.Well, here's a concept:

We're paying to cook our own food.Here's another concept: Shut up.It's an evening out.The longer you're married, the less you go out.In a couple of years, we're gonna end up bricked into our apartment like a Poe story.So, Louise, are you

in the newspaper business, also? No, I'm a psychiatrist.Well, that's the last thing I'm gonna say tonight.So, Sara, you never told me.How was the Sky Studio fashion thing you went to the other night?

Did you meet anyone worth mentioning? No.Really? I find that very odd.My friends who and who? I don't.-So you know Albert? Compliments of our chef.Are you all right? I know what's happening.Wow.Aisle.-Which one's Aisle ?

-The one with the big over it.Sara, I'm fine.-You sure it's in Aisle ? What? Are you...Coquille St.Jacques.Death on a leaf!Come on!

Okay, we're doing fine.Just a couple more blocks and you get to lie down.Wait, who sings that song again? Oh, girl.Earth, Wind & Fire.You should let them sing it.I bet this would be great on the rocks.It's good, right? I bet I can ask you

just about anything right now.No.I'm a vault, baby.Locked down.What is an heiress doing with a CPA? They're going to the Knicks game.Yep, Fort Knox.He loves her so much!I'm sure he does.I'm telling you, people search

their whole lives trying to find the...Reasons that we're here I wouldn't know.You would if you saw it.Sometimes it's really hard

to see the forest through the sleaze.What about you? You ever been in love? Yep.But you're never gonna know that.Okay, I think you've had enough of the juice box.Let's go.This is some place.You live here alone?

Yeah.I actually prefer it that way.What about you?

I haven't had a roommate since college, and he upped and married my sister.Good.Relaxed.So what about you? Any siblings? Sister.Maria.Lives in D.C.Younger, right?

I could hear it in your voice.Sort of an innate protective thing.Yeah, I guess.What?

She almost died once.I was.We were skating on the pond behind our house...and she fell through the ice.My dad pulled her out.Gave her mouth-to-mouth.Longest three minutes of my life.Yeah, I'm sure.I don't think I've ever really gotten over it.Kind of defines you, doesn't it? You know like，one moment you're gliding along...the next moment you're standing in the rain watching your life fall apart.Except it was snow.Yeah.That's what I said, “snow.” You said “rain.”

Some kind of precipitation.Is that what happened to you? Nothing as dramatic

as falling through the ice.You know...it definitely...Left a scar? Yeah.I guess it's best just not to love at all, right? Or skate.Are you here?

Sara, you're such an idiot!You moron!What the hell did you think?

You're so stupid!You gotta learn, Sara.Should I come back later? Hi.I thought you left.Well, I did，but then I came back with breakfast.I figured it was the least that I could do.I didn't know what you were drinking...so I got a grande cap, a latte, an Earl Grey tea...and something with “chai” in the title.Tea for me.Tea.Yes!I was hoping you'd say that.Oh, God.You're a morning person, aren't you? Well, like I always tell my clients:

Begin each day as if it were on purpose.Yeah.-Beautiful girl.I'm so stupid.I ignored your advice.I went on that date.With who?

Not the lingerie guy.Vance Munson.And you're right, there's no way he ever had a mother.That bad?

He took me to Scalinatella，and he was affectionate and sweet.He told me all these intimate things, like how he can't taste food...and he wants three kids.So you slept with him.I never seen anybody get dressed that fast.Case, I'm so sorry.-Maybe I'll just die alone after all.What does that mean?

-It means he's really out there.And if I ever meet him, the only date he's gonna need is with a real doctor.That's him.Vance, is that you?

Yeah, hey there, beautiful.Sara Melas, from the Standard.I'd like to discuss

the dating consultant you hired...before you went out with Casey Sedgewick.You don't wanna talk, that's fine.I'm going to write this anyway.You just earned yourself a photo with a boldface caption.What? Nice.I can only imagine how the trading floor guys will react when they see this.You have no proof, no facts.Vance, I'm a gossip columnist, not the DA.Okay, how much will it cost me to stay out of this?

I don't want money.I want a name.Well, what do you know? I know this.All this for a lousy lay.Are we satisfied? Almost.No, you...You got to be...Is this really necessary? Have you seen your back?

No, but I see my front and maybe

we should be starting with some sit-ups.God!Mother of Troy!Hello?

That's crazy.Just hearing your voice makes me smile.How are you? I'm good, I think.No, actually, you know what? I feel a little strange.I'm good.Sweet Georgia Brown!What was that?

No, that's just some guy screaming.Listen, is there any context...under which you'd consider facial edema and pharmaceutical intervention a date? Probably not.How about a do-over?

-What do you have in mind? That's a makeover show? Bye.-See, it wasn't so bad, was it? here early in the first quarter.“This” being?

Great seats, great game.Great date.I mean, sort of.To me, it feels like a...Yeah.Look at her.She looks so happy.How does a guy like that end up with a girl like her? I am so jealous.I've always wanted to be able to do that.Really? Tonight is your lucky night.Let's see what you got.Okay.You ready? It's fine.Knicks off to a great start...All right, here's how it works.Central Park Zoo, tomorrow, noon, by the sea lions.No, don't worry.I'll find you.All right.Thank you.It's all right.I'm sorry.Damn me.That was it!You got it.Do it again.Look how cute they are.Thanks.I had a great time tonight, Albert.I had a great time, too, Allegra.Good night.Good night, Albert.Yes? Hold on.I like your lips.They seem to like you, too.Good night.Good night.Not yet.But I got some great shots of you biting your nails.Well, it's a big story.Really?

Yep.They're shaking hands.This is so great.I can't wait to nail this guy.Make sure you get a good shot of his face.Albert Brennaman.Excellent guy.What? Sara.-Pleasure to meet you, Geoff.Albert Brennaman.Excellent guy.You sure you want to do this? Why wouldn't I?

Louise made an interesting observation on the way home the other night.She said people who are guarded are afraid...that you can see right through them.That's why they hide behind layers of secrecy or humor.He'll have to hide behind a lot more than that once this hits the fan.She meant you.What do you want me to say? That I like the guy?

Yeah, sure, I liked the guy.Well, here's his shirt.-Why don't you think about it? Call me.No, that's okay.Sure.So, Hitch.Is that a noun or a verb? I guess it depends.Let's see, what should we toast to? Never lie, steal, cheat, or drink.But if you must lie，lie in the arms of the one you love.If you must steal，steal away from bad company.If you must cheat, cheat death.And if you must drink...drink in the moments

that take your breath away.Did you just make that up? Make yourself at home.I'm gonna check on the risotto.Look at this!Which one's the music? It does lights, too?

Let me help you out with that.Now, this is nifty.What are you doing?

How does it work, exactly? Well, usually you have dinner, then you have dessert.No, I mean your thriving business.I don't do interviews.But if you'd like to get back to the evening, I'd be happy to sit and talk.Great idea.You start.Well, maybe I would if you weren't snarling.What if I told you...that I know exactly what you do and how you do it?

And I think it's despicable!You know what?

We might need to go out to dinner.There's a great seafood restaurant I'd love to take you to.How about you just get a cleaver, butcher? You put them there!I'm telling you, that's him.-He doesn't look anything like him.No.I want you to look me in the eye and tell me that he did not hire you.Ma'am, I have never seen this man before in my life.See you later, Tony.Tony? You have got

some serious explaining to do.Albert.Hitch.You all right? I can't really talk right now.I'm kind of tied up.One, two.On three.Women will remain seated.Men will rotate to the left at the buzzer.You get two minutes each, four minutes total.So trade your talk time when you hear...the gong.If it's mutual, you get numbers.If not, better luck next time, okay? Ladies, take your seats.Case, you are a living testimonial

to the triumph of hope over experience.Thanks for coming.I know it's lame.I'm sure it's the last thing you feel like doing.I really prefer Rachmaninoff

to the heavier romantic composers.But despite the pan-Germanic anti-Semitism...I'd still have to say my favorite is Wagner.Thank you.Bye.Bye.Excuse me.That's my seat, man.My name is Ron.I'm.Albert Brennaman is a good man.In fact, Albert Brennaman is a great man.I just got out of a five-year relationship.I'm a lot of fun at parties.I like dogs...And then you're mad at me for what I do for a living? I've already got your number...so why don't you go consult your conscience? Just like Sebastian? No, just one sec.-What do you have against Allegra anyway? You don't even know me.Apparently not.You're in my seat.You really...I'm doing you a favor, believe me.Basically, I like outdoor sports.But indoor sports have their place, too.There are certain aspects of my job that are secretive.And my job is to try to find the truth.The truth? You wouldn't know the truth if it kicked you in the head.If Albert Brennaman has to take a fall for it,-so be it.Why don't you say

what's really pissing you off? I've been waiting to talk to her...-You want to sit down? Here you go.Gong!I'm Casey.Thank you.Case, you're not helping.Excuse me, I'm on you are terrific oh~~my gosh!thk u chif Excuse me, I'm on a date

Does it ever occur to women that maybe a guy might like to have a plan… Because he’s nervous

He’s not sure that he could just walk up to you and you’d respond if he said: I like you

That’s sounds good to me, ture, you can’t tell them you like them I tried that.It didn’t go well.I’ve crashed and burned on that.That is what you did, and I did like you.I just didn’t know I was being worked over by some professional.He doesn’t have a badge.The only time he was sincere or spontaneous…[ sp?n'teinj?s,-ni?s ] a.自發的,自然產生的Was when everything was going wrong or when you were stoned out of your head.I’m sorry to interrupt.Do I know you? No, I don’t think so.You want to see me be spontaneous? Sure, you want a benadry!This is kind of distracting.And I haven’t gotten laid in a year!We’re sorry, why don’t you guys get back to your date? Or go somewhere Maybe from the bank Is this doesn’t work out, call him.He might hook you up with Paris Hilton.Wait, that’s it.You’re the Date Doctor, right?

You’re the Date Doctor? – do we have a problem here? Yeah, a big one!What the hell did I ever do to you? Am I missing something?

Sir, I’m gonna have to ask you to leave.Why don’t you go hit a titty bar with your buddy Vance? Wow.I don’t believe this.that’s your source? You buried yourself, Alex.Then you weren’t listening.I heard every word.You are a scam n.詭計,故事artist.You trick women into getting…don’t worry about it.We’re straight.扯平了

I should’ve asked you.But sometimes you’re so guarded.充滿戒心

I just don’t wanna be another reason for you to…

I’m not someone who like to get involved past a certain point.And that point was about a week ago.Well, I just want to say I’m really sorry…and i didn’t meant to hurt you.You didn’t.– That’s relief.放松，解脫了

Hey, fella.Yeah, good.You? What you got there?

This? I figured maybe if my heart stops beating, it wouldn’t hurt so much.She hasn’t called back? You want some coffee? I want you to fix it.I got nothing, Albert.You wanna do something? We should get out tonight.Honestly, I never knew I could feel like this.I swear I’m going out of my mind.I wanna throw myself off of every building in New York.I see a cab and I wanna die in front of it, because then I’ll stop thinking about her.Look, you will.Just give it time.That’s just it.I don’t want to.I’ve waited my whole life to feel this miserable.a.悲慘的,痛苦的If this is the only way I can stay connected with her… Then this is who I have to be.No, you don’t.you can change, you can adapt.You can make it so you don’t ever have to feel like this.Ever again.Oh, my god.You just don’t get it , do you? – I get it.Let me get this straight.You’re selling this stuff, but you don’t believe in your own product.Love is my life.– No, love is your job.You wanna jump out a plane without a chute滑梯, be my guest.But forgive me if I don’t join you.This isn’t about love for you at all, is it?

This whole time, I thought I was the coward.懦夫

Where you going? – skydiving.Miss Cole, thank you very much for seeing me.You said it was a matter of life and death.That man would’ve sold his soul to make you happy.So what does that make you, the devil?

My job is not to deceive, Miss Cole.It’s to create opportunities.Like the boardroom?

Would you have noticed him otherwise? – yes.Really? – eventually.Maybe.How did you know all that stuff about me? Well, you really did your homework

Like at boarding school when everyone used to tease me because I couldn’t whistle.And having him dance like a buffoon [ b?'fu:n ] n.丑角,缺乏教養knowing that I can’t dance, either.Then telling him to drop mustard on his shirt, so I’d feel less like a dork.笨蛋

That was all you, right?

No.hell, no.– what was him?

That’s got Albert written all over it.Did you put him up to the inhaler?過濾器

Stop it.He did not show you that.He chucked it right before he kissed me.So, wait… that stuff worked for you? It was adorable.What did you do? – Nothing.Absolutely nothing.That’s good.This was your plan the whole time? – Albert.You sail off into the sunset with my girl

之人-

You were like a brother to me!He came here for you.– who? The guy you’re choking.a.I love you.I really love you.I love you more, I really do.I got somewhere I gotta go.Yeah!Who is it? – Hitch.Can I talk to you? What? – You almost hit me.Look, I just wanted to stop by, basically.See, this is the thing.This is weird.I don’t have me behind the door, you know.Close your mouth.Because I knew at some point I’d be…

Right here.But I thought that… everything would come out, but it’s like… That’s throwing me off.不太自在

Can we close the door? – what? – I’m sorry.Just, can we… I just need… Are you serious? – no, just like this.What do you want, Hitch?

You.For a whole lot of reasons that don’t make any sense to me.I mean, what, we’ve been on three dates? See, that’s what’s crazy.That’s what’s crazy, because I know.I know deep… Like just down, just in this area….that I just know…

That I want… I want to be miserable.Like really miserable.痛苦的Cause hey, if that’s what it takes for me to be happy then… Wait, that didn’t come out right.What the hell is wrong with you? – nothing, no, not you.I’m talking to me.I’ll just put this in the car.Maybe it’s like what you said.We should just both go our separate ways and then we’ll do just fine.What if fine isn’t good enough? What if I want extraordinary? – no such thing.I’m just as scared as you are, Sara.But I’m right here, and our time is right now.Well, what about before?

I am a guy.Since when do we get anything right the first time?

I’m a realist, and I know what love does to people.No, you don’t.– keys.There you go.Right here.I don’t know who this is , and I don’t care.What I do know is he’ll never feel about you the way that I do.You know how to drive a stick? – both of you, shut up!You okay? – yeah.No, I’m fine.You’ll never be fine, and neither will i Maybe I should drive.Are you trying to get yourself killed? If that’s what it takes.-Sara, what happened?

He jumped on the car.– why?

Because that’s what people do.They leap and hope to god they can fly.Because otherwise… we just drop like a rock… Wondering the whole way down:

Why in the hell did I jump? But here I am, Sara, falling.And there’s only one person that makes me feel like I can fly.That’s you.So, you kind of like me? – no, I love you.I love you , and I knew it from the first… If I say it back now, it’ll sound so stupid.This is the guy I was telling you about, Hitch, that’s my sister, Maria.And that’s her husband, Tom.Where’s your date? Don’t have one.I know.Shocking, huh?

Oh, my god.Are you all right? Grandma, what happened?

This young lady just saved my life.Ask her to dance.Well, if you insist.And this… forget it, just go.Basic principles: There are none.Excuse me, I'm on a date.Does it ever occur to women that maybe a guy might like to have a plan...because he's nervous?

He's not sure that he could just walk up to you and you'd respond if he said:

“l like you.”

-That sounds good to me.-True, you can't tell them you like them.-I tried that.It didn't go well.-I've crashed and burned on that.That is what you did, and I did like you!

I just didn't know I was being worked over by some professional.He doesn't have a badge.The only time he was sincere or spontaneous...was when everything was going wrong or when you were stoned out of your head.-I'm sorry to interrupt.Do I know you?-No, I don't think so.-You wanna see me be spontaneous?-Sure, you want a Benadryl?

This is really kind of distracting.And I haven't gotten laid in a year!

We're sorry.Why don't you guys get back to your date?

Or go somewhere.Maybe from the bank?

If this doesn't work out, call him.He might hook you up with Paris Hilton.Wait, that's it.You're the Date Doctor, right?

-You're the Date Doctor?-Do we have a problem here?

Yeah, a big one!What the hell did I ever do to you?

Am I missing something?

Sir, I'm gonna have to ask you to leave.Why don't you go hit a titty bar with your buddy Vance?

Wow.I don't believe this.That's your source?

You buried yourself, Alex.Then you weren't listening.I heard every word.You're a scam artist.-You trick women into getting---lnto getting out of their own way...so great guys like Albert Brennaman have a fighting chance.No, I want everybody to take a good look at this right now.Because this right here...this is exactly why falling in love is so goddamn hard.Sir, let's go.Now.And Vance Munson is a pig!

And I refused to work with him.You need to get your facts right.It's because of jerks like him that I even have a job.Had a job.Can you believe that guy?

Actually, I do.You...complete me.-I might just have---Shut up.Just shut up.You had me at “hello.”

No comment.This is off the record.I came to apologize.I made some assumptions about you...based on nothing, it turns out.-I guess Casey's right.My best friend---Don't worry about it.We're straight.I should've asked you.But sometimes you're so guarded.I just don't wanna be another reason for you to--

I'm not someone who likes to get involved past a certain point.And that point was about a week ago.Well, I just want to say I'm really sorry...and I didn't mean to hurt you.You didn't.That's a relief.-Hey, fella.-Yeah, good.You?

What you got there?

This? I figured maybe if my heart stops beating, it wouldn't hurt so much.She hasn't called back?

You want some coffee?

I want you to fix it.I got nothing, Albert.You wanna do something? We should get out tonight.Honestly, I never knew I could feel like this.I swear I'm going out of my mind.I wanna throw myself off of every building in New York.I see a cab and I wanna dive in front of it, because then I'll stop thinking about her.Look, you will.Just give it time.That's just it.I don't want to.I've waited my whole life to feel this miserable.If this is the only way I can stay connected with her...then this is who I have to be.No, you don't.You can change, you can adapt.You can make it so you don't ever have to feel like this.Ever again.Oh, my God.You just don't get it, do you?

I get it.Let me get this straight.You're selling this stuff, but you don't believe in your own product.-Love is my life.-No.Love is your job.You wanna jump out a plane without a chute, be my guest.But forgive me if I don't join you.This isn't about love for you at all, is it?

This whole time, I thought I was the coward.-Where you going?-Skydiving.Taxi!

Mr.Hitchens.Miss Cole, thank you very much for seeing me.You said it was a matter of life and death.That man would've sold his soul to make you happy.So what does that make you, the devil?

第三篇：營銷“情敵”交鋒的談判技巧

營銷“情敵”交鋒的談判技巧

很多時候，女人的直覺超級準確。當你感覺發生了什么，要好好跟他或她談談的欲望會無比強烈，可是怎樣開口才能既不激化矛盾又表達你最真實、嚴肅的想法呢？

我們支招教你勇闖3關，提高危機時刻的談話智商--第一關：談話時機 謝麗29歲會計

第一次參加男友單位的出游活動，我驚訝地發現有一雙眼睛滿含醋意地盯著我。男友幫我拎包時、光著腳背我過河時、掏腰包給我買水晶吊墜時，其他同事打趣開玩笑，那個女人則郁郁寡歡。最讓我生疑的是，男友趁我不注意，主動跑去討好她，她不理不睬，分明就是一個戀愛中吃醋的女人。

我決定跟男友談一次，弄清他們到底是怎么回事，同時也敲敲他的警鐘。沒料到他死不承認，反倒怪我小心眼兒、無中生有、不信任他。

“她高興不高興跟我有什么關系，你可真是莫名其妙。你不相信直接去問她好了！”他這一番搶白，倒讓我不知說什么好了。謝麗談話智商得分：70

把脈：謝麗談話智商分數偏低的主要原因，是她沒有掌握好談話時機。

A謝麗發現一點小小異常后馬上與男友談話，危險之處在于也許男友跟那個女同事沒什么關系，你這一提醒，他才發現原來公司里有人暗戀自己。

B從自述來看，謝麗掌握的證據不過是一些自我感覺與猜測。通常，男人最反感的就是妻子或女友捕風捉影地抓住一點兒小事沒完沒了。這種情況，他們定會誓死反抗，讓你下不了臺。男人們很清楚，縱容這些小疑心，自己就永無寧日。談話時機三原則

1、無論你多么相信你的第六感，也請在發現“問題”三次后再與他談話。這樣才不冤枉他，也給自己一段消化問題、冷靜思考的時間。除非一開始發現的就是致命環節，比如當街擁吻甚至捉奸在床。話說回來，如果發現了此類問題，咱也沒什么好談的了。

2、男女之間相處久了，有一點點曖昧其實難免，尤其在你火眼金睛的注視下。因此，發現曖昧之后，別大驚小怪地立刻斷定感情危機到來了。跟你最要好的朋友聊聊你的倒霉發現，請她幫忙分析一下，你是不是神經過敏，這樣的“小事”有沒有必要鄭重跟他談。

3、即使天塌下來也要給自己至少一天冷靜時間。第一時間談話，你當然比較沖動，沖動說出來的往往是主觀“不講理”的話，難以以德服人。第二關：話題切入點 小文33歲管理人員

我老公出差時，手機占線。鬼使神差的我撥打他女秘書的電話，居然也是占線。這樣的狀況一直持續著，直到一個多小時后，兩部手機同時通了。我打通老公的電話興師問罪。他語氣明顯慌亂，安慰我半天。見我不依不饒，突然來了個大轉彎，說跟女秘書談工作很正常，既然我這樣疑心，以后每次通話都錄下來給我聽好了。最后，他總結了五點跟女秘書談話的內容(當然都與工作有關)。我心里很清楚，男上司和女秘書深夜通電話這么久是不正常的，可他一口咬定為了工作，有理有據。我說左，他說右，誰也沒有說服對方的證據，大吵了一架！小文談話智商得分：80

把脈：女人不是生來就知道怎么跟有可能外遇的男人談話，不可避免的一個錯誤就是以“你與她究竟是什么關系，你為什么要跟她這樣那樣”為切入點。開始已經將危機談話引入歧途，男人不可能承認他和她有什么不正當關系(即便真的有)，于是你說這種行為不正常，他說正常，爭論個三天三夜又有什么用呢？ 良好的切入點是成功的一半

1、就事論事的切入常使談話陷入無謂的爭執。既然你已經看到了令自己不爽或生疑的事情，那么你要說的并不是該不該這樣做，而是告訴他你的感受與想法。

“我不是怪你，可能是我太敏感了。我想起咱們剛結婚時……”這樣的開始男人們比較容易接受，或許你們危機產生的原因并不是來自另一個女人的勾引，而是很久都沒有一次知心的交流。

2、一開始就抱著批評和抱怨的態度，有理也輸七分。他是你此刻受傷的罪魁禍首沒錯，你就完全沒有過失？戀愛和婚姻中，沒有任何一方有義務承擔感情危機的全部責任，只要你沒打定分手或離婚的主意，就先從自身找原因吧。

3、“我是個沒什么情趣的女人，這些年你已經忍了很久。如果你有什么想法，或是有更好的選擇，別讓我最后一個知道。你說呢？”當你感覺到他的外遇危機時，事實多半已經存在，解決危機的談話應該以此為前提，必須繞過糾纏不清的事實認證階段，才能開始真正解決問題的談話。第三關：如何跟她談 蔡菲27歲美容師

無意間在他的手機信息發件箱中看到一條語氣親昵的短信，收信人卻不是我。當時我什么都沒說，隔了幾天，他的手機放在飯桌上，屏幕一亮，又是那個號碼的短信。“你有短信！”我說。他說不管它，肯定是廣告。匆忙吃完飯，他像抓金磚似地緊緊把手機握在手里跑到陽臺上去了。

必須提醒一下了！先跟誰談呢？思來想去，我想到了一個一石二鳥的主意。我打電話給她，告訴她我在老公手機里發現一條發給她的短信。說到這兒，我故意停頓了足足有十秒。這種情況，默不做聲絕對是威懾，因為她不知道我有沒有看到了她發過來的短信，也不知道我接下來會說什么。“我給你打電話沒別的意思，是替老公給你道個歉。盡管我不了解你，但我覺得作為已婚男人，發這樣的短信干擾他人是不道德的，希望他沒有影響你的正常生活。唉，沒辦法，男人都不老實，我也不是第一次給他處理這事兒了。被傷害的總是女人，只能自己保護好自己。” 蔡菲談話智商得分：90

把脈：很多女人在愛情或婚姻危機中都產生過找那個女人談談的想法。一來家里這個男人有時很難對付，二來在女人身上找突破口相對容易。如果你不能像蔡菲這樣心平氣和地與她談，最好免開尊口。無論你多么有道理，一旦情緒失控，出言不遜，“沒素質沒禮貌”的話很快就成為她被傷害的證據，于是你家那位深感對不起她，更加惜香憐玉，她也會站到你的敵對立場，變本加厲而毫無愧意。

第四篇：手刃情敵冒名逃亡八年歸案

2005年12月20日,錦州市古塔公安分局刑警大隊副大隊長韓建偉、中隊長李壯,將殺人潛逃8年之久的犯罪嫌疑人鄒士銘從浙江省衢州市押解回到錦州市。這個曾經轟動整個錦城的殺人案,經過8年的追蹤,行程兩萬多公里,動用警力200余名,二上東北,三下江南,撥開層層迷霧,克服重重困難,終于劃上圓滿的句號。

清晨血案

1997年6月,19歲的鄒士銘從老家吉林省輝南縣來到遼寧省錦州市電業賓館做學徒工,并和賓館一女服務員談起了戀愛。此前鄒士銘的女友還和同在電業賓館學徒的高輝處過對象,而鄒士銘恰好和高輝同住一個宿舍。高輝是本地人,因為這層關系平素總欺負鄒士銘,鄒士銘又不敢得罪人家。所以鄒士銘憋一肚子火氣,也總想找機會報復。當年8月的一天晚上,鄒士銘從朋友那里借100元錢,準備第二天回老家看看。他想到自己與女友談戀愛卻被高輝從中攪和,一直不順利,心里很難受,便獨自來到酒店喝起悶酒。酒入愁腸,心情更糟,喝著喝著,一種罪惡的念頭在他的腦海中萌生,宰了姓高的,出口惡氣!第二天早上7點,鄒士銘把所有的衣物收拾好,裝入皮箱,打了一輛出租車在宿舍外等候。然后悄悄潛回屋內,見高輝還蒙頭大睡,就從后廚拿了一把尖刀,返回宿舍。他隔著蚊帳,趁高輝熟睡之機,兇狠地猛扎數刀,致使高輝當場死亡。同宿舍的人被驚醒了,見狀高喊“殺人了”,鄒士銘惡狠狠地說:“誰也不許喊,再喊我就殺死你們!”說完便破門而逃。案件發生后,古塔公安分局組織了大量警力進行偵破,經過調查得知,作案人與被害人同是這家賓館的學徒工,名叫鄒士銘,吉林省人。隨后,分局組織近百名警力趕往吉林,對鄒士銘進行全力抓捕,幾經調查,但始終沒能抓到。1999年7月,鄒士銘被列為網上逃犯,一直被公安機關追蹤,可這一追就是8年。

二上吉林

2005年8月,以局長李維民為首的新一屆分局領導班子上任后,對此案十分重視。黨組班子專門召開了刑偵工作會議,對全區現存的殺人積案進行了重新梳理,抽調精兵強將組成專案組,決定全方位攻堅鄒士銘殺人案。局長李維民先后多次親臨刑偵大隊召開案情分析會,主管刑偵副局長賀文德坐陣刑偵大隊現場指揮,刑偵大隊長殷亮帶領大隊班子精心組織,周密部署,在吃透案情的基礎上進行重點攻堅,成立了由大隊長殷亮、副大隊長韓建偉等4名偵查員參加的專案組。同時,分局黨組對偵破殺人積案工作還給予了警力上的優先、物資上的保障、資金上的傾斜。為了及早盡快偵破此案,分局領導親自帶領偵破小組再次驅車前往黑龍江、吉林、內蒙古等地進行艱苦細致的摸排工作。

從逃犯鄒士銘在賓館學徒時留下的身份證得知,他家住吉林省通化市輝南縣樣子哨鎮邵家店村會房溝九屯,經過一周時間的摸排,走訪了幾十個企事業單位,并在當地公安部門的配合下,查出了與鄒士銘有關系的親屬和朋友30多人。但這30多人當中,有的音訊皆無,有的不知去向,有的根本不與其來往。這次摸排的最大收獲就是知道了鄒士銘和父親或母親在一起,還有一個姐姐在外地。這使偵查員們心里一亮,只要找到鄒士銘的父母和姐姐,就一定會找到鄒士銘。可是,鄒士銘的父母早年離婚,父親在老家吉林再婚,根本不與鄒士銘往來。鄒士銘母親和姐姐都已搬到外地,詳情一點不知。這下偵查員又陷入了困境,剛剛見亮的線索又斷了,他們只好返回錦州,重新調整偵破方案。

回來后,局長李維民主持召開會議,并要求專案組的同志們要堅定信念,樹立信心,發揚刻苦頑強和連續作戰的精神,認認真真做好每一步偵破工作。同時,還要求參戰刑警每10天一匯報,并且,每次匯報都要有新內容,沒有新內容就視為工作沒有進展。這位年近半百,飽經滄桑的公安局長不但給刑警們施加壓力,而且還自身增加壓力,他在幾個月前的省公安系統總結大會上曾表態發言:“我們古塔公安分局在今后的‘命案攻堅’、‘打處增長率’二項指標中,一定摘下落后的帽子,年底,二項指標若完不成,我將自動辭職。” 刑警們看到局長有這樣的決心,也都深受鼓舞,同時也增強了戰勝困難的信心和勇氣。同時李局長還要求對此案件要有新突破,查不出結果決不收兵,在2005年底前破案,否則刑警大隊領導班子解散。頓時,專案組的刑警們感到自己肩上的擔子很沉重。他們吃不下飯,睡不好覺,有的嘴上起了大泡,他們頂著壓力再次潛往吉林省輝南縣鄒士銘的老家去查訪。

這次查訪的主要對象的是鄒士銘的母親和姐姐。到達輝南縣以后,在當地街道干部的幫助下,了解到鄒士銘的母親和姐姐在上海居住,但地址不詳。然而,那么大的上海,要想查找一個不知地址的住戶,簡直如同大海里撈針,根本無法查找。后來,刑警們又不辭辛苦通過其它途徑,耐心細致地走訪調查,終于查出了鄒士銘的姐姐住在上海市浦東區方華路xxx棟樓。于是,他們火速趕往上海。

上海密查

在上海浦東區,刑警們在當地警方的協助下,很快找到了鄒士銘的母親宋xx、姐姐鄒xx、姐夫陳xx,而他們一口否認,鄒士銘根本沒有到他們這里來過。于是刑警們便蹲坑守候。可總是這樣守候也不是辦法,不知道鄒士銘什么時候出現,刑警們又走訪了周圍的居民。有一位經常到鄒xx家串門的鄰居反映:幾個月前,他們家來了三口人,小兩口帶個孩子,那男的管老太太叫媽媽,孩子叫奶奶。鄰居問老太太說:“你不是說只是有一個女兒嗎?怎么又來一個兒子呢?”老太太又不肯說出實情。至此,線索又中斷了,刑警們只好從上海又撤回到錦州,向分局領導進行匯報。

在古塔公安分局的會議室里,局長李維民一邊聽刑警們的匯報,一邊思考著下一步的偵破方案:鄒士銘的母親和姐姐一口咬定鄒士銘沒有來過上海,而鄰居又說她家曾來過兩個大人和一個孩子,那么那個男的是不是鄒士銘?如果不是,又為什么管老太太叫母親?孩子又管她叫奶奶?孩子是不是他的孩子?女人是不是他的妻子?他們又是從哪里來的?一連串的問號,讓李局長陷入了沉思之中。下一步該怎樣排兵布陣?該從哪里選擇突破口?急需他來定奪,如果一旦指揮失誤,不但會打草驚蛇,而且還將會影響整個案件的偵破。為了不打草驚蛇,偵查員再次去上海秘密調查鄒士銘母親家來人的情況。經過走訪周圍的群眾了解到,那次來的三口人,男的是東北口音,約二十六七歲。同時又了解到老太太前些天到浙江省衢州市去串親十幾天,她女兒鄒xx的戶口也在衢州市。老太太曾經說過跟前只有一個女兒,再沒有別的親人,除非是她的兒子——逃犯鄒士銘。根據這一線索,分局立刻派人趕到浙江省衢州市,以查詢鄒士銘姐姐鄒xx的戶口為由,調查走訪周圍的群眾。

浙江抓捕

到浙江衢州之后,刑警們首先通過當地派出所找到鄒士銘姐姐的戶口所在地——萬泉鎮,同時又了解到這家住三口人,夫妻倆帶一個孩子,男主人叫孫永波,是東北人。雖然名字不對,但這三口人與在上海鄒士銘母親家了解到的情況相吻合,而男的又是東北人,更加堅定了偵查員的信心。于是刑警們又到當地民政部門的婚姻登記處,查驗孫永波真實身份,經查此人的身份證的名字確是叫“孫永波”,家住黑龍江省肇東市,身份證經過核查也是真的。

疑點上斷定,此人就應該是逃犯鄒士銘,可他怎么會有別人真實的身份證呢?這個“孫永波”與鄒士銘究竟是什么關系?本來以為柳暗花明的案件,又陷入僵局。刑警們沒有放棄對“孫永波”的調查,并且得知此人在市內租一個門市房,以賣蔥花雞蛋餅為生。刑警們走遍市區的大街小巷和20多個農貿市場,秘密查找賣蔥花雞蛋餅的東北人,果然功夫不負有心人,終于在茫茫人海中找到了所謂的“孫永波”。

為防止意外,刑警們沒有直接接觸他,而是通過當地執法局以城管的名義對商販進行登記。當問到孫永波的名字時,他又說叫“孫小峰”。這不怪啦,他的身份證明明是“孫永波”,怎么又變成了“孫小峰”?他為什么要再次改變名字?這更加引起了刑警們對他的懷疑,可以斷定即使不是逃犯鄒士銘,也一定是個有案底的人,但直接訊問又怕他逃跑。經過商量,刑警們決定抓捕訊問,但又怕抓錯,只好秘密進行。第二天早晨天剛亮,刑警們就來到“孫永波”出租房前準備抓捕,可人沒了,門反鎖著!刑警們的心一下又涼了,難道是他發現什么了?還是有人給他通風報信逃跑了?正當大家猜測難解之時,有人提出就近搜查,挨家尋找,果然在他家不遠處,發現了他賣餅的貨車和一些物品。根據這一情況,刑警們斷定,他一定不會走遠,還會回來,便就地守候。大約過了一個多小時,從遠處來了一位身穿大衣的男子,急匆匆直奔門市房而來。到近前打開門進屋,正當他脫下大衣準備和面時,刑警們猛然沖進屋去,以迅雷不及掩耳之勢,將其抓獲。此人正是所謂的“孫永波”。

天網恢恢

經審問,此人一口咬定自己不是鄒士銘,而叫“孫永波”,并拿出身份證證實自己所說是真的。經過核對“孫永波”的身份證確實是真的,也確有其人。當刑警問他8年前錦州市電業賓館殺人的事時,他一言不發,后來只說什么也不知道。刑警們沒有灰心,而是想辦法突破他的心理防線。經過一天一夜的審訊,加之政策攻心,孫永波終于承認自己就是逃犯鄒士銘,從而徹底交代了8年前在錦州殺人犯罪的全部事實,也解開了刑警們心中所謂“孫永波”的疑團。

1997年6月,鄒士銘到錦州打工時,因談戀愛與同在一起學徒的高輝發生矛盾后,趁其熟睡之機,將其殺死在宿舍內,之后乘出租車潛逃。開始時他趁夜色沿火車道線徒步行走,后來又扒貨車到沈陽、大連等地,餓了就沿途乞討。一次在大連乞討時撿到一張身份證,他一看照片上的人跟自己長的很相似,地址是黑龍江省肇東市,名叫孫永波。于是他心里一動,把這張身份證揉搓的模糊不清,然后用乞討來的錢買了去肇東市火車票,徑直到身份證所在地的戶籍部門,說自己不小心把身份證弄壞,想重新照張照片,按照身份證的地址,給他重新補辦了一個。這樣,鄒士銘就成了一個真正的“孫永波”。之后又一路乞討到河北邯鄲,后又來到杭州。

在杭州他開始在一家飯店打工,由于他肯吃苦,不久就當上了領班,每月工資800元左右。有了本錢他又學起了美發,在學習美發的過程中認識了女友楊某,不久兩人便談起了戀愛。2003年9月,兩人回到女友的家鄉浙江省衢州市結婚了。他做了倒插門女婿。第二年,他們生了一個兒子,并讓孩子隨母親姓楊,再后來,他們在市內租了一個門市房,做起了賣蔥花烙餅的生意,月收入一二千元,生活得很美滿。沒想到,法網恢恢、疏而不漏,潛逃8年,改名換姓,還是被公安機關抓捕歸案。

第五篇：阮玲玉的情敵梁賽珍生平簡介

阮玲玉的情敵梁賽珍生平簡介

梁賽珍1926年從影，參演大亞影片公司影片《孽海驚濤》。次年轉入華劇影片公司，開始在《情奴》等影片中扮演重要角色。1929年后，曾為海濱，復旦等影片公司主演影片《海濱豪俠》，《太極標》等。1931年，入明星影片公司，主演了其最著名電影《火燒紅蓮寺》。20世紀30年代梁賽珍曾與唐季珊交往，又無辜卷入阮玲玉自殺的**中，后良心發現，與妹妹賽珊一道將阮玲玉的真實遺書公開；在1937年的上海，梁女士積極參與抗日，是紅十字隊的護士，積極參與看護義務近兩個月的時間；1939年，梁賽珍女士帶著姐妹們來到了新加坡演出作短暫逗留，繼續籌備移民美國的計劃之余，更全力參與抗日募款和策劃主辦宣傳演出的活動。然而二戰之火蔓延到新加坡，梁氏姐妹因為參與抗日被日方列入黑名單，只好再度準備逃難。挪移了現金存款到澳洲后，姐妹們卻來不及乘船離去，只好滯留新加坡。誰知造化無常，不想該船不久被日軍擊沉，而逃過一劫的姐妹們也只好四處躲難，以防日軍騷擾。其間，梁賽珠還化名從事自行車買賣生意，膽識過人。梁賽珍于1941年出任南洋歌舞團女藝員協會的主席，戰后又回到新加坡，并于1948年出任南天酒店七彩龍鳳舞宮的總經理。