第一篇:初次見面說英語的技巧
初次見面說英語的技巧
初次見面的老外跟你說了句“How do you do”, 估計多數(shù)人都會美滋滋地搬出學(xué)校教的那套,回敬一句“How do you do”。可英美人士卻覺得你的回答有點買帽子當(dāng)鞋穿——不對頭。因為他們會覺得對話似乎沒有得到回應(yīng),好像你并不高興見到他一樣。所以,當(dāng)別人說“How do you do”的時候,你最好改答“Nice to meet you”或者“It's a pleasure to meet you”。
怎么樣,是不是覺得上面的小技巧還有點用處?那么,你知道怎么掌控好一個初次見面的開場白嗎?還有誰先開口,說什么,怎樣繼續(xù)話題?要不要握手呢?別著急,我現(xiàn)在就告訴大家一些社交小技巧。它們可以讓你在不同的場合游刃有余,溝通無極限。
先來看一段Jake和Debbie之間的對話吧。大姑娘上花轎--頭一回,這兩個大一新生在校園里初次碰面了。JAKE: Hi!My name is Jake.We haven't met before, have we?
DEBBIE: No, we haven't!My name is Debbie.JAKE: Nice to meet you, Debbie!
DEBBIE: Nice to meet you, too, Jake.JAKE: Are you a new student?
DEBBIE: Yes, I am.What about you?
JAKE: Yeah, me too!
JAKE: What're you studying here?
DEBBIE: Journalism.I want to be a journalist.What about you?
JAKE: I'm doing law.But I'm thinking of doing business studies instead.DEBBIE: Do they allow you to change?
見機行事,見什么人說什么話。Jake和Debbie之間的對話適用于什么場合呢?
他們的對話適用于非正式場合。因為:Jake使用了Hi這個問候詞。這個詞適用于比較隨意的場合或者正式場合下彼此非常熟識的人之間。2 Jake和Debbie在介紹自己和稱呼對方的時候都在用彼此名字的第一個字。如果兩人第一次見面就直接用名字的第一個字相互稱呼,這就暗示他們想讓接下來的談話無拘無束,閑散自在一些。兩個人談話的語氣和內(nèi)容都顯得輕松,隨意。
再來看一段James Taylor和Wang Dong之間的對話。James Taylor是AEC Advertising 的總裁,Wang Dong是China Bright Advertising Company 外事處的秘書。她負(fù)責(zé)到機場去接從未謀面的James Taylor。(想聽聲音就點擊這里:http:///magazine/002/more.htm)
Wang Dong: Good morning.Are you James Taylor?
James Taylor: Yes, and...Wang Dong: Welcome to Beijing, President Taylor.I'm Wang Dong, the secretary of the foreign affairs office from China Bright Advertising Company.Please call me Wang.James Taylor: Oh, nice to meet you, Wang.Wang Dong: Nice to meet you, too.How was the flight?
James Taylor: It was OK, though I feel a bit tired.Wang Dong: Would you like me to help you with the luggage?
James Taylor: Oh, thank you.Wang Dong: Please follow me to the gate.The company car is waiting for you outside.大家已經(jīng)意識到了吧,這段對話適用于正式的社交場合。二個人用 Nice to meet you 相互問候。Wang Dong 在自我介紹的時候不僅說了自己的姓名,還說了自己的職務(wù)和此行的身份。Wang Dong 稱呼對方為President Taylor,這是一種正式的稱呼,而不是用Mr.James或者James。4 Wang Dong 的用語十分禮貌,恭敬。
說到這里,讓我們來作個初次見面問候用語的小結(jié)吧。
Brief greetings:
--Hi!(for informal situation)
--Hello!(for informal situation)
--Hullo!(for informal situation)
--Good morning/afternoon/evening.(for more formal situation)
Extended greetings at the first meeting:
--Nice to meet you.(--Nice to meet you, too.)
--How do you do!(--Nice to meet you.)(for more formal situation)
附:幾個實用的句子Nice to meet you.很高興認(rèn)識你。
二個素不認(rèn)識的老美見面打招呼的方式很簡單,就是一個人先說“Nice to meet you”,另一個人說 “Nice to meet you, too”,然后相互握手。但人多的時候, 你不可能一個一個說 “Nice to meet you”,這時簡單說“Hi” 就可以了,但這么說不適用于比較正式的場合。Give me a hug.給我一個擁抱吧。
如果兩個人相識已久,見面再說“Nice to meet you” 反而顯得有點見外。這時候通常問候一句 “How are you doing” 或者 “What's up” 比較好一些。如果兩個人還是不錯的朋友,就會彼此擁抱一下。當(dāng)然啦,擁抱之前不一定要說 “Give me a hug”,只要看到人家張開雙手,你就可以迎上去擁抱啦。3 Do you want to exchange numbers? 你想不想交換電話呢?
如果是學(xué)生的社交場合,要不要名片就不是那么重要了。這時你可以嘗試跟對方交換電話號碼。你可以說 “Do you want to exchange numbers” 或是直截了當(dāng)要對方的電話 “Could I have your phone number”。當(dāng)然,第一次見面就要對方電話感覺好像怪怪的,所以你也可以跟對方要 E-mail address 或是 ICQ number。總之要什么就根據(jù)當(dāng)時的情況和你個人的企圖來定了。
第二篇:職場英語-初次見面
職場英語·初次見面
發(fā)表于:2009-6-5 瀏覽:76 次 來源:教育頻道
第一天到公司上班,You must be nervous.你的心情一定挺緊張。怎么才能給上級和同事留下a favorable impression(良好印象)呢?西裝革履的你看起來很cool,但你還是沒有十分的把握。我們先來聽聽某家外企公司的新成員Peter King如何得體地處理他工作中的第一天。
Peter: Good Morning.May I introduce myself?My name's Peter King and I'm new here.Anna: Pleased to meet you.I'm Anna White, the assistant to the Personnel Manager.Welcome
to our company.你看,初次見面好比跳華爾茲,非常簡單,就是三步曲:問候——介紹——對方回答。不過這首華
爾茲在不同的場合,步伐也不相同。
在formal正式場合中, 要用:Good morning/afternoon或How do you do,同時要shaking hands“握握手”來顯示你的sincerity誠意。當(dāng)然不要忘了smile一下,因為微笑是消除隔閡、溝通心靈的最好
方法。
而在informal非正式場合中,比如年輕人之間或平時的聚會中,我們就可以relax,放松一下,不單穿著隨便,而且只需招手致意,問候語用簡單的Hi, or Hello!就可以了。
另外,作為新人,應(yīng)該主動與同事交往,所以要先作self introduction,除了May I introduce myself? My name's Peter King,你還可以說:Let me introduce myself.My name's Peter.或者
I'm Peter.作完了自我介紹,Peter希望Susan能把他介紹給經(jīng)理或其他人,聽聽他是怎么說的:
Peter: Could you introduce me to the Manager?
Susan: Of course.Mr.King...Mr.White, let me introduce you to Mr.Peter King,the new
clerk in your department.White: How do you do.I'm Alex White.We're going to be working together.Peter: How do you do.I've been looking forward to meeting you, Mr.White.原來他用了句型 Could you introduce me to sb.? 這顯得很有禮貌。另外你還可以這樣說:
1、I haven't met your Managing Director yet.(我還沒有見到你們的總裁。)
2、I don't know anyone here.You'll have to introduce me.(這里的人我都不認(rèn)識。您得給我作介紹。)
如果情況相反,需要你把某人介紹給其他人,下面的句子可以幫你這個忙:
1、Let me introduce you to our Managing Director.(請讓我把您介紹給我們的總裁。);
2、I'll introduce you to our Managing Director , this is Mr.Johnson, our MD.(我會把你介紹給我們的總裁。這是約翰生先生,我們的總裁。)
最后,請問你知道在初次見面時哪句話是必不可少的嗎?對了,是:Nice to meet you.(見到您
很高興。)每當(dāng)對方報上姓名時,你要記得說這句話。
為了加深對方的印象,你可以加上你對對方的贊揚:I've heard a lot about you.(久聞大名)。
當(dāng)然用Glad to meet you.或Pleased to meet you.來替代Nice to meet you.也可以。
第三篇:初次見面如何用英語打招呼
初次見面如何用英語打招呼
第一天到公司上班,You must be nervous.你的心情一定挺緊張。怎么才能給上級和同事留下a favorable impression(良好印象)呢?西裝革履的你看起來很cool,但你還是沒有十分的把握。我們先來聽聽某家外企公司的新成員Peter King如何得體地處理他工作中的第一天。
Peter: Good Morning.May I introduce myself?My name's Peter King and I'm new here.Anna: Pleased to meet you.I'm Anna White, the assistant to the Personnel Manager.Welcome to our company.你看,初次見面好比跳華爾茲,非常簡單,就是三步曲:問候——介紹——對方回答。不過這首華爾茲在不同的場合,步伐也不相同。
在formal正式場合中, 要用:Good morning/afternoon或How do you do,同時要shaking hands“握握手”來顯示你的sincerity誠意。當(dāng)然不要忘了smile一下,因為微笑是消除隔閡、溝通心靈的最好方法。
而在informal非正式場合中,比如年輕人之間或平時的聚會中,我們就可以relax,放松一下,不單穿著隨便,而且只需招手致意,問候語用簡單的Hi, or Hello!就可以了。
另外,作為新人,應(yīng)該主動與同事交往,所以要先作self introduction,除了May I introduce myself? My name's Peter King,你還可以說:Let me introduce myself.My name's Peter.或者I'm Peter.作完了自我介紹,Peter希望Susan能把他介紹給經(jīng)理或其他人,聽聽他是怎么說的:
Peter: Could you introduce me to the Manager?
Susan: Of course.Mr.King...Mr.White, let me introduce you to Mr.Peter King,the new clerk in your department.White: How do you do.I'm Alex White.We're going to be working together.Peter: How do you do.I've been looking forward to meeting you, Mr.White.原來他用了句型 Could you introduce me to sb.? 這顯得很有禮貌。另外你還可以這樣說:
1、I haven't met your Managing Director yet.(我還沒有見到你們的總裁。)
2、I don't know anyone here.You'll have to introduce me.(這里的人我都不認(rèn)識。您得給我作介紹。)
如果情況相反,需要你把某人介紹給其他人,下面的句子可以幫你這個忙:
1、Let me introduce you to our Managing Director.(請讓我把您介紹給我們的總裁。);
2、I'll introduce you to our Managing Director , this is Mr.Johnson, our MD.(我會把你介紹給我們的總裁。這是約翰生先生,我們的總裁。)
最后,請問你知道在初次見面時哪句話是必不可少的嗎?對了,是:
Nice to meet you.(見到您很高興。)每當(dāng)對方報上姓名時,你要記得說這句話。
為了加深對方的印象,你可以加上你對對方的贊揚:
I've heard a lot about you.(久聞大名)。當(dāng)然用
Glad to meet you.或Pleased to meet you.來替代Nice to meet you.也可以。
得體的介紹和問候會給對方留下美好印象,但是你不能虎頭蛇尾呀,告別也要無可挑剔。常用的告別語有:
1、It was very nice to have met you.2、It was nice meeting you.3、Hope to see you again.嗯,第一課,everything is going well.一切進(jìn)行順利。你學(xué)會了如何作自我介紹和介紹別人以及初次見面如何問候。但是你還要記住,要好好做練習(xí)呀!See you tomorrow.
第四篇:初次見面游戲
初次見面[破冰]
見面3分鐘時是你留給他人第一印象的最重要的時刻,同樣在一個會議或培訓(xùn)的剛開始,如何讓大家更加活絡(luò)起來,是關(guān)系培訓(xùn)是否成功的關(guān)鍵,下面的小游戲就可以用于消除大
家的陌生感。
游戲程序和規(guī)則
1.第一步:
(1)給每一個人都做一個姓名牌。
(2)讓每位成員在進(jìn)入培訓(xùn)室之前,先在名冊上核對一下他的姓名,然后給他一個別人的 姓名牌。
(3)等所有人到齊之后,要求所有人在3分鐘之內(nèi)找到姓名牌上的人,同時向其他人做自 我介紹。
2.第二步:
(1)主持人作自我介紹,然后告訴與會人員:“很高興來到這兒!”
(2)快速繞教室走一圈,問:“如果你今天不在這兒,你會在做什么不情愿做的事情呢? ”
(3)注意讓問答保持在一個輕松活潑的氛圍之內(nèi)。
相關(guān)討論
1.當(dāng)你在尋找你的姓名牌上的人的時候,你是不是也同時認(rèn)識了很多其他的人?經(jīng)過了這 個游戲,你是不是感覺大家的距離近了好多?
2.在第二步中,當(dāng)你們談到自己可以不用做自己不愿意做的一些事情,你會不會發(fā)現(xiàn)坐在 這里聽課是一件比較愜意的事情?
總結(jié)
1.在開始的課程中,主持人一定要注意保持一個積極、幽默的態(tài)度,以便讓大家 迅速的消除靦腆等情緒,然后讓大家好好的熟悉起來;同時有助于大家積極的發(fā)言。
2.如果沒有調(diào)動起來情緒,學(xué)員沒有積極舉手回答的話,講師可以有意識的點名讓同學(xué)回答,以調(diào)動氣氛。
參與人數(shù):集體參與
時間:20分鐘
場地:不限
道具:姓名牌
應(yīng)用:(1)團(tuán)隊溝通
(2)培訓(xùn)或集體活動前的熟悉和溝通
(3)主持人開場白,幫助主持人與大家進(jìn)行溝通和交流
第五篇:初次見面問候語
一.初次見面問候語
1.Nice to meet you!
Nice to meet you,too!
2.How are you ?
I’m fine ,thank you , and you ?
I’m fine ,too.3.Good morning /afternoon/evening/night!
二.問路
1. Excuse me , can you tell me where is the------?
2.Excuse me , can you tell me the way to the------?
3.Excuse me , would you please show me the way to the--------?
4.Excuse me, how can I get to the-------?
5.Go straight down/on/along this street/road 沿著街直著走,Turn right向右轉(zhuǎn),turn left向左轉(zhuǎn)
at the second crossing road 在第二個十字路口
三.生活起居
1.when do you get up everyday ?At----.2.What time do you go to bed everynight ?3.What time do you have breakfast/lunch/dinner ?
4.what time / when do you usually go to school?
5.When is your school over?、When is your class over?
四.國籍
1.Where are you from? Where do you come from ?
2.what nationality are you ?
五.祝福語
1.Thank you for your-------2.Wishing you and your family a very happy
3.Best wishes for you and your family.六. 天氣
1.What's the weather like today?/ How is the weather today?
2.it’s cool / hot /cold / cloudy /rainy / snowy.七.打車
1.The place you want to go is not easy to find, you's better take a taxi
2.I want to-----
3.how much ?
八.自我介紹
My Chinese name is-----.My English name is----.I’m-----years old.I am a pupil.I come from China Inner Mongolia Baotou.China is a big country.It has a population of 1.3 billion.China has a long history and culture.Inner Mongolia Baotou is my hometown.it is callde”Nation on horseback”.there are grasslands In my hometown.We can be happy riding on grassland.Baotou is also a heavy industrial city.The most important business is baogang.If you are a guest to Baotou , I will take you to eat features food in Inner Mongolia—Mongolian food.For example:Roast leg of lamb, hand Grilled meat, milk and cheese.My school is the second young Primary.My English school is New time English school.I like-----.My hobby is-----.My favourite food is----.This is my mother/father.she/he is a-----.I hope you like me.welcome to my hometown.thank you.九.卡片句型
1.How do you improve your spoken English or learning efficiency?2.What is the weather like in your country ?
4.What do you do to relax ?
5.DO you often Communication with your parents ?
6.which language do you speak ? It says you speak Chinese.Why do you speak Chinese ?
7.Is your English teacher strict ? Do you like your English teacher ?
8.How do you remember the new words ?
9.what places of historic interest in your country ?
10.will you earn pocket money on your holiday ?
11.what’s the traditional festival in your country ?
十.購物
1.what’s this / that ?
It’s----.2.what are these / those ?
They are----.3.what colour is it ?
It’s-----.4.What colour are they?
they are-----.5.Can I try this one ?
6.Can I try a large / small size?
7.Can I try another colour ?
8.How much this one ?
9.This one for me.10.Please cheaper!
十一.點菜
1.Do you like Chinese food or western—style food ?
2.A: can we see the menu ,please ?
B: Here you are ?
A: what’s good today ? 今天有什么好吃的?
B:I recommandcrispy and fried duck.我推薦香酥雞和烤鴨。A:ok.B: Do you want any dessert ?你想要一些甜點嗎?
A: no dessert , thanks , just coffee.B: I can have the check , please.請結(jié)賬,A: let’s split this.讓咱們各自付賬。
No , it’s my treat tonight.不,今晚我請客。
Cash or charge ,sir? 現(xiàn)金還是記賬?