第一篇：喬布斯在斯坦福大學(xué)演講演講觀后感

Thoughts of The speech of the Jobs

The speech that Jobs made on Stanford has profound effects on us after we watching the video.His speech is contained by three stories.And each one of the three have different significance for us.How did he achieved the glorious accomplishment? And what’s his attitude of the live?what’s advice he want to share to us? You will acknowledge the answer after watching the video.His first stories started from his collage.He was adopted by a copple of workers because his biological mother was unmarried.Actually he as a bastard.When he studied in the collage he found that it was meaningless for him to studied in it at the cost of all the wealth of his foster parents.Then he quit out.He used the time to listen other lessons.He learned about serif and serif typefaces.About varying the amount of space between different letter combinations.About what makes great typography great.....which seemed useless from the sight of our attitudes.But ten years later, when they designed the first Macintosh computer,it made a giant works on them.It was the first computer with beautiful typography.Then I think of my life, i found we should made the right decision on ourselves.when he dropped out his collage, he also was afraid of the money and the future.But he learned other things during the time his absence of school which were beneficial for his business.The experience that we experienced while we were in trouble was not only rarity for our careen but also for our life.So that Jobs said’ you cant’t connect the dots looking forward you can only connect them looking backward.So you have to trust to trust that.The dots will somehow connect in your future.You have to trust in something.Your gut destiny life,karam whatever.This approach has never let me down and it has made all the different in my life.’ I considered that we are always recreating the things we have down, which was a negative thought for ourselves.Just like us now,we regret why we choose the course--english or rather others--computer, tourist, and so on.The complain is too feeble.If we found the course did not available for us we should change another one as the Jobs.Ever you consist it, you should learn some useful

thing not only on your major but on your interesting instead of regretting.As soon as you have some experience or knowledge,please trust me, you must have the chance to use them in some day.His second stories about love and loss.It is a sentimental topic of the life, isn’t it? When he was twenty years old, he with his friend set up a company to now the two billion company with four thousands employees.It was a joke that he was fired by his own company, which made a huge damage on his life and career.But he still love his job.Even though lost the company, he still had the chance to do his job by tough efforts.I remembered his word ‘the haviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again’.Then he started a company named NeXT and Pixar that the two companies have gained huge achievement.And during the process he fell in love with an amazing woman who became his wife.Due to some reasons Apple bought NeXT, he returned to Apple which once was his own company.Why he could achieved such glories achievement after being fried by his company? I think the reason is easy---love what you do.He loves his job so that he could not quit it regardless of the damage on his enterprise.His courage came from his love for his job.Seeking for your loved job is very imperative of your life.Because the job will company with you forever, each of them will more intimately with the years past.Keep seeking if you have not found it.I make a example of myself, I want to be a accountant still now even though I am a english major student.I always learn the knowledge on accounting after class in the library for getting the certification of accounting.But I have no teacher to teach me ,no classmates to discuss with me, so just studied by myself.Some times I feel lonely and helpless for the course.I love it so that I want to distant it.Even though the exam was fail but I still learn the knowledge right now.But for the love for it,how could I can accept the fail.Do not afraid of the loss because the love give the courage for us which could leads us to the place where has the lightness and hope.His third stories about death.He experienced the threaten of cancer so that he even cherished his live and the beauty of the life.‘if you live each day as if it was your last someday.You will most certainly be right’.All the money and honour will

lost because human could not exit forever.we have the limited life, which resulted in they have no time to care about other’s attitudes for people.We should live the life according to the thought of ourselves.‘have the courage to follow your heart and intuition....’ Jobs gave the advice ‘Stay hungry, Stay foolish.’ During our lives, do the things you think its worthy.Jobs did not know he would died several years later, but he has made the prepare for his family and his own.Death is the taboo thing for us.All of us want have the glorious, so that we pay more attentions to the regular of the society.What a pity thing for the limited life.This great man’s three stories let person feel deeply.Then I have different ideals for the life and my live after watching the video.In the limited life to live out our own style is very necessary things.

第二篇：喬布斯斯坦福大學(xué)演講觀后感

What you did Leads what you’ll get

/Sow nothing , reap nothing Jobs just told three stories to us , first of all he pointed that connecting the dots.Life went by , there may be something too big or small for you to regret.With my growing up, I always feel sorry to my parents.When I was a litthle boy, I loved to come and play with them.When I grow up , I leave them and only come to them when I need something or when I am in trouble , I thought everything that I did was absolutely right even if I quarreled ,shouted to release my unsatisfied emotion.No matter what happenes , parents will always be there and give everything they could to make you happy.I have been away from them for years , now I suddenly realize how I love them and what I can do for them.Maybe it’s cruel to them when I was young , I am convinced that don’t cry over the past, it’s gone, live in the present and make it beautiful now.“you can't connect the dots looking forward;you can only connect them looking backwards.So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.You have to trust in something-your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever.This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.“

It’s easy to be thankful for the good things , while a life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.As he said , he never graduated from any college , he quit his college life but not his study.Things seem not romantic as we think , Jobs slept on the floor in friend’s rooms for not having his own dorn room , and his food depended on collecting bottles for 5 cents.and “much of what he stumbled into by following his curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on” , he said.Because he dropped out ,he attended a calligraphy class.Here , not only he learned how to do it , but also studied serif and san serif typefaces.None of this had even a hope of any practical application but years later,when they were designing the first Macintosh computer ,it all helped a lot.As he said , “If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do.Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college.But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.”

Sow nothing , reap nothing.You have to trust something----your gut , destiny , life and so on.This approach will never let you down , and it will make all the difference in your life.Be true to who you are , stop trying to please other people or be someone else.It’s better to be an original version of yourself than an exact duplicate of someone else.It’s very sorry to see that Jobs were fired by his own company.In his nearly thirties , for the version of the future he and his cooperator had a falling out , the Board of Directors didn’t side with him.He said “what had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone , and it was devastating.” Later on , something began to dawn him----he still love what he did.That’s enough.Therefore he decided to start over.Don’t cry because it is over , smile because it happened.And Jobs even thinks that it was the best thing that could have ever happened to him , what an amazing thought!He just said，“The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything.It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.”

He set NEXT and another company Pixar , the technology they developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's current renaissance.Pretty surely , none of this would have happened if he hadn't been fired from Apple.It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it.Here comes the third story----Death.Have you ever spent your every day as your last day ? Have you ever asked yourself in front of a mirror ,“if today were the last day of my life , would I want to do what I am about to do today ?” And , have you ever thought that life may need some change after your answering “No.”? Remembering that we will be dead soon so all things like pride , fear of embarrassment or failure , all of them will fall away , leaving only what is truly important.Facing death , Jobs realizes that the death is very likely the single best invention of life.For what ？It cleans out the old to make way for the new.So don’t waste it living someone else’s life.Above all , have the courage to follow your heart and intuition , they somehow already know what you truly want to become.Forrest Gump once told us “l(fā)ife is like the chocolate ,you’ll never know what you’ll get next.”

Well , an Aspirin or candy , it’s up to you.

第三篇：喬布斯斯坦福大學(xué)演講

喬布斯斯坦福大學(xué)演講

蘋果公司的創(chuàng)業(yè)經(jīng)歷令人震撼，史蒂芬喬布斯有自己的成功學(xué)。史蒂芬喬布斯在斯坦福大學(xué)的演講中就為學(xué)生們談到自己的創(chuàng)業(yè)歷程以及自己成功的一些感觸。下面讓我們一起通過以下的史蒂芬喬布斯演講稿來領(lǐng)悟。史蒂夫喬布斯斯坦福大學(xué)畢業(yè)典禮上演講

一定要找到你熱愛的

我很榮幸能在今天與你們一起參加一個世界上最優(yōu)秀的大學(xué)的畢業(yè)典禮。我從來沒有從大學(xué)畢業(yè)。說實話，今天是我最離大學(xué)畢業(yè)最近的一次。今天，我想給你們講我生活中的三個故事。就是這樣。沒什么大不了的。只是三個故事。

第一個故事是關(guān)于把我生活中過去的點點滴滴聯(lián)系起來。

在過了最初的六個月后，我便從Reed學(xué)院輟學(xué)了。但是，在我真正離開那里前，我又呆了大約18個月。我為什么輟學(xué)呢?

這一切在我出生前就開始了。我的親生母親是一個年輕的未婚大學(xué)生。她決定把我送給別人收養(yǎng)。她堅持認(rèn)為，我應(yīng)該被有大學(xué)學(xué)歷的人收養(yǎng)。所以，一切本來都已經(jīng)安排好了，我將會被一個律師和他的妻子收養(yǎng)。但是當(dāng)我出生以后，律師夫婦在最后一分鐘決定他們真正想要的是一個女孩。所以，我的養(yǎng)父母，本來是在等候的名單上的。他們在半夜接到了一個電話，“我們有一個意料之外的男嬰。你們想要他嗎?”他們回答說：“當(dāng)然。”我的親生母親后來發(fā)現(xiàn)我的養(yǎng)母從來沒有從大學(xué)畢業(yè)，而我的養(yǎng)父高中都沒有畢業(yè)。她拒絕在最終的領(lǐng)養(yǎng)文件上簽字。過了幾個月后，我的養(yǎng)父母向她保證我將來會上大學(xué)后，她才同意了。

17年后，我確實上大學(xué)了。但是我天真的選擇了一個幾乎和斯坦福一樣昂貴的學(xué)院。我工薪階層的父母的所有積蓄都花在了我的學(xué)費上。六個月后，我看不到這有任何價值。我不知道我的一生想要做什么。我不知道大學(xué)如何能幫我找到這一問題的答案。而且我在這里花費著我父母一生所有的積蓄。所以，我決定輟學(xué)，而且相信所有的這一切都會解決的。在當(dāng)時，這個決定是非常令人害怕的。但是，回過頭來看，這是我做過的最好的決定之一。在我輟學(xué)的那一刻，我可以不再去上我不感興趣的課程，而去上那些看起來有趣的課程。

這并不浪漫。我沒有宿舍，所以我睡在了朋友房間的地板上。我回收可樂瓶，用得到的5美分買吃的。我會在每星期天晚上步行7英里穿過城市到HareKrishna寺廟去好好吃一頓。我喜歡那的飯。我憑著好奇心與直覺所遇到的一切，很大一部分在后來被證明是無比珍貴的。讓我給你們舉一個例子：

那時，Reed學(xué)院提供了當(dāng)時可能是全國最好的書法課程。在校園里，每一個海報，每一個抽屜上的標(biāo)簽都是優(yōu)美的手寫字。因為我輟學(xué)了，不用再去上正常的課程，我決定上書法課，去學(xué)學(xué)如何寫書法。我學(xué)會了serif和sanserif字體，學(xué)會了改變不同字母組合間的間隔，知道了是什么使字體變得優(yōu)美。這一切都很優(yōu)美，有歷史感，具有科學(xué)無法獲得的藝術(shù)的精巧。我發(fā)現(xiàn)這一切令人著迷。

對書法的學(xué)習(xí)看起來沒有任何機會在我的一生中得到實際的應(yīng)用。但是，10年后，當(dāng)我們設(shè)計第一臺Macintosh電腦時，這一切就又重現(xiàn)了。我們把字體的設(shè)計都放入了Mac，第一個有著優(yōu)美字體的電腦。如果我沒有在學(xué)校學(xué)書法課程，Mac就不可能有多種字體或者按適當(dāng)比例間隔的字體。因為Windows只是照搬了Mac，有可能沒有任何個人電腦會有這樣的字體。如果我沒有輟學(xué)，我就不會選那個書法課程，個人電腦就有可能沒有今天這樣優(yōu)美的字體。當(dāng)然，當(dāng)我在大學(xué)時，把我當(dāng)時的一點一滴串起來并不能預(yù)測到我后來的結(jié)果。但是，當(dāng)10年后再回頭看，這一切非常，非常清楚。

當(dāng)然，你不能把事情聯(lián)系在一起而預(yù)測未來。你只能回過頭來再把它們聯(lián)系起來。所以，你一定要相信那些點點滴滴在將來一定會以某種形式聯(lián)系起來。你一定要相信一些事情你的直覺、命運、生命、因緣，無論是什么。這一方法從沒有讓我失望過。它對我的生活至關(guān)重要。

我的第二個故事是有關(guān)熱愛與失去。

我很幸運，在生命中的最初階段就找到了自己熱愛做的事情。在我20歲的時候，Woz和我在我父母的車庫里創(chuàng)建了蘋果公司。我們非常努力。10年內(nèi)，蘋果從一個只有我們兩個人的車庫公司成長到20億美金，有4000員工的公司。當(dāng)時我剛剛滿30歲，就在一年前，我們發(fā)布了我們最杰出的創(chuàng)造Macintosh。然后，我被解雇了。你怎么能被你自己創(chuàng)立的公司解雇呢?哎，當(dāng)蘋果公司逐漸發(fā)展，我們雇了一個我認(rèn)為非常有才華的人來和我一起運作公司。第一年，都還不錯。但是，隨后我們對未來的想法就開始有了分歧。最終我們鬧翻了。當(dāng)我們鬧翻的時候，董事會站在了他的一邊。結(jié)果是，我在30歲的時候被踢出了公司，而且是以盡人皆知的方式被踢出。我成年以來整個生活的中心沒有了，這是毀滅性的。

有幾個月的時間，我真的不知道做什么好。我覺得我辜負(fù)了把接力棒傳遞給我的上一代的創(chuàng)業(yè)者。我找到DavidPackard和BobNoyce并向他們道歉，為我把事情搞得如此之糟道歉。我是一個眾所周知的失敗。我甚至想到從硅谷逃走。但是慢慢的我才開始意識到我仍舊熱愛我所作的事情。在蘋果所發(fā)生的事情絲毫沒有改變這一點。我被拒絕了，但是，我仍舊愛著。所以，我決定重新開始。

在那時我并沒有認(rèn)識到，但是實際上，被蘋果解雇是對我來說最好的事情。成功所帶來的沉重感被重新開始，對一切都不確定的輕松感所代替。這一切解放了我，讓我進入了一生中最有創(chuàng)造性的一段時間。

之后的5年，我創(chuàng)辦了一家叫NeXT的公司和另外一家叫Pixar的公司，還愛上了一個非常好的女人，后來她成為了我的妻子。Pixar創(chuàng)造了世界上第一部電腦動畫電影，玩具總動員。現(xiàn)在，Pixar是世界上最成功的動畫工作室。在經(jīng)歷了種種起伏后蘋果買下了NeXT。我重返了蘋果。我們在NeXT發(fā)展的技術(shù)是蘋果目前復(fù)興的核心。Laurene和我有一個美好的家庭。

我相當(dāng)確信，如果我沒被蘋果解雇，這一切之中的任何事情都不會發(fā)生。這是一計苦藥，但是我想我這個病人需要它。有時候，生活象用板兒磚拍頭一樣打擊你。別失去信心。我深信當(dāng)時唯一讓我支持下去的原因就是我熱愛我所作的一切。你一定要找到你所熱愛的。這對你的事業(yè)是這樣，對你的愛人也是如此。你的事業(yè)將會占據(jù)你生活的很大一部分，你真正得到滿足的唯一途徑就是去做你堅信是偉大的事業(yè)。而做偉大的事業(yè)的唯一途徑就是熱愛你所作的一切。如果你還沒有找到，繼續(xù)找。不要妥協(xié)。就像其他一切需要用心靈去感受的事物，當(dāng)你找到的時候，你會知道的。就象任何美滿的伴侶關(guān)系，隨著時間的推移，事情會變得更美好。所以，繼續(xù)找吧，直到你找到。不要妥協(xié)。

我的第三個故事是有關(guān)死亡的。

在我17歲的時候，我讀到一段話，大概是“如果你按照生活的每一天都好象是你生命的最后一天那樣活著，總有一天你會確信你的方向是對的。”這句話給我留下了深刻的印象，從那以后，在之后的33年里，我每天早晨都會對著鏡子問自己“如果今天是我生命的最后一天，我還會去做我今天將要做的事情嗎?”而每當(dāng)連續(xù)幾天我的回答總是“不”時，我知道我需要做些改變。

記住很快我將離開人世，這是幫助我做重大決定的最重要的工具。因為幾乎任何事情所有外界的期望，所有的自尊，所有對失敗或丟臉的恐懼在死亡面前都會煙消云散，只剩下那些真正重要的東西。記住你會死去，這是我所知的避免陷入患得患失的陷阱的最好的方式。你已經(jīng)赤條條無牽掛。你沒有任何原因不去追隨你的內(nèi)心。

一年前我被診斷為癌癥。早晨7點半我做了掃描。掃描清楚的顯示在我的胰臟上有一個腫瘤。我都不知道胰臟是什么。醫(yī)生們告訴我?guī)缀蹩梢钥隙ㄟ@類癌癥是無法治愈的。我應(yīng)該不會活過3到6個月。我的醫(yī)生建議我回家把后事準(zhǔn)備好，這也是醫(yī)生對準(zhǔn)備去死的說法。也就是在幾個月的時間里對你的孩子說所有的事情，那些你曾經(jīng)認(rèn)為你會有下一個10年的時間去說的一切。也就是說確保一切安頓停當(dāng)，讓你的家人盡可能的從容一些。也就是你的告別。

我?guī)е@一診斷結(jié)果生活了一整天。晚上，我做了活組織檢測。他們把內(nèi)窺鏡插下我的喉嚨，穿過我的胃，進入腸子，用一根針穿入我的胰臟從腫瘤上提取一些細(xì)胞。我被麻醉了。但是我的妻子在現(xiàn)場。她告訴我，當(dāng)他們在顯微鏡下看過之后，醫(yī)生們喊叫起來。因為這原來是一種極為罕見形式的胰腺癌，可以通過手術(shù)治愈。我做了手術(shù)，現(xiàn)在我已經(jīng)沒事了。

這是我面臨死亡最近的一次。我希望這也是我今后幾十年內(nèi)最近的一次。經(jīng)歷過這一切，現(xiàn)在我可以更確信的對你說這一切，死亡不僅僅是一個有用但抽象的概念。

沒人希望死。即使是想進入天堂的人們也不想通過死亡進入那里。但是，死亡是我們共同的目的地。沒有人能逃脫。死亡就是這樣。因為死亡也許是生命中最好的發(fā)明。它是生命改變的媒介。它清理老的，給新的讓出路。現(xiàn)在，你們就是新的。但是，不久，你們會慢慢變成老的，然后被清理掉。原諒我這種非常直白的說法，但是，這是事實。

你的時間是有限的。所以不要浪費你自己的時間去過別人的生活。不要被教條所禁錮，被動接受別人思想的結(jié)果。不要讓他人意見的噪音蓋過你自己內(nèi)心的聲音。最重要的是，有勇氣去追隨你的內(nèi)心與直覺。你的內(nèi)心和直覺早已洞察了你真正想做的。其他的一切都不重要。

當(dāng)我年輕的時候，有一本優(yōu)秀的刊物叫The Whole Earth Catalog, 是我們那一代的圣經(jīng)之一。一個叫Stewart Branch的人在離這不遠(yuǎn)的Menlo Park用他詩人般的靈感創(chuàng)造了這一刊物。當(dāng)時是60年代末，還沒有個人電腦和桌面出版系統(tǒng)。所以，這本刊物全部是用打字機，剪刀和寶利來相機做出來的。這好像是紙上的Google,但在Google出現(xiàn)前35年：它是理想主義的，充滿了簡潔的工具與偉大的想法。

Stewart和他的團隊出版了幾期The Whole Earth Catalog。他們最終完成了自己的使命，出了最后一期刊物，時間是70年代中期。當(dāng)時我正處在你們的年紀(jì)。在刊物封底，是一幅清晨鄉(xiāng)間路的照片。如果你樂于冒險搭便車旅行就會看到這一種景象。在照片下面有一句話“保持渴望。固執(zhí)愚見。”(“Stay Hungry.Stay Foolish.”)這是他們的告別語。保持渴望。固執(zhí)愚見。我一直這樣勉勵我自己。現(xiàn)在，當(dāng)你們畢業(yè)，有新的開始，我同樣勉勵你們。

保持渴望。固執(zhí)愚見。

多謝你們!

第四篇：喬布斯斯坦福大學(xué)演講

于喬布斯，在2005年斯坦福大學(xué)的演講就是他最好的自傳。

你得找出你的所愛。

今天，有榮幸來到各位從世界上最好的學(xué)校之一畢業(yè)的畢業(yè)典禮上。我從來沒從大學(xué)畢業(yè)。說實話，這是我離大學(xué)畢業(yè)最近的一刻。今天，我只說三個故事，不談大道理，三個故事就好。

第一個故事，是關(guān)于人生中的點點滴滴怎么串連在一起。

我在里德學(xué)院（Reed college）待了六個月就辦休學(xué)了。到我退學(xué)前，一共休學(xué)了十八個月。那么，我為什么休學(xué)？

這得從我出生前講起。我的親生母親當(dāng)時是個研究生，年輕未婚媽媽，她決定讓別人收養(yǎng)我。她強烈覺得應(yīng)該讓有大學(xué)畢業(yè)的人收養(yǎng)我，所以我出生時，她就準(zhǔn)備讓我被一對律師夫婦收養(yǎng)。但是這對夫妻到了最后一刻反悔了，他們想收養(yǎng)女孩。所以在等待收養(yǎng)名單上的一對夫妻，我的養(yǎng)父母，在一天半夜里接到一通電話，問他們「有一名意外出生的男孩，你們要認(rèn)養(yǎng)他嗎？」而他們的回答是「當(dāng)然要」。后來，我的生母發(fā)現(xiàn)，我現(xiàn)在的媽媽從來沒有大學(xué)畢業(yè)，我現(xiàn)在的爸爸則連高中畢業(yè)也沒有。她拒絕在認(rèn)養(yǎng)文件上做最后簽字。直到幾個月后，我的養(yǎng)父母同意將來一定會讓我上大學(xué)，她才軟化態(tài)度。十七年后，我上大學(xué)了。但是當(dāng)時我無知選了一所學(xué)費幾乎跟史丹佛一樣貴的大學(xué)，我那工人階級的父母所有積蓄都花在我的學(xué)費上。六個月后，我看不出念這個書的價值何在。那時候，我不知道這輩子要干什么，也不知道念大學(xué)能對我有什么幫助，而且我為了念這個書，花光了我父母這輩子的所有積蓄，所以我決定休學(xué)，相信船到橋頭自然直。當(dāng)時這個決定看來相當(dāng)可怕，可是現(xiàn)在看來，那是我這輩子做過最好的決定之一。當(dāng)我休學(xué)之后，我再也不用上我沒興趣的必修課，把時間拿去聽那些我有興趣的課。

這一點也不浪漫。我沒有宿舍，所以我睡在友人家里的地板上，靠著回收可樂空罐的五先令退費買吃的，每個星期天晚上得走七里的路繞過大半個鎮(zhèn)去印度教的 Hare Krishna神廟吃頓好料。我喜歡Hare Krishna神廟的好料。追尋我的好奇與直覺，我所駐足的大部分事物，后來看來都成了無價之寶。舉例來說：

當(dāng)時里德學(xué)院有著大概是全國最好的書法指導(dǎo)。在整個校園內(nèi)的每一張海報上，每個抽屜的標(biāo)簽上，都是美麗的手寫字。因為我休學(xué)了，可以不照正常選課程序來，所以我跑去學(xué)書法。我學(xué)了serif與san serif字體，學(xué)到在不同字母組合間變更字間距，學(xué)到活版印刷偉大的地方。書法的美好、歷史感與藝術(shù)感是科學(xué)所無法捕捉的，我覺得那很迷人。

我沒預(yù)期過學(xué)的這些東西能在我生活中起些什么實際作用，不過十年后，當(dāng)我在設(shè)計第一臺麥金塔時，我想起了當(dāng)時所學(xué)的東西，所以把這些東西都設(shè)計進了麥金塔里，這是第一臺能印刷出漂亮東西的計算機。如果我沒沉溺于那樣一門課里，麥金塔可能就不會有多重字體跟變間距字體了。又因為Windows抄襲了麥金塔的使用方式，如果當(dāng)年我沒這樣做，大概世界上所有的個人計算機都不會有這些東西，印不出現(xiàn)在我們看到的漂亮的字來了。當(dāng)然，當(dāng)我還在大學(xué)里時，不可能把這些點點滴滴預(yù)先串在一起，但是這在十年后回顧，就顯得非常清楚。

我再說一次，你不能預(yù)先把點點滴滴串在一起；唯有未來回顧時，你才會明白那些點點滴滴是如何串在一起的。所以你得相信，你現(xiàn)在所體會的東西，將來多少會連接在一塊。你得信任某個東西，直覺也好，命運也好，生命也好，或者業(yè)力。這種作法從來沒讓我失望，也讓我的人生整個不同起來。

我的第二個故事，有關(guān)愛與失去。

我好運－年輕時就發(fā)現(xiàn)自己愛做什么事。我二十歲時，跟Steve Wozniak在我爸媽的車庫里開始了蘋果計算機的事業(yè)。我們拼命工作，蘋果計算機在十年間從一間車庫里的兩個小伙子擴展成了一家員工超過四千人、市價二十億美金的公司，在那之前一年推出了我們最棒的作品－麥金塔，而我才剛邁入人生的第三十個年頭，然后被炒魷魚。要怎么讓自己創(chuàng)辦的公司炒自己魷魚？好吧，當(dāng)蘋果計算機成長后，我請了一個我以為他在經(jīng)營公司上很有才干的家伙來，他在頭幾年也確實干得不錯。可是我們對未來的愿景不同，最后只好分道揚鑣，董事會站在他那邊，炒了我魷魚，公開把我請了出去。曾經(jīng)是我整個成年生活重心的東西不見了，令我不知所措。

有幾個月，我實在不知道要干什么好。我覺得我令企業(yè)界的前輩們失望－我把他們交給我的接力棒弄丟了。我見了創(chuàng)辦HP的David Packard跟創(chuàng)辦Intel的Bob Noyce，跟他們說我很抱歉把事情搞砸得很厲害了。我成了公眾的非常負(fù)面示范，我甚至想要離開硅谷。但是漸漸的，我發(fā)現(xiàn)，我還是喜愛著我做過的事情，在蘋果的日子經(jīng)歷的事件沒有絲毫改變我愛做的事。我被否定了，可是我還是愛做那些事情，所以我決定從頭來過。

當(dāng)時我沒發(fā)現(xiàn)，但是現(xiàn)在看來，被蘋果計算機開除，是我所經(jīng)歷過最好的事情。成功的沉重被從頭來過的輕松所取代，每件事情都不那么確定，讓我自由進入這輩子最有創(chuàng)意的年代。

接下來五年，我開了一家叫做NeXT的公司，又開一家叫做Pixar的公司，也跟后來的老婆談起了戀愛。Pixar接著制作了世界上第一部全計算機動畫電影，玩具總動員，現(xiàn)在是世界上最成功的動畫制作公司。然后，蘋果計算機買下了NeXT，我回到了蘋果，我們在NeXT發(fā)展的技術(shù)成了蘋果計算機后來復(fù)興的核心。我也有了個美妙的家庭。

我很確定，如果當(dāng)年蘋果計算機沒開除我，就不會發(fā)生這些事情。這帖藥很苦口，可是我想蘋果計算機這個病人需要這帖藥。有時候，人生會用磚頭打你的頭。不要喪失信心。我確信，我愛我所做的事情，這就是這些年來讓我繼續(xù)走下去的唯一理由。你得找出你愛的，工作上是如此，對情人也是如此。你的工作將填滿你的一大塊人生，唯一獲得真正滿足的方法就是做你相信是偉大的工作，而唯一做偉大工作的方法是愛你所做的事。如果你還沒找到這些事，繼續(xù)找，別停頓。盡你全心全力，你知道你一定會找到。而且，如同任何偉大的關(guān)系，事情只會隨著時間愈來愈好。所以，在你找到之前，繼續(xù)找，別停頓。

我的第三個故事，關(guān)于死亡。

當(dāng)我十七歲時，我讀到一則格言，好像是「把每一天都當(dāng)成生命中的最后一天，你就會輕松自在。」這對我影響深遠(yuǎn)，在過去33年里，我每天早上都會照鏡子，自問：「如果今天是此生最后一日，我今天要干些什么？」每當(dāng)我連續(xù)太多天都得到一個「沒事做」的答案時，我就知道我必須有所變革了。

提醒自己快死了，是我在人生中下重大決定時，所用過最重要的工具。因為幾乎每件事－所有外界期望、所有名譽、所有對困窘或失敗的恐懼－在面對死亡時，都消失了，只有最重要的東西才會留下。提醒自己快死了，是我所知避免掉入自己有東西要失去了的陷阱里最好的方法。人生不帶來，死不帶去，沒什么道理不順心而為。

一年前，我被診斷出癌癥。我在早上七點半作斷層掃描，在胰臟清楚出現(xiàn)一個腫瘤，我連胰臟是什么都不知道。醫(yī)生告訴我，那幾乎可以確定是一種不治之癥，我大概活不到三到六個月了。醫(yī)生建議我回家，好好跟親人們聚一聚，這是醫(yī)生對臨終病人的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)建議。那代表你得試著在幾個月內(nèi)把你將來十年想跟小孩講的話講完。那代表你得把每件事情搞定，家人才會盡量輕松。那代表你得跟人說再見了。

我整天想著那個診斷結(jié)果，那天晚上做了一次切片，從喉嚨伸入一個內(nèi)視鏡，從胃進腸子，插了根針進胰臟，取了一些腫瘤細(xì)胞出來。我打了鎮(zhèn)靜劑，不醒人事，但是我老婆在場。她后來跟我說，當(dāng)醫(yī)生們用顯微鏡看過那些細(xì)胞后，他們都哭了，因為那是非常少見的一種胰臟癌，可以用手術(shù)治好。所以我接受了手術(shù)，康復(fù)了。

這是我最接近死亡的時候，我希望那會繼續(xù)是未來幾十年內(nèi)最接近的一次。經(jīng)歷此事后，我可以比之前死亡只是抽象概念時要更肯定告訴你們下面這些： 沒有人想死。即使那些想上天堂的人，也想活著上天堂。但是死亡是我們共有的目的地，沒有人逃得過。這是注定的，因為死亡簡直就是生命中最棒的發(fā)明，是生命變化的媒介，送走老人們，給新生代留下空間。現(xiàn)在你們是新生代，但是不久的將來，你們也會逐漸變老，被送出人生的舞臺。抱歉講得這么戲劇化，但是這是真的。

你們的時間有限，所以不要浪費時間活在別人的生活里。不要被信條所惑－盲從信條就是活在別人思考結(jié)果里。不要讓別人的意見淹沒了你內(nèi)在的心聲。最重要的，擁有跟隨內(nèi)心與直覺的勇氣，你的內(nèi)心與直覺多少已經(jīng)知道你真正想要成為什么樣的人。任何其它事物都是次要的。

在我年輕時，有本神奇的雜志叫做Whole Earth Catalog，當(dāng)年我們很迷這本雜志。那是一位住在離這不遠(yuǎn)的Menlo Park的Stewart Brand發(fā)行的，他把雜志辦得很有詩意。那是1960年代末期，個人計算機跟桌上出版還沒發(fā)明，所有內(nèi)容都是打字機、剪刀跟拍立得相機做出來的。雜志內(nèi)容有點像印在紙上的Google，在Google出現(xiàn)之前35年就有了：理想化，充滿新奇工具與神奇的注記。

Stewart跟他的出版團隊出了好幾期Whole Earth Catalog，然后出了停刊號。當(dāng)時是1970年代中期，我正是你們現(xiàn)在這個年齡的時候。在停刊號的封底，有張早晨鄉(xiāng)間小路的照片，那種你去爬山時會經(jīng)過的鄉(xiāng)間小路。在照片下有行小字：求知若饑，虛心若愚。

那是他們親筆寫下的告別訊息，我總是以此自許。當(dāng)你們畢業(yè)，展開新生活，我也以此期許你們。

求知若饑，虛心若愚。

非常謝謝大家。

‘You’ve got to find what you love

I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world.I never graduated from college.Truth be told, this is the closest I’ve ever gotten to a college graduation.Today I want to tell you three stories from my life.That’s it.No big deal.Just three stories.The first story is about connecting the dots.I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit.So why did I drop out? It started before I was born.My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption.She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife.Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl.So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: “We have an unexpected baby boy;do you want him?” They said: “Of course.” My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school.She refused to sign the final adoption papers.She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.And 17 years later I did go to college.But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents’ savings were being spent on my college tuition.After six months, I couldn’t see the value in it.I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out.And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life.So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK.It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made.The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn’t interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.It wasn’t all romantic.I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5?? deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple.I loved it.And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on.Let me give you one example: Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country.Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed.Because I had dropped out and didn’t have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this.I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great.It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can’t capture, and I found it fascinating.None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life.But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me.And we designed it all into the Mac.It was the first computer with beautiful typography.If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts.And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them.If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do.Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college.But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.Again, you can’t connect the dots looking forward;you can only connect them looking backwards.So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.You have to trust in somethingI found what I loved to do early in life.Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20.We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees.We had just released our finest creationa year earlier, and I had just turned 30.And then I got fired.How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well.But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out.When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him.So at 30 I was out.And very publicly out.What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.I really didn’t know what to do for a few months.I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs downI still loved what I did.The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit.I had been rejected, but I was still in love.And so I decided to start over.I didn’t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me.The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything.It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife.Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world.In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I retuned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple’s current renaissance.And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.I’m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn’t been fired from Apple.It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it.Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick.Don’t lose faith.I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did.You’ve got to find what you love.And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers.Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work.And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking.Don’t settle.As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on.So keep looking until you find it.Don’t settle.My third story is about death.When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: “If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.” It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life.Because almost everythingthese things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose.You are already naked.There is no reason not to follow your heart.About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer.I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas.I didn’t even know what a pancreas was.The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months.My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor’s code for prepare to die.It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you’d have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months.It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family.It means to say your goodbyes.I lived with that diagnosis all day.Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor.I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery.I had the surgery and I’m fine now.This was the closest I’ve been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades.Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept: No one wants to die.Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there.And yet death is the destination we all share.No one has ever escaped it.And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life.It is Life’s change agent.It clears out the old to make way for the new.Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away.Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.Don’t be trapped by dogma-which is living with the results of other people’s thinking.Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice.And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.They somehow already know what you truly want to become.Everything else is secondary.When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation.It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch.This was in the late 1960’s, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras.It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue.It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age.On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous.Beneath it were the words: “Stay Hungry.Stay Foolish.” It was their farewell message as they signed off.Stay Hungry.Stay Foolish.And I have always wished that for myself.And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.Stay Hungry.Stay Foolish.Thank you all very much.喬布斯是個天才和瘋子，他每天必來到我們部門看昨天的成果，能聽到他罵人，我們并不生氣，因為我們知道他不允許產(chǎn)品上市后沒有銷路。

2011年8月25日，喬布斯先生宣布辭職的消息讓人吃驚，我們對他的健康狀況表示擔(dān)心。在辦公室里，也許再難聽到他罵人了，只留下曾經(jīng)他的那些經(jīng)典的激勵我們的語錄——

1、不要按照用戶的壞習(xí)慣去設(shè)計，也不要按照程序員的思維去設(shè)計！

1, do not according to user bad habits to design, also do not according to programmers thinking design!

2、有好的想法要堅持，不要被其他人的觀點的噪聲掩蓋你真正的內(nèi)心的聲音。當(dāng)你的想法站不住時，立即大度的丟棄，這其實是更是一種堅持。

2, have good ideas are going to insist, don’t be others’ opinion noise drown out your own inner voice.When your ideas stand, immediately magnanimous discard it is, and it is also a kind of persistence.3、任何一款產(chǎn)品都不應(yīng)該帶著BUG去見用戶，那怕失信于媒體推遲發(fā)布時間。

3, any product are not should bring a BUG to meet users, that is afraid to betray media postpone the release of time.4、產(chǎn)品一定是讓人感覺最新，但堅決不做小白鼠去嘗試前無古人的新產(chǎn)品。

4, products must be feeling letting a person, but resolute don’t do new mice to try an unprecedented new product.5、把標(biāo)志畫那么大干嗎？蘋果的產(chǎn)品要在任何時候都讓人一眼認(rèn)出是蘋果的產(chǎn)品而非是蘋果的標(biāo)志。

5, the sign painting so big? Apple products will at any time those who make a person recognized apple’s products rather than is the apple logo.6、比別人少用一條線獲得更低的工藝成本，比別人提供多一種價值認(rèn)同并獲得更高的利潤，這就是蘋果。

6, less than others with a line acquire lower process cost more than others, and provide a kind of value identification and obtain more profits, this is an apple.7、所有的產(chǎn)品一定會離開蘋果商店但不能離開蘋果系統(tǒng)，我們要幫助客戶持續(xù)使用蘋果產(chǎn)品，直到壽終正寢。

7, all products will leave apple store but cannot leave apple system, we have to help customers continued use of apple products, until died.8、IBM Thinkpad如果沒了小紅點，那它就不是Thinkpad。MACBook如果加了小紅點，那它即不是IBM Thinkpad也不是蘋果MACBook了。

8, IBM Thinkpad if not a little red dot, it isn’t Thinkpad.MACBook if added little red dots, that it is not IBM Thinkpad nor apple MACBook.9、讓團隊中那些說“不可能”的人感到實現(xiàn)不了是可恥的。

9, let team for those who say “impossible” people feel not achieve them is shameful.10、品牌不是打上蘋果的標(biāo)志就是蘋果的品質(zhì)，打上蘋果的標(biāo)志也需要信心和對客戶的承諾。10, brand is not playing apple logo is an apple quality, hit the apple logo also need confidence and commitment to customers.11、不要為別人而活，也不要為今天的自己而活，把今天的工作做好了，明天自然屬于你，薪水自然比別人高。

11, don’t lived for others, also don’t live for today’s themselves, to do good work today, tomorrow natural belong to you, high salary nature than others.12、產(chǎn)品設(shè)計時的所有功能都是一個整體，不應(yīng)該有任何理由去砍功能，破壞整體性。12, product design all the functions are a whole, should not have any reason to cut function, destroy unity.13、領(lǐng)袖和跟風(fēng)者的區(qū)別就在于創(chuàng)新，你的時間有限，所以不要像亞洲人那樣，浪費在模仿別人這種事上。

13, a leader and a follower innovation distinguishes between, your time is limited, so don’t like asians that, wasted in imitate others this kind of things.14、團隊中那些想用Keynote（蘋果的PPT）來證明自己的人只能說明你不行，請拿出解決方案。

14, team of people who want to use Keynote to prove themselves only shows that you can, please take out the solution.15、成為卓越的代名詞并不是因為他有多么聰明，而在于他有多么勤勞。

15, become the pronoun of not because of his remarkable how clever, but that he is how diligent.16、東方佛學(xué)中有一句話：永遠(yuǎn)保持初學(xué)者的心態(tài)；擁有初學(xué)者的心態(tài)是件了不起的事情。16,East: “there’s a phrase in Buddhism, ‘beginner’s never keep Have a beginner’s mind is a wonderful thing.17、不要小看ipod上的一顆按鈕，它和別人不一樣的是我們做了21個方案、84000次測試、57次改進，用戶的滿意源于不必要的堅持。

17, don’t look down upon a single button on the ipod, it and others are different is that we did 21 scheme, 84,000 times test, 57 times improvement, the satisfaction of customers from unnecessary insists

第五篇：喬布斯斯坦福大學(xué)演講視頻觀后感

第一次看喬布斯在斯坦福大學(xué)演講的時候，是在彌漫著濃厚硝煙味的高三。那是一個午后，陽光透過窗，灑在昏昏欲睡的同學(xué)身上。順著光，我可以看到有許多細(xì)微的顆粒在光中漂浮著。

小時代里的周崇光說：我們活在浩瀚的宇宙里，漫天飄灑的宇宙塵埃和星河光塵，我們是比這些還要渺小的存在。

我們就像是宇宙中一顆塵埃，或許此刻也一樣順著我們看不到的光在漂浮。我也不知道生活什么時候就突然改變方向，陷入墨水一般濃稠的黑暗里去。就像眼前的光和它的塵埃，你就真的能確定它所飄向的方向肯定有盡頭？

老師是在上課鈴前踏進教室的，看著已經(jīng)臥倒許多許久了的同學(xué)，眼神里充滿了憐憫。她也有過一段叫高三歲月，也同樣曾經(jīng)在昏沉的午后，試圖通過厚重的眼鏡去看透未來。

當(dāng)我們被失望拖進深淵，被疾病拉進墳?zāi)梗淮煺圹`踏地體無完膚，當(dāng)我們被嘲笑、被諷刺、被討厭、被怨恨、被放棄。但是我們卻總是 在內(nèi)心里保留著希望，保留著不甘心被放棄的跳動的心。老師就是試圖去保存著呵護著我們心中僅存的那一點點的希望，那尚還跳動的心，然后她就給我們看了喬布斯的演講視頻，希望我們能透過別人給予喬布斯閃耀的光環(huán)，去找到他真正的發(fā)光點。

那是適逢喬布斯離世的時候，大街小巷說的都是蘋果之父。我對這個我之前一點也不了解的男人的死訊的興趣完完全全比對他的演講還要高。這可能是和我當(dāng)時覺得大學(xué)畢業(yè)演講就應(yīng)該在大學(xué)畢業(yè)時才看的心態(tài)有關(guān)。而我尚還未高中畢業(yè)，大學(xué)八字更還未見一撇，所

以人家大學(xué)畢業(yè)又關(guān)我什么事？

因此，喬布斯的演講在我記憶中只留下了一個淺淺的輪廓。到了今天，時間如白馬過隙，轉(zhuǎn)眼我已經(jīng)是以學(xué)長的身份在學(xué)校晃悠了。毛概老師說要給我們看一個視頻，然后要寫觀后感。

當(dāng)我聽到要看的視頻是喬布斯在斯坦福大學(xué)的演講的時候，我尚還不屑一顧，這不就是我兩年前就看過的視頻了嗎？許多人就是這樣，總認(rèn)為自己看過、用過、或是曾經(jīng)擁有過得東西它就已經(jīng)失去了它原有的魅力，對自己原有的吸引力。其實經(jīng)典的東西永遠(yuǎn)都不會老的，它的價值會隨著歲月的流逝而變得比你愈加值錢。

生活中的因和果

在心理課上老師說：大一是不知道自己不知道，大二是知道自己不知道。

我現(xiàn)在大概就是這樣的一種狀態(tài)。

我一直在思索著自己之前所做的一切是否是值得的，有意義的。到了大二，我的確是發(fā)現(xiàn)了自己很多的不足，知道了自己有更多的東西需要學(xué)習(xí)，要更多的時間來充實自己。越是這樣子想，我就越是對部門協(xié)會的事情越是反感，感覺這樣一些所謂的鍛煉其實并不能給我什么，覺得這樣的實踐其實只要一個稍微有點智商的人也一樣可以做的很好，這真的不能代表著什么。

心灰意冷的后果就是極度的消極，而極度消極的后果就是自暴自棄。甚至一度懷疑到自己所學(xué)的專業(yè)，這真的是我所愛的嗎？

但是喬布斯和他的因和果就像是黑暗中的一點光芒。就如他所說的:你不可能把點點滴滴事先串連起來，只有回首往事，你才能把它們串在一起。

我的確不能否定現(xiàn)在還未對我產(chǎn)生作用或是影響的東西，說不定它以后就會改變我的一生！我所摸索的現(xiàn)在，所經(jīng)歷的現(xiàn)在，都只是為了給自己的未來一個契機，一個蛻變的契機。或許它現(xiàn)在還沒有展現(xiàn)它的價值，或許它現(xiàn)在真的沒有價值。但是誰又能代表未來發(fā)言？時間會告訴你的，你現(xiàn)在所做的一些并不是真的像你所想的那樣無用。

這個就是因，有因就同樣會有一個果在以后等你。

關(guān)于失去

失去的東西總是最美好的，因為我們會在回憶中把它變的更加完美。

我們總是會在高中的時候懷念初中，在大學(xué)的時候懷念高中。卻一直忽略你現(xiàn)在所唾棄的今天以后會是你所懷念的昨天。

剛剛踏進大學(xué)，和新的同學(xué)談的最多的不是以后的發(fā)展和計劃，也不是共同的興趣和愛好。而是自己的高中是如何的完美，以及自己的家鄉(xiāng)又是如何的秀麗。

偶爾的回憶，或許真的會讓人認(rèn)為你是個有感情的人。但是一直只活在回憶中那只會虐死自己。

失去并不代表什么，它不是人生的終結(jié),也不會是世界的末日。失去，有的時候更是意味著會遇到更多。

喬布斯說他失去蘋果與成功的光環(huán)的那些日子，卻是他一生中最快樂的日子。他不僅又成功的把自己的興趣和創(chuàng)意融合到自己的作品中，還收獲了讓他余生充滿幸福的婚姻。

生活就總是在不經(jīng)意間給你驚喜。它悄悄拿走你一樣?xùn)|西的同時,就只是想給你換來更多更美好的東西。

所以，不要去為失去的東西痛心疾首，它回不來的。而是要做好準(zhǔn)備去得到你將收獲的意外驚喜。

關(guān)于未來

在社會和生活的雙重壓力下，許多的人都開始覺得自己患上了一種叫做拖延癥的病。

我自己也曾經(jīng)這么的認(rèn)為過。我會把今天要完成的事情推給明天，但當(dāng)明天變成今天的時候，我就又有一個明天的時間來拖延了。直到期限的最后一天，拖無可拖的時候，我才會火急火燎的去熬夜通宵。其實這真的不是什么不可征服的拖延癥，而是懶的要命！

而且我們知道自己到底有多少個明天嗎？自己的明天不會有它也

本該完成的事嗎？

這的確不是什么的吉利的話，更不是什么詛咒。當(dāng)它的確說的很對，死亡和希望一樣，也總在不經(jīng)意間來臨。

我老當(dāng)益壯的父親，總以為自己可以看著我哥大學(xué)畢業(yè)，光宗耀祖，可以看著我續(xù)我哥之后，成為家里的第二個大學(xué)生，然后去向曾經(jīng)看不起我們的親戚鄰里證明，證明我們?nèi)烁F志卻不窮。然后父親也以為他可以抱上第一個孫子，當(dāng)上爺爺。

但當(dāng)未來看起來很美好的時候，對于現(xiàn)在來說，的確是一種幸福和期待。但是那還只是存在于未來，我們在未真正觸摸到的時候，就不能把它當(dāng)成已經(jīng)存在了的東西。

我父親就是這樣帶著遺憾離世的，在最后一刻他還念叨著尚在大學(xué)城的兒子怎么還未趕來見他最后一面？我清楚的記得父親的眼睛最后是沒有閉上的，我合不上它，我母親也合不上。或許只有他所期待的那些美好的愿景才替他合上他的雙眼吧！

未來是否存在我們不能肯定，但是我們能肯定的就是，現(xiàn)在就在我們的手上。我們是選擇握緊現(xiàn)在呢還是寄希望于飄渺的未來？都只是取決于我們選擇張開或是緊握雙手？

總之，我是不會讓今天那么容易的就溜走了的，至少我也要扯下它的一段尾巴，來證明我曾經(jīng)緊緊的握緊它過，來證明我的今天過得還尚有意義。

我們的明天有限，所以不要浪費時間活在別人的生活里。不要被教條所局限，盲從教條就是活在別人思考的結(jié)果里。不要讓別人的意見

淹沒了你內(nèi)在的心聲。最重要的是，要有勇氣追逐我們自己的內(nèi)心世界和直覺，它們多少已經(jīng)知道我們真正想要成為什么樣的人，其他任何事情都是次要的！

把握我們能抓住的每一天，然后每一天都問自己：如果今天是我一生的最后一天，我要干些什么？

到了最后，我已經(jīng)知道了我的大學(xué)不應(yīng)該就只是這樣子的。它應(yīng)該更精彩。

這是我對自己的承諾。