第一篇：Mydefinitionofsuccess——我對成功的定義

today i am very glad to be here to share with you my ideas of success.what is success? it is what everyone is longing for.sometimes success would be rather simple.winning a game is success;getting a high grade in the exam is success;making a new friend is success;even now i am standing here giving my speech is somehow also success.however, as a person’s whole life is concerned, success becomes very

complicated.is fortune success? is fame success? is high social status success? no, i don’t think so.i believe success is the realization of people’s hopes and ideals.nowadays, in the modern society there are many people who are regarded as the successful.and the most obvious characteristics of hem are money, high position and luxurious life.so most people believe that s success and all that they do is for this purpose.but the problem is wether it is real success.we all know there are always more money, higher position and better condition in front of us.if we keep chasing them, where is the end? what will satisfy us at last? therefore, we can see, to get the real success we must need something inside, which is the realization of people’ hopes and ideals.different people have different ideas about success;cause people’s hopes and ideas vary from one another.but i am sure every success is dear to everybody, cause it is not easy to come by, cause in the process of our striving for success, we got both our body and soul tempted, meanwhile we are enlightened by the most valuable qualities of human beings: love, patient, courage and sense of responsibility.these are the best treasures.so now i am very proud that i have this opportunity to stand here speaking to all of you.it is my success, cause i raise up to challenge my hope.what is success? everyone has his own interpretation as i do.but i am sure every success leads to an ever-brighter future.so ladies and gentlemen, believe in our hopes, believe in ourselves, we, every one of us, can make a successful life!

wish you all good success

第二篇：成功定義

The Definition Of SuccessNowsdays,most people define success only in terms of a lot of people or a high position.However I think succcess is a combination of things—health,happiness and fulfillment.It is said that all the wealth and reputation is an unlimated number of “0”,while health is the “1”.If not the “1”,life is only a “0”.For example,my uncle worked very hard and earned much money,but in the last he was diagnosed with cancer because of toil.From him ,I see the health is real success.Besides ,happiness is another yardstick for measuring whether a person is really successful.Like Grandet,he is really a wealthy merchant.But every day he just guards his money and maltreats his daughter.Never does he gain real happiness.Nowadays there are many persons like Grandet.Although they are wealthy ,they is always being lonely,just because their family disharmony and their friends not being trusted.In addition to health and happiness,achievement also stands for success.As long as you can gain the sense of achievement,no matter what your achievements are are all successful.Maybe a nurse thinks she is successful just because she helps the doctor save a patient, maybe a cleanerthinks she is successful just

because it is she that makes the city more beautiful, maybe a peasant thinks he is successful just because he gains a lot this year.What is the success? There are thousand success in thousand persons’ eyes.I just think health,happiness and achievement make up of the real success.The Definition Of Success

Nowadays, most people define success only in terms of a lot of people and a high position.However I think success is a combination of things-health,happiness and achievement.It is said that all the wealth and reputation is an unlimited number of '0',while health is the '1'.If you lose your health,your life will be vacant.For example,my uncle has toiled very hard and earned lots of money,but now he was diagnosed with cancer because of exert.From him ,I see only health can be the real success.Besides ,happiness is another yardstick for measuring whether a person is really successful.Like Grandet, he is really a wealthy merchant.But every day he just guards his money and maltreats his daughter.Never does he gain real happiness.Nowadays there are many persons like him.Although they are wealthy ,they is always being lonely,just because their family disharmony and their friends not being trusted.Apart from health and happiness, achievement also stands for success.As long as you can gain the sense of achievement,you are all successful whether your achievement is big or small.Maybe a nurse thinks she is successful just because she helps the doctor save a patient, maybe a cleaner thinks she is successful just because it is she that makes the city more beautiful, maybe a peasant thinks he is successful just because he gains a lot this year.Obama, who is President of the United States, is successful.While Tom,who is a cleaner in White House,is also successful.What is the success? There are thousand success in thousand persons' eyes.Only like this can we be succeed really.The Definition Of Success

Nowadays,most people define success only in terms of a lot of people and a high position.However I think success is a combination of things-health,happiness and achievement.It is said that all the wealth and reputation is an unlimited number of '0',while health is the '1'.If you lose your health,your life will be vacant.For example,my uncle has toiled very hard and earned lots of money,but now he was diagnosed with cancer because of exert.From him ,I see only health can be the real success.Besides,happiness is another yardstick for measuring whether a person is really successful.Like Grandet, he is really a wealthy merchant.But every day he just guards his money and maltreats his daughter.Never does he gain real happiness.Nowadays there are many persons like him.Although they are wealthy ,they is always being lonely,just because their family disharmony and their friends not being trusted.Apart from health and happiness, achievement also stands for success.As long as you can gain the sense of achievement,you are all successful whether your achievement is big or small.Maybe a nurse thinks she is successful just because she helps the doctor save a patient, maybe a cleaner thinks she is successful just because it is she that makes the city more beautiful, maybe a peasant thinks he is successful just because he gains a lot this year.Obama, who is President of the United States, is successful.While Tom,who is a cleaner in White House,is also successful.What is the success? There are thousand success in thousand persons' eyes.I think the definition of success is composed of health,happiness and achievement.Only like this can we be succeed really.The Definition Of Success

Nowadays,most people define success only in terms of a lot of people and a high position.However I think success is a combination of things-health,happiness and achievement.It is said that all the wealth and reputation is an unlimited number of '0',while health is the '1'.If you lose your health,your life will be vacant.For example,Jack is a company man.He worked six days a week,five of them until eight or nine at night.And he was always eating fast food and never did sports.In return,his salary was dramatically large.However,he worked himself to death,finally and precisely,at three clock Sunday morning.Besides,happiness is another yardstick for measuring whether a person is really successful.Like Grandet, he is really a wealthy merchant.But every day he just guards his money and maltreats his daughter.Never does he gain real happiness.Nowadays there are many persons like him.Although they are wealthy ,they is always being lonely,just because their family disharmony and their friends not being trusted.Apart from health and happiness, achievement also stands for success.As long as you can gain the sense of achievement,you are all successful whether your achievement is big or small.Maybe a nurse thinks she is successful just because she helps the doctor save a patient, maybe a cleaner thinks she is successful just because it is she that makes the city more beautiful, maybe a peasant thinks he is successful just because he gains a lot this year.Obama, who is President of the United States, is successful.While Tom,who is a cleaner in White House,is also successful.What is the success? There are thousand success in thousand persons' eyes.I think the definition of success is composed of health,happiness and achievement.Only like this can we be succeed really.

第三篇：成功的定義

As we all know, YuanLongPing is a successful scientist.And I think a successful man should have some attributes.The first, he should have an ideal.A good ideal is the basis of success.The second, he will confident all the time.The third, the patience is also important.If a man who has this three attributes, I guess he will be a successful man.what is success? When we are talking about success, mostly the first image comes into our mind is an image of a successful business man with high social status, apartment, and quite a lot of property.Most people believe that is success and all that they do is for this purpose.To be clear about what success is must be the first step to achieving success.To a football player，scoring on the field is success.To a soldier, killing the enemy is success.To us, during the exam, getting a high score is success.even now I am standing here giving my speech is somehow also success.While, for those who want to fail, is not.And this remind me of what success to a robber is managing to get money from the bank, to a murder is successfully kill someone he wanted to kill.Money to a hungry man is not a success though it can by food.But food is.Today I am very glad to be here to share with you my ideas of success.It is what everyone is longing for.Sometimes success would be rather simple.However, as a person’s whole life is concerned, success becomes very complicated.What is success? Different people have different opinions on this question.Is fortune success? Is fame success? Is high social status success? My answer is not.Nowadays, in the modern society there are many people who are regarded as the successful.And the most obvious characteristics of them are money, high position and luxurious life.But the problem is whether it is real success.We all know there are always more money, higher position and better condition in front of us.If we keep chasing them, where is the end? What will satisfy us at last? Therefore, we can see, to get the real success we must need something inside, which is the realization of people’ hopes.Forrest Gump’s mother said, ‘life is like a box of chocolate ,you never know what you are goanna get.' I would say if the chocolate you got is not your favorite.Don't get upset but try the next.Meanwhile we are enlightened by the most valuable qualities of human beings: love, patient, courage and sense of responsibility.These are the best treasures.So now I am very proud that I have this opportunity to stand here speaking to all of you.So far, the best definition I have concluded is: “Success is the achieving anything intended.” In other words success is finishing what you planned to do.It is my success.

第四篇：我對成功的理解

淺談對“成功”的理解

生命的獎賞遠在旅途的終點，而非起點附近。當你踏上一千步的時候任然遇到挫折，堅持，成功就藏在那拐彎處！這是我人生的信念。

成功，就是達成所設定的目標。

成功，對很多人來說都一直很遙遠，因為他們在人生的旅途中不斷為自己設定新的目標為之奮斗。愛因斯坦有一個公式：A=x+y+z，A是成功，x是艱苦的努力，y是正確的方法，z是少說廢話。

職業(yè)經理人說：今年我成功了，因為我完成了營銷目標；

設計師說：我成功了，因為我的設計稿得到客戶的認可；

學生說：我成功了，因為我考取了名校獲得了學位。

在近二十年的職業(yè)生涯中，我覺得擁有多少金錢并不就證明一個人的成功，而樹立有價值的目標被循序漸變?yōu)楝F(xiàn)實的過程，那才是一種成功的幸福！

有成功就有信念，因信念而具有意義。

有成功就有機遇，因機遇是黃金。

有成功就有欲望，因欲望是方向。

有成功就有信心，因信心是一種激情的堅持！

我有信念，有欲望，還有信心和激情的漸進，現(xiàn)在就看是否有機遇去完成那目標到達成功！

美國前總統(tǒng)羅斯福說：“不做總統(tǒng)，就做廣告人”，我要說：“做了廣告人還要做職業(yè)經理人”

陳文濤于武漢2011-9-19

第五篇：關于成功的定義(精)

關于成功的定義

jiamiu

關于成功的定義

1，成功是一個中性的詞。（可能在很多的人看來成功是一個褒義詞。）比如小偷偷東西達成了，對小偷而言，他是成功的，但對社會而言，他就不能算是成功，因為他的成功標準不被社會所認同。

2，成功是預期目標的達成。如果沒有目標，那么成功就無從談起。3，目標必須達成。如要存款10000，如果存了9000就不能算是成功。4，成功有明顯的個性化特征，標準因人而異。個人的標準，他人標準，群體標準。這就是為什么congolin說的，將目標定低一些不就成功了嗎？確實沒錯，如果你的計劃是存9000以上，那么你就是成功的。也就是多成功有個人自己的標準。同時還有通俗的群體和他人的標準。在他人看來，你存10000算得了什么，壓根就不叫成功。所以根據標準得不同，成功有完全不同得定義。所以關鍵要有自己的標準。自己是如何定目標，就有自己的成功。

5成功有量化的指標。很多人所說的更進一步，更好，賺更多的錢，這樣的指標是難于衡量是否成功的。成功與否就變的說不清了?！冻晒σ欢ㄓ蟹健?/p>

congolin

談談我自己畢業(yè)一年的感受，我對“成功”的理解，希望能幫到大家。

以前聽銷售培訓的時候，“成功”經常掛在講師的嘴邊，或許是用金錢代表，或許是地位、能力的提升、積德，總之它變成了明確的外化的目標，激勵我們。再后來業(yè)績不理想，跳槽了，輪到我給人家說成功（一笑），自己的斤兩是知道的，我避而不談，只談自己在銷售過程中的體會和心得，但在接觸一些培訓教材、培訓講師時，也總會提到這兩個字。我不斷地問自己，到底”成功“是什么？我有沒有教唆別人，誤導別人的嫌疑？如果說成功有一個客觀標準的話，那么這個客觀標準未免太過于廣泛了，只要改變自己的認知就可以了。正比如認知評價理論、認知失調理論所述，往往是行為決定態(tài)度。我沒錢——”錢不是萬能的，我成功了“，我缺少家庭溫暖——“我有情婦，我成功了”，我不知道為什么干這行但我還是干了十年——“我適應能力強，我干一行愛一行，我成功了”。

但往往認知不太容易改變，那如何？改變心智模式？找心理咨詢？NLP？信仰宗教？法*功？

我后來“走投無路”，決定考研，獨處的一段時間得以“淡泊明志”，反省自己的所得所失，前段時間看柯維《與成功有約》，書中提到生活重心、使命宣言的問題。再看南懷瑾先生的《論語別裁》，提到孔子等一系列人物。有所感悟，誠如馬斯洛所言，“成功”是一種高峰體驗，前提是自我實現(xiàn)需要的滿足，“自我實現(xiàn)需要”基于自己的價值觀，“滿足“基于個人的認知模式。

我當年為什么會追求成功卻不知道成功是什么？事實上我想要的是“高峰體驗”，而我把“高峰體驗”的獲得外化為“成功”，然后我又把“成功”的標準外化成一些社會標準或客觀標準，這反而讓我喪失了最根本的東西——價值觀、認知模式。所以我會這么盲目。

所以老師質疑我，為什么總將客觀標準和主觀標準、終極目標和主觀體驗對立，我沒說什么，因為這是我的心路歷程。

我的一些心得，可能很幼稚，希望諸君能感受到真誠。

jiamiu

——我后來“走投無路”，決定考研，獨處的一段時間得以“淡泊明志”，反省自己的所得所失，前段時間看柯維《與成功有約》，書中提到生活重心、使命宣言的問題。再看南懷瑾先生的《論語別裁》，提到孔子等一系列人物。有所感悟，誠如馬斯洛所言，“成功”是一種高峰體驗，前提是自我實現(xiàn)需要的滿足，“自我實現(xiàn)需要”基于自己的價值觀，“滿足“基于個人的認知模式。

誠如小林子所說，成功是一種高峰體驗。覺得很對。最近了解到痛苦的本質就是自我的喪失，自我沒有得到滿足。（很小的孩子是不會有痛苦的，但他會感受到疼；也就是說痛苦屬于靈魂，一個人失戀了，肉體沒有任何傷害，但他會很痛苦，也就是自我的需要沒有得到滿足，所以痛苦就產生了，但痛苦的前提是有自我的意識）

從這個角度出發(fā)，如果痛苦的對立面就是快樂的話，也即快樂就是痛苦的減輕（佛勒依德？）話，那么快樂其實就是一種自我的滿足（對立于自我喪失），一種靈魂的安寧和滿足，如果這就是小林子所說的成功的話，那么是否可以認為成功和快樂實際上有著非常緊密的關系？？

jiamiu

近來想寫個文章，題目想好了“從痛苦的本質談雷鋒精神的自私性”

也就是說雷鋒雖然是助人者，表面上看他是無私的，但實際上他在助人的過程中獲得了巨大的樂趣，也就是他在享受他的快樂，也就是他還是為了自己的快樂，所以本質上看，雷鋒還是自私的，只是這是另一種形式的自私。

congolin

是啊，我一直很贊同成功必然是快樂的！

我覺得Jiamiu斑竹的這個版塊不同的地方恐怕就是強調快樂吧，認識成功的本質是什么。

關于雷鋒精神那一段，我不自覺想起了大四學社會心理學時，三更時分和吾友雙華兄在光棍橋上嘆天嘆地，爭執(zhí)助人的本質，我覺得助人者其實是為了滿足自己更高層次的需求，同時也體現(xiàn)了自己的強大（好聽點叫影響力），換句話叫做“雙贏”。

但這畢竟還有“自我”，和shanren吾友聊過，他說佛家得罪高層次已經是“無我”了，一直都參不透禪機?；蛟S跟我的一次體驗有些相像：剛畢業(yè)，做保險，住在棠下，躺在床上，冥想自己在天空中俯視大地，自己似乎越飄越高，似乎看到了其他人此時此刻做些什么，體驗到他們的需求，他們的煩惱，最后飄到地球之外，注視著整個地球，似乎看到四季不斷地變幻，此時真的沒感受到自己的存在，然后……真的睡著了。