第一篇:初中英語美文欣賞
Don't judge a life by one difficult season 不要用一段艱難的時光來判定人生。
There was a man who had four sons.He wanted his sons to learn to not judge things too quickly.So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in the summer, and the youngest son in the fall.從前有一個人,他有四個兒子。他希望兒子們能學會不急于對事物下結論,于是依次派四個兒子出去,讓他們去遠方看一棵梨樹。就這樣,大兒子冬天前往,二兒子春天啟程,三兒子夏天出發,而小兒子則是在秋天動身的。
人生如樹,也有春、夏、秋、冬四季之分。樹之四季皆有不同,更何況人之四季呢?所以凡事不要急于定論。
When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.等兒子們都去過回來之后,這位父親把他們叫到一起,讓他們描述各自的所見。The second son said noand the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life-can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.他告訴他們:不應僅憑一個季節來判斷一棵樹,一段時間來看一個人;最后,到所有的季節都已終結時,才能衡量一個人的本質--以及他生命中的快樂、喜悅和愛。
If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.如果你在寒冬時放棄,你將失去春之希望,夏之燦爛,秋之收獲。所以,不要讓一時的痛苦毀棄你所有其他的快樂。
第二篇:初中英語美文欣賞
A Simple Gesture 只是舉手之勞
Mark was walking home from school one day when he noticed that the boy ahead of him had tripped and dropped all of the books he was carrying, along with two sweaters, a baseball bat, a glove and a small tape recorder.Mark knelt down and helped the boy pick up the scattered articles.一天放學后,馬克正走在回家的路上,突然看到前面的小男孩絆倒了,他帶的東西撒了一地,其中有很多書、兩件羊毛衫、一個棒球拍、一只手套,還有一個小型錄音機。看到這種場景,馬克不禁蹲下身,幫助男孩撿拾起來。
Since they were going the same way, he helped to carry part of the burden.As they walked Mark discovered that the boy's name was Bill, that he loved video games, baseball and history, that he was having a lot of trouble with his other subjects and that he had just broken up with his girlfriend.由于他們同路,馬克便幫男孩拿著一些東西。他們邊走邊聊。馬克了解到男孩名叫比爾,他喜歡玩電腦游戲,喜歡打棒球;他很喜歡歷史課,但其他科目卻學得一塌糊涂。馬克還了解到他剛跟女朋友分了手。
They arrived at Bill's home first and Mark was invited in for a Coke and to watch some television.The afternoon passed pleasantly with a few laughs and some shared small talk, then Mark went home.They continued to see each other around school, had lunch together once or twice, then both graduated from junior high school.They ended up in the same high school where they had brief contacts over the years.Finally the long awaited senior year came, and three weeks before graduation, Bill asked Mark if they could talk.他們先是到了比爾的家里,比爾邀請馬克喝可樂,并一起看電視。那個下午過得非常愉快,他們交流看法,還時不時地開懷大笑。然后,馬克回家了。從此以后,他們繼續往來,在學校附近相見,一起吃過一兩次午餐,并一起初中畢業。后來,他們升入同一所高中,并始終保持著簡短的接觸。最后,終于盼到中學快要結束了。就在畢業前的第三周,比爾問馬克,他們是否可以談一談。
Bill reminded him of the day years ago when they had first met.“Do you ever wonder why I was carrying so many things home that day?” asked Bill.“You see, I cleaned out my locker because I didn't want to leave a mess for anyone else.I had stored away some of my mother's sleeping pills and I was going home to commit suicide.But after we spent some time together talking and laughing, I realized that if I had killed myself, I would have missed that time and so many others that might follow.So you see, Mark, when you picked up my books that day, you did a lot more.You saved my life.”
比爾提到了多年前他們第一次相遇的那一天。“你有沒有想過為什么那天我會帶著那么多東西回家?”比爾問道。“事實是,那天我把自己的櫥柜全部清理干凈了,因為我不想給任何人制造亂七八糟的場面。我存下了媽媽吃的很多安眠藥,本想回家自殺。但是當跟你呆在一起又說又笑的時候,我意識到如果我自殺了,我就會錯過那些愉快的時光,也就欣賞不到以后隨之而來的許多其他的美好時光了。所以,馬克,你看,那天你幫我撿書的時候,你不只是在幫我撿書,實際上還為我做了很多。你拯救了我的生命。”
Every little hello, every little smile, every helping hand saves a hurting heart.There s a miracle called Friendship that dwells in the heart.Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed.They make you smile and encourage you to succeed.They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their heart to us.Show your friends how much you care...每一句小小的問候,每一個淺淺的笑容,每一只援助之手,都會拯救一個傷痛的心靈。友誼常駐心間會鑄就奇跡,朋友確實是稀世珍寶。他們帶給你歡笑,鼓勵你成功。他們會傾聽我們的心聲,與我們分享每一個贊揚,總是與我們坦誠相待。一定要讓你的朋友知道你有多么在乎他們??
陽光的聲音
老師破天荒布置了一篇自由作文。
The teacher delivered a free writing amazingly.孩子高興極了,想:終于可以擺脫討厭的命題作文,寫寫自己心里的東西了。
The child was so happy by thinking that he can finally write about his thought in his inner heart instead of the thesis writing.他躺在柔軟的草地上,陽光暖暖地照著,想啊想,然后一躍而起,一篇很滿意,甚至是很得意的文章便躍然紙上——《陽光的聲音》。
Lying on the soft grass land with the sunshine sprinkling over his body warmly, he jumped up after thinking and composed a satisfactory article------The Sound of the Sun.孩子滿懷信心地把作文交了上去,然后陷入了無盡的期待。
The boy handed in the composition with his fulfilled confidence, and then, he met the endless waiting.作文本發下來了。
At last, the paper was returned.春暖花開的日子里,孩子竟忍不住打了一個寒戰。
After seeing the result, the boy was trembled in the bloomy spring days.老師在作文后面批了一個大大的“差”字。
The teacher gave him a “poor”in the last as the evaluation..老師說:“可笑!陽光怎么會有聲音呢?!以后再也不能這樣寫了,要扣分的!”
孩子覺得很委屈,也很難過。
The teacher said, “How amuse you are!How can the sun make any noise?!You are not allowed to write the composition in this way any more..The marks you get will be very low in this way.那個“差”字像一個張牙舞爪的魔鬼,時時出現在他的夢里。
The?poor?evaluation is like a clewing devils, which will appear in his dreams sometimes.幾年以后,老師還是老師,孩子還是學生。只不過孩子長大了一些,成了老師家長眼中公認的好孩子,再也不會想一些不著邊際的事,說一些莫名其妙的話了。
Several years passed, the teacher is still who he is, and the student is himself the same but grows older.Meanwhile, he has been regarded as a good boy who will not talk about the ill-advised things or say the strange words.一天的閱讀欣賞課,老師講解的一位著名作家的文章里有一句:我聽見了陽光的聲音。
老師滔滔不絕地分析著這句話多么的優美,多么的富有哲理,可孩子一句也聽不進去。
But one day in an reading appreciation course, the teacher interpreted the sentence “I have heard the call of the sun” written by a famous author.His teacher spouted how graceful this sentence was, and how sensible it was, but he can hardly focus himself on even a word of it.孩子望了一眼窗外刺眼的陽光,想:陽光怎么會有聲音呢?
想到這,他冷冷地笑了。
Then, the boy faced the dazzling sunshine thinking that: how can the sun make the sound? And then, he made a smile coldly.“You are the only one who can make you happy.” We have all heard that so many times in our lives.There are times it is a pretty tough pill to swallow.In reality, the people that surround you have a huge impact on your current mood.When your children are grumpy in the morning, you find a nice pile the dog left you over night, you hit the road and the traffic won?t allow you your normal speed, then when you get to work and your co-worker called in sick...these are all things that might contribute to your overall Happiness of the day.However, moods and temporary emotions are not the same as happiness.Happiness exists when you look at the overall picture of your life and you smile, that is happiness.You know those times when you can?t wait for your children to go to bed, then later you check on the kids and you almost cry because they look exactly like angels...YOUR ANGELS, sleeping so sweetly and soundly.You can hardly remember a time of irritation with them.That is Happiness.As life progresses and changes, we realize that who we are,(what makes us, us)...that is what we are responsible for.We know that immediate gratification or irritation only pacifies or deteriorates our emotional stimuli short term.Our global view of how we see ourselves determines our state of mind.Our state of mind determines our Happiness.So, how do we take control of our emotions and find the path of Happiness? This seems to be the million dollar question.There are tons of books on or related to the subject.You could read and practice until you are completely confused.Or, we could spend the rest of our life introspectively evaluating what makes us happy.Which might take more time and energy and actually frustrate us more.How about this? What if we looked at ourselves and decided what we liked and didn?t like and set about making changes.It doesn?t have to be major alterations.Maybe you are tired of your house but can?t afford to move.Try painting the living room or buying flowers to set on the kitchen table.If you haven?t had a vacation for awhile and just can?t afford to take that cruise, go camping instead.Maybe the issues are more personal or internal.Do you get mad too easily? Learn yoga or meditation.Are you having marital problems? Visit a counselor.Are the kids having discipline issues? Determine the major issues, establish guidelines on how you are going to correct the problem and stick to it.You may be saying, ?Sure, that sounds so easy but...? Of course it sounds easy.Problems are always easier to talk about than to take the obvious actions to fix them.But, for the most part, things are as difficult or as easy as we determine them to be.Sometimes we just make things harder than necessary.If your unHappiness stems from a situation beyond your control then find other ways to compensate.If, for example, money is so tight and no apparent windfall is coming your way any time soon, find inexpensive entertainment.Backyard ballgames, picnics in the park, movie night with popcorn and snacks in your bedroom are a few alternatives to an expensive night out.If the issues are more serious and you feel powerless, that is the time to seek professional help.Otherwise, look in the mirror and be glad.If you don?t like what you see, change it.Make the solution that simple!
“你是唯一一個可以讓自己幸福的人。”我們總是聽到有人說我們還有很多的時間。
那些時間就像在吞咽一顆苦澀的藥片讓人無奈。事實上,你圍繞在你周圍的人會對你的心情會有相當大的影響。例如,早晨你的孩子很不聽話,一夜過后你的夠給你留下一堆特別的東西,你撞到墻上然后交通又限制你正常速度,當你開始工作時你的同事打電話說他身體不適等等,這些事情都將會影響你一整天的幸福感覺。
然而,心情和暫時的情感都是不能和幸福相提并論的。幸福存在于你看到你生活的整個畫面時,你面帶微笑。是的,這才是幸福。你知道的,你沒能等到你孩子去睡覺,但是當去檢查他們睡得是否安好時,你幾乎能流淚,因為他們睡得是如此的香甜,就像是天使??你的天使。你似乎不記得他們曾有讓生氣的時候了。這才是幸福。
隨著生活的變化和提高,我們開始認識到我們是誰,(是什么早就了現在的我們,我們?)?我們的責任是什么。我們知道一時的滿足和煩惱只是使我們使情緒得到短暫安慰或惡化。我們對我們自己的整體看法才會決定我們精神狀態,而我們的精神狀態又決定我們的幸福。
于是,我們要如何來控制我們的情緒,進而發現通往幸福的捷徑呢?這似乎是一個價值連城的問題。已經有成噸重的書對這個主題進行了闡述或涉及。你可以讀讀這些書并依此付諸實踐,知道你徹底迷茫;或者,我們可以用我們余下的時間來反思和評估是什么讓我們幸福。這些可能占有我們更多的時間和精力和帶給我們更多的挫敗。
那么如果我們這樣做呢?我們如果先自我審視一番,然后決定什么是我們喜歡的,什么是我們不喜歡的,接著開始改變。沒有必要一定是大的變化。例如,可能你已經厭倦了你現在的房子,但是你又沒有錢新買房搬家。那么你可以試著給你的房間刷上新的油漆,或者買一些花放到你的餐桌上。可能你沒有一個完整的長假去做長途旅行,那么你可以嘗試去露營。
這些話題可能太個人化或者內心化。你太容易發火嗎?那就學習瑜伽或者嘗試沉思吧!你有婚姻問題嗎?那就去咨詢一下婚姻顧問吧!你的孩子存在一些紀律問題嗎?那你可以找出主要問題,然后列出你打算改正這個問題的綱領并持之以恒。
你可能會說,“是的,這些聽起來很簡單,但是??”這聽起來當然簡單。談論問題總是比付諸行動去解決問題要簡單的多。然而,問題是困難的還是簡單的全憑我們解決的決心的大小。有時我們可能把問題復雜化了。
如果你不幸福的原因是來源于一種你無法控制的情形,那你可以尋找其他方法來加以彌補。譬如,如果你生活拮據并且不太有可能會突然大發橫財,那就找比較便宜的娛樂方式。比如,后院足球,公園野餐,看電影吃爆米花或者在臥室享受零食,做一些選擇來期待一次昂貴的外出。如果問題比較嚴重而你有感到無力,這時你就應該向專業人士來尋求幫助。
然而,看著鏡子中的你很快樂。如果你不喜歡你所看到的,那就改變它。解決的方法很簡單。
英語美文賞析:呼喚自由的鸚鵡
A man, a great man, a fighter for freedom was traveling in the mountains.He stayed in a caravans for the night.He was amazed that in the caravans there was a beautiful parrot in a golden cage, continually repeating “Freedom!Freedom!”.And it was such a place that when the parrot repeated the word “Freedom!” it would go on echoing in the valleys, in the mountains.一個人,一個了不起的人,一個為了自由而戰的斗士,正在山巒間穿行。今晚他留在一個大旅店里過夜。旅店里有一個金鳥籠,里面有一只漂亮的鸚鵡在不停地反復呼喊著“自由!自由!”,這讓他很震驚。那里是這樣的一種地方,當這只鸚鵡不斷地反復呼喊“自由!”的時候,這個詞便會在山巒間、在深谷中久久回蕩。
The man thought: “I have seen many parrots, and I have thought they must want to be free from those cages? but I have never seen such a parrot whose whole day, from the morning to the evening when he goes to sleep, is spent in calling out for freedom.” He had an idea.In the middle of the night, when the owner was fast asleep, he got up and opened the door of the cage.He whispered to the parrot, “Now get out.”
這個人想:“我看到過很多鸚鵡,也曾想過他們一定想從這些籠子里飛出去獲得自由??但是,我從沒有見過這樣的鸚鵡,從早到晚,直到入睡,一整天都在呼喊著自由。”他有了一個想法??午夜,當店主熟睡的時候,他悄悄起身,打開了鳥籠門,小聲地對鸚鵡說:“現在,出去吧。”
But he was very surprised that the parrot was clinging to the bars of the cage.He said to him again and again, “Have you forgotten about freedom? Just get out!The door is open and the owner is fast asleep;nobody will ever know.You just fly into the sky;the whole sky is yours.”
但是令他吃驚的是這只鸚鵡竟抓著鳥籠的橫木不放。他對它一遍又一遍地說:“你忘了自由了嗎?快出去!門開著,店主熟睡著,沒有人會看到。你只要飛向天空,整片天空就是你的了。”
But the parrot was clinging so deeply, so hard, that the man said, “What is the matter? Are you mad?” He tried to take the parrot out with his own hands, but the parrot started pecking at him, and at the same time he was shouting, “Freedom!Freedom!” The valleys in the night echoed and re-echoed, but the man was also stubborn;he was a freedom fighter.但是鸚鵡仍然牢牢地用力抓著橫木不放,于是他說:“怎么了?你瘋了嗎?”他試圖用手把鸚鵡弄出來,但是鸚鵡卻開始啄他,同時大喊:“自由!自由!”深夜的山谷里蕩起了一聲又一聲的回音,可是這個人也一樣地頑固,誰讓他是個自由之士呢。
He pulled the parrot out and threw him into the sky;and he was very satisfied, although his hand was hurt.The parrot had attacked him as forcefully as he could, but the man was immensely satisfied that he had made a soul free.He went to sleep.他把鸚鵡拽出來,扔向空中。他很滿意,盡管他的手受傷了。雖然鸚鵡全力地攻擊他,但是他卻心滿意足,因為他使得一個靈魂自由了。他便回去繼續睡他的覺。
In the morning, as the man was waking up, he heard the parrot shouting, “Freedom!Freedom!” He thought perhaps the parrot must be sitting on a tree or on a rock.But when he came out, the parrot was sitting in the cage.The door was open.早上,他睡醒了,聽見鸚鵡正在大喊:“自由!自由!”他想也許鸚鵡正落在一棵樹上或一塊石頭上呢。但當他出來的時候,鸚鵡正在籠子里,籠門還開著。Life is Like a Cafeteria 生活就像自助餐
A friend?s grandfather came to America from Eastern Europe.After settling down at Ellis Island, He went into a cafeteria in lower Manhattan to get something to eat.He sat down at an empty table and waited for someone to take his order.Of course nobody did.Finally, a woman with a tray full of food sat down opposite him and informed him how a cafeteria worked.“Start out at that end,” she said.“Just go along the line and pick out what you want.At the other end they?ll tell you how much you have to pay.” “I soon learned that?s how everything works in America,” the grandfather told a friend.“Life?s a cafeteria here.You can get anything you want as long as you are willing to pay the price.You can even get success, but you?ll never get it if you wait for someone to bring it to you.You have to get up and get it yourself.”
一個朋友的祖父從東歐到美國來。在埃利斯島安頓下來后, 他去曼哈頓一家抵擋的自助餐廳吃飯.他在一張空桌子邊坐下,等待侍者拿來菜單。沒有人來招呼他.最后,一位女士拿著滿滿一托盤食物走過來坐在他對面, 并告訴他自助餐廳怎樣進餐的。她說:“著手去做吧,去要你想要的東西,在餐廳的另外一端會有人告訴你該付多少錢。” 他對一個朋友說:“接著我很快了解到這就是美國人的工作方式”.生活就像自助餐, 你可以去要你想要的任何東西, 只要你能付得起他們的價格.你也可以想要成功, 但是如果你什么都不做等著別人能把它送到你身邊的話是永遠都不可能得到的.你必須勤勞,必須自己去追求它。
第三篇:初中英語美文
(B)The only survivor of a shipwreck was washed up on a small, uninhabited island.He prayed every day for God to rescue him, and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming.Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements, and to store his few possessions.But then one day, after searching for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, the smoke rolling up to the sky.The worst had happened;everything was lost.He was stunned with grief and anger.“God, how could you do this to me!” he cried.Early the next day, however, he was awakened by the sound of a ship that was approaching the island.It had come to rescue him.“How did you know I was here?” the man asked one of his rescuers.“We saw your smoke signal,” they replied.It is easy to get discouraged when things are going bad.But we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of pain and suffering.Remember, next time your little hut is burning to the ground, it just may be a smoke signal that summons the grace of God.For all the negative things we have to say to ourselves, God has a positive answer for it.1.What kind of accident was the man involved in? 2.How did the rescuers find him?
第四篇:美文欣賞
初二語文美文誦讀編號:
材料提供:徐飛
感謝遺憾
曾聽過一位哲人講的故事。一個旅人在路旁看到許多盛開的鮮花,他一邊走一邊采。沿途的花一朵比一朵大,一朵比一朵美,一朵比一朵香,到黃昏的時候,將近旅程的終點,他看到一朵巨大的奇異的花,在暮色中散發著沁人心脾的芬芳。他喜出望外,拋掉了手中的花,奔跑過去,但他的腳步卻因跋涉的疲勞而顯得有些沉重。他終于趕到了那朵花的面前的時,那朵花已經枯萎了,他絕望的握住花梗,手一搖動,花瓣一片一片的掉了下來。
于是,有人為旅人感嘆,如果他不留戀那些小花而大踏步地一直向前走,就可能得到那朵奇異的花。我卻不以為然,就算他得到了那朵令他喜出望外的奇異的花,當他回眸時,也會以同樣的心情遺憾錯過的那么多芬芳的無名的小花,也許就在這不起眼的無名小花叢中會有一朵更讓他心馳神往,更讓他感慨不已,更讓他喜極而泣??
人生是一個遺憾的過程,正因為有了無數個遺憾,我們的人生才變得如此精彩如此美麗。稍不經意的一次回眸,滿眼往事中最令人難忘和記憶猶新的注定是曾經有過的些許遺憾,就像我們常常忘記的夏日的沐浴,而記住了難捱的燥熱,忘記了冬季樹掛上的棉絮,而記住了嚴寒的冷酷。每一個遺憾倒給我們的都是凝重的思索,每一個遺憾留給我們的總是流年的感動。重要的是不要因為一次遺憾,而忘卻了我們人要風雨兼程的行旅。許多人因為沒有得到而抱怨而放棄而沉淪,智者會因為沒有得到而奮起而執著而追求。感謝遺憾,就是感謝生命的饋贈;感謝遺憾,前方的路才會走的更堅實;感謝遺憾,未來的日子才不會有太多的遺憾。帶著遺憾遠行,人生旅途會更的精彩!
思考:
本文語言優美,富有哲理,試賞析畫線的句
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經營好自己一生中的三天
人生到底有多少天?不同的人有不同的答案,但我看人的一生無一例外地只有三天:昨天、今天、明天。經營好這三天,就經營好了一生。
昨天的日子很長,說不清有多少天,但不管有多少天,也不管是受到挫折,還是取得輝煌,都辦能代表過去,不能代表將來。比如昨天貧困潦倒的人將來可能會變成富翁;昨天錦衣華食的人將來可能淪為乞人;昨天打工的人將來可能會變成老板。這就是三十年河東三十年河西。世上沒有永遠的勝利,也沒有永遠的失敗,勝利和失敗在合適的條件下是能夠轉化的。因此,我們不必為昨天的挫折而萎靡不振,也不必為昨天的輝煌而狂妄自大。只有把過去的挫折和輝煌都作為今天的墊腳石,才能攀登美好的明天。
今天的日子很短。而且正在自己的腳下以秒計算地縮短。今天是昨天和明天的接力處,接力棒交得好,便會走向輝煌的明天;接力出問題,便會前功盡棄。因此,面對今天,我們不要總是懷念過去,過去的就讓它過去了,只有從零開始,腳踏實地,全身心地經營好今天,才會結出豐碩的果實。今天的事一定要今天完成,絕不能推到明天。如果總是面對今天望明日,明日何其多,明日的明日便是人生的盡頭了,結果不但今天沒有經營好,明天也悄悄地溜走了。
明天的日子還有多長?誰也說不清。明天是輝煌,還是落敗?誰也道不明。明天既向我們顯示機遇,又向我們發出挑戰。明天的希望是美好的,但路途絕不平坦,到處布滿荊棘。但不管怎樣,有一點是可以肯定的,那就是花好月圓的明天只接納奮斗不息者。
因此,我們只有善于汲取昨天的經驗和教訓,利用今天做好新跨越的準備,斗志昂揚地去挑戰明天,才能為人生畫上一個圓滿的句號。
思考:劃線句蘊含什么樣的哲理?
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失去也是一種幸福
或許生活就是這樣:“得之桑隅,失之東隅”。生活沒有永遠的一帆風順,正如古人說的那樣:“人生不如意者十之八九。” 在漫長的歲月里,順境與逆境,得意與失意,快樂與痛苦,無處不在,無時不困擾著我們。于是,生命里留下了許許多多的遺憾印跡,生活里有了無數聲長吁短嘆。遭遇坎坷,面對困境,我們總是在利與弊之間取舍,在失去與得到的交替之中成長。
一時間想不起是誰說過:“如果你因為失去太陽而流淚,那你也失去群星了”。乍眼看去這不經意的一句話深深地觸動了我,讓我嘗試換一種思維,換一種角度來思索失去與得到之間的區別和差距。于是不難發現獲得是一種幸福,失去是另一種幸福。明白在擁有的同時也有可能失去的道理。這句很有哲理,生活中,既有失望也有希望,有痛苦也有快樂。因此,我們要明白失去是痛苦的,但不能因此失去對生活的信心與希望,不能陷在焦慮與遺憾的泥沼里自暴自棄。
世間萬物都是一分為二的,有其利必有其弊。十全十美的事情是不可能存在的。俗話說得好:金無足赤,人無完人。當你遇到遺憾和失敗時,重要的是看你怎去面對和接受這個現實,而不是低頭嘆息任由其意志消沉。我們要走好人生的每一步,必須要有堅強的意志,腳踏實地的精神。既使前方道路是泥濘的、崎嶇的,充滿著危機;盡管你戰戰兢兢地向前走,也不可能避免偶爾會摔上一跤,甚至也會摔得頭破血流。但只要你能勇敢地爬起來,重新站起來,繼續地往前走,最終勝利總是屬于你的。
人生的道路是漫長的,如果你只會一味的感傷失去,那么你將一無所有,只有有能力去享受失去的“樂趣”的人,才能真正品嘗到人生的幸福。讓自己承受失去的東西,也許你會感到很痛苦,那也要自己去承受,別人是代替不了你的。傷和痛是有的,這就證明你已經長大了,成熟了。失去的時候,你可以哭,可以發泄,可以找朋友傾訴??過后,你的世界就會充滿了陽光。
生活中,我們既要享受收獲的喜悅,也要享受“失去”的樂趣。失去是一種痛苦,也是一種幸福。因為失去的同時你也在得到。失去了太陽,我們可以欣賞到滿天的繁星;失去了綠色,我們可以得到豐碩的金秋;失去了青春歲月,我們走進了成熟的人生?? 朋友,別因為失去了而感到遺憾,勇敢地去面對,做生活的強者!
思考:從修辭角度對畫線部分進行賞析。
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百歲長者的人生智慧
前同事說:「你都快要死了,還學計算機,你休息吧。」一百歲的趙爺爺說:「可是我還活著啊??。」趙慕鶴一生勤奮認真,就算一百歲高齡也要過得充實精彩。
趙慕鶴當年離家時,母親曾叮嚀他:「窮要窮得干凈,討飯都可以。」討飯的話,人家施舍你,至少他積了德,但欠債不還是最要不得的事。所以他這輩子不欠金錢債,也不欠人情債,人說無債一身輕,他一直過得很愉快、心安理得。
他不貪心,只求穩定
趙慕鶴小時候不缺錢,后來逃難,身上雖沒錢,總有人供吃住。來臺灣之前意外發了一筆小財,但到了臺灣以后,朋友借走兩千元去做生意,從此再找不到人。當時一個教員一個月才兩、三百元薪水,一坪土地十八元就買得到。他也只是自認倒霉,并沒有認真追討。因為他一直對錢很看得開,誰有困難他都借,大部分都沒還回來。
后來趙慕鶴一直在公家機關做事,他總記得父親說:「做公家的事發財,是無恥;做生意不發財,是無能。」在他的觀念里,做公家事應該是肚皮撐不了也餓不著,發了財就可能是貪污來的,所以他不求富貴,錢夠用就好。
77年他退休,那時還沒有優惠存款18%,他想如果退休金一次全部領出來,自己不會理財,用光了不就得討飯?又聽人家說新臺幣五年貶值50%,所以他最后選擇領一個月近四千元的月退俸。
因為知道自己不會管錢,手上便不留太多的錢,也不用信用卡,一次領一些,再怎么會花,最多也就是花掉一部分錢而已,這就是趙慕鶴以簡馭繁的理財之道。
他知道很多同事將退休金一次領出來,再投資做生意,想的是錢滾錢、利滾利,可是最后輸光賠凈的人很多。「一個人如果不了解自己,就有吃不完的苦頭,」趙慕鶴自認沒有賺錢的腦筋,也知道自己的極限:「公教人員會做什么生意?我不貪心,只求穩定。」
他不欠錢,人情債也必還
孫子讀大學時,趙慕鶴第一次發現連吃飯錢都不夠了。于是他申請了公教人員子女就學貸款,雖然沒有利息,但到孫子讀完大學時,累計已貸了九十幾萬元,當時自己一年收入才十六萬元,要怎么還?
其實只要趙慕鶴開口,很多人都愿意借他錢,但他寧可欠公家也不要欠私人。后來,有個多年前自高雄女子師范學校畢業的校友實在看不下去,知道直接借給趙慕鶴他不會接受,當時一美元兌新臺幣二十六元,她聽在銀行工作的先生說,美元一定還會漲,便拿出一百五十萬元借給趙慕鶴買美元,并跟他收銀行利息,趙慕鶴這才接受了。
趙慕鶴買了美元之后,美元便一直漲,他知道這個方法可行,這才又陸續向幾個同鄉、同事借了幾百萬元,并堅持給對方利息。而且為了讓債主放心,他買美元的存單都放在債主那里。
就這樣前后兩年,美元從二十六元一路漲到三十三元,趙慕鶴最后把所有美元脫手,又恢復了無債一身輕。
趙慕鶴不僅還金錢債,也不忘還人情債。債務還清后,賣美元的錢還剩下八萬元,他請幫忙的親友吃大餐,任他們喜歡吃什么菜就點什么。吃過飯后,他還送每個人一只五錢的金戒指。
其中有個同鄉借錢給趙慕鶴時未先知會太太,后來太太和他大吵一架,趙慕鶴從旁人那里一得知,馬上便把錢轉回了同鄉賬戶。但還完債請吃飯、送金戒指時,趙慕鶴也沒少算這個同鄉一份,他只想同鄉是有意幫忙,不愉快的事不必計較太多,錢是賺來的,皆大歡喜就好。
他不當守錢奴,懂得享樂
趙慕鶴現在每個月生活費一萬元已是足夠,他不抽煙、不喝酒、不賭博,生活簡單,自己煮飯,還有剩下的錢,他就出去玩。
由于朋友多,應酬也多,自然也有很多婚喪喜慶要應付,他雖然只有一個人,但只要出席一定包兩千元,不出席也是兩千元,絲毫不吝嗇。「我自己一個人,也是算一戶,多拿一千元出去也窮不了的,」他說。
趙慕鶴不想省錢,他認為到這個年齡了,錢不重要,生活才重要,身體健康才重要,該花就花,而且大大方方的花。老同事看不慣他花錢,說他才賺幾個錢而已,怎么老是招待那么多客人,「但我夠用啊。」他說。
還有同事建議,他老了,應該要存幾個錢。他笑了:「唉,我早就老了,還存什么錢,想開一點吧。」人家說七十才開始,但趙慕鶴說七十就老了:「老了以后,錢不重要,重要是心里的滿足。」
這些感想很多來自于身邊人的借鏡。譬如他有個同鄉,非常有錢,每個月又有六萬多元的退休俸,但卻舍不得吃、舍不得用。好喝酒,但平常在家買了也舍不得喝,參加喜宴時才變得很會
喝。走路不是很靈活,但是為了省錢,仍堅持自己煮飯、打掃,舍不得花錢請人。最悲哀的是,雖然拚命存錢,但沒有人需要他的錢,因為兒女自己都有好工作,而且因為他的個性吝嗇不好相處,小孩、太太都不愿意和他住一塊了。
趙慕鶴從來不會苛待自己,也幾乎沒有不滿足的時候,走到哪里都順其自然,也都隨遇而安。
近幾年他偶爾會受邀演講或寫書法,人家給他講師費、車馬費,他卻從來不領,他的理由是:「章子蓋一大堆,還要跑什么請款流程,太麻煩了,我沒有那兩千塊錢,還是照樣過日子。錢,夠生活就好,多了我也不要。」
趙慕鶴不投資,也不買保險,他留了一個小套房給孫子,覺得這樣就夠了,留太多錢給子孫不是好事。
他不求人,自己料理生活
趙慕鶴還沒退休時,曾因為膽積水開刀住院住了二十幾天,他只跟人事處請了假,沒有朋友知道他去哪里,因為他不要人家來探病。
即使哪天生了病,他也覺得沒必要讓孫子知道。「他知道了也沒用啊!」他認為在現代這種忙碌的工商社會,晚輩照顧長輩已經不是應不應該的問題,而是能力的問題:「兒女都在工作,沒辦法照顧你,又不能老請假,心情多無奈。在醫院里,自然有醫生、護士照顧啦。」
所以趙慕鶴生病,也不想要人陪:「陪了還是虛弱啊,再多人來陪我,我該死還是要死的。」趙慕鶴喜歡講實際,不太喜歡講溫情,他認為中國人喜歡講人情,但講人情的人有時也很絕情,「因為他想的都是人情買賣。」
趙慕鶴現在獨居,自己料理一切生活大小事,有客人上門,他還能下廚弄幾道菜吃,一屋子訪客加起來歲數可能還沒有他多。
總而言之,無論是生、是病、是死,趙慕鶴都不想給人添麻煩。他覺得這輩子他唏哩呼嚕過來了,一直抱著逃難的心理,「沒想過升官發財,只希望不欠金錢債、不欠人情債,也不要求人,不要向人低頭,無愧于天地間。」
他不再婚,沒有非份之想
趙慕鶴自大陸來臺,一直堅守獨身,其實他相貌端正又有正當工作,也頗有女孩子緣,但他離家時,母親曾經交代家里已經有太太、有小孩,不要再結婚,否則會制造很多問題。這些話,他一直謹記在心,因而拒絕了幾次機會。
趙慕鶴七十多歲時,自認已經老得不像樣了,還有一個不到四十歲的小姐想要嫁給他,他覺得很不可思議:「我大她三十幾歲哪!」趙慕鶴當然是拒絕了。
趙慕鶴九十七歲時,還有一個退休的老師想要嫁給他。她說希望生活有個寄托,問他愿不愿意老來伴。
趙慕鶴對她說,如果覺得日子無聊,可以做志工,也可以幫忙人家照顧小孩。「為什么要嫁人?妳再嫁人,人家會瞧不起妳喔。嫁得好就算了,嫁不好不就很倒霉?」
母親的話言猶在耳,而且他想得很開,很清楚自己能力到哪里,逃難出來,養得活自己就不錯了,不要逞強。人生啊,要頭腦清楚。
趙慕鶴:1911生。高雄師范大學輔導中心主任退休,98歲拿碩士學位,是臺灣最老碩士,期間每天通勤逾4小時,2年都全勤。趙慕鶴活得精彩,歸因原點竟是以死亡為師。他說「我這輩子就是逃難心理,人生是不停的逃難。」九死一生的經歷,讓他認真活在當下。作者不詳
思考:文章用小標題有什么作用?
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第五篇:美文欣賞
1、《熱愛生命》:我不去想,是否能夠成功。既然選擇了遠方,便只顧風雨兼程。我不去想能否贏得愛情,既然鐘情于玫瑰,就勇敢的吐露真誠。我不去想身后會不會襲來寒風冷雨,既然目標是地平線,留給世界的只能是背影。我不去想,未來是平坦還是泥濘,只要熱愛生命,一切,都在意料之中。
2、《素面朝天》:是的,我并不美麗。但素面朝天并不是美麗女人的專利,而是所有女人都可以選擇的一種生活方式。看看我們周圍。每一棵樹,每一葉草,每一朵花,都不化妝,面對驕陽,面對風雪,它們都本色而自然。它們會衰老和凋零,但衰老和凋零也是一種真實。作為萬物之長的人類,為何要把自己隱藏在脂粉和油彩的后面。我們都會衰老。我鎮定的注視著我的年紀,猶如眺望遠方一副漸漸逼近的白帆,為什么要掩飾這個現實呢?掩飾不單是徒勞,首先是一種軟弱,自信并不與年齡成反比,就像自信并不與美麗成正比。勇氣不是儲存在臉龐里,而是掌握在自己手中。化妝品不過是一些高分子的化合物、一些水果的汁液和一些動物的油脂,它們同人類的自信與果敢是不相干的東西。猶如大廈需要鋼筋鐵骨來支撐,而決非幾根華而不實的竹竿我相信,不化妝的微笑更純潔而美好,我相信不化妝的目光更坦率而真誠,我相信不化妝的女人更有勇氣直面人生。假若不是為了工作,假若不是出于禮儀。我這一生,將永不化妝。
3、《關于友情》:友情因無所求而深刻,不管彼此是平衡還是不平衡。詩人周濤描寫過一種平衡的深刻:“兩棵在夏天喧嘩著聊了很久的樹,彼此看見對方的黃葉飄落于秋風,它們沉靜了片刻,互相道別說,‘明年夏天見’”楚楚則寫過一種不平衡的深刻:“真想為你好好活著,但我,疲憊已極,在我生命終結前,你沒有抵達,只為看你之后一眼,我才飄落在這里。”都是無所求的飄落,都是詩化的高貴。
4、《提醒幸福》:簡言之,幸福就是沒有痛苦的時刻。他出現的頻率并不比我們想象的少,人們常常只是在幸福的金馬車駛過去很遠時,撿起地上的金鬃毛說,原來我見過它。人們喜歡會為幸福的標本,卻忽略了幸福披著露水散發清香的時刻。那時候我們往往步履匆匆,瞻前顧后,不知在忙些什么。世上有人預報臺風,有人預報蝗蟲,有人預報瘟疫,有人預報地震,卻沒有人預報幸福。