第一篇：精選中英文短篇勵志小故事10篇(校訂版)

中英文勵志小故事10篇

（精編校訂版）

1、上帝那里沒有現成的果實

三個人千辛萬苦找到了上帝，請求他給予幫助。上帝問他們各需要什么。第一個人說他要一座大宅院；第二個人說，他要一個農莊；第三個人說他要一塊大金條。上帝說他可以滿足他們的需要。于是上帝給了第一個人一堆磚頭，給了第二個人一把種子，給了第三個人一把沙子。

No Ready-made Fruit in God’s Hand

Three guys finally got the God through trials and errors.They were eager to ask God for help.Right after the God asked what they want, the first man claim a big courtyard, the second a farmstead, and the third a bar of gold.God promised them.At last, the first man was given a pile of bricks, the second a bag of seed and the third a mass of sand.2、豪華大廈意味著衰落

珀金森的“辦公大樓法則”是：某個組織的辦公大樓設計得越完美，裝飾得越豪華，該組織離解題的時間越進。

他發現，有許多生意興隆的公司影響巨大的組織都設在不起眼的地方，住在簡陋的房屋里，一旦搬進豪華的大廈，便轉到衰退的軌道。例如，圣彼得教堂等宗教組織，就是在極盛時期開始修建這些教堂，宗教組織的實力就開始走下坡路了。國際聯盟大廈、凡爾賽宮、白金漢宮、英國殖民部辦工大樓等政治組織的大樓，都是在落成典禮之后，組織權勢便發生大幅度的下降，甚至帶來了厄運。如果珀金森了叫中國歷史，肯能會找到更多的例證，比如阿房宮，秦始皇陵等。為什么這些以豪華著稱的建筑物，都成了這些組織的“令莫”了？

珀金森以科學的態度進行如下推測：一個組織在興旺發達之時。往往緊張而忙碌，沒有時間和精力去設計和修建瓊樓玉宇，當所有的重要工作都已經完成，想到要修建與其成就相稱的大樓時，其時間和精力遍集中到表面功夫上，當某個組織的大樓設計和建造趨向完美之際，她的存在就開始失去意義。完美的樓堂意味著定局，而定局意味著終結。摘自《方圓法制》

The Meaning of Wane on the Skyscraper Parkinson’s rule of business office is : the more perfect designed and more luxury the decoration cornament is, the nearer to its deadline.He found out that many profitable business companies were all placed at some not so eye-catching locations and in the shady houses.Ever since moved into luxury mansions, these companies may led to its last day/wither away.For example, religious institutions such as St.Peter's Church, were built from the park of power, and at the exact time, their religious power become weak and even bad fortunes by them.If Parkinson knows Chinese history, then he may find more proofs like Epang Palace,The Mausoleum of Emperor Qinshihuang.I am wondering that why those architecture well-know as luxury al because the “tomb” of their bodies? With scientific spirit, Parkinson showed us his inference: when an institution is prosperous than never, it was too busy to design and build mansion with enough time and energy, while all key work done and considering to build a large building comparable to its achievements, its time and energy were concentrated on those superficial stuffs.When the design and building work of a constitution was about to complete, it has began to lose its meaning.Perfect buildings always mean a foregone conclusion,and a foregone conclusion also means a ending.3、在沉默中面對

最真實，最切己的人生感悟是找不到言辭的。

對于人生最重大的問題，我們沒跟人都是能在沉默中獨自面對。我們可以一般的談論愛情、孤獨、幸福、苦難、死亡等等，但是，那屬于每個人自己的真正意義始終在話語之外。我無法告訴別人我的愛情有多么溫柔，我的孤獨有多么絕望，我的幸福有多么美麗，我的幸福有多么美麗，我的苦難有多么沉重，我的死亡有多么荒誕。我只能把這一切藏在心中，我所說出的寫出的東西只是先思考的產物，而一切思考在某種意義上都是一種逃避，從最個別的逃向一般的，從命運逃向生活，從沉默的深淵逃向語言的彼岸。如果說他們尚未淪為純粹的空洞的概念，那也只是因為他們是從沉默中掙扎出來的，身上還散發著深淵里不可名狀的事物的七夕。

我不否認人與人之間溝通的可能，但我確信其前提是沉默，而不是言辭。美特林克說得好：沉默的性質解釋了一個人靈魂的性質。在不能共享沉默的兩個人之間，任何言辭都無法使他們的靈魂發生溝通。對于未曾在沉默中面對過相同問題的人來說，在深刻的哲理也只是一些套話，事實上那些淺薄的讀者奇缺分不清深刻的感悟和空洞的感嘆，格言和套話，哲理和老生常談，平淡和平庸，佛性和故弄玄虛的禪機。一個人言辭理解的深度取決于他對沉默理解的深度，歸根結底取決于她的沉默，亦即他的靈魂的深度。所以，在我看來，凡有志探究人生真理的人首要功夫便是沉默，在沉默中面對他靈魂中真正屬于自己的重大問題。到他有了足夠的孕育并因此感到不堪重負的時候，一切言語之門便向他打開了，這是他不但理解了有限的言辭，而且理解了言辭背后的沉默著的背后無限的存在。（摘自《中國社會報》）

Facing the Reality in Silence The truest and most expressive thought was hardly be expressed.We all face it alone in silence to the most important thing in life.We can talk occasionally about love, loneliness, happiness, miseries, death and so on, but the true meaning is hard to deliver by words.I cannot tell others how gentle my love is;how desperate my loneliness is;my enjoyable happiness is;how depressive my miseries is;how ridiculous my death is.I have no choice but to hide then deeply in my heart.All what I said and wrote but the product of thinking, while thinking, to some extend, is a kind of escape which from the particular to general, fate to life and the abyss of silence to the bank of language.If they have not become pure/solely and abstract idea, it is merely because they have newly struggled out from the silence and with something hard to tell in their bodies.I am not to deny the possibility of communication between human beings, but the condition.It is silence, instead of words.Maeterlinck had an excellent explanation: the nature of silence tells the nature of one’s soul.There is no any words may have a possibility to make a communication between their soul if the two cannot share the same silence.To those who have not solved the same questions in silence, even profound philosophy is only some polite formulas.In fact, those superficial reader have no ability to identify the profound philosophy and abstract thoughts, proverb and polite formulas, philosophy and truism, insipid/prosaic and commonplace, the knowledge of Buddha dharma and deceitful trick.One’s ability in words comprehension is based on his understanding to silence and eternally based on his silence;that is his capacity of soul.Therefore, I insist that the lesson of one who is determined to seek the life philosophy is silence----to face his important problem of sale in silence.Until he has enough accumulation and too tires to bear, all windows opened to him.This is the way that he not only understands the limited words, but also the unlimited information behind the silence of words.4、容易走的都是下坡路

他在一所大學做教授，90歲的時候，荏苒每天堅持工作8小時，不論春秋冬夏，也不論風霜雨雪。

他的秘書說：“他很衰弱，但是每天逼著自己從住的地方走過兩個街口到辦公室來，這段路要走一個小時，他卻一定要走，因為這使他自覺有成就感。”

有一天，有個大學生從他辦公室里出來，捧著一大堆書，一臉不高興的抱怨：“總是這一套。我問一個和簡單的問題，他可以用一個’是’或’否’回答，卻給我十幾本書，說可以在這些書里找到我所要的答案。”

他后來知道了這個學生的抱怨，微笑著說：“這就是我學到的讀書方法，艱難費事的方法。那孩子如能好好的鉆研這些書，就可以了解這個問題，將來也許能成為一個好律師。”

這個90歲的老人就是曾任美國哈佛大學法學院院長的龐德。有一位哲學家說：“你應該每一兩天做一些你不想做的事。” 這是人生進步的基礎。

正如另一位哲人所說“容易走的都是下坡路。”

All Slopes are Easy to Go He was a professor.At the age of 90, he still work eight hours everyday regardless the season and weather.His secretary said: “He is extremely old, but he forced himself walk from his living place to office through two blocks.It would take him an hour, but he insisted to because it makes him get a sense of success.”

The other day, an university student step out from his office with a pile of books.He complained emotionally: “He is always this man.He may answer me just with ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to my question.However, he always gave me dozens of books and suggests me to find the answer.”

Later, he knew what this student complained.He told with smile: “This is the method I have learnt, a hard and troublesome way.If that kid could make full use of those books, he might know his question and maybe a good lawyer in the future.”

This 90-year-old man was Pound, who was the president of law college in Haward University.Once a philosophist said: “You should do some thing that you don not want to every one or two days.”

This is the foundation of life progress.Just like another phlosophist said: “all slopes are easy to go.”

5、公平的分配

一個炎熱的下午，兩個農民在一棵大樹下乘涼。其中一個叫拉姆，另一個叫希亞。兩個人都帶著美味的面包充當午飯。拉姆帶了3個面包，希亞帶了5個。正當他們準備吃午飯的時候，一個商人路過此地。

“下午好，兩位先生。”商人向拉姆和希亞問候道。商人看起來又累又餓，所以拉姆和希亞邀請他和他們一起吃午飯。

“但是我們有三個人怎么分這三個面包呢？”拉姆為難了。

“我們把面包放在一起，再把每個面包切成均等的三塊。”希亞建議道。

把面包切開后，他們把面包平均分成三份，每個人都不多也不少。吃完面包后，商人堅持要給他們錢。拉姆和希亞推辭不掉，只好收下。待商人離開后，兩人一數金幣的數量——8個。“8個金幣，兩個人。我們就每人4個金幣。”拉姆說道。

“這不公平。”西亞大聲反對，“我有5個面包，你只有3個。所以我應該拿5個金幣，你只能拿3個。”

拉姆不想爭吵，但他也不想給希亞5個金幣。“我們去找村長做裁決。他是個公正的人。”拉姆說道。

他們來到村長毛爾維的家，把整個事情的經過告訴了他。毛爾維想了很久，最后說：“分配這筆錢的公平辦法就是希亞拿7個金幣，拉姆拿1個。”

“什么？”拉姆驚叫道。

“我為什么該得7個？”希亞也覺得很奇怪。

當毛爾維把他的分配理由解釋清楚后，拉姆和希亞打偶沒有對這個分配再提出異議。

這真的是一個公平的裁決嗎？

要知道毛爾維的裁決是否公平，就要先回答這些問題： 1、8個面包被切成了多少塊？

2、每個人吃了多少塊面包？

3、拉姆的面包被分成了多少塊？

4、拉姆吃了8塊面包，還剩幾塊留給商人？

5、希亞的面包被分成了多上塊？

6、希亞吃了8塊面包，還剩幾塊留給商人？

毛爾維決定只給拉姆一個硬幣，而給希亞7個，是因為商人吃了8塊面包，只有一塊是從拉姆的面包中來的，而其余7塊都是希亞的。

點示：我們憤憤不平，太多是因為我們只會算計，不會計算。

Just Allocation In a hot afternoon, two farmers were enjoying the cool under the tree.One farmer called L and the other called X.both carried tasty bread as their lunch.Ltook three bread and X five.A businessman passed by when they were ready to have lunch.“good afternoon, gentlemen.” The businessman greeted L and X.the businessman was tires and hungry.L and X invited him to have dinner together.“But we three men how to separate three breads? ” L confused.“Let’s put the breads together, then divide every one into three equal parts.” X suggested.Cutting and dividing the breads, they all got the exact one.Eating up the breads, the businessman insisted to pay and L and X have no idea but to get it.When the businessman went away, L and X counted the number of golden bills----eight.“Eight bills, two person.Four bills every one.” L said.“It’s unjust,” X opposed loudly, “I had five breads and you just three, so I should get five bills and you three.”

L reluctant to argue, neither would he gave X five bills.“Let’s invite our village manager Morwey’s house and tell all to him.” Thinking for a while, Morwey replied: “The just way to distribute these bill is X take seven bills and L one.” “Pardon?” L screamed.“Why should I posses seven?” Xalso felt strange.After Morwey explained his reason clearly, both Land X had no dispute on this allocation.Was this really a just rule? Answer these questions before you decide whether it was just or not: 1.How many small pieces the eight breads were divided into? 2.How many pieces every one ate? 3.How many small pieces did L’s breads?

4.How many pieces L left for the businessman after he ate eight? 5.How many small pieces did X’s breads were divided into? 6.How many pieces X left for the businessman after he ate eight? The reason that Morwey only gave L one bill and X seven because the businessman ate eight pieces and only one was left from L’s while other seven pieces from X.Tips: we always indignant mostly because we are used to scheming, but not counting.6、事情有多重要

我有一個手提箱要給你，里面有100萬美元現金。手提箱放在離你現在住的地方大約1小時車程的一幢大樓上，條件是：你要在2小時內到達那幢大樓。如果在2個小時之內到，我就把皮箱交給你，你就多了100萬美元。但是只要你遲到一分鐘，你就一分錢都得不到。那么你什么時候出發去拿幢大樓呢？

很多人會回答：“現在就去。”你呢？

你出發了。跳上你的車，發動，向那幢大樓方向開去。你相當激動，計劃著怎樣花那100萬美元。突然，路上堵車了，你的車子開不動了。你打開收音機，發現在你和那幢大樓之間發生了重大交通事故，你沒有別的路可以到達那里。你會怎么辦？你會打道回府嗎？或者打開車門走出來，走路（跑步或雇用直升飛機或用別的方法）去那幢大樓？

如果你去看牙醫，在路上也發生堵車，你肯定會轉回家，跟牙醫約另一天。

這兩種情況為什么會不一樣？因為出行的目的是不同的。如果你要做 的事情對你非常重要，再大的困難你都會設法克服;如果你覺得要做的事情不是很重要，遇到困難你就會放棄了。

所以，克服困難的最好的方法，就是把你要做的事情看得非常重要。

How Important It is There is a suitcase for you with a million US dollar in.The suitcase is placed in a building away from you about one hour driving.The condition is, you need to get there within two hours.If you did, I will give you the suitcase with a million US dollar.Or if you late for only one minute, nothing will you get.When would you get about? Many would say: “Now.” will you?

Now you set out.You hurry into your car, start it, drive for the building.You are so excited and wonder what to do about the one million US dollars.All of a sudden, you are stopped by the traffic jam.You turn on the radio and find there is no any way to get there because of the accident on your way.What will you do nest step? Go back? Or step out your car, go to the building on foot(running or employ a helicopter or other ways)? If, you are on the way to the dentist’s office and there is a traffic jam, surely you would turn back and appoit for another time.Why is there difference between these two thins? Because of the destination.If it is quite important for you, you will conquer it, regardless any hardship;or if yit is not so serious, you may call it a day.Therefore, the best way to face the difficulty is to make the thing a business.7、強光也是一堵墻

一位父親問他正讀小學三年級的兒子：“陰天的夜晚，天空中看不到星 星，是星星不存在嗎？”

兒子很干脆的回答：“不是。”

父親又問：“那位什么我們一顆星星也看不見呢？” 兒子答：“是云把星星都遮住了。”

父親接著又問兒子：“晴空萬里的白晝，天空中也看不見星星，是星星不存在嗎？”

兒子有些猶豫，顯然不知道該如何回答父親這個問題。

父親見兒子答不出，稍停了一下，說：“其實白天星星也存在，它們大都是恒星，永遠存在于太空中，只是我們肉眼看不到罷了。”

兒子好奇地問：“這又是為什么呢？”

父親想了一下。告訴兒子說：“是太陽的光太強了，它把所有星星的光都蓋住了。”

在生活中，很多人，很多事，也是如此。因為一個人或一件事所擁有的光環太強，不僅會把這個人或這件事本身的缺點遮住，而且還會把周圍其他人或其他事的優點也都遮住，讓大家無法看到他周圍人的真實面目或其他事的真相。這不是按個人的眼睛出了問題，而是因為對方的光太強了。

很多時候，強光也是一堵墻，是一堵肉眼看不見的墻，又是一堵肉眼無法看過去的墻，他可以迷惑我們正常的眼睛，也可以擋住我們正常的目光。

Intense Light, a Wall as Well A father is asking his son in grade three: “We cannot find the star in the shady night.Is it not there?”

His son answered it with clear –cut accent: “No.”

The father asked again: “Then why we cannot see any star?” His son replied: “The cloud hide them.”

Again the father asked: “There is no star in the sunny daytime.Where are they?”

Hesitated, his son seemed have no idea to respond.For a moment, the father said: “Actually there is yet stars but most of them are fixed stars,and stay in the universe.It is just we cannot see them with our eyes.”

His son asked curiously: “Why?”

Thinking for a while, the father answered: “Because the sunlight is too intense, and it shade the stars’ light.”

The same goes to many things in our lives.The intense light of one person or one thing, may not only shade its own defects, but also the merits of the person or thing around it and makes it difficult for others to identify the facts besides him.This is not the problem of one’s eye, but the intense light.Most cases, the intense light is a wall, a wall that cannot see and stride with our eyes.Not only can it confuse our normal eyes, but also hinder our normal sight.8、年齡加減法

發明大王愛迪生，在他79歲時，自豪而風趣地對人們宣布：“我已經是135歲的人了。”

流行天后麥當娜，在她40歲時，語出驚人地對外宣稱，她應該是35歲才合理。

79歲的愛迪生為何加歲到135歲？因為他積攢了超出常人多倍的時間財富：16至60歲，愛迪生通常每天工作18~20小時，而在實驗關鍵期，他則常常會通宵達旦、廢寢忘食地連續奮戰幾晝夜；60歲后，人們勸服他縮減了工作量，但每天仍要干16小時；80歲后，他依然堅持白天準時去實驗室，一干一整天，晚上回家還要讀3~5小時的書。愛迪生一生積攢和珍惜時間，如按平常人一生活動和工作的時間來計算，他的生命早已成倍 延長了，壽命早就大大增長了，所以他才將79歲加成135歲。

40歲的麥當娜為何要減歲到35歲？因為她認為生命中有些歲月是被浪費的，所以理應減去：她與前夫的婚姻，有一整年是在爭吵中浪費掉的，減1歲；她與好友因事翻臉，兩年友情算空白，減2歲；她出演過一部爛片，那一年毫無價值，又減1歲；她與某男星屢傳緋聞，那一年沒有意義，再減1歲。這般算來，她整整少了5歲，一下子從40歲減成35歲。年齡加減法，加入的是珍惜的時光，減去的是浪費的歲月；加入的是有意義有價值的時光，減去的是被揮霍被耗空的歲月。善用減法，可理智地梳理和清點過去；善用加法，可合理地安排現在，規劃未來。

The Counting Rule of Age At the age of 79, the inventor Adison announced with pound and humor: “I am 135 years old.”

Seemingly, at the age of 40, the popular queen Madana declared surprised that actually 35 years old might be more reasonable to her then.Why Adison thought he was 135 years old but not 79? This is because he accumulated the double working time than normal people: from 16-year-old to 60-year-old, Adison usually worked 18~20 hours every day.At some key point, he might worked all day and all night long without thinking of food and rest for several days in a row.;after 60 years old, he was suggested to decrease his work, but he insisted to work 16 hours every day;after his 80 years old, he still went to his lab punctuately and worked all day with another three to five hours’ reading after going home.The time that Adison accounted and treasured, if counted as the time scheme that normal people, his lifespan has undoubtedly doubled.Therefore, his age was not 79 but 135.Why Mdana held that she should be aged 35 but not 40? This is because she thought that sometime was be wasted in her life and of course should eliminated: the marriage time with her pre-husband was wasted in quarrels.This should be cut one year;the time she turned her back to her friend for something.This should reduce two years;she once been a actress in a nonsense film for a worthless year.This should delete one year;she was spotted with enormous love affairs should be cut;in this way, she totally lost five years and from the age of 40 t 35.The counting rule of age, add the treasure time and reduce the wasteful;accumulate the meaningful and worthy years, while cut the meaningless and worthless moment.Good at counting rules, you can carding and check your past in a wise way;good at counting rules, you can arrange yourself and make a plan for your future in a proper road..9、心情是別人的

好多人認為心情是自己的，其實，心情還是別人的。一段時間，我身體不是很好，感覺煩燥，妻子對我說，身體不好就去看，你這樣對身體也沒好處啊!你不高興，喊和孩子能高興嗎?還有一次，父親說話，我感覺煩。妻子說，既然父親說了，你就答應，至于你怎么做，還不是你說了算，我們能為老人做什么。只能讓他們高興。我也為此深感內疚。

人剛出生就有了心情。那時，餓了就哭，不隱瞞心情。長大后知道了，心情可以掩蓋，可以調節，這才有了面具之說。

按說心情是自己的，自己可以想怎樣就怎樣，但其實，因為你的心情而影響了別人心情，從這個意義上說，心情就是別人的。如果你能把心情當作是別人的，也許就會多一份責任，少一份任性;多一份理解，少一份固執;多一份關愛，少一份自私;多一份和諳，少一份紛爭。

（摘自《家庭主婦報》 孫志昌/文）

Our Mood Belong to Others Most of us hold that our moods are of ourselves.Actually, our moods belong to others.For a long time, I did not feel well and always upset.My wife comforted me and asked me to see the doctor.“Your condition does matter to yourself.On other condition, how can you make kids feel well when you are not feeling well? Another time, I was so annoyed with the talking of my father.My wife explaining again: “You’d better offer your sincere.As for how to do, you are the master.What we should do is just make them happy.” I deeply regretted for my bad manners.Man got his own mood ever since his birth.While young, we cried when we hungry and never pretended our secrets.As we grew up, we realized that we can hide our mod and adjust it.It is just like a mask.To be honest, the mood is our own business, and can express in the way we like to.In fact, since your mood has an influence on others, your mood belongs to others, too.If you hold your mod as others’, then you will be more responsible and less head strong, more understanding and less stubborn, more care and less selfish, more harmony and less dispute.10、你會遇到這些人

第一種導師、教練。他教給你的使用技巧一定的工作經不是書本知識。第二種，陪練、同路人。任何人的成長都不是學出來的，而是學而習、習而成習慣，練出來的。而在這個過程中，一個人很難堅持下來，你需要一個同路人。他可以是和你有共同興趣、共周目標的朋友，最好是你生命中所愛的人。

第三種，榜樣。他是你人生的標桿，不需要通過機遇，只平要通過努力為就可以達到的榜樣。

第四種。敵人。就是那些看不起你的人。拒絕過你的人。人，不到絕 境是不會有斗之志的，你要證明他是錯的，他會給你真正的動力。

第五種，最重要的人是你自己。這個世界上，失敗的人除了天分太差之外，還有以下幾點：懶、方向不對、方法不對、不能堅持。如果你自乙做不到，就不要怪別人。

（摘自《視野》 陳千影/文）

The Man You Will Meet First: director, coach.He taught you some skills and working experience that beyond your textbooks.Second: An assistant and accompany.None is merely born to mock, but further learning and practice.In this course, you are hard to be alone and thereby need an accompany.He maybe be your friend with the same interest and goal.It is better your dearest lover.Third: A model.He is the destination of your life.You maybe be him without opportunity but all your efforts.Fourth: An enemy, who overlooked you and rejected you.Men are to be encouraged with hopeless situation.To testify your ability and his false, he will create energy for you.The fifth: the most important person is you.In this world, except for talents, a failure possessed the following characters: laziness, wrong direction, wrong method and short of resistance.You will never blame others even id you cannot do on your own.

第二篇：勵志小故事(中英文對照)

2上帝那里沒有現成的果實

三個人千辛萬苦找到了上帝，請求他給予幫助。上帝問他們各需要什么。第一個人說他要一座大宅院；第二個人說，他要一個農莊；第三個人說他要一塊大金條。上帝說他可以滿足他們的需要。于是上帝給了第一個人一堆磚頭，給了第二個人一把種子，給了第三個人一把沙子。

No Ready-made Fruit in God’s Hand

Three guys finally got the God through trials and errors.They were eager to ask God for help.Right after the God asked what they want, the first man claim a big courtyard, the second a farmstead, and the third a bar of gold.God promised them.At last, the first man was given a pile of bricks, the second a bag of seed and the third a mass of sand.3蟲子的壓力

有這么一種蟲子，它的體長還不到一毫米，也許因為在電子顯微鏡下看起來像一頭黑熊，所以人們叫它雄蟲。它主要生活在淡水的沉渣，潮濕土壤以及苔蘚植物的水膜中。最近日本岡山大學物理學家小野文久發現了一個驚人的現象：當20只小熊蟲被放入密封的容器內，在實驗室制造的7.5萬個大氣壓下，20只熊蟲只有兩只死亡，其余的18只安然無恙。7.5萬個大氣壓！它相當于每平方豪米要承受700多千克重物的壓力，它足以上淀粉瞬間變性，生米頃刻為熟飯。自然條件下，地球上也只有180千米的地幔深處才擁有如此大的壓力。至今沒有人能弄清楚熊蟲為何如此能忍。不只是出于對這種超強生命力的尊重還是懷疑，有人叫它地獄之蟲。一個長度不超過1毫米的微不足道的蟲子，能承受命運給他如此的壓力，相比較而言，我們這些自稱是高級動物，智慧生命，萬物之靈的人呢？在人的現實生活中，有多少小小的心結，小小的壓力構成我們所謂的生存壓力。在這樣的壓力下又有多少悲觀失落之人將美好的人生稱作地獄？現在一比才覺得，其實我們的壓力就好比是真空，我餓美女的地獄就是天堂中的天堂。在那一刻，我在心里默默地鞠了一躬，不是為熊蟲，而是感謝造物主沒有把這樣的壓力降在人間。

Worm’s Pressure This is a worm whose body is no less than one millimeter.It is called 熊蟲(XC)perhaps for the reason that it looks like a black bear under the microscop.The XC usually habited in the slurry of fresh water, wet soil and the 水膜 of moss plants.Recently, there was an amazing news discovered by 日本岡山大學物理學家小野文久: when 20 little XC were placed in a sealed container under the 7.5 萬個大氣壓 making in experiment condition, there were only two died and the other 18 have no trouble at all.7.5 萬個大氣壓, equal to over 700 kilogram stress per square meter, which is powerful enough to它足以上淀粉瞬間變性 and the rice ready to eat.In natural condition, this pressure can only be found in the 地幔 beneath the earth 180 kilogram.Till now, nobody have an idea about the tolerance of XC.Someone also call it worm of hell out of admiration or suspicion.A worm, with its length less than one millimeter, is able to bear so heavy stress.Comparatively, we human beings, the so-called advanced animal, wisdom and genius of all, can do that? In our real lives, so much little minds, little stress has made up our living stress.How many pessimistic and disappointed people compare the beautiful life to the miserable hell under this pressure? By comparing, I suddenly realized that our stress is just like the vacuum and the hell is the heaven in heaven.At that moment, I made a bow in my mind.Not for XC, but for the freedom of this stress in the world made by the creator.9.豪華大廈意味著衰落

珀金森的―辦公大樓法則‖是：某個組織的辦公大樓設計得越完美，裝飾得越豪華，該組織離解題的時間越進。

他發現，有許多生意興隆的公司影響巨大的組織都設在不起眼的地方，住在簡陋的房屋里，一旦搬進豪華的大廈，便轉到衰退的軌道。例如，圣彼得教堂、羅馬教堂、梵蒂岡教堂等宗教組織，就是在極盛時期開始修建這些教堂，宗教組織的實力就開始走下坡路了。國際聯盟大廈、凡爾賽宮、白金漢宮、英國殖民部辦工大樓等政治組織的大樓，都是在落成典禮之后，組織權勢便發生大幅度的下降，甚至帶來了厄運。

如果珀金森了叫中國歷史，肯能會找到更多的例證，比如阿房宮，秦始皇陵等。為什么這些以豪華著稱的建筑物，都成了這些組織的―令莫‖了？

珀金森以科學的態度進行如下推測：一個組織在興旺發達之時。往往緊張而忙碌，沒有時間和精力去設計和修建瓊樓玉宇，當所有的重要工作都已經完成，想到要修建與其成就相稱的大樓時，其時間和精力遍集中到表面功夫上，當某個組織的大樓設計和建造趨向完美之際，她的存在就開始失去意義。完美我的樓堂意味著這定局，而定居意味著終結。摘自《方圓法制》

The Meaning of Wane on the Skyscraper 珀金森‘s rule of business office is : the more perfect designed and more luxury the decoration cornament is, the nearer to its deadline.He found out that many profitable business companies were all placed at some not so eye-catching locations and in the shady houses.Ever since moved into luxury mansions, these companies may led to its last day/wither away.For example, religious institutions such as 圣彼得教堂、羅馬教堂、梵蒂岡教堂, were built from the park of power, and at the exact time, their religious power become weak and even bad fortunes by them.If 珀金森 know Chinese history, then he may find more proofs like 阿房宮，秦始皇陵.I am wondering that why those architecture well-know as luxury al because the ―tomb‖ of their bodies?

With scientific spirit, 珀金森 showed us his inference: when an institution is prosperous than never, it was too busy to design and build mansion with enough time and energy, while all key work done and considering to build a large building comparable to its achievements, its time and energy were concentrated on those superficial stuffs.When the design and building work of a constitution was about to complete, it has began to lose its meaning.完美我的樓堂意味著這定局，而定居意味著終結。摘自《方圓法制》

10.在沉默中面對

最真實，最切己的人生感悟是找不到言辭的。

對于人生最重大的問題，我們沒跟人都是能在沉默中獨自面對。我們可以一般的談論愛情、孤獨、幸福、苦難、死亡等等，但是，那屬于每個人自己的真正意義始終在話語之外。我無法告訴別人我的愛情有多么溫柔，我的孤獨有多么絕望，我的幸福有多么美麗，我的幸福有多么美麗，我的苦難有多么沉重，我的死亡有多么荒誕。我只能把這一切藏在心中，我所說出的寫出的東西只是先思考的產物，而一切思考在某種意義上都是一種逃避，從最個別的逃向一般的，從命運逃向生活，從沉默的深淵逃向語言的彼岸。如果說他們尚未淪為純粹的空洞的概念，那也只是因為他們是從沉默中掙扎出來的，身上還散發著深淵里不可名狀的事物的七夕。

我不否認人與人之間溝通的可能，但我確信其前提是沉默，而不是言辭。美特林克說得好：沉默的性質解釋了一個人靈魂的性質。在不能共享沉默的兩個人之間，任何言辭都無法使他們的靈魂發生溝通。對于未曾在沉默中面對過相同問題的人來說，在深刻的哲理也只是一些套話，事實上那些淺薄的讀者奇缺分不清深刻的感悟和空洞的感嘆，格言和套話，哲理和老生常談，平淡和平庸，佛性和故弄玄虛的禪機。一個人言辭理解的深度取決于他對沉默理解的深度，歸根結底取決于她的沉默，亦即他的靈魂的深度。所以，在我看來，凡有志探究人生真理的人首要功夫便是沉默，在沉默中面對他靈魂中真正屬于自己的重大問題。到他有了足夠的孕育并因此感到不堪重負的時候，一切言語之門便向他打開了，這是他不但理解了有限的言辭，而且理解了言辭背后的沉默著的背后無限的存在。（摘自《中國社會報》）

Facing the Reality in Silence The truest and most expressive thought was hardly be expressed.We all face it alone in silence to the most important thing in life.We can talk occasionally about love, loneliness, happiness, miseries, death and so on, but the true meaning is hard to deliver by words.I cannot tell others how gentle my love is;how desperate my loneliness is;my enjoyable happiness is;how depressive my miseries is;how ridiculous my death is.I have no choice but to hide then deeply in my heart.All what I said and wrote but the product of thinking, while thinking, to some extend, is a kind of escape which from the particular to general, fate to life and the abyss of silence to the bank of language.If they have not become pure/solely and abstract idea, it is merely because they have newly struggled out from the silence and with something hard to tell in their bodies.I am not to deny the possibility of communication between human beings, but the condition.It is silence, instead of words.美特林克 had an excellent explanation: the nature of silence tells the nature of one‘s soul.There is no any words may have a possibility to make a communication between their soul if the two cannot share the same silence.To those who have not solved the same questions in silence, even profound philosophy is only some polite formulas.In fact, those superficial reader have no ability to identify the profound philosophy and abstract thoughts, proverb and polite formulas, philosophy and 老生常談, insipid/prosaic and commonplace, the knowledge of Buddha dharma and deceitful trick.One‘s ability in words comprehension is based on his understanding to silence and eternally based on his silence;that is his capacity of soul.Therefore, I insist that the lesson of one who is determined to seek the life philosophy is silence----to face his important problem of sale in silence.Until he has enough accumulation and too tires to bear, all windows opened to him.This is the way that he not only understands the limited words, but also the unlimited information behind the silence of words.14.容易走的都是下坡路

他在一所大學做教授，90歲的時候，荏苒每天堅持工作8小時，不論春秋冬夏，也不論風霜雨雪。

他的秘書說：―他很衰弱，但是每天逼著自己從住的地方走過兩個街口到辦公室來，這段路要走一個小時，他卻一定要走，因為這使他自覺有成就感。‖

有一天，有個大學生從他辦公室里出來，捧著一大堆書，一臉不高興的抱怨：―總是這一套。我問一個和簡單的問題，他可以用一個‘是‘或‘否‘回答，卻給我十幾本書，說可以在這些書里找到我所要的答案。‖

他后來知道了這個學生的抱怨，微笑著說：―這就是我學到的讀書方法，艱難費事的方法。那孩子如能好好的鉆研這些書，就可以了解這個問題，將來也許能成為一個好律師。‖

這個90歲的老人就是曾任美國哈佛大學法學院院長的龐德。有一位哲學家說：―你應該每一兩天做一些你不想做的事。‖ 這是人生進步的基礎。

正如另一位哲人所說―容易走的都是下坡路。‖

All Slopes are Easy to Go He was a professor.At the age of 90, he still work eight hours everyday regardless the season and weather.His secretary said: ―He is extremely old, but he forced himself walk from his living place to office through two blocks.It would take him an hour, but he insisted to because it makes him get a sense of success.‖

The other day, an university student step out from his office with a pile of books.He complained emotionally: ―He is always this man.He may answer me just with ?yes‘ or ?no‘ to my question.However, he always gave me dozens of books and suggests me to find the answer.‖

Later, he knew what this student complained.He told with smile: ―This is the method I have learnt, a hard and troublesome way.If that kid could make full use of those books, he might know his question and maybe a good lawyer in the future.‖

This 90-year-old man was 龐德, who was the president of law college in Haward University.Once a philosophist said: ―You should do some thing that you don not want to every one or two days.‖

This is the foundation of life progress.Just like another phlosophist said: ―all slopes are easy to go.‖

16．公平的分配 一個炎熱的下午，兩個農民在一棵大樹下乘涼。其中一個叫拉姆，另一個叫希亞。兩個人都帶著美味的面包充當午飯。拉姆帶了3個面包，希亞帶了5個。正當他們準備吃午飯的時候，一個商人路過此地。

―下午好，兩位先生。‖商人向拉姆和希亞問候道。商人看起來又累又餓，所以拉姆和希亞邀請他和他們一起吃午飯。

―但是我們有三個人怎么分這三個面包呢？‖拉姆為難了。

―我們把面包放在一起，再把每個面包切成均等的三塊。‖希亞建議道。

把面包切開后，他們把面包平均分成三份，每個人都不多也不少。吃完面包后，商人堅持要給他們錢。拉姆和希亞推辭不掉，只好收下。待商人離開后，兩人一數金幣的數量——8個。

―8個金幣，兩個人。我們就每人4個金幣。‖拉姆說道。

―這不公平。‖西亞大聲反對，―我有5個面包，你只有3個。所以我應該拿5個金幣，你只能拿3個。‖

拉姆不想爭吵，但他也不想給希亞5個金幣。

―我們去找村長做裁決。他是個公正的人。‖拉姆說道。

他們來到村長毛爾維的家，把整個事情的經過告訴了他。毛爾維想了很久，最后說：―分配這筆錢的公平辦法就是希亞拿7個金幣，拉姆拿1個。‖

―什么？‖拉姆驚叫道。

―我為什么該得7個？‖希亞也覺得很奇怪。當毛爾維把他的分配理由解釋清楚后，拉姆和希亞打偶沒有對這個分配再提出異議。

這真的是一個公平的裁決嗎？

要知道毛爾維的裁決是否公平，就要先回答這些問題： 1、8個面包被切成了多少塊？

2、每個人吃了多少塊面包？

3、拉姆的面包被分成了多少塊？

4、拉姆吃了8塊面包，還剩幾塊留給商人？

5、希亞的面包被分成了多上塊？

6、希亞吃了8塊面包，還剩幾塊留給商人？

毛爾維決定只給拉姆一個硬幣，而給希亞7個，是因為商人吃了8塊面包，只有一塊是從拉姆的面包中來的，而其余7塊都是希亞的。

點示：我們憤憤不平，太多是因為我們只會算計，不會計算。

Just Allocation In a hot afternoon, two farmers were enjoying the cool under the tree.One farmer called L and the other called X.both carried tasty bread as their lunch.Ltook three bread and X five.A businessman passed by when they were ready to have lunch.―good afternoon, gentlemen.‖ The businessman greeted L and X.the businessman was tires and hungry.L and X invited him to have dinner together.―But we three men how to separate three breads? ‖ L confused.―Let‘s put the breads together, then divide every one into three equal parts.‖ X suggested.Cutting and dividing the breads, they all got the exact one.Eating up the breads, the businessman insisted to pay and L and X have no idea but to get it.When the businessman went away, L and X counted the number of golden bills----eight.―Eight bills, two person.Four bills every one.‖ L said.―It‘s unjust,‖ X opposed loudly, ―I had five breads and you just three, so I should get five bills and you three.‖

L reluctant to argue, neither would he gave X five bills.―Let‘s invite our village manager Morwey‘s house and tell all to him.‖ Thinking for a while, Morwey replied: ―The just way to distribute these bill is X take seven bills and L one.‖

―Pardon?‖ L screamed.―Why should I posses seven?‖ Xalso felt strange.After Morwey explained his reason clearly, both Land X had no dispute on this allocation.Was this really a just rule? Answer these questions before you decide whether it was just or not: 1.How many small pieces the eight breads were divided into? 2.How many pieces every one ate? 3.How many small pieces did L‘s breads?

4.How many pieces L left for the businessman after he ate eight? 5.How many small pieces did X‘s breads were divided into?

6.How many pieces X left for the businessman after he ate eight? The reason that Morwey only gave L one bill and X seven because the businessman ate eight pieces and only one was left from L‘s while other seven pieces from X.Tips: we always indignant mostly because we are used to scheming, but not counting.18.事情有多重要

我有一個手提箱要給你，里面有100萬美元現金。手提箱放在離你現在住的地方大約1小時車程的一幢大樓上，條件是：你要在2小時內到達那幢大樓。如果在2個小時之內到，我就把皮箱交給你，你就多了100萬美元。但是只要你遲到一分鐘，你就一分錢都得不到。那么你什么時候出發去拿幢大樓呢？ 很多人會回答：―現在就去。‖你呢？

你出發了。跳上你的車，發動，向那幢大樓方向開去。你相當激動，計劃著怎樣花那100萬美元。突然，路上堵車了，你的車子開不動了。你打開收音機，發現在你和那幢大樓之間發生了重大交通事故，你沒有別的路可以到達那里。你會怎么辦？你會打道回府嗎？或者打開車門走出來，走路（跑步或雇用直升飛機或用別的方法）去那幢大樓？

如果你去看牙醫，在路上也發生堵車，你肯定會轉回家，跟牙醫約另一天。這兩種情況為什么會不一樣？因為出行的目的是不同的。如果你要做的事情對你非常重要，再大的困難你都會設法克服;如果你覺得要做的事情不是很重要，遇到困難你就會放棄了。

所以，克服困難的最好的方法，就是把你要做的事情看得非常重要。How Important It is There is a suitcase for you with a million US dollar in.The suitcase is placed in a building away from you about one hour driving.The condition is, you need to get there within two hours.If you did, I will give you the suitcase with a million US dollar.Or if you late for only one minute, nothing will you get.When would you get about? Many would say: ―Now.‖ will you?

Now you set out.You hurry into your car, start it, drive for the building.You are so excited and wonder what to do about the one million US dollars.All of a sudden, you are stopped by the traffic jam.You turn on the radio and find there is no any way to get there because of the accident on your way.What will you do nest step? Go back? Or step out your car, go to the building on foot(running or employ a helicopter or other ways)? If, you are on the way to the dentist‘s office and there is a traffic jam, surely you would turn back and appoit for another time.Why is there difference between these two thins? Because of the destination.If it is quite important for you, you will conquer it, regardless any hardship;or if yit is not so serious, you may call it a day.Therefore, the best way to face the difficulty is to make the thing a business.21.強光也是一堵墻

一位父親問他正讀小學三年級的兒子：―陰天的夜晚，天空中看不到星星，是星星不存在嗎？‖

兒子很干脆的回答：―不是。‖

父親又問：―那位什么我們一顆星星也看不見呢？‖ 兒子答：―是云把星星都遮住了。‖

父親接著又問兒子：―晴空萬里的白晝，天空中也看不見星星，是星星不存在嗎？‖

兒子有些猶豫，顯然不知道該如何回答父親這個問題。

父親見兒子答不出，稍停了一下，說：―其實白天星星也存在，它們大都是恒星，永遠存在于太空中，只是我們肉眼看不到罷了。‖

兒子好奇地問：―這又是為什么呢？‖

父親想了一下。告訴兒子說：―是太陽的光太強了，它把所有星星的光都蓋住了。‖

在生活中，很多人，很多事，也是如此。因為一個人或一件事所擁有的光環太強，不僅會把這個人或這件事本身的缺點遮住，而且還會把周圍其他人或其他事的優點也都遮住，讓大家無法看到他周圍人的真實面目或其他事的真相。這不是按個人的眼睛出了問題，而是因為對方的光太強了。很多時候，強光也是一堵墻，是一堵肉眼看不見的墻，又是一堵肉眼無法看過去的墻，他可以迷惑我們正常的眼睛，也可以擋住我們正常的目光。

Intense Light, a Wall as Well A father is asking his son in grade three: ―We cannot find the star in the shady night.Is it not there?‖

His son answered it with clear –cut accent: ―No.‖

The father asked again: ―Then why we cannot see any star?‖ His son replied: ―The cloud hide them.‖

Again the father asked: ―There is no star in the sunny daytime.Where are they?‖ Hesitated, his son seemed have no idea to respond.For a moment, the father said: ―Actually there is yet stars but most of them are恒星,and stay in the universe.It is just we cannot see them with our eyes.‖

His son asked curiously: ―Why?‖

Thinking for a while, the father answered: ―Because the sunlight is too intense, and it shade the stars‘ light.‖

The same goes to many things in our lives.The intense light of one person or one thing, may not only shade its own defects, but also the merits of the person or thing around it and makes it difficult for others to identify the facts besides him.This is not the problem of one‘s eye, but the intense light.Most cases, the intense light is a wall, a wall that cannot see and stride with our eyes.Not only can it confuse our normal eyes, but also hinder our normal sight.25 看著前方

一個朋友對我說:―當你憂傷時，請看著前方。‖

說來也怪，每當自己憂傷時，我很少看著前方，不是低低垂首，就是閉目不瞻，即便抬頭仰望星空，也是越看越茫然。憂傷時，自己的視野真的窄了。

這個朋友有一個冰雪聰明的女兒，美麗得像朵舞蹈著的花，但她完全看不到外邊的世界。朋友曾經傷心欲絕，但沒有人能夠幫助到他療傷，是殘酷的生活教會他看著前方，發現和擁有那些前行一段路程才能得到的喜悅。

看著前方，他看到已經長大的女兒——她更加漂亮乖巧，學會了自己照顧自己；她穿上了黑色的練功服、白色的舞蹈鞋，黑黑的頭發盤得高高的，用發光的發帶豎了起來；她時刻微笑著，那是匯集在她嘴角的點點明媚的春光；她變得堅強睿智，能夠自食其力，如她所愿，果真成了一名受人歡迎的舞蹈老師、、、、、、我們敲門時，上帝總是不在家。詩人朗費羅為此感慨不已：―你的命運一如他人，每個生命都會下雨。‖下雨時，憂傷時，最值得做的事情就像這位朋友所說的:看著前方！一分鐘不行，再看一分鐘，久久地看，一次又一次地看，用一生的經歷來看，用最真的愛滿懷著希望來看。看看是不是―所有的雨都會停‖，看看雨后的天空是不是更潔凈、更遼遠、更美麗，是不是還會奇跡般地出現彩虹。

上帝總有回家的時候，雨水總會停下，前方總有希望和喜悅。Look Ahead Once a friend suggested me: ―Look ahead when you are sad.‖

It is this weird that ever when I am in sad, I am always bow my head or shut my eyes regardless his suggestion.Even when I catch a glimpse of the sky with stars, but again at sea.When I am depressed, my vision narrowed.This friend has a lovely and smart daughter and so charming like a flower in dancing.But, she is unable to see the outside world clearly.My friend ever so grieve that he was so pessimistic.No other aids seem to help him, but he gained the delight after a journey of hardship with looking ahead that the crucial life taught him.Look ahead, he has witnessed his daughter‘s experience journey----she is more beautiful and tamer and can take care of herself.She dresses her black excise cloth, with white dancing shoes, black and high-twist hair style with lighting belt;she is always smile, indicating her charming youth in her mouth;she becomes strong in mind and smart, live on herself.As preferred, she becomes a warmly received dancing teacher…

The God is always absent when we knock His door.The great poet 朗費羅 could not help commending, ―Your你的命運一如他人，每個生命都會下雨.‖ When it rains and we feel sad, it is worth looking ahead.If one minute is not enough, then take one more.Looking again and again with a long time, or even your whole life and your love and hope.See whether所有的雨都會停;see the sky after rain if it is cleaner, vaster, more fantastic and see whether there is rainbow in magic.There is always the time the God go home;the stop for rain and the hope and joyous ahead.28老故事咂出新滋味

鐵杵磨成針的故事告訴我們：白費力氣的事盡管感人但卻是可笑的。明明買根針就能做活，非要用根大鐵棒磨它個三年兩載。方向和方法錯了，功夫下的再深也不行。

三顧茅廬的故事告訴我們：機遇是等來的。如果孔明先生主動上門求職，就不見得有這樣的效果。不過，這話只適合古代，現代人即使比孔明的本事大十倍，坐在家里干等也不見得有機遇出現。天知道重視人才的觀念是進步了還是退步了。

龜兔賽跑的故事告訴我們：永遠不要以己之短比別人之長，更不要因一時的僥幸成功把短當成長。如果是烏龜，可以跟兔子比潛水，也可以跟兔子比長壽，這才是烏龜的強項。

井底的之蛙故事告訴我們：什么樣的環境早就什么樣的人生，反過來也同樣，什么樣的人生適合什么樣的環境。別指責青蛙的短淺愚昧，因為蛙絕不可能從井底遷到東海生存。如果蛙受了教育啟發，從此志在東海，那只有徒增煩惱了。

武松打虎的故事告訴我們：英雄有時是被逼出來的。武松膽兒再大也是正常人，沒有人不拍老虎的道理。要不是犟脾氣加上十五碗小酒，決不回去做打虎的壯舉。其實他也沒想到會遇上老虎，真的遇上反而酒都被嚇醒了，說明他并不是真的想當英雄。不是他死就是虎亡，他把自己逼成了英雄。現實的很多典型與此很類似，每一個英雄的出現都是有前提的。

螳臂當車的故事告訴我們：即便粉身碎骨，也要為改變現狀做一些看似無效的努力。也許，當輪前的螳臂多了，車會慢下來或者停下來。

New understanding to classic stories 鐵杵磨成針tells us：Moving as the strenuous deeds, it is actually ridicules.Instead of buying a needle, he insisted to rub an iron stick exhausted for years.It is useless to work hard once the direction and method was wrong.三顧茅廬tells us：The opportunity is get by waiting.If Mr.Kong applied his position spontaneously, the result might be the other one.After all, it practices only in the old age.Though ten times the wisdom than King Ming, we modern people may lose enormous opportunities.Who knows if the attention to the talents is more or less? 龜兔賽跑 tells us：Never compete its shortcomes with other‘s merits, nor take the shortcomes as advantages for a short-time fortune.If you were a turtle, compete diving or lifespan with rabbit because these are your advantages.井底的之蛙 tells us：Man is what his surrounding and vise verse.The surrounding is fit for the man.Never condemn frog‘s narrow and foolish, for it never survive in the East Sea, it just a trouble made by itself.武松打虎 tells us：Hero is sometimes be made.A common though 武松‘s tremendous courage, for nobody without fear to tiger.Thanks to his stubborn and the fifteen 小酒, 武松 had the honor to kill the tiger.He also never knew that he might come across a tiger.His mind became clear the moment he saw the tiger;it showed he is not planned to be a hero.To be or not to be;was he kill the tiger and because a hero.Just like many incidents in life, every hero appears out of some conditions.螳臂當車 tells us：To change the situation, it prefers to do some useless efforts though it may die in pieces.Or maybe, when number of the same doers increased, the 車 may sow down or stop surprised.31年齡加減法

發明大王愛迪生，在他79歲時，自豪而風趣地對人們宣布：―我已經是135歲的人了。‖

流行天后麥當娜，在她40歲時，語出驚人地對外宣稱，她應該是35歲才合理。

79歲的愛迪生為何加歲到135歲？因為他積攢了超出常人多倍的時間財富：16至60歲，愛迪生通常每天工作18~20小時，而在實驗關鍵期，他則常常會通宵達旦、廢寢忘食地連續奮戰幾晝夜；60歲后，人們勸服他縮減了工作量，但每天仍要干16小時；80歲后，他依然堅持白天準時去實驗室，一干一整天，晚上回家還要讀3~5小時的書。愛迪生一生積攢和珍惜時間，如按平常人一生活動和工作的時間來計算，他的生命早已成倍延長了，壽命早就大大增長了，所以他才將79歲加成135歲。

40歲的麥當娜為何要減歲到35歲？因為她認為生命中有些歲月是被浪費的，所以理應減去：她與前夫的婚姻，有一整年是在爭吵中浪費掉的，減1歲；她與好友因事翻臉，兩年友情算空白，減2歲；她出演過一部爛片，那一年毫無價值，又減1歲；她與某男星屢傳緋聞，那一年沒有意義，再減1歲。這般算來，她整整少了5歲，一下子從40歲減成35歲。年齡加減法，加入的是珍惜的時光，減去的是浪費的歲月；加入的是有意義有價值的時光，減去的是被揮霍被耗空的歲月。善用減法，可理智地梳理和清點過去；善用加法，可合理地安排現在，規劃未來。

The Counting Rule of Age At the age of 79, the inventor Adison announced with pound and humor: ―I am 135 years old.‖

Seemingly, at the age of 40, the popular queen Madana declared surprised that actually 35 years old might be more reasonable to her then.Why Adison thought he was 135 years old but not 79? This is because he accumulated the double working time than normal people: from 16-year-old to 60-year-old, Adison usually worked 18~20 hours every day.At some key point, he might worked all day and all night long without thinking of food and rest for several days in a row.;after 60 years old, he was suggested to decrease his work, but he insisted to work 16 hours every day;after his 80 years old, he still went to his lab punctuately and worked all day with another three to five hours‘ reading after going home.The time that Adison accounted and treasured, if counted as the time scheme that normal people, his lifespan has undoubtedly doubled.Therefore, his age was not 79 but 135.Why Mdana held that she should be aged 35 but not 40? This is because she thought that sometime was be wasted in her life and of course should eliminated: the marriage time with her pre-husband was wasted in quarrels.This should be cut one year;the time she turned her back to her friend for something.This should reduce two years;she once been a actress in a nonsense film for a worthless year.This should delete one year;she was spotted with enormous love affairs should be cut;in this way, she totally lost five years and from the age of 40 t 35.The counting rule of age, add the treasure time and reduce the wasteful;accumulate the meaningful and worthy years, while cut the meaningless and worthless moment.Good at counting rules, you can carding and check your past in a wise way;good at counting rules, you can arrange yourself and make a plan for your future in a proper road..38、站在海倫的身后

有人問盲人作家海倫.凱勒，誰對她的人生影響最大？她回答：―安妮.沙利文！‖安妮卻糾正說：―不，對你人生影響最大的人，是一位清潔女工。‖

幼年的沙利文因嚴重眼疾，脾氣暴躁，被關進福利院的籠子。一個清潔女工經常鉆進籠子去安撫她，關懷她。安妮的心靈慢慢康復了。她離開福利院后，被培養成一名教師，第一個學生就是海倫。

海倫身后站著安妮，安妮身后是清潔女工，女工身后肯定還有好人。社會是由無數條―善‖和―惡‖的長鏈組成。你的一個溫馨的眼神，經過N次傳遞放大，長鏈的另一端可能連著一位偉人；而你的一句侮辱性的話語，那長鏈沒準會牽著一個混世魔王呢！

Standing behind Helen Someone asked blind writer Helen·Kater who had the most influence on her.She answered : ―安妮.沙利文‖ ―No, the man influenced you most is a ceaner.‖

Young 沙利文 had a serious disease in her eyes.She was in locked in a 福利院‘s cage because of her bad temper.Luckily, there was a cleaner often got into the cage, comfort and took care of her.Afterwards, Anny graduate healed and left the 福利院.Ever since she became a teacher, she first student was Helen.There ws Anny behind Helen, and then the cleaner, and maybe some more kind person.Society is a long chain with numerous ―kind‖ and ―evil‖.Your gentle eyesight, through delivering and expanding for N times, there maybe be a great on the other side;while an insulting sentence may link with a fiend.57.識人五視

古人在實踐中積累了一套識人、用夕、的經驗，歸納起來為―五視‖，即: 居視其所親。注意觀察一個人平時跟誰在一起。如與賢人相近，則可重用;相反，若與小人為伍，就要加以當心。

富視其所與。看他如何支配自己的財富舀如果只滿足私欲，大肆揮霍，貪圖享樂，則不可重用。

達視其所舉。如已處于顯赫之位，需要觀察他如何來選拔部屬。若任人唯賢，量才錄用，自然是襟懷坦蕩、秉公辦事的有為之士。

窮視其所不為。對處于困境之人，可以視其操守如何。若雖身處困境，卻不做任何茍且之事，這樣的人就可以放心地委以重任。

貧視其所不取。看一個人在貧困潦倒之時的行為。不取不義之財，甘守清貧，則品性高潔。若見錢眼開，如蠅逐臭，就萬不可重用。

（摘自《南昌晚報》魏信德/文）

Five Observation Ways to Just a Talent The Chinese ancestors have accumulated a serious of experience to just and adopt talents, i.e., five observations.To observation who to be with: Know more details about his companies.重用 if e groups with talents;be cautious if he together with villain.To observe how to conduct with: See how he would conduct his fortune.He is not supposed to(be)重用 if he is just satisfy himself, waste fortune and covet self-enjoyment.To observe how to select: See how he select his potential sub-manager in a leading position.The man who is 任人唯賢，量才錄用 must be the promising ones who broad in mind and just in business.To observe what to avoid: Know more about his integrity while in trouble: 若雖身處困境，卻不做任何茍且之事，這樣的人就可以放心地委以重任。

To observe what to deny: Know more about his choice when he is in poverty.The ideal one is不取不義之財，甘守清貧，則品性高潔。若見錢眼開，如蠅逐臭，就萬不可重用。

70.謙遜是把雙刃劍

大學時代，馬克·赫德曾被一位老師提名競爭學生會主席。盡管他信心十足，但由于他在回答校方提問時表現得過于謙遜和謹慎，以致與這個職位失之交臂，且在畢業就業時受此影響，未能進入心儀的公司。

雖然馬克最終以自己出色的能力被惠普公司聘用，但是他依舊覺得沮喪。他反思了許久，得出了一個結論—自己被所謂的―謙遜‖迷惑。失去去了最好的機會。后來，馬克憑著自己的能力，出任了惠普的CEO。

那天，董事會來電話，要他參加董事會議。馬克覺得會上場景似曾相識。董事們有意讓馬克接任惠普的CEO，因為在產品宣傳與銷售問匙上，惠普遇到了難題。

同樣一個問題:你有信心把惠普做得更好嗎? 馬克給出了與上一次不同的回答。他說:―這是毫無疑問的，至少我保證，情況不會像現在這么糟糕!‖

事實上，通過考驗的馬克，表現出了極強的個人能力。自從他出任CEO后，惠普產品多面開花，通過篩選渠道，減少成本，加大宣傳，經營業績穩步增長。

在接受電視采訪的時候，主持人問：―有人說，你的形象是儒雅，知性，睿智，謙遜的。的怎么看？‖馬克著重就―謙遜‖談了自己的見解。他認為，不恰當的―謙遜‖是把雙刃劍，往往會斷了―謙遜者‖的發展之路。

馬克說：―要做到真正的謙遜，需要明白三點：

首先，謙遜不是自我否定，自我否定只能讓你與機會擦肩而過并留下惋惜。其次，謙遜就是把話說到你的能力值以下，比如你能考A，那么先肯定自己能考B+。

最后，謙遜不是在面對別人質疑.或者面對問題的時候說?哦，我想我辦不到‘，而是懂得抓住機會。成功之后，面對別人的贊美時說:?其實沒什么，只要努力，每個人都能做到!‖‘

(摘自《讀者》2閱9，10上善若水/文)

Modesty is a Double-edged Sword In his university time, 馬克·赫德 was nominated to campaign for the chairman of the Student Union.Tough very confident, he lost the chance for his over modesty and caution when answering questions.This had a bad influence on him when he graduated and seeked his job.Still dismay, though he was appointed by 惠普公司 with excellent ability.He considered for a long time and then came to a conclusion----he was confused by the so----called modesty.Later, for his outstanding ability, he became the CEO.The other day, the board called him to represent the board meeting.Mark felt the same scene as ever.The reason that the board let Mark e the CEO was that there were some problems in publicity and sale.The same question: Are you confident to de better job for 惠普? Then Mark gave the opposite reply than the last time.He said: ―it is undoubted that I can promises.At least be better than now.‖

In fact, after trials of tests, Mark did an excellent job.Ever since his nomination, 惠普 company produced varies styles of product.Through selecting mediums, decreasing cost, pay attention to publicity, the company‘s sales grew steadily.When being interviewed, the holder asked: ―Someone think you are gentle, knowledge, wise and modest.We would like to know your opinion.‖ Mark expressed his understanding on ―modesty‖.He insisted that unreasonable modesty is a double-edged sword, which may destroy his future.He said that to be really modest, keep three points in mind: Firstly, modesty is not to deny yourself, for it let you lose the chance and feel regret.Secondly, modesty is to evaluate yourself below your ability umber.For instance, if you can get A, then be sure you can get B+.Lastly, modesty is not to say ―actually, everyone can do that so as you work had‖ to answer others‘ praise.79 “板”忌短 “針”宜長

一個木桶能裝多少水，不是由那些長板決定的，而是由那塊最短的板決定的，這就是經濟學上的―短板原理‖。用到一個人身上，短板就是指致命的缺點或弱點。譬如說，一個人哪兒都好，文武雙全，能說會道，有能力有水平，可就是沉溺于賭博，那么決定他命運的就不是―哪兒都好‖的那些長板，而是賭博這塊短板，他最終身敗名裂，也許可能就是因為這塊短板。

在一個樓房林立的地區，雖然每棟樓房都安有避雷針，但真正和雷電接觸能起到避雷作用的，是那根最高的避雷針，其他避雷針基本都是擺設，這就是―避雷針原理‖。如果用來比喻一個人，最高的避雷針就是指他的最突出特長，他的最有效的謀生手段。一個多才多藝的人，如果沒有一項最能拿出手的技藝，他的多才多藝就只能是漂亮的點綴，沒有多大實際用處。

人非圣賢，所以人人都可能有―短板‖，一個真正聰明睿智的人，應當盡量補齊自己的―短板‖，如果實在不能補齊也要始終對其保持警惕，遏止其發展，千萬不要讓其成為導致自己人生失敗的致命缺點。

另一方面，則要竭力打造自己―最高的避雷針‖，不必事事處處和別人比長短，而只在自己最突出的長項、技術、專業上爭高下;不要當行行通行行松的―萬金油‖，要力爭成為某一行業的專家、內行.、權威、大腕。若果如此，―短板‖不短，―避雷針‖又極高，成功的大門便會一叩即開。

（摘自 《重慶晚報》 陳魯民/文）

Short Plank, Long Needle The so-called ―短板原理‖ sys the capacity of a wooden tub is not determined by the long planks, but the shortest one.Applying to a person, the short plank is his shortcome or weak point.Or example, a versatile seems both文武雙全，能說會道，有能力有水平，but addicted in gambling, he is then, identifying himself not with those long planks, but the shot ones.Finally, he may 身敗名裂.This is maybe his ―short plank‖.Among the building forest with 避雷針, it is the highest one that truly make a difference in 避雷, and others made little.This is called ―避雷針原理‖.If, comparing to a person, the highest 避雷針 is his special point and the method to make a living.A versatile without any special points, his techniques are useless and just for decorating.All human beings are but the ones with shortcome;while a truly smart man is supposed to make up his ―short plank‖ with his all efforts.If impossible, he would better be careful about it and not let it be worse.It is so important to let he know that avoid to fail for this spot.On the other hand, to make yourself the ―highest避雷針‖ and never bother to compare with others.Instead, it is to be the best with your profession.In addition, never be the Mr.know-it-all, but a professor in a particular field.In this way, no short plank and having high避雷針, you will on your way to success.86 心情是別人的

好多人認為心情是自己的，其實，心情還是別人的。一段時間，我身體不是很好，感覺煩燥，妻子對我說，身體不好就去看，你這樣對身體也沒好處啊!你不高興，喊和孩子能高興嗎?還有一次，父親說話，我感覺煩。妻子說，既然父親說了，你就答應，至于你怎么做，還不是你說了算，我們能為老人做什么。只能讓他們高興。我也為此深感內疚。

人剛出生就有了心情。那時，餓了就哭，不隱瞞心情。長大后知道了，心情可以掩蓋，可以調節，這才有了面具之說。

按說心情是自己的，自己可以想怎樣就怎樣，但其實，因為你的心情而影響了別人心情，從這個意義上說，心情就是別人的。如果你能把心情當作是別人的，也許就會多一份責任，少一份任性;多一份理解，少一份固執;多一份關愛，少一份自私;多一份和諳，少一份紛爭。

（摘自《家庭主婦報》 孫志昌/文）

Our Mood Belong to Others Most of us hold that our moods are of ourselves.Actually, our moods belong to others.For a long time, I did not feel well and always upset.My wife comforted me and asked me to see the doctor.―Your condition does matter to yourself.On other condition, how can you make kids feel well when you are not feeling well? Another time, I was so annoyed with the talking of my father.My wife explaining again: ―You‘d better offer your sincere.As for how to do, you are the master.What we should do is just make them happy.‖ I deeply regretted for my bad manners.Man got his own mood ever since his birth.While young, we cried when we hungry and never pretended our secrets.As we grew up, we realized that we can hide our mod and adjust it.It is just like a mask.To be honest, the mood is our own business, and can express in the way we like to.In fact, since your mood has an influence on others, your mood belongs to others, too.If you hold your mod as others‘, then you will be more responsible and less head strong, more understanding and less stubborn, more care and less selfish, more harmony and less dispute.93.成熟，從不抱怨開始

遇見他，是在一個飯局上。

一落座，他就喋喋不休地抱怨起來：怨公司不好，拼死拼活一個月，拿到手里的工資沒多少；怨上司不公，誰擅長拍馬就重用誰；怨同事不善，成天勾心斗角明爭暗奪……終于，在他暫停抱怨的間隙，我小心翼翼地問了一句：既然工作如此不稱心，為什么不跳槽呢？他一愣，奇怪地看了我一眼，似乎在看一個外星人。―跳槽?現在經濟這么不景氣，往哪里跳？‖一這下我算明白了，原來他的工作并非一無是處啊。

散席后。盡管他熱情地與我道別，并且特意留下他的電話，但我，卻再未聯系過他。對我來說，一個怨氣沖天的人，是不值得交往的。

不由得想起阿瑟·阿什。這位美國著名的網球名將，在一次輸血時感染了艾滋病。對于他的遭遇，許多球迷深表同情，且因此責怪老天對他太不公平。對此，阿瑟·阿什說道：―知今，我身患絕癥，我不怨天，也不怪自己；因為我知道有些事人無法左右，當不幸來臨時，我們只能面對。‖

說得多么好!在這段話里，我們看到了從容，看到了平靜，看到了坦蕩，看到了豁達，看到了一位成熟男人的風范。然而遺憾的是，在現實生活中，面對困難和挫折，我們聽得最多的，還是抱怨：怨蒼天不公，怨命運殘酷，怨人情冷酷……如果說一個人抱怨之后，他的不滿與郁悶能夠隨風而去，心境能夠變得開朗起來，那他的抱怨還算是有價值的。可問題在于，抱怨恰如一股陰冷潮濕的黑霧，足以遮蔽他的眼光迷惑他的心智，最終讓佑在自怨自艾的泥潭里越陷越深。

人生就是一段旅程，是一段從青澀走向成熟的旅程。而我相信，真正的成熟，是從不抱怨開始的。

（摘自《錢江晚報》葦笛/文）

No Complaint, No Maturation In a restaurant, I met him.He was grumbling continuously ever since he sat down, complaining his company for little salary after eternally hard working;the unjust of his line manager who merely promote the one ingratiate him with he;the unkind of colleagues for ganging up with and beating someone while pretending to be well with… Finally, I caught the moment he stopped and enquired him cautiously: since you are so unhappy with your work, why not changing ? he stupefied with a glance to me seemingly an alien ―跳槽？Where should I go? You know that the economy is in the boom.‖ I have got it.Actually, his job was not so terrible.After the dinner, he said good-bye to me heartily and left me his telephone specially.However, I have never connected him ever.For me, it is out of consideration to make a friend with 一個怒氣沖天的人.It reminds me 阿瑟·阿什, a well-know tennis player in America.He happened to catch the AIDS when he got a blood transfusion.A pile of his fans showed their sympathy and blamed the unjust God.While 阿瑟·阿什 declared: ―I get a deadly cancer, but a would not complain the God and myself because I know that something we can not run away.I have no choice but to face when the day comes.‖

Genius!In his words, there is calmness, magnanimous, open-minded, as well as the demeanors of a mature man.Unfortunately, we complaint everything when we have to face the difficulty and setbacks in reality: we always complaining that the God is unfair;the crucial fate, the grim human beings…It is worth doing if his dissatisfaction go away, depression disappear, feelings become motivational after complaint.But, the problem is, as a mass of shabby and cool fog, the complaint is so misleading that confuses his mind and then drops him deeper and deeper in the muddy.Life is like a journey, from ignorant to mature.And I believe that truly mature is start from no complaint.98.你會遇到這些人

第一種導師、教練。他教給你的使用技巧一定的工作經不是書本知識。第二種，陪練、同路人。任何人的成長都不是學出來的，而是學而習、習而成習慣，練出來的。而在這個過程中，一個人很難堅持下來，你需要一個同路人。他可以是和你有共同興趣、共周目標的朋友，最好是你生命中所愛的人。

第三種，榜樣。他是你人生的標桿，不需要通過機遇，只平要通過努力為就可以達到的榜樣。

第四種。敵人。就是那些看不起你的人。拒絕過你的人。人，不到絕境是不會有斗之志的，你要證明他是錯的，他會給你真正的動力。

第五種，最重要的人是你自己。這個世界上，失敗的人除了天分太差之外，還有以下幾點：懶、方向不對、方法不對、不能堅持。如果你自乙做不到，就不要怪別人。

（摘自《視野》 陳千影/文）

The Man You Will Meet

First: director, coach.He taught you some skills and working experience that beyond your textbooks.Second: An assistant and accompany.None is merely born to mock, but further learning and practice.In this course, you are hard to be alone and thereby need an accompany.He maybe be your friend with the same interest and goal.It is better your dearest lover.Third: A model.He is the destination of your life.You maybe be him without opportunity but all your efforts.Fourth: An enemy, who overlooked you and rejected you.Men are to be encouraged with hopeless situation.To testify your ability and his false, he will create energy for you.The fifth: the most important person is you.In this world, except for talents, a failure possessed the following characters: laziness, wrong direction, wrong method and short of resistance.You will never blame others even id you cannot do on your own.

第三篇：勵志人生哲理小故事

勵志人生哲理小故事

山上的寺院里有一頭驢，每天都在磨房里辛苦拉磨，天長日久，驢漸漸厭倦了這種平淡的生活。它每天都在尋思，要是能出去見見外面的世界，不用拉磨，那該有多好啊！

不久，機會終于來了，有個僧人帶著驢下山去馱東西，他興奮不已。

來到山下，僧人把東西放在驢背上，然后返回寺院。沒想到，路上行人看到驢時，都虔誠地跪在兩旁，對它頂禮膜拜。

一開始，驢大惑不解，不知道人們為何要對自己叩頭跪拜，慌忙躲閃。可一路上都是如此，驢不禁飄飄然起來，原來人們如此崇拜我。當它再看見有人路過時，就會趾高氣揚地停在馬路中間，心安理得地接受人們的跪拜。

回到寺院里，驢認為自己身份高貴，死活也不肯拉磨了。

僧人無奈，只好放它下山。

驢剛下山，就遠遠看見一伙人敲鑼打鼓迎面而來，心想，一定是人們前來歡迎我，于是大搖大擺地站在馬路中間。那是一隊迎親的隊伍，卻被一頭驢攔住了去路，人們憤怒不已，棍棒交加驢倉皇逃回到寺里，已經奄奄一息，臨死前，它憤憤地告訴僧人：原來人心險惡啊，第一次下山時，人們對我頂禮膜拜，可是今天他們竟對我狠下毒手。

僧人嘆息一聲：果真是一頭蠢驢！那天，人們跪拜的，是你背上馱的佛像啊。

【哲理故事啟示】：

人生最大的不幸，就是一輩子不認識自己。有時，離開平臺，自己什么都不是！

有時我是我，有時我不是我，有時認識自己比認識世界還難。每天我們都有照鏡子，但是我們在照的時候，有問過自己一句話：你認識自己嗎

如果你擁有財富，別人只是崇拜的是你的財富，不是你，但你會誤會別人崇拜你；

如果你有權利，別人崇拜的只是你的權利，不是你，你誤會了別人崇拜你；

如果你擁有的是美貌，別人崇拜的只是你暫時擁有的美貌，不是你，你誤以為別人崇拜你。

當財富、權利、美貌過了質保期，你就會被拋棄

別人崇拜的只是自己心中的需求，不是你。

看清自己非常重要！！！

窮人和富人的區別在哪，看完你明白一切。

有個窮人，因為吃不飽穿不暖，而在佛祖面前痛哭流涕，訴說生活的艱苦，天天干活累的半死卻掙不來幾個錢。

哭了半晌他突然開始埋怨道：這個社會太不公平了，為什么富人天天悠閑自在，而窮人就應該天天吃苦受累。

佛祖微笑的問：要怎樣你才覺得公平？

窮人急忙說道：要讓富人和我一樣窮，干一樣的活，如果富人還是富人我就不再埋怨了。

佛祖點頭道：好吧！說完佛祖把一位富人變成了和窮人一樣窮的人。

并給了他們一家一座山，每天挖出來的煤當天可以賣掉買食物，限期一個月之內挖光煤山。

窮人和富人一起開挖，窮人平常干慣了粗活，挖煤這活對他就是小菜一碟，很快他挖了一車煤，拉去集市上賣了錢，用這些錢他全買了好吃的，拿回家給老婆孩子解饞。

富人平時沒干過重活，挖一會停一會，還累的滿頭大汗。到了傍晚才勉強挖了一車拉到集市上買，換來的錢他只買了幾個硬饅頭，其余的錢都留了起來。

第二天窮人早早起來開始挖煤，富人卻去逛集市。不一會帶回倆個窮人來，這兩個窮人膀大腰圓，他們二話沒說就開始給富人挖煤，而富人站在一邊指手畫腳的監督著。只一上午的功夫富人就指揮兩個窮人挖出了幾車煤去，富人把煤賣了又雇了幾個苦力，一天下來，他除了給工人開工錢，剩下的錢還比窮人賺的錢多幾倍。

一個月很快過去了，窮人只挖了煤山的一角，每天賺來的錢都買了好吃好喝，基本沒有剩余。而富人早就指揮工人挖光了煤山，賺了不少的錢，他用這些錢投資做起了買賣，很快又成了富人。

結果可想而知，窮人再也不抱怨了。

【哲理故事啟示】：

成功，不在于你能做多少事，而在于你能借多少人的力去做多少事！

學會借力吧！借人的力，借工具的力，借平臺的力，借系統的力！由此，你便找到了杠桿的著力點，去撬動整個世界！

戰國時期，有一個魯國人很擅長編草鞋，而他的妻子則十分擅長織白絹。可是，由于魯國是一個小國，且做這一行的人比較多，他們的生意并不怎么好，只能勉強維持生計。

這樣的日子，讓這個魯國人很不滿。他心想：以自己做鞋的技藝，如果到其他國家去，一定大有所為。一天，他對妻子說：咱們待在魯國也不是個辦法，長期下去，估計會餓肚子，倒不如趁現在還有些盤纏，去越國那邊發展。他的妻子聽后，覺得很有道理。于是，夫妻倆收拾行裝，準備出發。就在這時，一位友人前來拜訪，見他們整裝待發，便好奇地問：你們夫婦這是準備去哪兒？

在魯國混不下去了，我們準備去越國看看。他無可奈何地回答說。

越國你們去那兒能做什么只會更加貧窮。朋友勸慰道。

“為什么呢？難道以我們的.技藝會在越國沒有飯吃？”他有些生氣地說。

朋友沒有直接回答他，而是反問他們最擅長做什么。

這還用問，當然是編草鞋和織白絹了！他淡淡地說。

草鞋是用來穿著走路的，而越國人習慣光腳行走，根本不需要鞋子；白絹是用來做帽子的，而越國人習慣披頭散發。帽子對他們來說毫無用處。如今，憑借你們的長處，到用不著你們的地方去，你們認為會有所為嗎？

后來，這個魯國人聽從了朋友的建議，去了齊國。在那里，他們夫妻倆充分發揮自己的特長，草鞋和帽子都十分暢銷。隨后，他們又不斷地將自己的生意做大做強。沒過幾年，這對魯國夫婦就過上了富裕的生活。

【哲理故事啟示】：

生活中，有多少人能像這個魯國人一樣發現自己的長處，并找到自己的最佳位置呢任何一個人都有自己的長處，但不是每個人都能發揮自己的長處，取得事業的成功。事實上，不少人才就是被不適合自己的環境埋沒了。一個人光是有所長還不夠，還得找到一個適合自己成長的環境，一個能施展自己才華的平臺。

我們都知道，團花樹是世界上生長最快的樹，被譽為奇跡之樹寶石之樹，是發展人工造林最理想的樹種。但是，如果把團花樹放到沙漠里，它很快就會干枯，其價值還不及普通的白楊。

橘生淮南則為橘，生于淮北則為枳。同樣，一個人在不同的環境下，取得的成就大小也有天壤之別。因此，當你發現所選擇的土壤不適合自己生長時，你唯一需要做的就是及時身退、重新選擇，因為很多時候，不是因為你不行，而是因為你沒有選擇自己的最佳位置。

第四篇：中英文對照小故事

曾霞學習心得：一日參觀蓮池幼兒園心得體會

2012年3月9日第十二組

3月9日在國培教育教師的帶領下，全組教師參觀了“蓮池幼兒園”。幼園獨具特色，對我影響較深的是園領導的管理能力、研究創新精神、幼兒園的環境創設、區域活動的開設、家長工作等等，都為我們今后的工作提供很好的借鑒，所有這些，讓我感觸頗深，受益匪淺。

我們首先參觀了蓮池兒園的北樓，這所幼兒園給我印象最深的是環境創設方面，根據教學樓的外觀結合童話故事進行彩繪，使教學樓融入了童話故事，成為了孩子們歡樂地城堡，他們合理利用當地資源，就地取材，合理利用廢舊物品，教室里有活動區，休息區等。特別是他們的小班教室結合四季的主題進行彩繪，深受大家的喜愛。

教學環境在幼兒的生活、教育中起著重要的作用，是幼兒活動中不可分割的一部份現在，人們把幼兒園環境的創設提高到了更重要的位置，被譽為“孩子的第三任老師”！這使我們又一次重新認識了幼教工作的重心。環境創設也是不可忽視的一部分。

環境是重要的教育資源，我們通過環境的創設和資源利用，使幼兒園具有豐富多彩的文化氛圍，使之更有效地促進幼兒的發展，讓他們受到文明的熏陶和發展。環境能夠促進幼兒的發展，讓他們主動參與幼兒園的環境創設，這是一種互動效應，幼兒自然而然的受到了啟迪和教育！

幼兒園依托于操作材料、情境和相應的活動中的特點拿捏的很到位，因材、因地制宜的結合了本園特點，既尊重了幼兒的個體差異，又滿足了幼兒個體發展的需要。對于環境和班級的創設，他們通過自身與環境的相互作用而實現對周圍環境的感知，有效地利用廢舊物品，而墻面環境的創設符合了各個年齡段幼兒心理發展的需求。各個年齡段的創設緊緊圍繞“科學”多面的鋪展而來。班級家園環境創設又結合幼兒年齡特點進行的較有特色。

總之，通過參觀學習，使我體會很深，使我不斷的在思考怎樣的環境創設更加的貼近于生活，貼近于孩子，更加的新穎、有效。同時也提醒自己在今后的工作中要把工作做細，樂于、善于發現身邊的一切美好的事物，緊緊圍繞“美”，讓孩子充分的領路和感知一切事物的美好之所在，大自然的造物之美、之妙！

讓我們用心靈去感知孩子的內心世界！用靈動的雙手去描繪孩子的童話王國！用會意的眼神去捕捉孩子的精彩瞬間！用心去奏響那份共同的弦樂---愛！愛的陽光灑滿人間，心得教育啟迪人生。

第五篇：中英文寓言小故事

A man was going to the house of some rich person.As he went along the road, he saw a box of good apples at the side of the road.He said, “I do not want to eat those apples;for the rich man will give me much food;he will give me very nice food to eat.” Then he took the apples and threw them away into the dust.He went on and came to a river.The river had become very big;so he could not go over it.He waited for some time;then he said, “I cannot go to the rich man's house today, for I cannot get over the river.” He began to go home.He had eaten no food that day.He began to want food.He came to the apples, and he was glad to take them out of the dust and eat them.Do not throw good things away;you may be glad to have them at some other time.【譯文】 一個人正朝著一個富人的房子走去，當他沿著路走時，在路的一邊他發現一箱好貧飲，他說：“我不計劃吃那些貧飲，因為富人會給我更多的食物，他會給我特別好吃的東西。”接著他拿起貧飲，一把扔到土里去。他繼續走，來到河邊，河漲水了，因此，他到不了河對岸，他等了一會兒，接著他說：“今天我去不了富人家了，因為我不能度過河。” 他開始回家，那天他沒有吃東西。他就開始去找吃的，他找到貧飲，特別開心地把它們從塵土中翻出來吃了。不要把好東西扔掉，換個時候你會覺得它們大有效果處。

Fox and cock One morning a fox sees a cock.He think,“This is my breakfast.'' He comes up to the cock and says,”I know you can sing very well.Can you sing for me?''The cock is glad.He closes his eyes and begins to sing.The fox sees that and caches him in his mouth and carries him away.The people in the field see the fox.They cry,“Look,look!The fox is carrying the cock away.''The cock says to the fox,”Mr Fox,do you understand?The people say you are carrying their cock away.Tell them it is yours.Not theirs.'' The fox opens his mouth ang says,“The cock is mine,not yours.''Just then the cock runs away from the fox and flies into the tree.【譯文】狐貍和公雞 一天早上，一只狐貍看到了一侄耀雞。他想：這是我的早餐。他朝公雞走來，對他說：“我知道，你能唱得很好聽，你能唱給我聽么？”公雞特別開心。他閉上眼睛開始唱歌。狐貍看到這些抓住它放到自己的嘴里走了。在田地里的人們看到了狐貍。大喊大叫：“看，看！狐貍抓住公雞逃走了。”公雞對狐貍說：“狐貍先生，你能理解么？人們認為你叼走了公雞。告訴他們這是你的，不是他們的。” 狐貍張開她的嘴說：“公雞是我的，不是你們的。”就在那時。公雞跑到了樹底下。

The Old Cat An old woman had a cat.The cat was very old;she could not run quickly, and she could not bite, because she was so old.One day the old cat saw a mouse;she jumped and caught the mouse.But she could not bite it;so the mouse got out of her mouth and ran away, because the cat could not bite it.Then the old woman became very angry because the cat had not killed the mouse.She began to hit the cat.The cat said, ”Do not hit your old servant.I have worked for you for many years, and I would work for you still, but I am too old.Do not be unkind to the old, but remember what good work the old did when they were young.“

【譯文】 老貓 一位老婦有只貓，這只貓特別老，它跑不快了，也咬不了東西，因為它年紀太大了。一天，老貓發現一只老鼠，它跳過去抓這只老鼠，然而，它咬不住這只老鼠。因此，老鼠從它的嘴邊溜掉了，因為老貓咬不了它。于是，老婦特別生氣，因為老貓沒有把老鼠咬死。她開始打這只貓，貓說：“不要打你的老仆人，我已經為你服務了特別多年，還而且愿意為你效勞，但是，我實在太老了，對年紀大的不要這么無情，要記住老年人在年青時所做過的有益的事情。”

The City Mouse and the Country Mouse Once there were two mice.They were friends.One mouse lived in the country;the other mouse lived in the city.After many years the Country mouse saw the City mouse;he said, ”Do come and see me at my house in the country.“ So the City mouse went.The City mouse said, ”This food is not good, and your house is not good.Why do you live in a hole in the field? You should come and live in the city.You would live in a nice house made of stone.You would have nice food to eat.You must come and see me at my house in the city.“ The Country mouse went to the house of the City mouse.It was a very good house.Nice food was set ready for them to eat.But just as they began to eat they heard a great noise.The City mouse cried, ” Run!Run!The cat is coming!“ They ran away quickly and hid.After some time they came out.When they came out, the Country mouse said, ”I do not like living in the city.I like living in my hole in the field.For it is nicer to be poor and happy, than to be rich and afraid.“

【譯文】 城里老鼠和鄉下老鼠 從前，有兩只老鼠，它們是好好友。一只老鼠居住在鄉村，另一只住在城里。特別多年以后，鄉下老鼠碰到城里老鼠，它說：“你一定要來我鄉下的家瞧瞧。”于是，城里老鼠就去了。鄉下老鼠領著它到了一塊田地上它自己的家里。它把全部最精美食物都找出來給城里老鼠。城里老鼠說：“這東西不好吃，你的家也不好，你為啥住在田野的地洞里呢？你應該搬到城里去住，你能住上用石頭造的漂亮房子，而且會吃上美味佳肴，你應該到我城里的家瞧瞧。” 鄉下老鼠就到城里老鼠的家去。房子十分漂亮，好吃的東西也為他們擺好了。可是正當他們要開始吃的時候，聽見特別大的一陣響聲，城里的老鼠叫喊起來：“快跑！快跑！貓來了！”他們飛快地跑開躲藏起來。過了一會兒，他們出來了。當他們出來時，鄉下老鼠說：“我不喜歡住在城里，我喜歡住在田野我的洞里。因為這樣雖然貧窮但是快樂自在，比起雖然富有卻要過著提心吊膽的生活來說，要好些。”

聊齋志異故事:嚴父斥子

This is a story from the book Strange Tales from Make-Do Studio.There was an old man with the surname Feng，he had a son named Xiangru.Xiangru studied hard but failed several times in passing the imperial examination.One night when Xiangruwas reading books in the courtyard，he was surprised to see a beautiful girl on the wall looking at him affectionately.Xiangru invited her to come down from the wall and knew that her name was Hong Yu.From then on，Hong Yu came to meet Xiangru every night and soon they fell in love.One night，Feng happened to run into Hong Yu at the door of Xiangru's room.Feng scolded Xiangru severely.Hong Yu slipped away and she never came there again.Later，Xiangru got married.His wife was called Wei and they had a boy named Lucky.Untortunately，the bully in the village，Song，was moved by Wei's good looks and snatched her away.Feng was so indignant that finally he died.Another day，a brave man rushed into Xiangru's room and said，”Have you forgotten that your father has died and your wife was snatched away by Song？“ Xiangru hurriedly told the man that he wanted revenge but had no way to achieve it.Then，Song was beheaded that same night.The county government suspected Xiangru and detained him.The evening that Xiangru was arrested，no sooner the governmental official lied down than he saw a knife stabbed on the head of the bed.One day at his home，Xiangru heard his child talking to somebody outside the door.He opened the door and was surprised and glad to see Hong Yu standing there with Lucky.Hong Yu smiled and said，”I am not a common girl，but a fox spirit.I know that you have been in trouble；I am secretly protecting you." Since then，Hong Yu stayed with Xiangru to manage the family affairs and teach the child.【譯文】《聊齋志異》中的故事。馮翁年近六旬，膝下一子相如。他潛心讀書，但運氣不佳，屢考不中。一夜，相如在院中讀書，忽然傳來“索索”的聲音。只見墻上一美麗少女，含情脈脈地看他讀書。相如請她下來，問她姓名，方知叫紅玉。從此紅玉夜夜必到，一人互相愛慕，山盟海誓。一晚，馮翁從相如門口過，撞見紅玉，責罵相如。紅玉見狀，悄悄溜走，從此再也沒來。后來，相如娶妻衛氏，夫妻恩愛并生一男孩，名喚福兒。然而，鄉里惡霸宋某見衛氏姿色好，帶家奴搶走衛氏，氣死馮翁。有一天，一位勇士撞進相如房內說：“難道你忘了父搶妻之仇嗎？”相如忙把想報仇，但無計策的心事告訴了勇士。就在當晚惡霸宋某人頭落地，縣衙懷疑相如，派人捉拿歸案。晚上，縣令剛躺下，就見一把利丸扎在床頭，縣令害怕，放了相如。相如回到家后不久，聽到門外有小孩說話聲，開門見是紅玉帶著福兒進來。紅玉笑著說：“我不是凡人，我是狐仙，知你必有大難，一直在暗中保護你。”從此，紅玉再也未走，幫相如操持家務，教育孩子。

希臘神話]厄洛斯（丘比特）Eros（Cupid）

Eros was the god of love，better known by hislatin name Cupid．Son of Aphrodite by Ares，he took his place among the small gods of Olympus．He was represented asa little naked boy，with sparkling wings，and he carried his bowand arrows wherever he wandered．Shooting his thrilling arrows in evils，he inspired the passion of love and provided all nature with life and power of reproduction．The lovely，naughty god had two kinds of arrows：the gold tipped arrows used to quicken the pulse of love and the lead tipped ones to palsy it． Besides，he had a torch to light hearts with．

Though sometimes he was blindfolded，no man nor god，Zeus himself included，was safe from his evils．At one time the little naughty god was wounded by his own arrows and suchburning love was awakened in him for the human maiden Psyche that he disregarded the constant interference of his mother and plucked up his courage to beg Zeus for justice．Another famousstory where Eros played an important part was the Argonautic expedition．Medea，daughter of king Aeetes，was wounded by Eros' arrows，took Jason's part in recovering the golden fleece and eventually became the hero's wife．

【譯文】厄洛斯是愛神，它的拉丁名稱丘比特更為人熟知。他是阿瑞斯和阿芙羅狄蒂的兒子，是一位小奧林波斯山神。他的形象是一個裸體的小男孩，有一對閃閃發光的翅膀。他帶著弓箭漫游。他惡作劇地射出令人震顫的神箭，喚起愛的激情。給自然界帶來生機，授予萬物繁衍的能力。這位可愛而又淘氣的小精靈有兩種神箭：加快愛情產生的金頭神箭和中止愛情的鉛頭神箭。另外，他還有一束照亮心靈的火炬。

盡管有時他被蒙著眼睛，但沒有任何人或神，包括宙斯在內，能逃避他的惡作劇。有一次這位淘氣的精靈被自己的箭射中。對人間少女普賽克熾熱的愛在他心中復蘇，以致于他不顧他母親的干預，鼓起勇氣讓宙斯給予公正評判。厄洛斯起了重大作用的另一個著名的故事是亞爾古英雄的遠征。美狄亞，國王埃厄忒斯的女兒，被厄洛斯的神箭射中，和伊阿宋一起尋覓金羊毛，最后成為這位英雄的妻子。