第一篇:中級班學習小結(模版)
中級班學習小結
進入中級班的學習已經有一段時間了。對 高老師講授的五輪念誦,觀想次第、施無畏印、分身修法及凈土講座都進行了比較認真地學習和思考。
關于五輪念誦。由于在參加學院學習之前,自己一直堅持開口念誦,自我感覺持誦聲音逐漸靠后,也比較渾厚,以為念誦速度快了,而且嘴唇不動便是金剛念誦。但直到聽了高老師的講座示范,才知道何為金剛念誦,可能由于過去有一定的基礎,聽完高老師的開示后,自己即能做到金剛念誦,之后有試著在五輪進行念誦,除了頂輪感覺不是很明顯外,其他幾處都能感覺到震動。特別是進行金剛念誦時,能體會到音聲海的感覺。
關于觀想次第。在聽高老師講授之前,自己也進行觀想,主要是字輪和準提佛母的觀想,關于光明的觀想很少。因過去修過安那般那,所以覺得風息觀很好,也曾做過嘗試。聽完高老師的開示,才知道修風息觀一定有良好的觀想基礎才可為之。所以便決定從光明觀入手,一步一個腳印,拾階而上。由于過去對字輪觀有些基礎,現在能比較容易地觀想出九圣梵字。但我覺還是要按部就班進行。
關于分身修法。聽完高老師的講授,感觸良多,覺得高老師講得太精彩了。其實我們的每一個作為每一個念頭雖然已經成為了過去,但若將善的念頭善的行為利用好了,可謂功德無量,事半功倍。比如說,我們每天打坐持咒,若是我們已經下坐了,但仍觀想自身還在那里打坐持咒,那是何等功效,推而廣之,我們前生、今生有多少次這樣的善行,若觀想這些善行仍在繼續,那真可謂是盡虛空遍法界了。這樣的功德何其大。特別是高老師講到持誦門時,若我們現在觀想自身一直在阿彌陀佛前持誦六字洪名,年年相續無有間斷,身語意業無有疲厭,何愁不能往生極樂。
關于施無畏印。覺得此法用于治病救人,的確十分方便,也從網上看到一些師兄運用此法的效果。今后要認真修習。以便在關鍵時候治病救人。如意鉤修法只看了一遍。印象不是太深。今后要加強學習。
最讓我體會深刻的是高老師對凈土的講座,實在是太精彩了,消除了自己過去對如何往生凈土的很多不正確的知見,進一步堅定了自己今生必定往生凈土的信心。我覺得,高老師關于凈土的開示應該廣泛流通,讓更多的人知曉凈土法門的殊勝和易行,破除過去錯誤的自以為是的知見。高老師所言,不能因為讓人們持戒而斷送了往生凈土的機會。
十分感謝學院及高老師的法部施,也十分感謝班主任徐老師的悉心指導。
嗡,折隸,主隸,準提,愿學院的準提事業越來越好,準提法遍揚十方,愿高老師、徐老師及學院各位老師一切如意,六時吉祥,梭哈。嗡,部林。
第二篇:linux學習筆記(中級班)
Linux筆記(中級)
文件處理命令: ls list 命令所在路徑:/bin/ls 選項:
-a 顯示所有文件,包括隱藏-l 顯示詳細信息-d 查看目錄屬性
用戶不同,擁有的命令也不同: Root:/sbin / usr/sbin All user: /bin /usr/bin 縮寫:bin-binary usr-user sbin-super binary 命令:pwd 愿意:print working directory 創建空文件:touch 目錄創建命令:mkdir 英文:make directory 復制命令:cp Cp –R 源 目的
移動和改名文件:mv Mv 源 目的 刪除文件:rm 刪除目錄: rm –r 刪除空目錄:rmdir
軟鏈接 ln –s 硬鏈接 ln Linux系統并不認字母,只認識數字,所以引出來i節點
ls –I 顯示文件的i節點,設計到系統內核,每個文件都有一個i節點 硬鏈接不能跨文件系統 Ls –ld 顯示目錄權限
權限管理命令:chmod 更改文件UGO的權限,rwx權限
文件的
讀命令:cat more head tail 寫命令:echo vi X類:命令 腳本 目錄的
讀命令:ls
創建還刪除權限:mv rm touch mkdir X類:cd
權限管理命令
改變所有者Chown 用戶 文件或目錄 改變所有組 chgrp 組名 文件或目錄
修改文件或目錄創建的默認權限Umask –S查看默認權限
Umask顯示的0022 0特殊權限為 022ugo掩碼顯示方式,實際為777-022=755 Linux權限規則:缺省創建的文件,不能授予可執行的X權限。Umask 022(數字必須是掩碼)這樣才能修改默認權限
文件搜索命令:which whereis(只能查找命令)命令所在路徑:/bin/which Find 可以查找文件、目錄和命令 Find 搜索路徑 搜索關鍵詞
-name 根據文件名進行查找
-size 根據文件大小查找,大小用block數據塊表示512字節=0.5KB 大于 + 小于 –
-user 根據文件所有者查找
根據時間查找:ctime、atime、mtime(以天為單位)
Cmin、amin、mmin(以分鐘為單位)
C-change 改變(表示文件的屬性修改過)
a-access訪問(表示文件被看過,訪問過)b-m-modify修改(表示文件的內容被修改過)
-時間之內,+超過多久時間(find /etc –mmin-120)Find應用的連接符:-a and 邏輯與 –o or 邏輯或 連接符-exec不需要詢問,-ok是有詢問的
{}find查詢的結果 轉義符,使符號命令使用本身的含義(例如rm時有提示,rm 就沒提示了
-type 文件類型 f:二進制 l:軟連接文件 d:目錄
Find /etc –name init*-a –type l 根據i節點刪除文件
Find –inum i節點數值
Find 目錄 –inum 數值 –exec rm {};
Locate命令(linux獨有的命令)根據文件數據庫查找,對于新建立的文件查找不到
需要updatedb來配合locate來查找文件或目錄,適合查找系統文件或命令 Grep文件中搜索指定的字串
Grep 指定字串 源文件
Grep ftp /etc/services 幫助命令:man 英文:manual 可以獲得幫助信息(man 命令或配置文件)
只能查看配置文件的幫助
Man 1 詞(命令)
man 5 詞(配置文件)獲得命令干什么用的:whatis 命令 Help 查看shell內置命令的幫助
壓縮解壓命令:gzip 英文:gun zip Gzip 選項(文件)壓縮后為.GZ格式
只能壓縮文件,不能壓縮目錄 不保留源文件
解壓縮:gunzip 或gzip –d Tar 可以打包文件和目錄
-c 產生打包文件.tar-v 顯示詳細信息
-f 指定壓縮后的文件名
-z 打包同時壓縮 Tar –zcvf dirl.tar.gz dirl File 文件名(可以判定這個文件為什么類型的文件)
-x 解包.tar文件 Tar –zxvf dirl.tar.gz 壓縮命令:zip Zip –r ;壓縮目錄 Zip 文件 ;壓縮文件
壓縮名稱:bzip2(壓縮比非常高)Bzip2 –k ;可以保留原文件 格式:.bz2 解壓:bunzip2-k 壓縮文件名;保留原壓縮文件
網絡通信指令:write 給在線的用戶發信息,實施通信工具ctrl+D結束回話 Wall 網絡發廣播
Ping –s 包的大小(最大65507)ip地址
-c ping幾個包 Shell應用技巧 快捷鍵:ctrl+l 清屏
Ctrl+u 光標前所有內容都刪掉 定義別名:alias copy=cp
Alias xrm=“rm –r”組合命令必須要帶“”
Alias 顯示別名列表 Unalias 取消別名
輸入/輸出重定向
計劃任務:每天定時發cpu系統使用情況例如TOP到指定郵箱,每天就收郵件查看系統狀態就可以了,回頭可以研究一下怎么做 2>在計劃任務中應用比較廣泛 管道
Wc計數器,算一下又多少行
文本編輯器:vim/vi
這些配置是臨時的,沒有保存
需要修改配置文件來保存自己設定的快捷鍵和功能 ~/.vimrc 這就是配置文件
Hwclock –hctosys Hwclock 硬件時鐘 Mbr 主引導記錄
Windows 的引導自舉程序ntldr Linux的叫GRUB Kernel 叫內核
在系統啟動時,內核只做兩件事:驅動硬件 啟動進程init
數字越小越優先啟動 切換的時候K開頭的文件被用到了
Linux系統啟動步驟:
自舉程序GRUB
Hd0,0 第一個硬盤,第一個分區
進入GRUB輸入空格+1 按b啟動單用戶模式
第三篇:曾奇峰精神分析中級班學習隨想
曾奇峰精神分析中級班學習隨想
《個人隨筆》天高云淡
2009-06-12
——曾奇峰精神分析中級班學后隨想
曾奇峰主講的精神分析中級班昨天下午就結束了,但是我現在也還沉浸在一種離情別緒之中,以至于十分想寫點東西卻不知道從何寫起。在分離的時候,小組里一些女性成員潸然淚下。我對于分離倒確實沒有太大的感受,在我記憶中,離別(小學畢業、初中畢業、高中畢業、大學畢業)都是一種如釋重負的感覺,是一種新生的感覺,沒有什么值得難過的。同組的老大媽說,那是因為閱歷太少,或許如此?未必盡然!
我是這樣一個人:可以輕松面對離別,但是很久以后,還會常常想起那些與我離別了的人。
精神分析:越學越快樂
“搞心理的人都是心理有問題的人”,這是很多人調侃心理咨詢師說辭,實際上很多人也是這么認為的。與很多同行一樣,做心理咨詢,我也是半路出家,在“出家”之前,我也深感一些搞心理咨詢的人奇奇怪怪的,說話都是非常人的方式,讓人難以接受。后來我被學校調到心理咨詢中心工作,我還一度提醒自己,千萬不要學心理咨詢學的太深以至于自己也變成不正常的人。那時我非常好奇,是這些人學了心理學才變成不正常的呢,還是本來這些人就是不正常的呢。在這次精神分析中級班上,曾老師在和一個同學做演示的時候,我又產生了類似的問題——某些人是因為本來就瘋了然后才學的精神分析呢,還是因為學了精神分析后才變瘋的呢。
我想,肯定有不少同學與我有同樣的困惑,而且有很多同學甚至認為是因為學了精神分析之后才變瘋的,所以他們一再表白不愿意深入學習精神分析。應該說,在課程結束之前,對于“瘋”和“學習精分”之間的關系我已經有了初步答案,沒想到曾老師也對這個問題進行了講解(足以證明這是一個普遍問題),使我更加清晰明白起來。曾老師說,學習精神分析之后,應該使自己更加豐富,更加愉快,尤其重要的是,學習了精分之后應該能夠讓別人快樂。而學習精神分析走火入魔的表現則是,自己越來越不穩定,越來越痛苦,人際關系越來越緊張。對于曾老師的說法,應該更深一步,那些學習精分走火入魔的人,其實也不是精神分析的問題,而是其本人已經具備了“魔”的潛質,精神分析只是他的一個導火索而已。這就使我想起,曾老師在課上講的一個例子,他的一個女研究生學習精神分析后,動不動就會把自己的丈夫分析一下,搞的丈夫對精神分析怒火中燒。我當時嘆了一口氣,嘆氣的原因有一絲是替這個丈夫難過,但更多的是為精神分析抱不平。如果說精神分析是一把利劍的話,我想,這把利劍是成為和平的維護者,還是成為戰亂的制造者,不在于劍本身,而在于拿劍的人。
這也讓我想起中國歷史上的美女們,比如妲己、比如褒姒、比如楊貴妃、比如趙飛燕,這些美女被后來的所謂仁人君子罵為紅顏禍水,甚至有的人(明太祖?)說,如果我不是女人生,就要把天下的女人都殺凈。我真的為這些女人感到無比的冤屈,試想一下,如果娶這些女人的人不是昏君,她們還會造成如此的禍害嗎?譬如,楊貴妃嫁給了康熙帝,趙飛燕嫁給了唐太宗,又會如何呢?我們中國人,總會找一些人為尊者墊背,這些女人就是墊背墊了幾千年的人。希望精神分析不會成為墊背的。
我接觸精神分析時間也極短,雖然和其他人一樣,很久以前就知道了弗洛伊德,知道了他和他的弟子們的一些理論,但是很膚淺、很表面化,當然現在也還很膚淺、很表面話。今年元月份,我參加了曾老師主講的精神分析初級班,不記得當時具體的感受了,現在回想就是一種醍醐灌頂、茅塞頓開的感覺。再一個感覺就是自我價值感明顯提高,如果用金錢衡量的話,初級班之前我感覺自己值50元,此后感覺能值150
元。還有,參加完精神分析的初級班,雖然我也沒記住太多的理論,如果考試的話可能都考不及格,但是,很多精神分析的東西真的滲透到了我的骨子里。這次參加中級班,我倒沒有什么明確的目的,但是上課前的確有一種期盼。上課的過程中,包括小組活動中,我總的感覺,我已經基本做到了體驗多、邏輯少。通過這一次學習,我真的體驗到而非認識到精神分析直指人性的東西,或許精神分析應該稱為人性分析更合理。
總的來說,精神分析確實像一把刀,一層層剝掉包裹在人性之外的衣服,讓本真的人性展示出來。面對本真的人性,會有些讓我們惶恐,因為我們看慣了穿著服裝的人性,一旦看到真實的它肯定有些不習慣,但是,我確實感受到了,本真的人性確實更美。我為能看到一些本真的人性而感到快樂,而這個快樂是精神分析帶給我的,所以我說,精神分析越學愉快樂。
做一個用鼻子進行心理咨詢的咨詢師
曾老師講課過程中,常常說的話就是“我一聞就聞出了味道”(還有一句話就是“諸如此類的”)。曾老師也曾問我,是否聞出了精神分析的味道,我當時想了想,感覺自己還沒有聞出味道,并如實回答。答畢我著實焦慮了一陣子,可能是因為我當慣了好學生,在我的思維中,好學生就是要使自己的答案讓老師滿意吧。現在想想,這七天的學習中,我實際上是用鼻子聞的,縱便是沒有聞出來精神分析的味道,我至少還是學會了用鼻子去學習精神分析。一旦用鼻子去學習,感覺頓時不一樣了。由此,我覺得,作為心理咨詢師,也應該用鼻子去做心理咨詢。
所謂用鼻子做心理咨詢,其實就是用心去感受心理咨詢的過程,并且對自己的感受進行分析和厘清,有的時候感覺真的比邏輯思維好用的多。在我的咨詢案例中就有過這樣一個例子,遺憾的是,這是一個反例。曾經有一個家庭來我這里咨詢,主要問題是上初中的孩子學習成績下降,與其他孩子不同的是,這個孩子不是不愿意學習,而是非常刻苦,甚至常常熬夜,但就是不能在課堂上集中精力學習。對于這樣的情況,按照家庭治療的理論,我覺得這肯定是孩子在家里沒有得到足夠的尊重,是一種潛意思的對抗父母的方式。但是在咨詢過程中,發現父母都挺和善,對孩子也很民主,我很快排除了父母的問題,甚至都覺得沒必要讓父母參加了。于是主要針對這個孩子進行咨詢,給人的感覺是,孩子很努力、很上進,在不斷嘗試各種學習方法,希望自己學習成績提高,就是不能找到一個適合自己的方法,就是無法控制自己以便集中精力。孩子說話一直冠冕,回答我的問題就像在做政治作業,比如我問他,你希望自己成為一個什么樣的人,他會說希望自己能成為一個德、智、體、美、勞全面發展的人,能成為一個對社會有用的人,諸如此類,給人以虛的感覺。我也意識到了他這種“虛”背后肯定有問題,只是沒有深入,更沒有用心體驗,而是不斷發動自己的大腦,套用各種理論,想找到原因,最后,并沒有找到原因,這個案例也就不了了之。現在回想起來,重新體會一下當時的感受,其實整個家庭給我的感覺其實都是客套的感覺,給我一種就像政治對話一樣,話語都很正確,就是缺乏感情。如果當時我能認真體會這樣的感受,并且深入下去,可能會找到真正的原因。
這讓我感到,做心理咨詢可能真不應該用大腦去做,而是應該用鼻子或者用身體去做,深入其中,去感受,去體驗,也就是去看清楚反移情是什么,這對做咨詢肯定會有極大的幫助。而很多像我這樣的初學者恰恰相反,在聽完一段敘述之后,總是想搜刮盡所有的學習了的知識,看看來訪者的情況是符合哪一理論的,是哪一類的問題等等,這樣做或許是與真正的心理咨詢背道而馳的。這也許可以解釋,為什么某些沒學心理咨詢的人一樣可以起到心理咨詢師的作用。由此我也深深的感到,做心理咨詢真的應該是女人去做,我這樣的男人用大腦工作慣了的,真的難以撇開大腦,全身心感受,我真的應該為自己的職業生涯感到惆悵。
“士為知己者死”的感想
咱們中國有句古話或者俗話,就是“士為知己者死,女為悅己者容”。女為悅己者容不牽扯太大的事情,頂多是穿衣打扮的問題,而士為知己者死則大不同,很多重大事件的發生,其背后的動力都來源于這句話。在《唐雎不辱使命》一文中所說“夫專諸之刺王僚也,彗星襲月;聶政之刺韓傀也,白虹貫日;要離之刺
慶忌也,倉鷹擊于殿上”,專諸、聶政、要離這三個人,都是因為為知己死才如此奮不顧身,無所畏懼的。這三個人也都是改寫了當時的歷史的人。
我想到“士為知己者死”這句話源于小組成員對我的評價,她說我在不斷把自己呈現給母親,而母親可能在忙些什么,沒有給予關注,這讓我很焦慮。聽了這句話,我有一種一針見血的感覺,隨之就是胃里不舒服,伴隨著的還以一種遇到知己的感覺,當時想這要是我的媽多好,那就會騰出時間來給我以我需要的關注了。這雖然是對我個人的一句評價,但是細想起來,在咱們中國的歷史里,能夠得到母親的關愛的人也真是太少了。在古代,那些還皇親貴族、官宦人家,孩子一生出來就由奶媽帶著,親生母親幾乎沒有太多接觸機會,后來長大成人,因為種種制度,母子間也多變為禮節往來的關系。如果說富貴人家的母親是因為禮儀而不能親近孩子,那么窮家的母親則是因為經濟等方面而沒有精力親近孩子。一言以蔽之,很多中國人都缺乏母親的關注。這突然讓我想起一個事情來,歸有光在《項脊軒志》中這樣寫道——【嫗又曰:“汝姊在吾懷,呱呱而泣;娘以指扣門扉曰:‘兒寒乎?欲食乎?’吾從板外相為應答。”語未畢,余泣,嫗亦泣】。大概意思是作者的乳母說,當年作者的姐姐在乳母懷里哭泣,作者的母親就會隔著門問孩子是不是凍著了,是不是餓著了,講述完這樣的場景,作者和乳母都一起哭了起來。歸有光之所以哭是對母愛的懷念,相信很多人讀到這里的時候都會感受到那種母愛,然而,即便是這種本能的母愛,也還隔著一道門扉,有一道屏障。魯迅先生說,封建禮教是吃人的,我覺得更直白一些說,封建禮教是吃人性的,是泯滅人性的。
總的來說,中國歷史上的人們大都缺乏母親的關愛,因此在他們都渴望得到母親的注意,或者說渴望注意,一旦有人注意到自己,一旦有人了解自己,這種注意和了解使他們感激的愿意去死。這就是所謂的“士為知己者死”的原因吧。
寫至此,忽然想大哭!
如沐春風
寫這一部分我忽然阻抗的厲害。雖然到要吃飯的時間還很長,至少可以寫完這部分再去吃飯,但是我忽然覺得很困,繼而懷疑這個題目是否合適,是不是應該換成“簡單而快樂”之類的,磨蹭了一會,就出去吃飯了。經過飯間的梳理,還是不打算寫出來內心的真實的想法,可見阻抗之深,只好以另外的故事去寫了。
記得課程快結束的時候,老師講到了林語堂寫蘇東坡傳記的事情。林語堂在寫到蘇東坡受到諸多不公平之后,為蘇東坡的遭遇而憤憤不平,于是有人評論林語堂根本沒有資格寫蘇東坡傳記,因為面對那些不公平,蘇東坡自己都沒有憤憤,而林語堂卻按捺不住了,可見林語堂的人格水平遠在蘇東坡之下。而一個人格水平低的人是沒有資格評價人格水平高的人的,所以林語堂沒有資格寫蘇東坡傳記。大概就是這個意思吧。曾老師也說,精神分析應該改名為人格鑒賞,而人格水平低的人是不能鑒賞人格水平高的人的。事實也確實如此,人格也具有鏡子的作用,在品評一個人的人格時,齷齪者會看到齷齪,廉潔者會看到廉潔,攻擊性強的人會體驗到攻擊,懦弱的人則會體驗到膽怯,其實齷齪也好,廉潔也好,攻擊也好,膽怯也好,那都不是那個人的人格,而是品評者的人格,這樣必然會使品評大失公允。所以,只有那些簡單的人所看到的才可能是或者更多的是被品評人的人格,而簡單的人,我認為是人格水平高的體現。只有簡單的人,才會讓人覺得如沐春風,在我們小組就有這樣的人,給人以簡單而快樂的感覺。
我覺得,這些簡單而快樂的人,或者說人格水平比較高的人,才最適合做心理咨詢。而那些自己的問題還沒解決人,抱著治病的潛意識進入心理咨詢行業的人,自己還過的慘兮兮的人,可能未必適合這個行業,至少目前不適合。
在培訓結束的時候,和一個同學一起走,我說,我們這個培訓班上不少同學都開著好車來培訓,經濟上比較富裕,我認為這些做心理咨詢是比較適合的,因為,某種意義上經濟水平和人格水平是成正比的。這種
觀點可能會有失偏頗,然而也未必沒有道理。
寫到這里,我似乎感覺到必然有人跳出來指著我的鼻子罵:幼稚!呵呵,我姑且一說,你姑且一聽,我又沒說你,你著急什么啊,別當回事。
“較真”與“較勁”
是“較真”的人更讓人害怕呢,還是“較勁”的人更讓人可拍呢?我覺得,似乎兩種人都是挺讓人害怕的,但比較而言,較勁肯定更讓人害怕。較真總是有個標準的,譬如說,行人都靠右邊走,較真的人就會嚴格堅持靠右走,一旦違反這個規矩他就會把你大罵一頓。這樣的人確實也有點讓人害怕,因為在他面前不能犯錯誤,然而還好,我就小心謹慎就可以了。而較勁的人則不是如此,他會在你靠右走的時候罵你怎么不靠左走,而你靠左走的時候罵你怎么不靠右走,你不走的時候罵你怎么不走,而且揪住你不放,直到把你搞死。你說這種人可怕不可怕?
我是親身體會到了這種恐懼。其實在精神分析的小組中,受到攻擊十分正常,更何況我自己也是一個容易引起攻擊的人。然而面對過來的攻擊,我感受確實不同的。譬如有一個女同學,用各種方式攻擊我,我們還進行了彼此分析,覺得這種攻擊其實是高濃度情感,這不僅沒讓我害怕,反而讓我竊喜,即便事實并非如此,至少我是可以用精神勝利法化解的。對于她的攻擊,我感覺我完全可以應付的了,而且可以想玩就玩,不想玩就可以躲得開。所以我不恐懼。而另外一個同學給我的感覺則全然不是,雖然她言語上并不是很激烈,但是我深深的感受到,她的攻擊讓我化不開、躲不掉,也就是說無論我怎么做都沒用,想躲都不行,她會一直盯著我。這可能就是“較勁”。
和較勁的人在一起,讓人感到透不過氣來。較勁的人自己也必定是不快樂的,因為這種較勁肯定是潛意識的,其本人并不知覺,在給別人帶來恐懼的同時,自己也肯定會感到不順心,這也會導致朋友、親人的疏離,自然也是不幸的。
光鮮的女人
我們小組有一位大姐,一起參加初級班的時候我就注意到了,衣著很得體,也很漂亮,外表看來也很鮮亮,算得上題目上所寫的“光鮮的女人”了。初級班的時候,我的感覺這是一個控制欲很強的人,常常想操控老師,其次的感覺就是一種疏遠的感覺,這就是所謂的隔離吧。中級班的時候她也來了,我們倆還分到了一個組里。在曾老師示范的時候,她簡單陳述了她的故事,還說到自己男人緣很好,我對此就很有些懷疑,我作為一個男人,怎么沒有感受到吸引,而感受到的是排斥呢?后來分析一下,或許是因為我不具備某些條件,比如年齡。在小組里進行分析的時候,她說她的一個小小的煩惱吧,就是幾乎一天換一件衣服,愛買衣服,家里僅裙子就200多條等等。我們分別進行了分析,我堅信我的分析是最有道理的——滿足一下自己的自戀。其實這些都不是我要說的,我想說的是,在分析她的過程中,有人問及了她的婚姻狀況,似乎想知道婚姻是否有問題之類的。在我看來,一個光鮮的女人婚姻肯定沒問題。
這種論斷或許有點武斷了,比如,潘金蓮吧,婚姻不幸,不也很漂亮,很光鮮嗎?潘金蓮我不是很認識,也沒有交往過,所以不知道是否真有此人,即便是真有此人,那也是萬惡的舊社會的事情,與當時的歷史情況有關。在當今世界上,如果一個女人長期處于婚姻不幸的狀態,我不相信,她還可以光艷照人,或許她可以穿漂亮、時尚的衣服,卻不可能有亮麗的膚色,更不可能有女人的味道。如果有人問,是否調查過,我真的沒調查過,只是作為一個男人的感覺而已。或者從另外一個方面說,如果一個女人衣著得體,舉止優雅,光彩照人,她的丈夫會不喜歡她,會不珍惜她?除非這個男人有問題。
由此我想到的是,女人首先要當一個女人,然后再當妻子、母親、女兒以及職業中的角色。在我提出這個觀點的時候,有同學問我,如果女人不是妻子、母親等,怎么顯示她是女人,這個問題足以說明,女人迷失了自己女人的特點實在太久了。女人是什么,我認為,首先是女性,野蠻的說,就是雌性動物,雌性動
物天然的職責就是吸引雄性動物。怎么吸引雄性呢,自然是要把自己的雌性氣息散發出來,比如嫵媚啊、比如柔情啊,甚至還有風騷一點啊。這樣的女人肯定會吸引所有正常的男人,一個能吸引男人的女人,做好別的還有什么難的呢?從一個男人的角度看,這樣的女人實在太少了。
寫到這里連我自己都有點覺得寫得不對,但這是我的真實感受,從邏輯層面確實難以圓滿的分析,雄性動物的感受而已。
真實有時讓人害怕
在我們小組的十七個人中,有一個人讓很多人的感受肯定是害怕,覺得此人有點不正常,是不是學精神分析學瘋了,再加上她在評論一些人的時候,勸人家這么大年紀了,學精神分析干什么啊,之類的。于是,肯定有幾個人,把她看成了精神分析的犧牲品,對她同情的同時,也增加了對精神分析的仇恨,堅定了遠離精神分析的決心。
我倒實在沒有害怕的情緒,學習的過程中,尤其是在她發言的時候,我深刻的感受到的是一種真實,至少是一種脫去了很多外殼(雖然沒有全脫去)之后的真實。然而這種真實會讓一些人害怕,或許是因為我們習慣了周圍的不真實,而面對真實的時候反而不知所措。尤其是只有一個人真實的時候,更讓其他的人害怕。當我們面對這種害怕的時候,防御機制會告訴我們:這個人不正常。我們為什么害怕真實呢,可能是因為真實的人就像一面沒有瑕疵的鏡子吧,在那里我們照出了真實的自己,真實的我們都能看到自己的肺腑和自己的骨骼。我們都知道,X光下的人體是真實的,卻是不美的,當面對這樣的不美的時候,防御機制再一次幫助了我們,它會告訴我們,那個影像是假的,X光機有問題。大抵如此吧。
本來有很多要說的,因為一個小組成員已經回到家里,并且用qq跟我聊天,很大的擾動了我的思緒,不知道說什么好了。我想說什么呢?一是想告訴那個真實的人,適當掩遮一下,別嚇著別人;再就是想告訴其他的人,真實其實是很美的。
自我分析:對幼稚的恐懼
在自由聯想的時候,我充當咨詢師的角色,另外一個小女孩作為來訪者進行自由聯想。確實由于我的身體疾病的因素我坐不住了,曾老師,提醒了一下我,除了身體原因,有沒有其他原因,我為了配合權威,想了想說覺得她的說法太幼稚了。曾老師說這就很有意思了,值得思考。這也確實引起了我的思考,是我討厭幼稚,還是我恐懼幼稚呢(忽然覺得精分的角度,討厭就是恐懼,這個問題問的水平太低了)?應該是后者吧。在小組討論過程中,我說了那句“光鮮的女人婚姻肯定沒問題”之后,小組中的老大媽說了一句“幼稚!”,我當時就有一種被刀子捅了一下的感覺,到現在還隱隱作痛。當然,我覺得那個老大媽也確實夠狠,可以不費吹灰之力、于無意間發現我的軟肋,使我有一種被搞死的感覺。
還是不說老大媽了,可能有這樣的感覺不是老大媽的事情,還是說我為什么恐懼幼稚吧。以我目前的學習水平,我覺的用精神分析的方法分析,我可能幼年時期就生活在一種復雜的環境下,時刻要保持警惕,時刻要進行抗爭,所以害怕幼稚,因為一旦幼稚了,就會遭受到危險。還有一種解釋方法,那就是,我試圖獲得父親的地位,只有成熟的人才能獲得這一地位,而幼稚的人是不可以的,因此,我恐懼幼稚。但無論是那種解釋吧,都足以說明,我的幼年肯定是不完美的。
不寫了吧。曾老師強調同行之間一定要有個團隊,這個重要性我也是用身體感受到了的,所以,很希望我們的同學們能保持聯系。
魏廣東
2009-6-11
第四篇:Ishow2018中級班文本2.0
2018 Ishow中級班文本2.0 目錄
一、滑冰
二、Yuhong(移民)
三、照片(叔叔的小屋,爺爺奶奶家)
四、等車,寫投訴信
五、新加坡交通(限行,限購,繳稅,地鐵)
六、機場問路
七、看房子
八、問房子
九、Terry(工作,分手)
十、戒煙,改變,加俱樂部,減肥
十一、snails with garlic,fried brain
十二、周計劃(Florida),暑假計劃(work,Guadalajara in Mexico)
十三、背包旅行,參觀紐約
十四、Jason
十五、鄰居擾民,停錯車位
十六、圣誕節,變裝
十七、和服,婚禮
十八、工作打算
十九、工作打算(記者,老師,公務員,餐館)
二十、自由女神像
二十一、埃及金字塔,長城 二
十二、模特,作家
二十三、Joan,Bob近期情況(旅行,買房)二
十四、看電影 二
十五、拾金不昧 二
十六、電話咨詢節目
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1.Ted: Oh, I'm really sorry.Are you OK? Ana: I'm fine.But I'm not very good at this.Ted: Neither am I.Say, are you from South America? Ana: Yes, I am originally.I was born in Argentina.Ted: Did you grow up there? Ana: Yes, I did, but my family moved here eight years ago when I was in high school.Ted: And where did you learn the rollerblade? Ana: Here in the park.This is only my second time.Ted: Well, it's my first time.Can you give me some lessons? Ana: Sure.Just follow me.Ted: By the way, my name is Ted.Ana: And I'm Ana.Nice to meet you.2.Ted: Hey, hey!That was fun.Thank you for the lesson!Ana: No problem.So, tell me a little about yourself.What do you do? Ted: I work in a travel agency.Ana: Really!What do you do there? Ted: I'm in charge of their computers.Ana: Oh, so you're a computer specialist.Ted: Well, sort of.Yeah, I guess so.Ana: That's great.Then maybe you can give me some help with a computer course I'm taking.Ted: Oh, sure...But only if you promise to give me some more rollerblading lessons.Ana: It's a deal!
(2)1.Interviewer: Where are you from originally, Yu Hong? Yu Hong: I'm from China...from near Shanghai.Interviewer: And when did you move here? Yu Hong: I came here after I graduated from college.That was in 1992.Interviewer: And what do you do now? Yu Hong: I'm a transportation engineer.Interviewer: I see.So you 're an immigrant to the United States? Yu Hong: Yes, that's right.Interviewer: What are some of the difficulties of being an immigrant in the U.S.? Yu Hong: Oh, That's not an easy question to answer.There are so many things really.I guess one of the biggest difficulties is that I don't have any relatives here.I mean, I have a lot of friends, but that's not the same thing.In China, on the holidays or the weekend, we visit relatives.It isn't the same here.Interviewer: And what do you miss the most from home? Yu Hong: Oh, that's easy, my mom's soup!She makes great soup.I really miss my mother's cooking.(3)
1.A: Hey!Are these pictures of you when you were a kid? B: Yeah!That’s me in front of my uncle’s beach house.When I was a kid, we used to spend two weeks there every summer.A: Wow, I bet that was fun!B: Yeah.We always had a great time.Every day we used to get up early and walk along the beach.I have a great shell collection.In fact, I think it’s still up in the attic!A: Hey, I used to collect shells, too, when I was a kid.But my parents threw them out!
2.A: You know what I remember most about growing up? B: What? A: Visiting my grandparent’s house… you know, on holidays and stuff.They lived way out in the country, and my granddad had a horse named Blackie.He taught me how to ride.I just love that horse-and she loved me, too!I used to really enjoy spending time at my grandparent’s house.And every time I came back, Blackie remembered me.B: Ah, memories!
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1.A: Why is there never a bus when you want one? B: Good question.There aren’t enough buses on this route.A: Sometimes I feel like writing a letter to the paper.B: Good idea.You should say that we need more subway lines, too.A: Yeah.There should be more public transportation in general.B: And fewer cars!There’s too much traffic.A: Say, is that our bus coming? B: Yes, it is.But look.It’s full!A: Oh, no!Let’s go and get a cup of coffee.We can talk about this letter I’m going to write.2.A: So you are really going to write a letter to the paper? B: Sure.I’m going to say something about the buses.They’re too old.We need more modern buses… nice air-conditioned ones.B: And they need to put more buses on the road.A: Right.And there are too many cars downtown, and there isn’t enough parking.B: That’s for sure.It’s impossible to find a parking space downtown these days.A: I think they should ban private cars downtown between nine and five.B: Oh, you mean they shouldn’t allow any cars except taxis and buses during the regular workday.Hmm… that sounds like a really good idea.(5)1.Quite a number of things have been done to help solve traffic problems in Singapore.For example, motorists must buy a special pass if they want to drive into the downtown business district.They can go into the business district only if they have the pass displayed on their windshield.Another thing Singapore has done is to make it more difficult to buy cars.People have to apply for a certificate if they want to buy a car.And the number of certificates is limited.Not everyone can get one.There is also a high tax on cars, so it costs three or four times as much to buy a car in Singapore as it does in, say, the United States or Canada.The other thing Singapore has done is to build an excellent pubic transportation system.Their subway system is one of the best in the world.And there is also a very good taxi and bus system.(6)
1.A: Excuse me.Could you tell me where the bank is? B: There’s one upstairs, across from the duty-free shop.A: Oh, thanks.Do you know what time it opens? B: It should be open now.It opens at 8:00A.M.A: Good.And can you tell me how often the buses leave for the city? B: You need to check at the transportation counter.It’s right down the hall.A: OK.And just one more thing.Do you know where the nearest restroom is? B: Right behind you, ma’am.See that sign? A: Oh.Thanks a lot.2.A: Excuse me.It’s me again.I’m sorry.I need some more information if you don’t mind.B: Not at all.A: Thanks.Do you know how much a taxi costs to the city? B: Well, it depends on the traffic, of course.But it usually costs about forty dollars.A: Forty dollars? I guess I’ll take the bus.That means I have almost an hour till the next one.Where could I find an inexpensive restaurant in the airport? Maybe a fast-food place? B: Go upstairs and turn right.You’ll see the snack bar on your left.A: Thanks very much.Have a nice day.B: You, too.(7)
1.A: What do you think? B: Well, it has just as many bedrooms as the last apartment.And the living room is huge.C: But the bedrooms are too small.And there isn’t enough closet space for my clothes.A: And it’s not as cheap as the last apartment we saw.B: But that apartment was dark and dingy.And it was in a dangerous neighborhood.A: Let’s see if the real estate agent has something else to show us.2.A: Well, um,how do you like this space, then? C: Oh, it’s much better than that other one.The thing I like best is the bedrooms.They are too huge!B: Yes, they are nice and big.C: And there are two bathrooms!I could have my own bathroom!B: Yes, I guess you could.C: The only problem is the color of the living room.I really don’t like those dark green walls.A: Oh, I’m sure we can change the color if we want to.3.A: Creative Rentals.Good morning.B: Hello.I’m calling about the apartment you have for rent.A: Yes.What can I tell you about it? B: Where is it, exactly? A: It’s on King Street, just off the freeway.B: Oh, near the freeway.Can you hear the traffic? A: Yes, I’m afraid you do hear some.But the apartment has lots of space.It has three bedrooms and a very large living room B: I see.And is it in a new building? A: Well, the building is about fifty years old.B: Uh-huh.Well, I’ll think about it.A: OK.Thanks for calling.B: Thank you.Bye
(8)1.A: Hello?
B: Hello.Is the apartment you’re advertising still available? A: Yes, it is.B: Can you tell me a little about it? A: Well, it’s a perfect apartment for one person.It’s one room with a kitchen at one end.B: I see.And is it far away from the subway? A: There’s a subway station just down the street.Actually, the apartment is located right downtown, so you step out of the building and there are stores and restaurants everywhere.But it’s on a high floor, so you don’t hear any street or traffic noise.B: It sounds like just the kind of place I’m looking for.I’d like to come see it, please.A: Sure.Let me give you the address.2.A:Town and city rentals.How can I help you? B:Hi!Um,Is that apartment youadvertised still available? A:Yes, it is.B:Oh, good.Um, listen,I,I can’t pay too much.So the low prise you asking is…is really good for me.A:Great.B;And how big is it? A:It’s two rooms plus the kichen and bathroom.B:Well, is it a safe place to live? A:Well,I can tell you I’ve lived here for five years and I never heard about anybody having a problem.B:Oh, that’s good.Uh, let see, oh yeah, does the apartment have a lot of windows? A:Windows, yes, there are plenty of windows, but unfortunately,there is’n much light really.See, there’s another building right next to ours.B:Oh,that’s OK.I’m never around in the day anyway.Do you think it’s alright if I come and look at it? A:Anytime.When you wanna see it.(9)
1.A: So where are you working now, Terry? B: Oh, I’m still at the bank.I don’t like it, though.A: That’s too bad.Why not? B: Well, it’s boring, and it doesn’t pay very well.A: I know what you mean.I don’t like my job either.I wish I could find a better job.B: Actually, I don’t want to work at all anymore.I wish I had a lot of money so I could retire now.A: Hmm, how old are you, Terry? B: Uh, twenty-six.2.A: So how are things going with you and Susie, Terry? B: Oh, you didn’t know? She and I broke up a couple of months ago.We decided we needed a break from each other for a while.But I miss her a lot.I wish we could get back together again.A: I’m sure you will.B: I really hope so.So what kind of job would you like to look for? A: I’m not sure, but I’d love something that would involve travel.And I’d really like to move to another city.I’m sick of this place.I need to live somewhere more exciting.B: I know what you mean.It sure can get boring around here at times.(10)1.A: Ugh!I feel awful.I really have to stop smoking.B: So why don't you quit? A: Well, if I quit, I might gain weight!B: A lot of people do, but...A: And if I gain weight, I won't be able to fit into any of clothes!B: Well, you can always go on a diet.A: Oh, no.I'm terrible at losing weight on diets.So if my clothes don't fit, I'll have to buy new ones.I'll have to get a part-time job, and...B: Listen, it is hard to quit, but it's not that hard.Do you want to know how I did it?
2.A: Well, giving up smoking isn't really as hard as you think.I managed to do it, so it can't be that difficult.You should try a nicotine gum.You chew it just like regular chewing gum, and you don't feel like smoking.B: Well, I guess it's worth a try.3.Yeah, I really need a change.I’ve been doing the same things for over five years now, and I’m just not learning anything new.It’s the same routine every day, and I am really sick of sitting in front of a computer.I think I need to try something totally different.I want to be in a profession that involves meeting people.4.I really need to join a club or sports team to give me something to do on weekends.I get really bored on the weekends, and if I joined a club.I’d probably get to meet people and make new friends.5.Gosh, I really have to go on a diet.I’ve gained ten pounds since last year, and everyone tells me I look fat.And if I don’t lose weight now, I won’t be able to get into any of my summer clothes.(11)
1.A: Hey, this sounds good — snails with garlic!Have you ever eaten snails? B: No, I haven’t
A: Oh, they’re delicious!I had them last time.Like to try some? B: No, thanks.They sound strange.C: Have you decided on an appetizer yet? A: Yes.I’ll have the snails, please.C: And you, sir? B: I think I’ll have the fried brains.A: Fried brains? Now that really sound strange!
2.A: Oh, good.Here comes the waitress now!C: Here are your snails, madam.And for you, sir… the fried brains.B: Thank you.A: Mmm, these snails are delicious!How are the brains? B: Well, I think they’re… yuck!Oh, sorry, I guess brains are pretty strange after all.Um, I think I’m going to order something else, if you don’t mind.A: Oh, sure.Go ahead.B: Miss!Excuse me, miss!C: Yes? B: Uh, I really don’t care for this appetizer.Could you bring me something else? C: Yes, of course.What would you like instead? A: Try the snails.B: No, I don’t think so.I’ll tell you what.Just forget an appetizer for me, and bring me a nice, juicy hamburger… medium rare…with French fries and a large soda.3.Have you finished with this A: Have you finished with this? B: No, I’m still drinking it.Thanks.4.A: Did you order this? B: Yes, that’s mine.Mmm, it looks great and smells delicious!
5.A: Don’t you like it? B: I haven’t tasted it yet.I’m waiting for the waitress to bring me a fork.6.A: Did you enjoy it? B: Well, it was a little tough.I think it was cooked for too long.7.A: How is it? B: Great.Just the way I like it: black and strong.8.A: Your turn or mine? B: It’s my treat this time.You paid last time.Remember?
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1.A: I’m so excited!We have two weeks off!What are you going to do? B: I’m not sure.I guess I’ll just stay home.Maybe I’ll catch up on my reading.What about you? Any plans? A: Well, my parents have rented a condominium in Florida.I’m going to take long walks along the beach every day and do lots of swimming.B: Sounds great!A: Say, why don’t you come with us? We have plenty of room.B: Do you mean it? I’d love to!
2.A: Have you planned anything for the summer, Brenda? B: Yeah.I’m going to work the first month and save some money.Then I’m going to go down to Mexico for six weeks to stay with my sister.She’s working in Guadalajara.She says it’s really interesting there, so I want to go and see what to go and see what it’s like.It will also give me a chance to practice my Spanish.I’m really looking forward to it.3.A: So, what are you planning to do for your vacation, Judy? B: Oh, I’m doing something really exotic this year.You know, I went to Hawaii last year, and just stayed on the beach for two weeks.This year, I’m going white-water rafting!A: Ooh, that sounds great.But what is it, exactly? B: Oh, well, you know, it’s in Colorado.They have all these trips down the rapids.The water gets really rough, but I think it’ll be really exciting.Oh, I’m doing some rock climbing, too.A: And you call that a vacation?
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1.A: Hey, Mom.I want to backpack around Europe this summer.What do you think? B: Backpack around Europe? That sounds dangerous!You shouldn’t go by yourself.You ought to go with someone.A: Yes, I’ve thought of that.B: And you’d better talk to your father first.A: I already did.He thinks it’s a great idea.He wants to come with me!
2.A: What should people do to make their visit to New York City safe and pleasant? B: I think the biggest mistake many people make is trying to do too much in a short time.There’s so much to see and do that you need to have a plan.It’s best to start planning before you get here, so you have information about hotels, restaurants, sightseeing, and so on.Visitors can use our Web site to get the information they need to start planning before they come here;or they can phone or fax us.Interviewer: How safe is New York City for tourists?
Spokesperson: New York is a much safer place than many people think.In fact, it’s the safest it’s been in thirty years!Interviewer: Oh, that’s good to hear!
Spokesperson: Yes, but that doesn’t mean people don’t have to be careful;tourists in New York ought to be careful, just like in any big city in the world.For students, I would say travel in groups.If you get lost, it’s easier as a group to find your way.You really shouldn’t go off on your own if you can find someone to go with you.Another thing to remember is: Don’t be afraid to ask for directions, even if your English isn’t perfect.People often stop me on the street to ask for directions, and that’s not only foreign visitors.American visitors also have trouble finding their way around;and you’ll find New Yorkers are really very friendly.Interviewer: Yes, I agree.We are!Spokesperson: Uh-huh.Interviewer: Is there any other advice you can give visitors to the Big Apple?
Spokesperson: Well, another thing to remember is not to leave anything valuable in your car if you have one.Don’t leave suitcases on the back seat where people can see them, and it’s better not to even leave them in the truck.Most cars are very easy to get into.So it’s not worth the risk.But most people have a great time when they come to New York.And you will, too.If you use your common sense.(14)
1.A: Jason…Jason!Turn down the TV a little, please.B: Oh, but this is my favorite program!A: I know.But it’s very loud.B: OK.I’ll turn it down.A: That’s better.Thanks.B: Lisa, please pick up your things.A: They’re all over the living room floor.B: In a minute, Mom.I’m on the phone.A: OK.But do it as soon as you hang up.B: Sure.No problem.A: Goodness!Were we like this when we were kids? B: Definitely!
2.A: Have you noticed how forgetful Dad is getting? He’s always forgetting where his car keys are.It drives me crazy.B: And he can never find his glasses either.A: I know.B: You know what drives me crazy about Mom? A: What? B: Those awful talk shows she watches on TV.She just loves them.A: Yeah, I think she watches them for hourseveryday.B: Oh, well.I guess they’re just getting old.I hope I never get like that.A: Me, too.Hey, let’s go and play a video game.B: Great idea.By the way, have you seen my glasses anywhere?
3.A: James, please turn that down…James!B: Yes, Mom? A: Turn that down.It’s much too loud.B: Sorry, Mom.I had it turned up because I wanted to hear the game.4.A: Molly, put the groceries away, please.There’s ice cream in one of the bags.B: I can’t right now, Dad.I’m doing my homework.5.A: What’s this, James!B: Yeah, Mom? A: Why are there all these wet towels on the bathroom floor? Please pick them up and hang them up to dry.B: Gosh, I’m really sorry, Mom.I forgot all about them.7.A: Justin, come help me.We need to wash these dishes before your mother gets home.B: Oh, Dad.I’d like to help, but I have to call Laurie.It’s really important.8.A: Aimee, I think the dog is trying to tell you something!B: Well, I can’t possibly take him out right now.I’m doing my nails.(15)
1.A: Hi.I’m your new neighbor, George Rivera.I live next door.B: Oh, hi.I’m Stephanie Lee.A: So, you just moved in? Do you need anything? B: Not right now.But thanks.A: Well, let me know if you do.Um, by the way, would you mind turning your stereo down? The walls are really thin, so the sound goes right through to my apartment.B: Oh, I’m sorry!I didn’t realize that.I’ll make sure to keep the volume down.Oh, by the way, is there a good Italian restaurant in the neighborhood?
A: Yeah.There’s a great one a couple of blocks from here.Try their lasagna.It’s delicious!
2.A: Hello.I’m sorry to bother you, but I think your car is parked in my space downstairs.B: Really? A: Yes.Do you drive a blue Honda? B: Yes, I do.A: Well, there’s a blue Honda parked in space 13 and that’s my space.B: Oh, I’m so sorry.My son must have put it in the wrong space.Ours is the one right next to yours-number 12.Let me get my keys, and I’ll go right down and move the car.A: Thanks.B: And I’ll make sure my son doesn’t do it again.A: I appreciate it.3.A: Gee, Bob, you’re really late.You said you’d be here at six, and look at the time.It’s almost six thirty!
B: I’m really sorry.Tell you what: I’ll pay for dinner.A: Oh, it’s all right.You don’t have to do that.B: No, I want to pay.You had to wait for me almost half an hour.A: Well, hey, OK – if you insist.Thanks!
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1.A: Did you know next week is Halloween? It’s on October 31 B: So what do you do on Halloween? We don’t have that holiday in Russia.A: Well, it’s a day when kids dress up in masks and costumes.They knock on people’s doors and ask for candy by saying the words“Trick or treat!” B: Hmm.Sounds interesting.A: But it’s not just for kids.Lots of people have costume parties.Hey… my friend Pete is having a party.Would you like to go? B: Sure.I’d love to.2.A: So are we going to wear costumes to the party? B: Of course.That’s half the fun.Last year I rented this great Dracula costume, and this year I’m going as a clown.A: A clown? Yes, you would make a good clown.B: Hey!A: Oh, I’m just kidding.What about me? What kind of costume should I wear? B: Why don’t you go as a witch? I saw a terrific witch outfit at the costume store.A: A witch… yeah, that’s a good idea.So after I scare people, you can make them laugh.(17)
1.A: You look beautiful in that kimono, Mari.Is this your wedding photo? B: Yes, it is.A: Do most Japanese women wear kimonos when they get married? B: Yes, many of them do.Then after the wedding ceremony, the bride usually changes into a Western bridal dress during the reception.A: Oh, I didn’t know that.2.A: Did you get married in a church, Mari? B: No, the ceremony was held at a shrine.A: Oh, a shrine…
B: Yes, we were married by a priest in a traditional Shinto ceremony.A: Hmm.And who went to the ceremony? B: Well, only the immediate family attended the ceremony… you know, our parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters…
A: And what about the reception? What was that like? B: Lots of friends and relatives came to the reception…about a hundred people.And the first thing happened was that the main guests gave formal speeches.A: Speeches? B: Yes, and then after that, all the guests were served a formal meal.While everyone was eating and drinking, lots of other guests gave short speeches or sang songs.Some of the speeches were funny.A: Sounds like fun!B: Yes, the songs and speeches are all part of the entertainment during a wedding reception.And then, at the end of the reception, each guest received a present for coming to the wedding.A: A present from the bride and groom? B: Yes, it’s a Japanese custom.A: What a nice custom!
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1.A: So what kind of job are you looking for? B: Well, I haven’t made up my mind.I love working with people, and I love traveling.I don’t want a job where I’m stuck in an office all day.I want to get out and see the world.A: Are you interested in working in business? That’s where you can sometimes make good money.B: I’m not really interested in making a lot of money at this point in my life.I’ll worry about that later
2.A: What kind of career are you planning for yourself? B: I don’t know.I think I’d like to have a job where I can help people.Everybody else in my family is in law or business-you know, boring stuff like that.That’s just not for me.I know I’d like to work overseas, though.Maybe in a children’s hospital in a developing country.But that’s a long way away.I have to get into medical school first, and that’s not going to be easy!
3.A: What kind of job do I have in mind? Well, I don’t want a regular nine-to–five job.Eventually, I’d like to get into acting-maybe even break into movies.But I guess that won’t happen for a while.B: So what are you doing in the meantime? A: Well, I work out at the gym nearly every day.I need to be really fit.And I’m taking acting lessons as well so that I feel comfortable in front of the crowd.I just had some pictures taken to show to agents in the city.Would you like to see them? B: Sure.(19)1.Tim:I don’t know what classes to take this semester.I can’t decide what I want to do with my life.Have you thought about it, Brenda? Brenda: yes, I have.I think I’d make a good journalist because I love writing.Tim: maybe I could be a teacher because I’m very creative.And I like working with kids.Brenda: oh, I wouldn’t want to be a teacher.I’m too impatient.Tim: I know one thing I could never do.Brenda: what’s that? Tim: I could never be a stockbroker because I’m not good at making decisions quickly.2.Brenda: my history professor says I should think about a career in politics.But I don’t think I’d make a good politician.Tim: why not, Brenda? Brenda: oh, you know me.I’m terrible at speaking in front of a lot of people— you know, like giving speeches and things.And politicians have to speak in public all the time.Tim: that’s true.You know, that reminds me of a problem I’m having.Brenda: what is it? Tim: you know my parents have a really successful restaurant, right? Well, my father wants me to be the manager.Brenda: and you don’t want to? Tim: no, not at all.I’d be a terrible manager.I’m much too disorganized.(20)
1.A: We are now approaching the famous Statue of Liberty, which has welcomed visitors to New York Harbor since 1886.B: Wow!Look at it.A: Incredible, isn’t it? B: The statue was given to the United States by the people of France.It was designed by the French sculptor Bartholdi.A: It’s really huge.Do we get to go inside? B: Of course.We can climb the stairs all the way up to the crown.A: Stairs? There’s no elevator? B: Not to the top.But it’s just 142 steps!
2.Let me tell you a little more about the statue before you climb to the top.In case you’re wondering what the statue is made of, it has a framework inside that’s made of iron;the outer skin is made of copper.The copper skin is only 2.4 millimeters thick.The supporting framework inside the statue is what holds the whole thing together.The Statue of Liberty is a major tourist attraction, and every year about two million people from all over the world come here to visit it.(21)
A:The Pyramids were built more than four thousand years ago by the Egyptians.The most famous ones are on the west bank of the river Nile, outside of Cairo.They served as burial places for the Egyptian Kings.After a king’s death, his body was turned into what is called a “mummy.” The preserved it.The King’s mummy was placed inside the pyramid, together with treasures and the King’s belongings.B: The Great Wall of China is the longest manmade structure ever built.It was built to protect one of the Chinese kingdoms.Much of what exists of the wall today was built during the Ming Dynasty in the late 1400s, although parts of the wall are much older and go back to around 200 B.C.The wall is about 35 feet high, or 11 meters, and a stone roadway runs along the top of it.The main part of the wall stretches for about 2,000 miles, that is, about 3,400 kilometers.(22)
1.A: How did you get into modeling, Stacy? B: Well, when I graduated from drama school, I moved to Los Angeles to look for work as an actress.I was going to auditions every day, but I never got any parts.And I was running out of money.A: So, what did you do? B: I got a job as a waitress in a seafood restaurant.While I was working there, a customer offered me some work as a model.Within a few weeks, I was modeling full time.A: Wow, what a lucky break!
2.A: So, Richard, what did you do after you graduated? B: Well, I majored in English literature in college.A: Uh-huh.B: So when I graduated, I tried to make my living as a writer.A: Oh, really? B: Yeah.See, I’ve written a novel and I’ve sent it to eight different publishers, but they all, uh, rejected it.Say, would you like to read it, Stacy? I have it right here with me.A: Well, I’d love to read it, Richard,… but not right now.Uh, so do you have a job or anything? B: Oh, yes.I’m in sales.A: Oh!Where? B: Actually, I’m a salesclerk in a hardware store.But when my novel sells, I know I’ll be a best-selling author and I’ll make lots of money.(23)1.A: Hey, Joan!I haven’t seen you in ages.What have you been doing lately? B: Nothing exciting.I’ve been working two jobs for the last six months A: How come? B: I’m saving up money for a trip to Europe.A: Well, I’ve only been spending money.I quit my job to go to graduate school.I’m studying journalism.B: Really? How long have you been doing that? A: For two years.Luckily, I finish next month.I’m almost out of money.2.A: Hey, Bob, how’s it going? B: Pretty good, thanks.A: I haven’t seen you for a while.What have you been up to? B: Well, I’ve been looking for a house to buy.I finally found one last month.I move in next week.A: Gee, that’s terrific.B: Yeah.I’m really tired of dealing with landlords.So what have you been doing lately? A: Well, I just got back from a vacation in Italy.B: Italy? Whereabouts in Italy? A: Mostly in the north, around Milan.I have a cousin up there.B: I see.Did you have a good time? A: Yeah.It was great.In fact, I just got engaged to a guy I met there.B: You’re kidding!Well, that must have been some vacation!
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1.Paul: Do you want to see a movie tonight?
Carol: Hmm.Maybe.What’s playing?
Lynn: How about the new Steven Spielberg film? I hear it’s really exciting.Carol: Who’s Steven Spielberg?
Paul: You know.He directed Jaws, E.T., and Jurassic Park.Carol: Oh, Jurassic Park was boring.The book by Michael Crichton was fascinating, but the movie was terrible!
Lynn: Well, I’m interested in that new Johnny Depp movie.It’s a romance.It’s been playing for about a month.Carol: Now that sounds good.I’ve never seen him in a romance, and I think he’s a wonderful actor!
2.A:What did you think of that documentary about Australia?
B:Oh, I learned so much!I didn’t know they had so many different kinds of animals there.And the photography!A: Yeah, it was something, wasn’t it?
B: Uh-huh, it was pretty amazing.It made me want to go there and see it for myself sometime.3.A: What did you think of the new Stephen King book?
B: Oh, I couldn’t stop reading it once I got started.I stayed up till four o’clock in the morning to finish it!A: And wasn’t the ending great?
B: Yeah, it really was!Such a surprise!And the whole story moved along so fast, too!
4.A: How did you like the movie? B: Well, I walked out after half an hour.A: You did?
B: Yeah, it was so dull that I started falling asleep!And I’ve never seen such bad acting from Jim Carrey!A: Oh, really? He’s usually pretty good.B: Well, not in that movie.I wish he’d choose better roles.(25)1.A: Look at this.Some guy found $750,000!He returned it and the owner thanked him with a phone call.B: You’re kidding!If I found $750,000, I wouldn’t return it so fast.A: Why? What would you do? B: Well, I’d go straight to Los Vegas and try my luck in the casinos.I could double the money in a day and keep $750,000 for myself.A: You might also lose it all in a day.And then you could go to jail.B: Hmm.You’ve got a point there.2.A: So, what would you do if you found a lot of money? B: Oh, you know me, Kate.I’m so honest, I scare myself sometimes.I’d take the money straight to the police.A: I guess that wouldn’t be such a bad idea.Maybe you’d be luckier than the guy in the article.Maybe the owner of the money would give you a big reward.B: Well, they say honesty pays.Right?
(26)1.Dr.Hilda:This is Dr.Hilda.Welcome to today’s show.Now let’s get started right away with our first caller.Hello!
Caller1: Hello, Dr.Hilda.I’m calling about my daughter.She’s…she’s dating an older man.Dr.Hilda: Oh, Now how old are these two people?
Caller1: My daughter ’s eighteen, and this man is forty-two.Dr.Hilda: Mm-hmm.Caller1: I told her she had to stop seeing him, and…and now she won’t speak to me.I feel terrible.Tell me, Dr.Hilda.What should I have done? Dr.Hilda: First, you should have spoken to this forty-two-year-old man.You should have asked him not to date your daughter for a couple of weeks-to give the situation some time to cool off.Then, if they still wanted to see each other and if the man seems like a nice person, you should let your daughter date him.You shouldn’t worry so much about the age difference.OK, now, let’s go to our next caller.Hello, caller!2.A:Hello? Uh, I’m a first-time caller, and uh, well, my problem is that my father went away on a business trip, and I borrowed his brand-new car, and I had a bad accident.B:Where is your mother?
A:She’s in Florida visiting some friends.B:All right, go on.A:Well, I sent a telegram to my father and I… I told him…well, I told him someone had stolen the car.B:Oh!You should have told your father the truth!Your father would probably understand about a car accident, and he would be glad you weren’t hurt.A:I’m not too sure about that!
B:Oh…give it a try, young man, because the truth is always better than a lie.OK, now let’s hear from our next caller.This is Dr.Hilda.You’re on the air.3.A:Hi, uh, I’m calling about a problem.Oh, it’s kind of a personal problem…it concerns work.B:Oh, yes, go on.A:Well, uh, I visited some friends from the office to my house for a party a couple of weeks ago.Everything was fine until someone started talking about politics.B:Oh!You shouldn’t have let the subject of politics come up.A:Well, it came up, and, uh, well, I finally got really angry at one of my co-workers, and, uh, to prevent a fight, I asked him to leave.B:And… what happened after that?
A:Well, now it’s caused a big problem in the office.Uh, he won’t speak to me.B:Again, you shouldn’t have talked about politics at a party!It’s not a safe topic.A:That’s for sure.B:And you shouldn’t have gotten so angry either!A:That’s true!But what should I do now?
B:It’s easy.You should simple apologize to your friends and say that you were a fool.A:Well, maybe that’s a good idea.I’ll give it a try.B:Good!Well, folks.“Nothing ventured, nothing gained,” I always say.I’m Dr.Hilda…until the next time.
第五篇:中級班黨課畢業論文
中級班黨課結業論文
來到XX學院的第二個學期,我就很榮幸的參加了培養入黨積極分子培訓班中級班黨課的學習,在一段時間的學習里,我學到了很多,對黨的知識有了更多的了解。總的來說有以下三個方面:
第一個體會:我們黨成為執政黨,是歷史和人民的選擇
我們黨已經走過了84年的光輝歷史,在全國范圍執政已經56年,領導人民進行改革開放也已近27年。在不同歷史階段,為了中華民族的解放和振興、為了中國強大和人民富裕,一代又一代中國共產黨人嘔心瀝血、奮力拼搏、無私奉獻,在中華民族的歷史上留下了氣壯山河、可歌可泣的光輝篇章。越是學習中國近代史,越是深入研究我們黨的發展史,就越能深刻理解我們黨成為執政黨,是歷史的選擇、人民的選擇。
首先,從黨的誕生看,中國共產黨是適應社會發展,應運而生的中國共產黨是馬克思主義的革命政黨,是中國工人階級的先鋒隊。它是在特定的社會歷史條件下產生的。國內矛盾日益加劇,人民民不聊生,社會呼喚一個先進的政黨誕生。1917年俄國十月革命一聲炮響給中國送來了馬克思主義。1919年五四運動拉開了中國新民主主義革命的序幕。1921年,在馬克思列寧主義同中國工人運動相結合的進程中,中國共產黨應運而生。這是近代中國社會矛盾發展和人民斗爭深入的必然結果,是客觀形勢發展的產物。
中國共產黨的成立,給災難深重的中國人民帶來了光明和希望。它象光芒四射的燈塔,指明了中國人民的斗爭道路。自從有了中國共產黨,中國革命的面貌就為之一新了。
其次,從黨的歷程來看,中國共產黨是偉大、光榮、正確的黨
黨的第一次全國代表大會只有10余名黨員,然而,星星之火,可以燎原。共產黨人正是由于掌握著馬克思主義這個銳利的思想武器,能夠為中國人民指明斗爭的目標和走向勝利的道路,所以中國共產黨能夠逐步地而又牢固地在中國的大地上扎下根來,并使自己發展成為一支不可戰勝的力量。在共產主義理想信念的指引下,如今已發展成為擁有6800萬黨員的大黨,黨員遍布社會各個階層。
八十四年的發展歷程證明,中國共產黨是偉大、光榮、正確的黨。這并不是因為它從來不犯錯誤,而是因為它從來能夠總結錯誤的經驗,從錯誤中學習,通過錯誤的教訓更提高對客觀規律的認識,糾正錯誤,使錯誤成為正確的先導。唯物辯證法告訴我們:事物的發展都是前進性與曲折性的統一,其總趨勢是前進的、上升的,而道路則是迂回的、曲折的。中國共產黨正是因為善于總結經驗,修正錯誤,自我完善,與時俱進,不斷進取,永葆先進性,所以共產黨從一個弱小的黨發展成為當今社會一個強大政黨。
八十四年的歷史證明,我們黨是用馬克思列寧主義、毛澤東思想武裝起來的,高舉“鄧小平理論”偉大旗幟和“三個代表”重要思想,堅持獨立自主、自力更生,富有革命創造精神的黨;是密切聯系群眾,為中國各族人民的根本利益不斷奮斗并做出最大犧牲的黨;是堅持真理、修正錯誤,經得起勝利和挫折、高潮和低潮、順境和逆境的考驗,任何敵人和困難都壓不倒、摧不垮的黨。歷經磨難而不衰,千錘百煉更堅強。我們黨不愧是偉大、光榮、正確的黨。
第三,從黨取得的巨大成就來看,只有中國共產黨才能發展中國
84年的崢嶸歲月,在的黨領導下,中國實現了民族的獨立和人民的富強,特別是經過27年的改革開放,使得中國發生了翻天覆地的變化,取得了舉世矚
目的成就。已經基本解決13億人口的溫飽問題,到2003年,我國人均GDP突破1000美元,按照國際公認標準我們已經走出了低收入國家的行列,人民生活實現了從溫飽到總體小康的歷史性跨越。事實充分證明,中國共產黨是領導中國人民不斷開創新事業的核心力量。
歷史條件決定了,中國人民只有在社會主義制度下奮發前進,中國才能作為一個獨立的國家屹立于世界上。如果離開共產黨的領導,離開社會主義道路,中國就會落后,混亂以至分崩離散,落后就會挨打,受欺侮,甚至重新淪入半殖民地附屬國的地位。東歐劇變恰恰證明了這一點。中國人是不甘心落后的,中國共產黨能夠并且已經領導中國人民擺脫落后,沿著中國特色社會主義道路前進,今后也會使我國真正成為一個富強的偉大的社會主義國家。這一點,我們深信不疑,只有中國共產黨才能發展中國,這是歷史和人民的選擇。
第二個體會:要進一步推進黨的各項事業,鞏固和發展來自不易的成就 黨的事業發展歷程并不是一帆風順的,前進的道路曲折坎坷。我們黨從誕生之日起就遭到各種反動勢力的“圍剿”,在前進的過程中發生過錯誤,遭受過嚴重挫折。但是,我們黨依靠自身力量戰勝了各種艱難困苦,可以說是歷經滄桑見輝煌,這正是我們黨的力量所在、偉大之處。
在新民主主義革命時期,我們黨經受了1927年和1934年兩次嚴重失敗的痛苦考驗。第一次是大革命的失敗,6萬多黨員只剩下1萬多;第二次是第五次反“圍剿”的失敗,紅軍不得不進行二萬五千里長征而轉戰到陜北。王明的“左”傾錯誤使革命力量受到極大損失,紅軍從30萬人減到3萬人左右,共產黨員從30萬人減到4萬人左右。在社會主義建設時期,由于我們黨領導社會主義事業的經驗不多,黨的領導對形勢的分析和對國情的認識有主觀主義的偏差,發生了“反右”擴大化、把階級斗爭擴大化的錯誤,發生了經濟建設急躁冒進也就是“大躍進”的錯誤;后來又發生了“文化大革命”這樣全國性的、長時間的嚴重錯誤。我們黨遭受的挫折是探索前進的道路上發生的,這是由于中國國情的復雜和特殊、客觀形勢的發展變化而沒有現成經驗可以照搬照抄,也由于對革命和建設規律的認識需要一個過程。“失敗是成功之母”。我們黨沒有被挫折所嚇倒,沒有被困難所壓垮,更沒有在挫折和困難中迷失方向、丟掉理想信念,而是“百煉成鋼”,不斷從挫折中奮起,在戰勝困難中成熟起來,取得了一個又一個輝煌成就。與世界上其他蘇聯、東歐等一些大黨、老黨,由于沒有積極順應形勢發展、及時總結執政經驗而喪失了執政地位相比較,我們的黨是幸運的,也是成功的,更是偉大的。
(一)要堅持活的馬克思主義
列寧說過,不能為死教條而犧牲活的馬克思主義。毛澤東同志也說過:“我們所要的是香的馬克思主義,不是臭的馬克思主義;是活的馬克思主義,不是死的馬克思主義。”馬克思主義是發展的科學,它始終嚴格地以客觀事實為根據。與時俱進是馬克思主義最重要的理論品質。以鄧小平同志為代表的中國共產黨人首先從解決思想認識上的問題入手,開展實踐是檢驗真理的唯一標準的大討論,正本清源,通過這樣的大討論,解決思想認識問題,高屋建瓴,撥亂反正,改革與發展也就勢如破竹。以江澤民同志為核心的第三代領導集體,從黨的十三屆四中全會以來,站在歷史發展和時代要求的高度,形成了“三個代表”重要思想,核心內容是始終代表中國先進生產力的發展要求,始終代表中國先進文化的前進方向,始終代表最廣大人民根本利益。這三句話既精又活,既內涵豐富,又與時俱進。
(二)要堅持中國化的馬克思主義
馬克思、恩格斯在《共產黨宣言》公開發表的25年后告誡我們,馬克思主義基本原理要同本國實際結合起來,強調“隨時隨地”,也就是要根據發展著的客觀形勢、從實際出發來運用基本原理,而不是拘泥于個別論斷,那樣只能使馬克思主義失去活力、成為僵化的教條。現在學習馬恩這段話,我們仍然覺得十分透徹深刻、發人深省。我們不能小看把馬克思主義中國化的偉大貢獻,也不能小看把馬克思主義教條化的危害。把馬克思主義與本國實踐相結合,實現馬克思主義的當地化,需要偉大的創造,是一個艱難的探索過程。在國際共產主義運動最興盛的時候,世界上擁有萬名以上黨員并自稱為馬克思主義政黨的就有200個以上。但只有俄國、中國等十幾個國家建立了人民政權;而這些國家今天只有為數不多的還堅持社會主義。蘇聯、東歐等國家共產黨喪失政權的根本原因,就是沒有能夠真正地把馬克思主義基本原理和本國的實際緊密結合起來,和發展的形勢緊密結合起來。
(三)要堅持和完善民主集中制
民主集中制是我們黨的根本組織原則,是無產階級先進性和世界觀的必然要求,在我們黨領導革命、建設、改革和發展的每個歷史時期,都發揮了極其重要的特殊作用。
我們黨和國家的長期實踐經驗表明,民主集中制是科學合理的有效率的制度。它辨證地規范了個人與組織、下級與上級、領導與群眾、紀律與自由、權利與監督的關系,有利于體現人民群眾的根本利益和愿望,有利于個人與集體、局部與整體、當前利益與長遠利益的正確結合,有利于黨的正確路線方針政策的制定和執行,發生了失誤也能得到有效地糾正。
(四)要有堅強的領導集體和忠誠的黨員作保證
人民群眾是歷史的主人,人民群眾是歷史發展的決定性力量,同時也要看到黨的領導集體和黨員隊伍的巨大作用。對于一個無產階級政黨來說,取得革命和建設的勝利,還需要有英明的領袖人物、堅強的領導集體以及忠誠的黨員隊伍。我們黨非常重視鍛造一支忠誠的黨員隊伍。有了一支黨性強、素質高、信念堅定、對黨和人民的事業絕對忠誠的黨員隊伍,黨的事業就有了中堅力量,使我們黨能夠團結帶領群眾不斷前進,長期立于不敗之地。為了使黨員隊伍能更好地適應形勢任務的要求,我們黨抓住黨員先進性這個靈魂,決定在全黨開展教育活動,就是要進一步教育引導黨員堅定理想信念,增強黨的意識,提高自身素質,始終保持黨員隊伍的先進性,不斷提高各級黨組織的戰斗力。
第三個體會:發揮先鋒模范作用,努力做好一名合格的黨員
怎樣才能成為一名合格的共產黨員呢?這是一個該深深思考的問題,我們應該從以下幾方面做起:
第一,強黨性修養,提高政治理論水平
我們要更好的學習馬列著作、毛澤東選集、鄧小平理論和三個代表重要思想,培養自己的黨性修養。牢記入黨誓詞,堅定信念,抵擋不良的誘惑。作為大學生,最基本的是要樹立正確的世界觀、人生觀、價值觀;作為黨員,最基本的是樹立全心全意為人民服務的思想。大學生黨員應該清楚的知道中國共產黨是中國工人階級的先鋒隊,是中國各族人民利益的忠實代表。就應起到先鋒模范作用。大學生黨員應具備較高的政治理論水平,堅持以馬列主義、毛澤東思想、鄧小平理論和江澤民提出的“三個代表”思想為指導,堅持貫徹執行黨的基本路線、方針、政策,嚴守黨的紀律,維護黨的團結和統一;堅持黨和人民的利益高于一切。
在現今的知識經濟時代,科技迅速發展,我們要具有創新精神,從實際出發,用開放的眼光看待新事物,接受新觀念。本著事實求是的態度解決問題。大學生黨員在大學里要時刻注意提高自身的素質和修養,能在將來的工作和生活中經受住考驗。
第二,加強文化修養,提高自己的學習能力
學習文化知識是提高素質的重要途徑之一。當今世界,科學發展日新月異,學習已成為終身的事。大學生是我國社會階層中較高的層次,專業水平一定要過硬,作為準教師,我們更是責任重大。我已是大四的學生了,將面臨實習,這對我來說,是一個理論聯系實際的機會,一個非常重要的機會。我將虛心向優秀教師學習,努力爭做一名優秀的人民教師。同時,多看一些書籍增加自己的知識面,豐富自己的文化底蘊,成為一個具備較高科學文化素質的青年,擁有較強地社會適應能力,較好地處理各種各樣的問題。發揮黨員的先進性作用。
第三,加強與同學的聯系,帶動同學共同進步。
作為一個學生黨員,不僅要保持自己的先進性,同時,要有先進性來帶動并作為開展工作的基礎。要在自己不斷進取的同時,堅持與同學互相幫助,共同進步。全心全意為人民服務不是一句空話,認真做好不是容易的。張思德一生默默無聞,在平凡的崗位上做出了不平凡的事。牛玉儒、鄭培民同志為黨的事業鞠躬盡瘁,奮斗了一生,贏得了百姓的稱頌。我們周圍的同學也是群眾的一部分,在學校,作為學生干部我們應該為同學服務,做好學生會工作,處處為同學著想,從不顯眼做起,從點滴做起。例如:發現周圍的同學在生活、學習上有困難時,應及時給予幫助;同學在思想上有想法,我們應傾聽開導;遇到個人利益與同學利益發生沖突時,應先人后己。以一個黨員的形象影響周圍同學,做個好榜樣。
作為一名大學生黨員,我在認真地學習了三個代表重要思想的同時,對如何將它轉化為實際行動也作了深刻的思考,并且及時的將其實踐于自己的實際行動當中。
第一、在日常的學習、工作、生活中,我要求自己充分體現大學生黨員與“三個代表”的結合點。
(一),做先進生產力的有力推動者。大學生黨員是未來先進生產力的主要創造者,是推動社會生產力發展的最活躍的因素之一。從這個意義上講,“三個代表”重要思想的提出,為我們大學生黨員創造了積極向上、開拓進取的發展空間,有助于加深學生黨員對黨的性質、黨的路線、方針、政策的認同與理解。
(二),做先進文化的積極促進者。我們黨是中國先進文化的代表。先進文化是人類文明進步的結晶,是推動人類社會前進的思想保證、精神動力和智力支持。當前我們正處在一個開放的國際環境中,特別是面對國際形式的深刻變化和各種思想文化的相互激蕩,如何在繼承和弘揚中華民族優秀文化傳統的同時,積極吸收和借鑒人類一切優秀文明成果,建設與時代發展要求相適應的先進文化,是我們黨所面臨的一個重大課題。我們學生黨員應全面認識我們黨推進文化建設的嶄新目標,積極參與到有中國特色社會主義的文化建設中去,走在推進社會文明進步的前列。
(三),做維護廣大人民的實踐者。我們黨的宗旨就是全心全意為人民服務,只有代表最廣大人民的根本利益,才能將人民群眾的力量凝聚起來,才能得到人民群眾擁護和支持。我們學生黨員作為大學生中的杰出代表,更應在學習、生活和工作等方面起模范帶頭作用。在追求自身利益實現的同時,自覺服務和滿足于最廣大人民的整體利益,并在為人民的根本利益奮斗的過程中體現自身價值。
第二、結合當前的實際情況,作為一名學生黨員,要做代表先進文化的前進方向的模范,我要求自己切實做到以下幾個方面:
(一)堅定信仰。積極主動地宣揚社會主義的先進文化,在同學中倡導健康文明的生活方式,引導同學崇尚科學,反對迷信,崇尚先進,反對落后。
(二)充分利用網絡資源。現在科學技術日新月異、互聯網絡飛速發展。我們要善于運用網絡技術手段來拓展文化宣傳工作的空間和渠道,形成自己的網絡優勢,充分占領互聯網陣地,使黨旗在互聯網上高高飄揚,使互聯網在引導我們健康成長和宣傳科學文化思想中發揮更大的作用。
(三)增強競爭意識。我們首先要增強民族自豪感和自信心,并且從世界廣闊的視野和面向新世紀的胸懷,審視自己,發展自己;大力地弘揚民族文化,振奮民族精神,實施民族文化精品戰略,努力提高民族文化產品的質量及在國際市場上的競爭力;旗幟鮮明地反對和堅決地抵制資本主義及一切腐朽文化的侵蝕。
(四)努力營造積極向上、渴求知識的文化氛圍,倡導文明新風,弘揚社會正氣。我們要扎扎實實開展豐富多彩的課余文化活動,大力普及健康、科學、文明的生活方式和競爭、求實、創新、發展的價值觀念,讓封建迷信、腐朽文化和偽科學在校園當中無藏身之地。
(五)重視學習,關心時事。科學的理論是行動的指南。作為大學生黨員,我們應比較系統深入地學習一些黨的基本理論,學習馬列主義毛澤東思想特別是鄧小平理論。我們對時事問題及身邊的熱點問題,應有較高的認識和正確的判斷,并做好與其他同學的溝通,解除他們心中的疑惑。
(六)增強社會責任感,勇于承擔發展先進文化的責任。我們大學生黨員要實踐三個代表,必須要有以天下為己任的胸襟。我們一定要有強烈的憂患意識,增強堅持和發展先進文化的責任感、使命感和緊迫感,抓住機遇而不能喪失機遇,勇于應對挑戰而不能畏縮不前,響應黨的號召,唱響主旋律,努力為開創有中國特色社會主義文化事業的新局面做出自己的貢獻。
(七)充分發揮黨員的先鋒模范作用和組織能力。通過組織演講、辯論、詩歌朗誦、征文等活動,讓每一個同學在爭先創優活動中受到激勵,得到鍛煉,激發學習積極性和創造力。
(八)要有創新精神。****同志明確指出:創新是一個民族進步的靈魂,是一個國家興旺發達的不竭動力。作為大學生黨員,我們在傳播先進的科學文化思想時,手段、方法、形式要不斷創新,要把先進的科學文化知識用通俗易懂的形式表現出來,使同學喜聞樂見,樂于接受。
第三、在日常的學習、工作、生活中,我要在同學當中積極主動的帶頭樹立三種意識。
(一)要樹立堅定的“方向意識”。
(二)要樹立強烈的“求知意識”。
(三)要樹立牢固的“自律意識”。
第四、我要不斷的“勞其筋骨,苦其心志”,不斷完善自己,修正自己,提高自己。
(一)不斷學習,就是要結合實際,堅持不懈的加強學習,養成良好的學習習慣。
(二)勤于實踐,在實踐中磨練自己。
(三)加強修養,不斷加強自我改造,磨礪品行,陶冶情操,牢固樹立正確的世界觀、人生觀、價值觀,遠大的理想抱負。
新的世紀,百年的夢想,千年的輝煌,等待我們去創造,今日我們大學生黨員要好好深入的學習和實踐 “社會主義榮辱觀”重要思想,壯大學生骨干隊伍,促進正確的認識。在不斷的學習和實踐中學到更多的東西,明確自己肩負的責任,發揮自己的能力,為祖國的建設貢獻上自己的一份力量。